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"Not sure if I'm being stupid....but how is it any different??" it's different because I really really really fancy black guys! | |||
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"I'm not attracted to Black women." Ooo my first crush was sinitta! | |||
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"I'm not attracted to moronic men. As someone else said race, along with religion, is a man-made concept. I recognise neither. " No moronic men? Darn. And just when I was about to say hello lol | |||
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"How odd to think that the colour of a persons skin is going to make them better or worse in bed. I've not found it to be a particularly good indicator one way or the other. !!" Don't think the op mentioned any one race being better than another? Some gentlemen prefer blonds, get over it. | |||
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"And just for full disclosure, though I think my profile may already confirm this, I have no preferences nor disqualifications when it comes to race or nationality " | |||
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"I'm not attracted to moronic men. As someone else said race, along with religion, is a man-made concept. I recognise neither. No moronic men? Darn. And just when I was about to say hello lol" Haha you're definitely not moronic. That statement was aimed at another forumite. Of course I can't say who. Hello to you anyway | |||
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"How odd to think that the colour of a persons skin is going to make them better or worse in bed. I've not found it to be a particularly good indicator one way or the other. !! Don't think the op mentioned any one race being better than another? Some gentlemen prefer blonds, get over it." Sorry but exactly is it that you feel I need to get over? | |||
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"I'm not attracted to moronic men. As someone else said race, along with religion, is a man-made concept. I recognise neither. No moronic men? Darn. And just when I was about to say hello lol Haha you're definitely not moronic. That statement was aimed at another forumite. Of course I can't say who. Hello to you anyway " I guessed it wasn't specifically aimed at me, but where there's a chance, I'll jump on an opportunity to joke/raise a smile. Lol And a huge wave and hello to you, too | |||
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"Not sure if I'm being stupid....but how is it any different??" Just the one time i noticed the contrast between my really pale skin and the guys really dark skin. Don't know why but i found that really sexy for a moment, then carried on doing whatever we was doing. | |||
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"I am keen to try this" Really? Sex isnt different when race is different. Its not like trying a new position or technique lol. Mind, it might fulfil a fantasy for some people, like keen to try outdoors, or in a church, etc. Personally though I just don't get turnes on at all by anyone of my own race. If you fancy someone and get on with them you just have sex with them, well thats how its always been for me. | |||
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"I am keen to try this Really? Sex isnt different when race is different. Its not like trying a new position or technique lol." Oh but it is. I shoot chocolate sauce from my nipples after a certain amount of sucking, and, get this - my fanny absolutely gushes blackcurrant juice when I orgasm! It's ace! Saves me a fortune at Sainsbury's. The price of their squash is shocking S x | |||
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"Not sure if I'm being stupid....but how is it any different?? it's different because I really really really fancy black guys! " Im with you on this | |||
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"It's the person you fuck not the skin colour. I understand people are attracted to certain looks/ types but I've never been with a blaxk guy then a white guy and felt a difference because of the colour of their skin. The experience has been down to the person who I'm with and what they do. I'm bewildered. " no need to be bewildered...you have understood it perfectly. "people are attracted to certain looks/types" and that is what makes it so enjoyable. Having sex with someone you are really attracted to.....it is absolutely that simple and nothing sinister as some like to make it. | |||
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"I'm not attracted to moronic men. As someone else said race, along with religion, is a man-made concept. I recognise neither. " I can only assume the "moronic" part was aimed at me?.. What?...because I said I'm not attracted to Black Women?.... Ok. It's called preference. | |||
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"I don't believe black men are better in sex than white men. This is very offensive to the white folk here.look at it from the opposite. White folk better than black men in bed.how will you feel? Please don't turn this into who fuck best. Don't stray away from the op thread." I'm not sure anyone has said anything about black guys being better at sex than white guys though? | |||
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"How odd to think that the colour of a persons skin is going to make them better or worse in bed. I've not found it to be a particularly good indicator one way or the other. !! Don't think the op mentioned any one race being better than another? Some gentlemen prefer blonds, get over it. Sorry but exactly is it that you feel I need to get over?" The fact that some people have preferences. I don't like people who try to steer a thread in a controversial direction by making stuff up. But some people might find that very attractive. | |||
