FabSwingers.com forum: Do you like being called names during the sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Slut?whore?bitch or wot wud u prefer?xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not my thing at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

find it very off putting....and/or degrading...so a no from me but each to their own i guess..

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

Degrading not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking cock sucking slut!

love it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I use that in everyday life so nothing new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have actually been known to get dressed and leave mid play for being spoken to in this way

I hate it, I just feel its putting women back 100 years where men can fuck who they like but 'loose' women get called names

I know some like it but I really think its one of those things that needed to be discussed prior to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have actually been known to get dressed and leave mid play for being spoken to in this way

I hate it, I just feel its putting women back 100 years where men can fuck who they like but 'loose' women get called names

I know some like it but I really think its one of those things that needed to be discussed prior to play"
obvs i wouldnt say it in asda ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taxi!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about men being called names?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about men being called names? "

Keith or Dave really do it for me ......

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

If me and Mr were caught up in the moment I sometimes like it, but certainly not from a meet.

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

"Slut?whore?bitch or wot wud u prefer?xxx

Never had that at a club but someone was using words a bit like that at a party once i.e. to my wife. It wasn't so bad that we needed to object but it wasn't a sexy as the bloke seemed to think it was (perhaps HIS wife does like it) and didn't help their chances of a future meet with us.

Him

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By *irandslvtCouple
over a year ago

Braintree / essex

Pig gets all sorts of names thrown at her during sex but best is fat ugly pig

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By *untimes6969Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"What about men being called names?

Keith or Dave really do it for me ......"

Absolute classic!

All depends on the people involved and the situation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pig gets all sorts of names thrown at her during sex but best is fat ugly pig "

That's fine if you get off on it which your partner obviously does, but if anyone called me a fat ugly pig while I was having sex with them I'd be up and out the room so quick I'd probably snap their cock off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about men being called names?

Keith or Dave really do it for me ......

Absolute classic!

All depends on the people involved and the situation! "

Ive never been much of a fan of Bryan the spelling using a Y just doesn't get me going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate being called names, love dishing it out though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is why I really like these forums.... you get to see how people 'really' think and can block them.

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By *lirtyjjWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I don't particularly mind "dirty bitch " in the heart of the moment. Whore and slut etc would turn me off

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"What about men being called names? "

its a good question.... i once had a woman shout mid flow that she wanted my "N" cock.....

I got up and calmly walked out........

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

The best dirtiest fat ugly slag on Fab

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

All depends on situation and who im with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slut

Good girl

Bad girl

Depending on my mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slut?whore?bitch or wot wud u prefer?xxx

Fucktoy is popular Lxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been with women who like it and women who don't. I'm accommodating either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about men being called names?

its a good question.... i once had a woman shout mid flow that she wanted my "N" cock.....

I got up and calmly walked out........"

What your northern cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who im with, but from the right person, at the right time i love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about men being called names?

its a good question.... i once had a woman shout mid flow that she wanted my "N" cock.....

I got up and calmly walked out........

What your northern cock

Isn't that a building society?lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex and porn are different things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very very few women can talk dirty...its a skill and usually has to have an foreign accent...

"Reet ya dutty bastad' lick that fucking thing reet good n' proper and tha' might gobble thee"'

I'd rather just a good scream, grunt and gasp.. Oh and an evil stare...now that's horny as fuck..

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I quite like it when someone I've known for a little while calls me names in the heat of the moment. But I think if someone on a first meet was to address me like that I'd be slightly pissed off!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i love it when d has a firm grip round my throat. And whispers that ive been a naughty little slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't particularly mind "dirty bitch " in the heart of the moment. Whore and slut etc would turn me off "

One guy called me that once, the way he said it it did sound sexy tbh. Mostly i don't like being called names though.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I have actually been known to get dressed and leave mid play for being spoken to in this way

I hate it, I just feel its putting women back 100 years where men can fuck who they like but 'loose' women get called names

I know some like it but I really think its one of those things that needed to be discussed prior to play"

Too right.

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

Like this but only from a long term boyfriend, not someone casual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it all ya' silly born bastard....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like this but only from a long term boyfriend, not someone casual "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slut?whore?bitch or wot wud u prefer?xxx

Fucktoy is popular Lxx

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noted

giggidy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the flip side I remember a guy I used to meet who after several meets decided to whisper sweet nothings in my ear mid shag telling me how he knows I'm lonely and justs a to be loved and held etc that kinda liked the mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the dynamics and who is doing the name calling tbh

But yes at times a well placed My little.......

Can really push me over the edge

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Slut?whore?bitch or wot wud u prefer?xxx

Your majesty will do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends on the dynamics and who is doing the name calling tbh

But yes at times a well placed My little.......

