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Role play - when does it become inappropriate?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When it comes to role play, are there any scenarios that you consider to be inappropriate, e.g. Father/daughter, or is it just harmless fun, no matter what?

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

When you start rolling dice between each action and tell her she has to except anal, as you rolled a critical miss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When youre doing it in the high street!!

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By *eaningofLifeCouple
over a year ago

York


"When you start rolling dice between each action and tell her she has to except anal, as you rolled a critical miss!"

Don't fumble the dildo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you start rolling dice between each action and tell her she has to except anal, as you rolled a critical miss!"

Pesky D12 dice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the rolls are days old and going mouldy

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"When you start rolling dice between each action and tell her she has to except anal, as you rolled a critical miss!"

As a tabletop RPG player, I couldn't have hoped for a better response than this. In my eyes you win the thread!

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Harmless fun so long as people have no intentions of carrying them out for real, it's pretend.

Might be some weird scenarios out there and just the fact that they are taboo is what makes them sexy or naughty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as you both want it, and are sensible to see it for what it is, then role play can be wonderful. For example, I love it when a younger woman takes on the role of my "daughter".... but I still hate and detest anything to do with actual child abuse!.

No, it's quite safe - until the day comes when there really is an elephant in the room... eek!

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

Watersports in the bathroom display section at Wickes is frowned upon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If some dude wanted to pretend to be my father and asked me what I want to do to daddy, I'd punch him in the face and call him a wanker, my father is a grade A prick.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Watersports in the bathroom display section at Wickes is frowned upon"

I've been to that Wickes, the memory has never left me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only speak for myself but I find underage and rape role play inappropriate

When though its only role play fantasising and getting off on having sex with underage people and raping someone just dont sit well with me

Each to their own, I'm sure some will see it as OK so long as its role play but that's just how I feel

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"I can only speak for myself but I find underage and rape role play inappropriate

When though its only role play fantasising and getting off on having sex with underage people and raping someone just dont sit well with me

Each to their own, I'm sure some will see it as OK so long as its role play but that's just how I feel "

It is ok as long as it's role play and consentual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When it comes to role play, are there any scenarios that you consider to be inappropriate, e.g. Father/daughter, or is it just harmless fun, no matter what? "
no matter what, it's just role "play" thats the point of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex of mine was into rape role play big time. Her accidentally leaving back door open and me grabbing her in a balaclava was her favourite.

Not going to lie, I enjoyed the power aspect, but made sure I had a signed letter in another location.

It ended when she started wanting me to physically damage her.

To each their own

N

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Watersports in the bathroom display section at Wickes is frowned upon

I've been to that Wickes, the memory has never left me "

Oi! If you look closely at the pic it was clearly B&Q.

Still, I always wondered if we'd bump into any of the people in the background, sorry if it put you off diy...

Mr.ddc

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By *riendlyGirlWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

I actually had someone messaging me earlier this week asking if I'd ever sniffed & licked Little girls underwear etc etc and honestly I have no idea how they would think that it it 1) appropriate and 2) attractive. Who responds favourably to message like that?

Just when you think you've heard it all

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond


"I can only speak for myself but I find underage and rape role play inappropriate

When though its only role play fantasising and getting off on having sex with underage people and raping someone just dont sit well with me

Each to their own, I'm sure some will see it as OK so long as its role play but that's just how I feel "

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"When you start rolling dice between each action and tell her she has to except anal, as you rolled a critical miss!

As a tabletop RPG player, I couldn't have hoped for a better response than this. In my eyes you win the thread!

B"

Another tabletop player here (Boobs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually had someone messaging me earlier this week asking if I'd ever sniffed & licked Little girls underwear etc etc and honestly I have no idea how they would think that it it 1) appropriate and 2) attractive. Who responds favourably to message like that?

Just when you think you've heard it all "

I sincerely hope you reported them!!!!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I can only speak for myself but I find underage and rape role play inappropriate

When though its only role play fantasising and getting off on having sex with underage people and raping someone just dont sit well with me

Each to their own, I'm sure some will see it as OK so long as its role play but that's just how I feel "

Totally with you there, that and incest just don't appeal to me at all

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By *riendlyGirlWoman
over a year ago

lancashire


"I actually had someone messaging me earlier this week asking if I'd ever sniffed & licked Little girls underwear etc etc and honestly I have no idea how they would think that it it 1) appropriate and 2) attractive. Who responds favourably to message like that?