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"Not sure if I'm being stupid....but how is it any different??" Because in some people's tiny minds they seem to think that people of a different race are almost a different species! They attribute all sorts of stereotypical traits to them. Insulting is an understatement. | |||
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"How odd to think that the colour of a persons skin is going to make them better or worse in bed. I've not found it to be a particularly good indicator one way or the other. !! Don't think the op mentioned any one race being better than another? Some gentlemen prefer blonds, get over it. Sorry but exactly is it that you feel I need to get over? The fact that some people have preferences. I don't like people who try to steer a thread in a controversial direction by making stuff up. But some people might find that very attractive. " I'm not trying to steer the thread in any direction. In fact, in a previous thread some months ago similar to this one, I absolutely defended the right of people to discriminate on any grounds they choose to, including race or colour, when it comes to who they wish to have sex with. All I'm saying in my posts today is that I can not see how the colour of a persons skin makes any difference to how good they are in bed and that in MY experience the colour of the person made absolutely no difference to how good they were in bed. Surly that's just as valid an opinion or statement of preferences as those who either choose to have sex or not have sex with someone because of the colour of there skin. | |||
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"How odd to think that the colour of a persons skin is going to make them better or worse in bed. I've not found it to be a particularly good indicator one way or the other. !! Don't think the op mentioned any one race being better than another? Some gentlemen prefer blonds, get over it. Sorry but exactly is it that you feel I need to get over? The fact that some people have preferences. I don't like people who try to steer a thread in a controversial direction by making stuff up. But some people might find that very attractive. I'm not trying to steer the thread in any direction. In fact, in a previous thread some months ago similar to this one, I absolutely defended the right of people to discriminate on any grounds they choose to, including race or colour, when it comes to who they wish to have sex with. All I'm saying in my posts today is that I can not see how the colour of a persons skin makes any difference to how good they are in bed and that in MY experience the colour of the person made absolutely no difference to how good they were in bed. Surly that's just as valid an opinion or statement of preferences as those who either choose to have sex or not have sex with someone because of the colour of there skin. " But still. ...nobody is saying that the persons skin colour has any baring on how good they are in bed | |||
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"How odd to think that the colour of a persons skin is going to make them better or worse in bed. I've not found it to be a particularly good indicator one way or the other. !! Don't think the op mentioned any one race being better than another? Some gentlemen prefer blonds, get over it. Sorry but exactly is it that you feel I need to get over? The fact that some people have preferences. I don't like people who try to steer a thread in a controversial direction by making stuff up. But some people might find that very attractive. I'm not trying to steer the thread in any direction. In fact, in a previous thread some months ago similar to this one, I absolutely defended the right of people to discriminate on any grounds they choose to, including race or colour, when it comes to who they wish to have sex with. All I'm saying in my posts today is that I can not see how the colour of a persons skin makes any difference to how good they are in bed and that in MY experience the colour of the person made absolutely no difference to how good they were in bed. Surly that's just as valid an opinion or statement of preferences as those who either choose to have sex or not have sex with someone because of the colour of there skin. But still. ...nobody is saying that the persons skin colour has any baring on how good they are in bed " The thread is about interracial sex. How's that not related to skin colour? Some people in this thread have said they prefer sex with black men/women and others say they definitely don't want sex with people of different races. All I'm saying is that, to me, the race or colour of my partner is not a consideration and that I personally don't understand how it makes any difference. That's my preference and my view and totally relevant to a thread on interracial sex. | |||
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"How odd to think that the colour of a persons skin is going to make them better or worse in bed. I've not found it to be a particularly good indicator one way or the other. !! Don't think the op mentioned any one race being better than another? Some gentlemen prefer blonds, get over it. Sorry but exactly is it that you feel I need to get over? The fact that some people have preferences. I don't like people who try to steer a thread in a controversial direction by making stuff up. But some people might find that very attractive. I'm not trying to steer the thread in any direction. In fact, in a previous thread some months ago similar to this one, I absolutely defended the right of people to discriminate on any grounds they choose to, including race or colour, when it comes to who they wish to have sex with. All I'm saying in my posts today is that I can not see