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"My views have changed. ..I do not find men attractive or "fancy "men... However I am very curious as to how it would feel to play with a man. Especially in a bi mmf with my wife" It's very liberating and relaxing. Good luck to finding the lucky man | |||
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"My views have changed. ..I do not find men attractive or "fancy "men... However I am very curious as to how it would feel to play with a man. Especially in a bi mmf with my wife" Adds curious newbies to hotlist** | |||
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"I've always wondered why people are 'bi-curious' but never 'straight-curious'. I mean either you find both men and women sexually attractive (that's what makes you bisexual) or you don't find them attractive. And if you don't find them sexually attractive in some way (in that, you have a desire to do sexual activities with them) then you're probably not bisexual. Or bi-curious." I suppose I am what you term straight - curious. Been with guys but not with girls, would like to give it a go in an mmf or mmff | |||
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"My views have changed. ..I do not find men attractive or "fancy "men... However I am very curious as to how it would feel to play with a man. Especially in a bi mmf with my wife" | |||
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"I've always wondered why people are 'bi-curious' but never 'straight-curious'. I mean either you find both men and women sexually attractive (that's what makes you bisexual) or you don't find them attractive. And if you don't find them sexually attractive in some way (in that, you have a desire to do sexual activities with them) then you're probably not bisexual. Or bi-curious." I'm straight but fb wants a ffm and we have been discussing it for so long now that I'm a little curious about the other female, so does that make me straight-curious? | |||
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"My views have changed. ..I do not find men attractive or "fancy "men... However I am very curious as to how it would feel to play with a man. Especially in a bi mmf with my wife" Exactly this, I enjoy bi play in mmf format, the dynamics are very enjoyable so I enjoy the title hettoflexible, when I look at bi curious it seems vague, so as there is currently (admin) no tick box lol for hetexible I write that on my profile and keep straight yo ward off tons of single guys. | |||
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"The labels on here are difficult. I've put straight, but I have had sex with women in threesome situations and enjoyed it. I'm not bi-curious because I know I like it, but I'm not bisexual because I wouldn't meet a woman alone without a man there as well. I think curious only really applies while you're finding out you like something, so straight curious could absolutely be a thing as well. " I like the term Heteexible which is an option on a well known fetish site. | |||
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"The labels on here are difficult. I've put straight, but I have had sex with women in threesome situations and enjoyed it. I'm not bi-curious because I know I like it, but I'm not bisexual because I wouldn't meet a woman alone without a man there as well. I think curious only really applies while you're finding out you like something, so straight curious could absolutely be a thing as well. I like the term Heteexible which is an option on a well known fetish site." Ha the term has r-o-f-l in it. | |||
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"I've always wondered why people are 'bi-curious' but never 'straight-curious'. I mean either you find both men and women sexually attractive (that's what makes you bisexual) or you don't find them attractive. And if you don't find them sexually attractive in some way (in that, you have a desire to do sexual activities with them) then you're probably not bisexual. Or bi-curious." Hetexible in a mmf format, absolutely love this, and have met a some couples off here that indulge because I said so on my profile. | |||
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"I have never understood 'bi-curious'. Even before having any imtimate contact with a woman, I knew that I wanted to; it was just a question of getting to know the right woman (for me) If 'bi-curious' means that one is bisexual but hasn't yet had sex with a person of the same gender, then it could make sense to me" I think we should call virgins 'straight-curious'. :D | |||
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"Male here.... I consider myself bi in a sexual way ie will be as intimate with a male as I would with a female and I find certain men hot to look at but that's where it stops. I couldn't have a relationship with a guy. We are happily married with a family and appear from the outside as a 'normal' heterosexual couple. I have told a very limited few people and their jaws have dropped and on one occasion their trousers!!" haha | |||
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"I have never understood 'bi-curious'. Even before having any imtimate contact with a woman, I knew that I wanted to; it was just a question of getting to know the right woman (for me) If 'bi-curious' means that one is bisexual but hasn't yet had sex with a person of the same gender, then it could make sense to me I think we should call virgins 'straight-curious'. :D" | |||