Just when you think you've heard it all

I sincerely hope you reported them!!!!"

Yep but it was a no text, no pic profile so doubt much can be done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand women who have rape fantasies and are into that kind of role play.

I just think it's disgusting that a woman can even fantasise about such a thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a rape fantasy. It's not as sick as people think. It's not like I'd want to be raped by an actual stranger...

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge


"I have a rape fantasy. It's not as sick as people think. It's not like I'd want to be raped by an actual stranger..."
would we be correct in thinking it's more the giving up of control of being forced that you enjoy that feeling of being taken and there is nothing you can do to stop it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If each person is comfortable with it there is no issues. However, as with most things boundries get pushed and it then becomes an individuals choice as to how far they go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When it comes to role play, are there any scenarios that you consider to be inappropriate, e.g. Father/daughter, or is it just harmless fun, no matter what? "

As long as it's consenting, surely it's whatever they want. It's not something that appeals to me, other than the horny woman wants sex all night long from the guy she met on fab scenario, but can see no harm in it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It interests me when people use empty phrases like 'each to their own' and 'it's consensual' .......

Does it matter if it's consensual ?

Doesn't the fact that an adult is sexually aroused by the thought of being your parent and having sex with you ring any alarm bells of what they want in reality ?

What about their cortex ? their brain .......over exposure to these ideas..... wanking to thoughts of them ..... porn of them ..... using adults to see it as far as they legally can ?

One the brain relates a good come to those thoughts they become engrained.

It can take a lot of eradication. If they want eradiction that is.

They want role play in lieu of reality but in their head those things are what get them off....

Not my idea of a sexual partner / life partner / or friends thanks.

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I think as in a roleplay playing a 14 year old girl dressing as school girl is not right

an something i wont do or consider

I find it inappropiate

an find it disturbing tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It interests me when people use empty phrases like 'each to their own' and 'it's consensual' .......

Does it matter if it's consensual ?

Doesn't the fact that an adult is sexually aroused by the thought of being your parent and having sex with you ring any alarm bells of what they want in reality ?

What about their cortex ? their brain .......over exposure to these ideas..... wanking to thoughts of them ..... porn of them ..... using adults to see it as far as they legally can ?

One the brain relates a good come to those thoughts they become engrained.

It can take a lot of eradication. If they want eradiction that is.

They want role play in lieu of reality but in their head those things are what get them off....

Not my idea of a sexual partner / life partner / or friends thanks. "

Not empty. And yes consensual matters. I have a mate who I write/send rape stories to, because it feeds her fantasy. I love knowing that she loves getting off to them.

But actual rape? She would not enjoy it and I definitely would/could not want to. Causing someone harm is such a turn off. With a consensual fantasy of any type all the negative aspects of that fantasy are removed for a short moment.

I'm sure there are many people who have various "fantasies" that are actual desires, but for most people its just the aspect of enjoying that thing because its not allowed.

(Eg drinking stops being fun once you hit 18yrs old etc).

Ive not articulated very well but you get my meaning.

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

Safe, sane, consensual, though those terms are open to interpretation.

Personally, I'm uncomfortable with roleplay involving under aged personae. When tres is a schoolgirl, she's a 6th former - my head girl. I wouldn't be comfortable with a Daddy/daughter/niece scenario.

Not so concerned about a consensual forced sex, but mostly our restraint play is more gentle with tres relinquishing control to me to do as I please (within agreed limits and with safe words)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done diaper chastity, nothing to do with finding babies or incontinent people sexy.

I suppose it's also got to do with what's going on inside the persons head as well, but it is just role play. If you find a request weird, ask them about it (they usually love to talk about their fetish so won't mind), and then you get to understand what's going on inside their head and gain more knowledge about why people like something.

I've been requested to do rape role play as well, wouldn't do it because i don't like being dominated or letting feeling out of control sexually, but i completely understand that someone submissive would love this.

Basically, role play tends to be about power (or giving it away), or being someone else so you can act a certain way., sometimes it can be about coping with feelings and dealing with that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rp is imagination

Once played out a burglar fantasy with a fb

But I'd never go out and do that with someone I didn't know well

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