how the colour of a persons skin makes any difference to how good they are in bed and that in MY experience the colour of the person made absolutely no difference to how good they were in bed. Surly that's just as valid an opinion or statement of preferences as those who either choose to have sex or not have sex with someone because of the colour of there skin. But still. ...nobody is saying that the persons skin colour has any baring on how good they are in bed The thread is about interracial sex. How's that not related to skin colour? Some people in this thread have said they prefer sex with black men/women and others say they definitely don't want sex with people of different races. All I'm saying is that, to me, the race or colour of my partner is not a consideration and that I personally don't understand how it makes any difference. That's my preference and my view and totally relevant to a thread on interracial sex." Yes but you were saying that people were saying that one race is better than another at sex. That is not the case and is my point. You don't need to understand what I'm attracted to just like i don't try to understand what others are attracted to. .. | |||
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"there is a difference in my perception.... between those who want "a black man who happens to be nice" and those who want "a nice guy who happens to be black".... onus being the thing I can control (the "nice") as opposed to the thing I can't (the "black") Well said if you want a "nice guy who happens to be black".... I'm likely to be interested.... if you want a "black guy who happens to be nice"... I'm likely to be headed in the other direction......" | |||
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"How odd to think that the colour of a persons skin is going to make them better or worse in bed. I've not found it to be a particularly good indicator one way or the other. !! Don't think the op mentioned any one race being better than another? Some gentlemen prefer blonds, get over it. Sorry but exactly is it that you feel I need to get over? The fact that some people have preferences. I don't like people who try to steer a thread in a controversial direction by making stuff up. But some people might find that very attractive. I'm not trying to steer the thread in any direction. In fact, in a previous thread some months ago similar to this one, I absolutely defended the right of people to discriminate on any grounds they choose to, including race or colour, when it comes to who they wish to have sex with. All I'm saying in my posts today is that I can not see how the colour of a persons skin makes any difference to how good they are in bed and that in MY experience the colour of the person made absolutely no difference to how good they were in bed. Surly that's just as valid an opinion or statement of preferences as those who either choose to have sex or not have sex with someone because of the colour of there skin. But still. ...nobody is saying that the persons skin colour has any baring on how good they are in bed The thread is about interracial sex. How's that not related to skin colour? Some people in this thread have said they prefer sex with black men/women and others say they definitely don't want sex with people of different races. All I'm saying is that, to me, the race or colour of my partner is not a consideration and that I personally don't understand how it makes any difference. That's my preference and my view and totally relevant to a thread on interracial sex. Yes but you were saying that people were saying that one race is better than another at sex. That is not the case and is my point. You don't need to understand what I'm attracted to just like i don't try to understand what others are attracted to. .." To my mind when someone expresses a preference for something it because they prefer it. It would seem illogical to prefer something believed less good therefore, logicaly, if someone says they prefer something it seems only reasonable to assume that they believe it to be better. As I have already said, I believe, when it comes to having sex with someone, a person has the absolute right to decide using what ever discriminating preferences they want. I'm not criticising anyone but stand by what I've said that I personally don't understand it and find it odd. There are other preferences that people may have that I might find even odder and more difficult to understand and if there is a thread started on any of those I may post something similar on those. | |||
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"How odd to think that the colour of a persons skin is going to make them better or worse in bed. I've not found it to be a particularly good indicator one way or the other. !! Don't think the op mentioned any one race being better than another? Some gentlemen prefer blonds, get over it. Sorry but exactly is it that you feel I need to get over? The fact that some people have preferences. I don't like people who try to steer a thread in a controversial direction by making stuff up. But some people might find that very attractive. I'm not trying to steer the thread in any direction. In fact, in a previous thread some months ago similar to this one, I absolutely defended the right of people to discriminate on any grounds they choose to, including race or colour, when it comes to who they wish to have sex with. All I'm saying in my posts today is that I can not see how the colour of a persons skin makes any difference to how good they are in bed and that in MY experience the colour of the person made absolutely no difference to how good they were in bed. Surly that's just as valid an opinion or statement of preferences as those who either choose to have sex or not have sex with someone because of the colour of there