Can really push me over the edge

This ^^ saves me typing

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

I'm beginning to like it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Slut?whore?bitch or wot wud u prefer?xxx

Your majesty will do."

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"On the flip side I remember a guy I used to meet who after several meets decided to whisper sweet nothings in my ear mid shag telling me how he knows I'm lonely and justs a to be loved and held etc that kinda liked the mood

Some of your experiences do make me chuckle NN. You should write a book, I'd buy it.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No it doesn't do anything for me.Unless its in the heights of passion its more likely to put me off....

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"What about men being called names?

its a good question.... i once had a woman shout mid flow that she wanted my "N" cock.....

I got up and calmly walked out........"

That's awful! Fair play for leaving though. Wonder how many guys have that control?

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Massive turn on for me. It hardened my erecting when you call me names during fun.i used to see a lady who swears a lot during fun.

Sorry this may not be for every folks.i like it.As for me quite the opposite. I don't swear or call names during sex.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"What about men being called names?

its a good question.... i once had a woman shout mid flow that she wanted my "N" cock.....

I got up and calmly walked out........

That's awful! Fair play for leaving though. Wonder how many guys have that control?

for me it was about respect... and thats not respectful in my eyes at all...

other people would have let it pass i have no doubt it plays up to a stereotype they sell.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very very few women can talk dirty...its a skill and usually has to have an foreign accent...

"Reet ya dutty bastad' lick that fucking thing reet good n' proper and tha' might gobble thee"'

I'd rather just a good scream, grunt and gasp.. Oh and an evil stare...now that's horny as fuck.."

What about a posh Dagenham accent

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Not for me...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very very few women can talk dirty...its a skill and usually has to have an foreign accent...

"Reet ya dutty bastad' lick that fucking thing reet good n' proper and tha' might gobble thee"'

I'd rather just a good scream, grunt and gasp.. Oh and an evil stare...now that's horny as fuck..

What about a posh Dagenham accent

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Slut?whore?bitch or wot wud u prefer?xxx

Don't call me bitch!

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

London.

"Pig gets all sorts of names thrown at her during sex but best is fat ugly pig

with a slapped face too, for them.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"What about men being called names?

its a good question.... i once had a woman shout mid flow that she wanted my "N" cock.....

I got up and calmly walked out........"

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Between us both yes... On a meet no fooking way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Unless it's a pet name..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes...but only from someone im familiar with...sometimes it can feel a wee bit too agressive with someone i dont know well, as i wouldnt want to be in a situation where i was nervous of them becoming more agressive..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet, never! Long term well perhaps

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Very very few women can talk dirty...its a skill and usually has to have an foreign accent...

I'd rather just a good scream, grunt and gasp.. Oh and an evil stare...now that's horny as fuck.."

I'm very good at evil stares and have been known to let rip with the odd gasping expletive in my softened Belfast accent

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very very few women can talk dirty...its a skill and usually has to have an foreign accent...

I'd rather just a good scream, grunt and gasp.. Oh and an evil stare...now that's horny as fuck..

I'm very good at evil stares and have been known to let rip with the odd gasping expletive in my softened Belfast accent

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Belfast accent....All I needed to hear lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being called names. Being degraded turns me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would turn u on u slut xxx

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Take my phallus, you unclean harlot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sue is nice to here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Take my phallus, you unclean harlot!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fucking love your cock

One I hear a lot from women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love been told I'm a dirty slut as im sucking a guys hard throbbing cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Take my phallus, you unclean harlot!"
mmmmmmmmm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slut..I love being called slut. . Emphasise the t in it tho..slutttttt

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

"Slut..I love being called slut. . Emphasise the t in it tho..slutttttt

Same here , maybe starting with naughty girl , dirty girl working up to calling me slut xxx

Jo xxx

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

On a meet, it would result in the meet ending there and then.

From my current dominant lover, abso-fucking-lutely love it!

But we also use a lot of onomatopoeic words - slap, smack, thwack, whack when we are one the phone to each other - that definitely garner a reaction...

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Slut?whore?bitch or wot wud u prefer?xxx

We love all of them...and so have the women we've met.

Of course, if they didn't, we wouldn't be using them. The key is communication, and deciding beforehand what sort of language is acceptable. You shouldn't really be dropping those words in just to test the water!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slut..I love being called slut. . Emphasise the t in it tho..slutttttt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love it haha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I absolutely love it haha!"
yummy.com

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Slut?whore?bitch or wot wud u prefer?xxx

Mistress!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slut?whore?bitch or wot wud u prefer?xxx

Definitely slut - good/bad/dirty/cum/my/little slut

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Vocabulary like this is that of violence and I don't regard sex as an act of violence.

I prefer to ask her how it feels. Ask her if she is liking it. Ask, ask, ask. She provides the commentary as I slide in and out of her.

