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By *rodigal OP   Man
over a year ago

sunderland

I'm 51 now when I was 50 I could contact people looking for someone up to 50 do you think it's rude to contact someone looking for age 18-50? Dan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a preferred age range on my profile, but don't have other ages blocked purely because every now and again there's someone outside of these ranges that meets my other needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if someone is sexy age limit doesn't matter x

Joan Collins nearly 80 and I'd still fuck her

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We had an age range at start, but soon realized there are some incredibly sex older women. So we changed our view on age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bend the rules from time to time

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Glad there are some "rule benders" or would have no chance !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had an age range at start, but soon realized there are some incredibly sex older women. So we changed our view on age."
I am the same....why confine yourself on age limits and miss the opportunity of meeting some very interesting and sexy people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply I get is to young, I'm 21 and looking to have fun and try new experiences.. Would you say I'm to young?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I'm 51 now when I was 50 I could contact people looking for someone up to 50 do you think it's rude to contact someone looking for age 18-50? Dan "

Not at all, age ranges are only guidelines for most people.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Reply I get is to young, I'm 21 and looking to have fun and try new experiences.. Would you say I'm to young? "

You might want to reconsider the paddling pool.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reply I get is to young, I'm 21 and looking to have fun and try new experiences.. Would you say I'm to young?

You might want to reconsider the paddling pool..... "

What's wrong with the paddling pool? Was full of ice and beers and one point.. Then I thought I needed to chill out x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'd be fucked if I just stuck to my own age group.. or rather.. I wouldn't

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I'm 51 now when I was 50 I could contact people looking for someone up to 50 do you think it's rude to contact someone looking for age 18-50? Dan "

i'm 40... and if they moves me out of someones 18-39 range... then so be it....

i always say, give people the same respect as i would like to receive... you have an age preference and i hope that people would respect yours......

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I have to say, although we have age limits on here, they're not sey in stone.... plus, we've never "ID'd" anyone in a club.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I never understand the age range thing. You're either physically attracted to the person or not. I don't see what the year in which the other person was born has to do with anything. Or people say they won't meet anyone younger than their kids or older than their parents or something like that...I don't get it.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I have a preferred age range on my profile, but don't have other ages blocked purely because every now and again there's someone outside of these ranges that meets my other needs"

This is what I do as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 51 now when I was 50 I could contact people looking for someone up to 50 do you think it's rude to contact someone looking for age 18-50? Dan "
i know how feel Dan but im cheeky so i do contact.

I do often wish id told a porkie with age 49 id av got away with! Hard paper rounds up north

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my age range filter to cut down my inbox messages. I change it every so often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've relaxed some filters

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

It's a tricky one

I'd prefer to think people will respect your age limit

But we are all aware that often people message you without reading anything

In a club situation people rarely asks your age

What I would do is send a message offering some cheesy compliment about their curtains for example and say that because you're out of their age limit your more interested in their home furnishings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When too many people outside of my age range contact me i move the limits up or down, depends which ages do it.

You can contact whoever you want if they haven't put filters on but be aware their limits are usually there for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use my age range filter to cut down my inbox messages. I change it every so often "

Ditto. If they haven't blocked messages outside their age preference, it might be worth a try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have an age range but it's more a guide than set in stone. One day I may come across  someone outside that range I would like to meet. All depends on the person. Tho I wouldnt meet a young lad. Can't stand that 'laddish' type that think they want to bag a milf. Jog on!

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd bend my age limits a year or 2 ,i used to have filters on but since people lie to get round them i don't bother now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said it before, but wish I hadn't been so truthful with my age when I joined. I haven't had a lot of success on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem,my age is for all to see,to me it's just a number,if we click,thats fine.......

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By *rodigal OP   Man
over a year ago

sunderland

Thanks for all the comments x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I as the fem half is the one who's more age conscious than my partner ( maybes cos I'm older than him) it's not a deadline it's a guideline so I'm prepared to give or take a few yrs eitherway for example u can meet one guy or ladie who looks older/ younger than their age totally depends on the person/persons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate age filters each to there own but older dogs know a lot of tricks experience sex wise

In my 30s got hits no problem still feel young inside my body ain't that bad

Have my own hair bit greyish my own teeth can still get erection without Viagra and hold it use it

I am respectfull polite clean healthy

Only to get

You are outside this persons age range

Some only few years younger than me

Thought 50 was new 40 lol

Don't miss out on the grey cock ( shaved lol) or pussy we can still teach you young ins thing or too

My age rant over thank you

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm 51 now when I was 50 I could contact people looking for someone up to 50 do you think it's rude to contact someone looking for age 18-50? Dan

i'm 40... and if they moves me out of someones 18-39 range... then so be it....

i always say, give people the same respect as i would like to receive... you have an age preference and i hope that people would respect yours......"

