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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not so new to this site but I'm not always on here, I'm finding it quite tricky to get my first meet, has anyone got any hints or suggestions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you get meets the last time you were here?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Quite simple, lack of profile text and pics......unless you rectify severely you will continue to struggle!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea I had a couple of meets on my original profile but I've just recently moved to London, I have got pictures but I like to keep them to friends, any ideas on what profile text I can put on, I don't want to come across the wrong way

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

stan why not try a social or club meet, london is full of fabbers ...connie x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Yea I had a couple of meets on my original profile but I've just recently moved to London, I have got pictures but I like to keep them to friends, any ideas on what profile text I can put on, I don't want to come across the wrong way "

Nobody can tell you what to put as none of us know you! You know you! So look at some good profiles and get some ideas...

It really isn't difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to hijack this post... but is my profile shit? Or too pansy-ish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea I had a couple of meets on my original profile but I've just recently moved to London, I have got pictures but I like to keep them to friends, any ideas on what profile text I can put on, I don't want to come across the wrong way "

You cant not have public pics. Women and couples will always choose guys who have public photos over the ones who don't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi connie, I think I'd feel a bit intimidated going to a club , as I'm relatively new I need showing the ropes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks foxy, you have some good pics by the way

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks fire, I'll make a couple public, what kind of pics gets attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab forums... the friendliest, most inclusive place on earth.......

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"[Removed by poster at 13/03/15 21:24:44]"

I deleted, because I misread a post, so I apologise.

But sugardummy, all your profile mentions is oral....Not very exciting is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks fire, I'll make a couple public, what kind of pics gets attention "

No cock shots. half dressed body shots are always good, or fully dressed ones. leave something to the imagination

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Fab forums... the friendliest, most inclusive place on earth.......

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What? They are asking for advise...what do you want us to do? Sugar coat everything? And nothing so far has been unfriendly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks red I'll bear that in mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab forums... the friendliest, most inclusive place on earth.......

What? They are asking for advise...what do you want us to do? Sugar coat everything? And nothing so far has been unfriendly! "

Rolling eyes and bitchy comments. Nice.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Fab forums... the friendliest, most inclusive place on earth.......

What? They are asking for advise...what do you want us to do? Sugar coat everything? And nothing so far has been unfriendly!

Rolling eyes and bitchy comments. Nice."

Seems your quote has crossed threads as usual! And where have my comments been bitchy? They are facts! Men who ask for help who have nothing on their profile get the rolling eyes from me, because it is an adult site and therefore should be full of adults who should be able to think for themselves. Just my opinion of course.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Come on now girls be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics like your avatar? Looks very sexy but isn't public...doesn't have to be face pics x x

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Looks like you got a good shape about you..lets see some of that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks fire, I'll make a couple public, what kind of pics gets attention "

Not cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pics like your avatar? Looks very sexy but isn't public...doesn't have to be face pics x x"

Yes totally agree with this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks sweet home, yours are quite nice aswell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks juicy you've a great body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pics like your avatar? Looks very sexy but isn't public...doesn't have to be face pics x x"

I was quite disappointed when I went to have a perv...I mean look at the bigger version of his avatar pic but found its not on display

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll put them public now for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice pics

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By *un4threeCouple
over a year ago

Waterford

simple....be honest and ALWAYS have respect...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you Charlie, your pics are very seductive, maybe add me as a friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks fun, I am always respectful, I'm just better talking in real than through messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't always get what you want

But if you try sometimes well you just might find you get what you need

Just keep trying, keep on knocking and the doors will one day open,

Can be hard on here the message you sending to that one women who caught your eye, what has took you ages to think what to say, she probably heard it ten times that day,

Add few photos , maybe go to a local social, be a bit cheeky, lose the " how are you " messages ( only so many times someone can say I'm good thanks you)and remember rome wasn't built in a day

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks hassle good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks hassle good advice"

Thank mick jagger

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Maybe say a bit more about what u like. U say fit fun and sexy. Fit i think is for someone else to decide. Im fun and feel sexy. But there could be so much more u could say

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Is it my failing eyesight or are the pictures of two different men? The ears seem different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it my failing eyesight or are the pictures of two different men? The ears seem different."

Phone camera angle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it my failing eyesight or are the pictures of two different men? The ears seem different."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No it's deffinately the same person, just a different hair cut lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to be as good looking as me to be successful. Joking of course I have had 1 message in almost a year WTF!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to be as good looking as me to be successful. Joking of course I have had 1 message in almost a year WTF!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to be as good looking as me to be successful. Joking of course I have had 1 message in almost a year WTF!! "

If only you were nearer and younger lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger!! I'm 33 that's the new 25. I bet I have more energy than most people in their 20s. The world is only getting lazier and fatter haha

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"You need to be as good looking as me to be successful. Joking of course I have had 1 message in almost a year WTF!! "

Omg... That pic of you in the leather jacket...

You look like...

Gordon Ramsey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could actually cry. I don't want to look like him ??????. Please say you like him and we're not trying to destroy my soul!! Lol

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"I could actually cry. I don't want to look like him ??????. Please say you like him and we're not trying to destroy my soul!! Lol"

I do like him... Not fancy tho..but you do look like a younger version of him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scarletstars I was wetting my self laughing reading your profile.

Thats just genius.

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