To this end, lying face down with me behind biting her neck and ear whilst quietly asking her how hard she wants it is one of my favourite things.

Ladies quite like it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being called my name. One woman used to call me "baby" which was quite nice.

Generally I just like a woman who is quite vocal or expressive

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Hubby hates it. He can't even stand the words hun or babe etc being used about me before, during or after. Personally I don't care what they call me during sex. During a greedy event I'm quite happy to be called any dirty word by anyone as long as they're giving me what I want

Hubby won't put up with it though and has stopped those who are too vocal with those words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on our own mildred likes dirty bitch and slut sometimes,

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

"Slut?whore?bitch or wot wud u prefer?xxx

Definitely slut - good/bad/dirty/cum/my/little slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I do things like "do that again Big Boy" "Mmmm where did you learn that Tiger" and my fav one "Oooh baby, more more more ...i do love a nice good strong Cuppa"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slut?whore?bitch or wot wud u prefer?xxx

Definitely slut - good/bad/dirty/cum/my/little slut

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good girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slut..I love being called slut. . Emphasise the t in it tho..slutttttt

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sluTTTTTT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Vocabulary like this is that of violence and I don't regard sex as an act of violence.

I disagree, words are just words, in and of themselves they are meaningless. It is the intent behind them that is important.

If it's during a scene then I'm all about telling a naughty slut just how dirty they are

That doesn't mean I would use the same vocabulary on the street or towards randomers/folks who object. Context see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very very few women can talk dirty...its a skill and usually has to have an foreign accent...

"Reet ya dutty bastad' lick that fucking thing reet good n' proper and tha' might gobble thee"'

I'd rather just a good scream, grunt and gasp.. Oh and an evil stare...now that's horny as fuck.."

Oh god, that made me spit my coffee out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I LOVE been called Slut while been face fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I do things like "do that again Big Boy" "Mmmm where did you learn that Tiger" and my fav one "Oooh baby, more more more ...i do love a nice good strong Cuppa"...

If I told my partner to " do that again big boy" or said anything tiger-esque, we'd both dissolve into fits of laughter. It would most definitely not be conducive to the strict roleplay scenarios we sometimes undertake

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you know someone well, and you know they like it, then it can be very erotic. With strangers though, I'd steer well clear of saying anything rude that might upset them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horses for courses. Some people do, like us. Some don't. Some even use them for profile names. I loved seeing & hearing Jax reaction to guys calling her names while fucking her. Mind you none ever got really aggressive & used it to great effect when they saw how much it was turning her own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fucking cock sucking slut!

love it!!!

defo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I do things like "do that again Big Boy" "Mmmm where did you learn that Tiger" and my fav one "Oooh baby, more more more ...i do love a nice good strong Cuppa"...

S x"

Haha, did you see my tongue planted firmly in my cheek??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I do things like "do that again Big Boy" "Mmmm where did you learn that Tiger" and my fav one "Oooh baby, more more more ...i do love a nice good strong Cuppa"...

S x

Haha, did you see my tongue planted firmly in my cheek??

Of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slut?whore?bitch or wot wud u prefer?xxx

Definitely slut - good/bad/dirty/cum/my/little slut

good girl

Absofuckingslutly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Slut?whore?bitch or wot wud u prefer?xxx

Definitely slut - good/bad/dirty/cum/my/little slut

good girl

Absofuckingslutly

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Do like a posh accented lady asking me to do things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do like a posh accented lady asking me to do things

Do you indeed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have actually been known to get dressed and leave mid play for being spoken to in this way

I hate it, I just feel its putting women back 100 years where men can fuck who they like but 'loose' women get called names

I know some like it but I really think its one of those things that needed to be discussed prior to play"

That's well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind being described by soft names, or called by filthy names, but other way around is a put-off.

Would be totally put off if I was called "soft" names like tiger, but say im a tiger in bed and ill be back for more lol.

My fb used to call me a filthy bastard just before she came.

Im sound totally unconvincing when I try to say anything filthy in bed

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By *ebedeedoodahMan
over a year ago

Greenford

Well I know one lady that would call me a"f'ing C" when I exceeded her expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooooh yes from mr dirty name calling is definitely something I love, makes me sooo wet

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By *lirtyjjWoman
over a year ago

Meath

"Yes i love it when d has a firm grip round my throat. And whispers that ive been a naughty little slut

Mmmmm This i like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was with a woman once who swore worse than a sailor lol. I found it very off putting all the effin,jeffin and worse lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes i love it when d has a firm grip round my throat. And whispers that ive been a naughty little slut

Mmmmm This i like

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this i do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cum for me Lucy you dirty little bitch... Or something like that, yea

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