skin. But still. ...nobody is saying that the persons skin colour has any baring on how good they are in bed The thread is about interracial sex. How's that not related to skin colour? Some people in this thread have said they prefer sex with black men/women and others say they definitely don't want sex with people of different races. All I'm saying is that, to me, the race or colour of my partner is not a consideration and that I personally don't understand how it makes any difference. That's my preference and my view and totally relevant to a thread on interracial sex. Yes but you were saying that people were saying that one race is better than another at sex. That is not the case and is my point. You don't need to understand what I'm attracted to just like i don't try to understand what others are attracted to. .. To my mind when someone expresses a preference for something it because they prefer it. It would seem illogical to prefer something believed less good therefore, logicaly, if someone says they prefer something it seems only reasonable to assume that they believe it to be better. As I have already said, I believe, when it comes to having sex with someone, a person has the absolute right to decide using what ever discriminating preferences they want. I'm not criticising anyone but stand by what I've said that I personally don't understand it and find it odd. There are other preferences that people may have that I might find even odder and more difficult to understand and if there is a thread started on any of those I may post something similar on those." ok....let's try this analogy....I like coffee but I don't really like tea. I don't think coffee is any better than tea. I just prefer to drink coffee. as you have said, you don't understand it so please stop making silly assumptions. | |||
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"How odd to think that the colour of a persons skin is going to make them better or worse in bed. I've not found it to be a particularly good indicator one way or the other. !! Don't think the op mentioned any one race being better than another? Some gentlemen prefer blonds, get over it. Sorry but exactly is it that you feel I need to get over? The fact that some people have preferences. I don't like people who try to steer a thread in a controversial direction by making stuff up. But some people might find that very attractive. I'm not trying to steer the thread in any direction. In fact, in a previous thread some months ago similar to this one, I absolutely defended the right of people to discriminate on any grounds they choose to, including race or colour, when it comes to who they wish to have sex with. All I'm saying in my posts today is that I can not see how the colour of a persons skin makes any difference to how good they are in bed and that in MY experience the colour of the person made absolutely no difference to how good they were in bed. Surly that's just as valid an opinion or statement of preferences as those who either choose to have sex or not have sex with someone because of the colour of there skin. But still. ...nobody is saying that the persons skin colour has any baring on how good they are in bed The thread is about interracial sex. How's that not related to skin colour? Some people in this thread have said they prefer sex with black men/women and others say they definitely don't want sex with people of different races. All I'm saying is that, to me, the race or colour of my partner is not a consideration and that I personally don't understand how it makes any difference. That's my preference and my view and totally relevant to a thread on interracial sex. Yes but you were saying that people were saying that one race is better than another at sex. That is not the case and is my point. You don't need to understand what I'm attracted to just like i don't try to understand what others are attracted to. .. To my mind when someone expresses a preference for something it because they prefer it. It would seem illogical to prefer something believed less good therefore, logicaly, if someone says they prefer something it seems only reasonable to assume that they believe it to be better. As I have already said, I believe, when it comes to having sex with someone, a person has the absolute right to decide using what ever discriminating preferences they want. I'm not criticising anyone but stand by what I've said that I personally don't understand it and find it odd. There are other preferences that people may have that I might find even odder and more difficult to understand and if there is a thread started on any of those I may post something similar on those." I've held off on commenting but you said you're not criticising. But by stating you don't understand and further saying you find it illogical, judgement is inferred. Let me put it this way. And pardon me for this being loose and a little nonsensical. "I put 4 pencils in front of you and ask you choose one to use. They contain exactly the same properties and the price is identical. But one is blue, one is standard lead, one is pink and one is orange. Hypothetically, you chose the standard lead pencil to use. I then stop you and ask you to justify your choice as well as well as saying I don't understand why you didn't pick up any or all the pencils, despite you saying you preferred the lead pencil at that point in time. "Hey, it works best for what I need a pencil for, not a knock on the others". You've made a perfectly reasonable choice but I, as the layer of lead (that's a whole different convo, eh? Lol) won't leave it as that. I would have chosen the pink pencil and I say this. That's all I needed to have said..." Now, believe me, the above is a daft example but it's the closest I could think of. Now I appreciate you're not the OP, and thus not the originator of the topic, but the thread has been lead in this direction. Most stated their answers and views. They won't all be the same. What caused me to respond like this (and eat into valuable perving time ) was the conflicting sentiment of 'not criticising' preferences vs finding said preferences illogical. And just to add, I don't believe anyone has said the sex is better with one choice. It's sheer attraction. Attraction need not be justified in this day and age. I don't know how much this will contribute or help, but I got to insert a pencil lead joke Haha | |||