This!

People complain about their profiles not being read and respected, yet here some are saying what's on their profile is not set in stone!

Make your minds up people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reply I get is to young, I'm 21 and looking to have fun and try new experiences.. Would you say I'm to young? "

would be for me,

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I hate age filters each to there own but older dogs know a lot of tricks experience sex wise

In my 30s got hits no problem still feel young inside my body ain't that bad

Have my own hair bit greyish my own teeth can still get erection without Viagra and hold it use it

I am respectfull polite clean healthy

Only to get

You are outside this persons age range

Some only few years younger than me

Thought 50 was new 40 lol

Don't miss out on the grey cock ( shaved lol) or pussy we can still teach you young ins thing or too

My age rant over thank you

"

So let me get this straight: you have age limits on your profile, that's okay, but if others have the audacity to have one that excludes you, you're offended.

Okie dokie...gotcha!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I have age filters set...it cuts down on messages, but hasn't stopped me fucking folk I've met in clubs or at socials who are outwith that range...does that mean I should take my filters off? I don't think so as what I'm doing works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've said it before, but wish I hadn't been so truthful with my age when I joined. I haven't had a lot of success on here! "

That's the spirit! Just lie to get your dick wet. Nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate age filters each to there own but older dogs know a lot of tricks experience sex wise

In my 30s got hits no problem still feel young inside my body ain't that bad

Have my own hair bit greyish my own teeth can still get erection without Viagra and hold it use it

I am respectfull polite clean healthy

Only to get

You are outside this persons age range

Some only few years younger than me

Thought 50 was new 40 lol

Don't miss out on the grey cock ( shaved lol) or pussy we can still teach you young ins thing or too

My age rant over thank you

So let me get this straight: you have age limits on your profile, that's okay, but if others have the audacity to have one that excludes you, you're offended.

Okie dokie...gotcha! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a preferred age limit but my filters are open so people from forums can message ....The times I get 20 odd year olds telling me I need to lower my limit grr....I will go a couple of years above and below limit and wouldn't mind someone of that age group messaging me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go for it - if you dont ask and all that - people can set their profile to the age range only which would mean out of range and you cannot contact - some dont which shows the range is guideline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont meet anyone younger than me and I wouldn't meet anyone older than 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wont meet anyone younger than me and I wouldn't meet anyone older than 40"

but you show 18-99

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate age filters each to there own but older dogs know a lot of tricks experience sex wise

In my 30s got hits no problem still feel young inside my body ain't that bad

Have my own hair bit greyish my own teeth can still get erection without Viagra and hold it use it

I am respectfull polite clean healthy

Only to get

You are outside this persons age range

Some only few years younger than me

Thought 50 was new 40 lol

Don't miss out on the grey cock ( shaved lol) or pussy we can still teach you young ins thing or too

My age rant over thank you

So let me get this straight: you have age limits on your profile, that's okay, but if others have the audacity to have one that excludes you, you're offended.

Okie dokie...gotcha!

"

Removed filter don't want to be hypocritical but was pretty broad range 25 to 60 now I'll get called a perv for going after 18 year olds or granny snatcher for 90 yearolds

You just can't win on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate age filters each to there own but older dogs know a lot of tricks experience sex wise

In my 30s got hits no problem still feel young inside my body ain't that bad

Have my own hair bit greyish my own teeth can still get erection without Viagra and hold it use it

I am respectfull polite clean healthy

Only to get

You are outside this persons age range

Some only few years younger than me

Thought 50 was new 40 lol

Don't miss out on the grey cock ( shaved lol) or pussy we can still teach you young ins thing or too

My age rant over thank you

So let me get this straight: you have age limits on your profile, that's okay, but if others have the audacity to have one that excludes you, you're offended.

Okie dokie...gotcha!