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"The labels on here are difficult. I've put straight, but I have had sex with women in threesome situations and enjoyed it. I'm not bi-curious because I know I like it, but I'm not bisexual because I wouldn't meet a woman alone without a man there as well. " This 10 times over | |||
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"I know this topic isn't about this exactly, but i have wondered if everyone is automatically bisexual but because we know more about reproduction and how children are made, and because we also want children (most of us) then we fetishized breeding and heterosexuality? Not in the way breeding would be on here exactly, but just that we want to have babies and know how to make them so only find the opposite gender attractive. It's based on all the psychological knowledge i have, as well as sexual history, as well as personal experience. I never wanted kids (or so i thought), ended up with 4 and did actually be a good mum to them and do a good job looking after them. If i really didn't want kids then i shouldn't have wanted sex with people who could give me them? Idk, i know i don't make a lot of sense but sometimes i do in my head." I think you're onto something. I also think that it's to do with a shamefulness about being bisexual. One of my partners is about 40 and bisexual, but he doesn't tell people openly that he is. He was basically shamed at school that being gay and bisexual is wrong. Now we're more open as a society to gay relationships, but there is still a massive amount of biphobia from both the straight and gay communities. | |||
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"The labels on here are difficult. I've put straight, but I have had sex with women in threesome situations and enjoyed it. I'm not bi-curious because I know I like it, but I'm not bisexual because I wouldn't meet a woman alone without a man there as well. I think curious only really applies while you're finding out you like something, so straight curious could absolutely be a thing as well. " See this is where I like the term hetexible... I'm like you... I enjoy playing witht women in a group situation. I don't do it for my partner but part of my pleasure comes from the exhibitionist side of it. I don't really look at a woman and think mmmmm I want her, its just a part of the whole experience when I play in a group. I think to many people worry about labels | |||
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" At some point in evolution, labels and behaviour were applied. The ancient Greeks and Romans had the glory days of pan sexuality. " Actually that's not true. They had a completely different system of sexuality to us. Most of their gay encounters were based around the fact that powerful people had sex with people who weren't powerful. So powerful men had sex with women, slaves, and less powerful men. | |||
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" At some point in evolution, labels and behaviour were applied. The ancient Greeks and Romans had the glory days of pan sexuality. Actually that's not true. They had a completely different system of sexuality to us. Most of their gay encounters were based around the fact that powerful people had sex with people who weren't powerful. So powerful men had sex with women, slaves, and less powerful men." Fair point. I'd still like to have been part of it! | |||
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"I think you're onto something. I also think that it's to do with a shamefulness about being bisexual. One of my partners is about 40 and bisexual, but he doesn't tell people openly that he is. He was basically shamed at school that being gay and bisexual is wrong. Now we're more open as a society to gay relationships, but there is still a massive amount of biphobia from both the straight and gay communities." I did try to make a topic about it, but my debating skills have got low quality since i stopped discussing stuff over a year ago and couldn't really get all my ideas together, am sure with a little practice i could get back to that level though. I've never found women sexually attractive tbh, despite how sexualised they had become in the media. But i was brought up in a household where all the family members where in heterosexual relationships, and my mum and dad both think homosexual relationships are wrong, my dad is homophobic as well. But i did realise that my dad had something wrong with him so his ideas never stuck in my head as true or correct, plus i'm good at observing so didn't see anything to back him up either. I do agree shame is one of the worst things to do to anyone, especially when it's how they feel about themselves. Our minds can be more fragile and more complicated than we think, and we can break them. I'll start a proper topic on it some time, when i feel i can discuss stuff properly and gather info to back it up. Didn't know there was biphobia in gay communities, that's sad to hear. | |||
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"I seem to make a lot of guys curious " You do look like very much like a woman...so I can understand why.. | |||
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"Bi-curious = exploring your feelings as you're not sure of them (I.e. Is it a sexual/romantic attraction, or do you just enjoy someone playing with your bits regardless of gender). Bisexual = you're sure and comfortable with your bisexuality. " Plus as others have said, some bi people just have sex with both men and women. Some bi people have relationships with both men and women. | |||
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