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"How odd to think that the colour of a persons skin is going to make them better or worse in bed. I've not found it to be a particularly good indicator one way or the other. !! Don't think the op mentioned any one race being better than another? Some gentlemen prefer blonds, get over it. Sorry but exactly is it that you feel I need to get over? The fact that some people have preferences. I don't like people who try to steer a thread in a controversial direction by making stuff up. But some people might find that very attractive. I'm not trying to steer the thread in any direction. In fact, in a previous thread some months ago similar to this one, I absolutely defended the right of people to discriminate on any grounds they choose to, including race or colour, when it comes to who they wish to have sex with. All I'm saying in my posts today is that I can not see how the colour of a persons skin makes any difference to how good they are in bed and that in MY experience the colour of the person made absolutely no difference to how good they were in bed. Surly that's just as valid an opinion or statement of preferences as those who either choose to have sex or not have sex with someone because of the colour of there skin. But still. ...nobody is saying that the persons skin colour has any baring on how good they are in bed The thread is about interracial sex. How's that not related to skin colour? Some people in this thread have said they prefer sex with black men/women and others say they definitely don't want sex with people of different races. All I'm saying is that, to me, the race or colour of my partner is not a consideration and that I personally don't understand how it makes any difference. That's my preference and my view and totally relevant to a thread on interracial sex. Yes but you were saying that people were saying that one race is better than another at sex. That is not the case and is my point. You don't need to understand what I'm attracted to just like i don't try to understand what others are attracted to. .. To my mind when someone expresses a preference for something it because they prefer it. It would seem illogical to prefer something believed less good therefore, logicaly, if someone says they prefer something it seems only reasonable to assume that they believe it to be better. As I have already said, I believe, when it comes to having sex with someone, a person has the absolute right to decide using what ever discriminating preferences they want. I'm not criticising anyone but stand by what I've said that I personally don't understand it and find it odd. There are other preferences that people may have that I might find even odder and more difficult to understand and if there is a thread started on any of those I may post something similar on those. ok....let's try this analogy....I like coffee but I don't really like tea. I don't think coffee is any better than tea. I just prefer to drink coffee. as you have said, you don't understand it so please stop making silly assumptions." If you like coffee but don't like tea then I would say that coffee is better than tea for you. How could having something you don't like as much (tea) possibly be a better or even equal choice as compared to having what you actually like (coffee) That's reasonable assumption. Of course it does not mean that you think tea or coffee is better or worse for other people but your preference is for coffee. Personally I like both tea and coffee and don't really understand why some like one so much more than the other. I'm not criticising either those that prefer coffee or those that prefer tea but, in a discussion on tea and coffee, just saying that I don't really mind and don't understand why some people have such a strong preference for one or the other. | |||
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"I like tea and I like coffee but they both have to be made just right. " When I make tea or coffee it is always made just right. | |||
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"there is a difference in my perception.... between those who want "a black man who happens to be nice" and those who want "a nice guy who happens to be black".... onus being the thing I can control (the "nice") as opposed to the thing I can't (the "black") if you want a "nice guy who happens to be black".... I'm likely to be interested.... if you want a "black guy who happens to be nice"... I'm likely to be headed in the other direction......" I absolutely and completely agree with you on the above point. If someone states " ooh, I've never slept with a black woman", I always state......and you're not sleeping with one now either! I'm not a freaking trophy to be added but a person who wants to be appreciated as a person first and foremost and not just a skin colour. | |||
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"I'd fuck kelly brook whether she's a thick bitch or a saintly genius! It's a swinging site, shoot me or get over it! " So would I. | |||