Removed filter don't want to be hypocritical but was pretty broad range 25 to 60 now I'll get called a perv for going after 18 year olds or granny snatcher for 90 yearolds

You just can't win on here "
just have sex with a person you are attracted to. Not the age of the person

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I'm 51 now when I was 50 I could contact people looking for someone up to 50 do you think it's rude to contact someone looking for age 18-50? Dan "

we cannot see any problem with a polite message saying " i know i am outside your age limits but....." we get it all the time from males under our minimum age and we dont send snotty messages back! surely politeness is all that should be needed!!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm 51 now when I was 50 I could contact people looking for someone up to 50 do you think it's rude to contact someone looking for age 18-50? Dan

we cannot see any problem with a polite message saying " i know i am outside your age limits but....." we get it all the time from males under our minimum age and we dont send snotty messages back! surely politeness is all that should be needed!!!! "

So do we. If we get tired of it we put filters in place to stop it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 51 now when I was 50 I could contact people looking for someone up to 50 do you think it's rude to contact someone looking for age 18-50? Dan

we cannot see any problem with a polite message saying " i know i am outside your age limits but....." we get it all the time from males under our minimum age and we dont send snotty messages back! surely politeness is all that should be needed!!!! "

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I'm 51 now when I was 50 I could contact people looking for someone up to 50 do you think it's rude to contact someone looking for age 18-50? Dan

we cannot see any problem with a polite message saying " i know i am outside your age limits but....." we get it all the time from males under our minimum age and we dont send snotty messages back! surely politeness is all that should be needed!!!!

So do we. If we get tired of it we put filters in place to stop it. "

well its simples isnt it but you would think it was rocket science lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wont meet anyone younger than me and I wouldn't meet anyone older than 40

but you show 18-99 "

That's just for my socials and parties lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate age filters each to there own but older dogs know a lot of tricks experience sex wise

In my 30s got hits no problem still feel young inside my body ain't that bad

Have my own hair bit greyish my own teeth can still get erection without Viagra and hold it use it

I am respectfull polite clean healthy

Only to get

You are outside this persons age range

Some only few years younger than me

Thought 50 was new 40 lol

Don't miss out on the grey cock ( shaved lol) or pussy we can still teach you young ins thing or too

My age rant over thank you

So let me get this straight: you have age limits on your profile, that's okay, but if others have the audacity to have one that excludes you, you're offended.

Okie dokie...gotcha!

Removed filter don't want to be hypocritical but was pretty broad range 25 to 60 now I'll get called a perv for going after 18 year olds or granny snatcher for 90 yearolds

You just can't win on here "

I think 18-99 is the 'not bothered about age' setting. Only idiots would think someone would actually fuck that range. x

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I'm extremely rigid about my age preferences on here

Rigid is the best description of those who fit it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm extremely rigid about my age preferences on here

Rigid is the best description of those who fit it too "

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"I'm extremely rigid about my age preferences on here

Rigid is the best description of those who fit it too "

I'm 97, dammit

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I'm extremely rigid about my age preferences on here

Rigid is the best description of those who fit it too

I'm 97, dammit "

Only 1 more year to go!

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I think if someone is sexy age limit doesn't matter x

Joan Collins nearly 80 and I'd still fuck her"

I'd see her naked and without wig and makeup before I'd make that commitment if I were you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I set my preferences but don't filter folk out because surely a tiny bit out makes no real difference....the person may turn out to be exceptionally cool to know.

I've contacted and met people who's preferences I'm outside of...including a couple not looking for single males...when I was one....go figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I set my preferences but don't filter folk out because surely a tiny bit out makes no real difference....the person may turn out to be exceptionally cool to know.

I've contacted and met people who's preferences I'm outside of...including a couple not looking for single males...when I was one....go figure. "

that's just cos you're special...

Iv changed my filters, Increased the age range by about 15 yrs after realising how tasty some of the guys are who Id previously have said were too old!

but I would like it if we could set different filters for men or women, as my tastes in women are rather different to men.x

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Usually I only look for 10 years above or below......but there have been some great exceptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 51 now when I was 50 I could contact people looking for someone up to 50 do you think it's rude to contact someone looking for age 18-50? Dan "

I think if people set an age limit but do not block those outside it they are obviously keeping their options open

However if their age range is 50 and your older and mail them anyway don't be offended if you don't get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've said it before, but wish I hadn't been so truthful with my age when I joined. I haven't had a lot of success on here!

That's the spirit! Just lie to get your dick wet. Nice!"
But I haven't lied!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I think if someone is sexy age limit doesn't matter x

Joan Collins nearly 80 and I'd still fuck her

I'd see her naked and without wig and makeup before I'd make that commitment if I were you."

Yeah....she could look like Gollum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if someone is sexy age limit doesn't matter x

Joan Collins nearly 80 and I'd still fuck her

I'd see her naked and without wig and makeup before I'd make that commitment if I were you.

Yeah....she could look like Gollum "

I've not seen anything of her since the 1980s, and honestly thought she was scary then. I daren't google what she looks like now.

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