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"It's the person you fuck not the skin colour. I understand people are attracted to certain looks/ types but I've never been with a blaxk guy then a white guy and felt a difference because of the colour of their skin. The experience has been down to the person who I'm with and what they do. I'm bewildered. " Same for me. So you could say I'm a fan of interracial sex. But I'm also a fan of same-race sex. But then I do close my eyes a lot during sex. It's just not something that's ever been a factor in deciding who to meet for me. | |||
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"there is a difference in my perception.... between those who want "a black man who happens to be nice" and those who want "a nice guy who happens to be black".... onus being the thing I can control (the "nice") as opposed to the thing I can't (the "black") if you want a "nice guy who happens to be black".... I'm likely to be interested.... if you want a "black guy who happens to be nice"... I'm likely to be headed in the other direction...... I absolutely and completely agree with you on the above point. If someone states " ooh, I've never slept with a black woman", I always state......and you're not sleeping with one now either! I'm not a freaking trophy to be added but a person who wants to be appreciated as a person first and foremost and not just a skin colour." Still living in the 19th century some people | |||
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"there is a difference in my perception.... between those who want "a black man who happens to be nice" and those who want "a nice guy who happens to be black".... onus being the thing I can control (the "nice") as opposed to the thing I can't (the "black") if you want a "nice guy who happens to be black".... I'm likely to be interested.... if you want a "black guy who happens to be nice"... I'm likely to be headed in the other direction...... I absolutely and completely agree with you on the above point. If someone states " ooh, I've never slept with a black woman", I always state......and you're not sleeping with one now either! I'm not a freaking trophy to be added but a person who wants to be appreciated as a person first and foremost and not just a skin colour." Yet on your profile headline, you describe yourself as a 'Black Milkmaid'. Why? | |||
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"I'd fuck kelly brook whether she's a thick bitch or a saintly genius! It's a swinging site, shoot me or get over it! So would I." Ahh.. there you go - friends now - group hug | |||
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"I am keen to try this but never found the right person or couple. What are peoples experience of this? " The fact people are of another colour has no bearing on our experience. We connect with good human beings, it's that simple. -Mr | |||
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"Can't people over the age of 51 be good human beings then?" What? | |||
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"Can't people over the age of 51 be good human beings then? What? " They won't meet people older than 51. I'm just wondering why. | |||
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"Here's me thinking this thread was regarding people who enjoy "interracial" sex " A thread about people enjoying sex on FabSwingers! What sort of site do you think this is ffs? LOL | |||
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"Here's me thinking this thread was regarding people who enjoy "interracial" sex A thread about people enjoying sex on FabSwingers! What sort of site do you think this is ffs? LOL " | |||
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"I really do think my post has been blown in to a sensitive issue. Interacial sex is a fetish like watersports or BBW. I was simply stating I was curious about having sex with someone from a different culture or race to me. Not as a trophy or as a novelty but as a new sexual experience. I really do think sometimes you need to state terms & conditions before posting on here. IMO having sex with someone from a different cultural background would be different in terms of their attitude towards sex and obviouslt visually. Thank you for everyone who has expressed their experiences. " I think it's a reasonable question or preference - you may be slightly disappointed if you want someone with a wholly different attitude towards sex though. The fact people are on fab (or having casual sex in general) means they've gravitated towards a certain attitude to sex which may be similar to yours in the first place.... | |||
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"Not sure if I'm being stupid....but how is it any different?? Just the one time i noticed the contrast between my really pale skin and the guys really dark skin. Don't know why but i found that really sexy for a moment, then carried on doing whatever we was doing. " That was how it was for me too. The contrast was just so sexy.....and then the sex was just incredible. A bit of a lifestyle thing now! | |||
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"I wouldn't say there are *too many soap box heros. I enjoy reading people's opinions. I still find fetishism in regards to a human being quite disturbing. As I said earlier I don't recognise race as it's a man-made concept." Ditto - fetish? Odd... | |||
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"I wouldn't say there are *too many soap box heros. I enjoy reading people's opinions. I still find fetishism in regards to a human being quite disturbing. As I said earlier I don't recognise race as it's a man-made concept." I don't find it odd, i understand why fetishes exist. I can find it slightly insulting to be a fetish, but on a site like this i do think some people take it as they can browse people and choose them like they're shopping... | |||
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"I really do think my post has been blown in to a sensitive issue. Interacial sex is a fetish like watersports or BBW. I was simply stating I was curious about having sex with someone from a different culture or race to me. Not as a trophy or as a novelty but as a new sexual experience. I really do think sometimes you need to state terms & conditions before posting on here. IMO having sex with someone from a different cultural background would be different in terms of their attitude towards sex and obviouslt visually. Thank you for everyone who has expressed their experiences. " It is not a fetish for me or a new experience. Just a purely aesthetic preference - similar to preferring blondes. | |||
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"Frantz Fanon. Homi K Bhabba. Edward Said. And other post-colonial theorists would have a field day here! " | |||
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"Frantz Fanon. Homi K Bhabba. Edward Said. And other post-colonial theorists would have a field day here! " The legacy lives on...give it another 300 years or so - we may have moved forward by then | |||
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"Frantz Fanon. Homi K Bhabba. Edward Said. And other post-colonial theorists would have a field day here! The legacy lives on...give it another 300 years or so - we may have moved forward by then" | |||
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"There is only one race... the human race... *tries to get off soap box triumphantly, falls arse over tit*" helps you up | |||
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"We do this almost every night " | |||
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"I'm mixed race. So on a technicality, most sex for me is interracial sex. " | |||
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"You would never guess what I like " Give me a clue, I'm sure it's staring me in the face | |||
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"I am keen to try this but never found the right person or couple. What are peoples experience of this? " Colour contrast can be erotic, but the fun to be had will always depend on personality and not on looks alone. | |||
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"I am keen to try this but never found the right person or couple. What are peoples experience of this? Colour contrast can be erotic, but the fun to be had will always depend on personality and not on looks alone." | |||
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"Y any lady would want to try this speeks volumes about the lady" Really? What does it say, exactly? | |||
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"Y any lady would want to try this speeks volumes about the lady" Your status highly offensive I've reported you | |||
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"Y any lady would want to try this speeks volumes about the lady Really? What does it say, exactly?" Slag according to his status | |||
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"Y any lady would want to try this speeks volumes about the lady Really? What does it say, exactly? Slag according to his status " Just when I thought there was hope for the human race | |||
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"Oh Dear ... theres a lot of slags on here but they are not defined by the colour of the guys they want to fuck what a fucking idiot" I don`t quite know what's worse being thought of as a slag because of the colour of the men you choose to have sex with or to just be thought of as a slag for any reason | |||
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"Y any lady would want to try this speeks volumes about the lady" Its a shame I'm not in Birmingham until the week after next! | |||
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"Y any lady would want to try this speeks volumes about the lady Its a shame I'm not in Birmingham until the week after next!" Then again it speaks volumes about him, being on site for over a year and can't get a fuck of any slags of here. If only his mates new lol | |||
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"Well this turned out nice didn't it? I'm going to stick to drinking coffee I think " how do you have it - black or white LOL | |||
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"Well this turned out nice didn't it? I'm going to stick to drinking coffee I think how do you have it - black or white LOL" At the risk of being called a slag I'm on a diet so i take it black | |||
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"Well this turned out nice didn't it? I'm going to stick to drinking coffee I think " I still don't understand how you can like coffee but not like tea!! Strange world. LOL | |||
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"Well this turned out nice didn't it? I'm going to stick to drinking coffee I think how do you have it - black or white LOL At the risk of being called a slag I'm on a diet so i take it black " thats a shame i was going to offer to supply the cream | |||
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"Well this turned out nice didn't it? I'm going to stick to drinking coffee I think I still don't understand how you can like coffee but not like tea!! Strange world. LOL" I found out someone didn't like coffee or tea or any such hit drinks at all the other day! That was strange | |||
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"Not sure if I'm being stupid....but how is it any different??" My thoughts exactly! For me it's about the man - the colour ahould be irrelevant surely? x | |||
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"Well this turned out nice didn't it? I'm going to stick to drinking coffee I think I still don't understand how you can like coffee but not like tea!! Strange world. LOL I found out someone didn't like coffee or tea or any such hit drinks at all the other day! That was strange " Indecisive, non committal people like that just makes my blood boil. grrr. | |||
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"To get back to the OP I would like to meet a black couple with a bi-curious guy for some fun - does that make me a bad person? " No! But I'm sure there are plenty of other things that do.! | |||
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"Not sure if I'm being stupid....but how is it any different?? My thoughts exactly! For me it's about the man - the colour ahould be irrelevant surely? x" it's exactly the same as someone wanting to meet attractive well endowed.... | |||
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"Not sure if I'm being stupid....but how is it any different?? My thoughts exactly! For me it's about the man - the colour ahould be irrelevant surely? x it's exactly the same as someone wanting to meet attractive well endowed...." The well endowed bit is an optional extra - 'customised' if you will! | |||
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"I am keen to try this but never found the right person or couple. What are peoples experience of this? " I've had lots of interracial sex lol being mixed race I get a lot of white women, Asian, and black but defo prefer white girls they have the pinkest pussies and tastiest! | |||
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"I don't believe black men are better in sex than white men. This is very offensive to the white folk here.look at it from the opposite. White folk better than black men in bed.how will you feel? Please don't turn this into who fuck best. Don't stray away from the op thread." Well said that man. Not the colour thats fucking you its the person. My ex dated a black guy. 10" cock which hurt her like hell. Now i am 7" and i am the best fuck to this day she has has she keeps telling me. Not even down to cock size. "Its the person your having sex with" independant if race.colour or cick size. | |||
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"Not sure if I'm being stupid....but how is it any different?? My thoughts exactly! For me it's about the man - the colour ahould be irrelevant surely? x it's exactly the same as someone wanting to meet attractive well endowed.... The well endowed bit is an optional extra - 'customised' if you will! " Well endowed, optional extra!! Thank god for that. . LOL | |||
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"I like wearing red dresses on my night off than the yellow one i have. It makes me feel sexier the way the red clashes against my skin. So i say, what ever makes you feel better, work with it. Ps the dress thing is just a joke yeh!" | |||
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"I like wearing red dresses on my night off than the yellow one i have. It makes me feel sexier the way the red clashes against my skin. So i say, what ever makes you feel better, work with it. Ps the dress thing is just a joke yeh!" Sitting here imagining you in a dress. )) | |||
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"ITS JUST A JOKE!! WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU LOT " Of course it is, if you say so. (cough) | |||
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"I am keen to try this but never found the right person or couple. What are peoples experience of this? I've had lots of interracial sex lol being mixed race I get a lot of white women, Asian, and black but defo prefer white girls they have the pinkest pussies and tastiest! " Like tasting of bacon? | |||
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"To get back to the OP I would like to meet a black couple with a bi-curious guy for some fun - does that make me a bad person? " Count us in for that! | |||
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"ITS JUST A JOKE!! WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU LOT Of course it is, if you say so. (cough)" okay, yellow is good | |||
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"We have interracial sex most nights being of different races (and cultures. Wow intercultural sex hadn't thought of that ).but we are together cos we fancy the fuck out of each other, the race thing is incidental " Spot on! Some people on here just can't grasp the fact that personal preference over rides anything else. That include your preference to either... fuck anyone of any race or religion, if they are ugly or not. Or... your preference to only fuck the ones you fancy, weather that be due to looks size race or skin colour. I personally don't find Eskimos attractive so I wouldn't fuck one. Does that make me racist or a bad person? I saw a profile on here where a young white couple were ranting calling people "bigoted" because someone had said they didn't find black people attractive! They said that it was disgraceful as we were in 2014! I would have found It more offensive to be called a bigot because j reserve the right to choose who j fancy. | |||
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"Y any lady would want to try this speeks volumes about the lady Your status highly offensive I've reported you " Why just ladies?? So apart from the blatant bigotry in the post what about us guys who like black, asian, indian ladies ect... if your going to be a racist bigot dont add sexism to it as well!!! | |||
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"Y any lady would want to try this speeks volumes about the lady Your status highly offensive I've reported you Why just ladies?? So apart from the blatant bigotry in the post what about us guys who like black, asian, indian ladies ect... if your going to be a racist bigot dont add sexism to it as well!!!" They more often than not go hand-in-hand in my experience | |||
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