FabSwingers.com forum: indecent proposal

By *sianmale1 OP Man
over a year ago

great barr

i must be giving off some sort vibe but a few cpls on this site want me to pay em to meet? that's not swinging is it?

latest was 6 bottles of champers....and all ads say no time wasters plz lol

very frustrating and by the way not giving up hope so plz feel sorry for me and meet me

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

If thats happening and they messaging you on here report them

as you say not what swinging about

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

Totally out of order...report them..i mean its got to be vintage not cheap shite

Seriously tho, i would definately report them, its taking advantage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it wasnt meant as a joke id report x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats like the "gangbang/bukake" events being advertised on meet today and also on professional website and escort sites

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

Apart from venue providers like clubs/hotels, I don't think ANYONE should profit from swinging if they are active participants. Sure, split/share expenses but if it's a professional arrangement then that sits outside our comfort zone I'm afraid. Hit that report button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did hit the report button first thing this morning ads are still there though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blimey I thought it was a joke. Hope admin do something about it soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i must be giving off some sort vibe but a few cpls on this site want me to pay em to meet? that's not swinging is it?

latest was 6 bottles of champers....and all ads say no time wasters plz lol

very frustrating and by the way not giving up hope so plz feel sorry for me and meet me

love the G spot pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i must be giving off some sort vibe but a few cpls on this site want me to pay em to meet? that's not swinging is it?

latest was 6 bottles of champers....and all ads say no time wasters plz lol

very frustrating and by the way not giving up hope so plz feel sorry for me and meet me

bugger!! just bought a case of Dom!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats all the fuss about if someone wants to pay let them . report them for this report them for that grow up .yes there are rules , tell me a rule that hasent been broken , im sure theres worse things in life than giving a few quid to a girl for sex . well thats that . if theres a few girls who put there money together for a good time with jimmy im sure he would be thrilled to help out being the kind bloke he is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you like champagne, then go for it...I say! lol x

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By *ertnbeckyCouple
over a year ago

oldham

right from now on we demand a tin of lager n a bag of chees n onion

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Did they specify full, unopened bottles?

Turn up with 6 virtually empty bottles...if they refuse you intercourse, give them the choice of the police or trading standards....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Share a packet of salt n vinegar lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"right from now on we demand a tin of lager n a bag of chees n onion

bldy undercutters TUT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys it appears that it is your own bloody fault, the one I have seen is charging £60 a guy ..... for condoms, if your using that many condoms your just being greedy and deserve what you get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get them free from GUM clinic...could be making a packet! haha x

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By *andL1970Couple
over a year ago

hemel hempstead

Many years ago on another site, we used to get loads of replies from men who had clearly not read the profile and had replied anyway.

We got fed up with it so we used to tell them that they could make up for their unsuitability with money!

You'd be amazed how many replies we got saying they would pay!! I think we should have taken them up on it, would have certainly paid for a few holidays! Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had guys mail and offer to pay to fuck nicky.

Our reply is always Fuck Off.

If any guy is stupid enough to pay for a fuck on here then leave em to it they are obviosly so deperate they will go to any measure to get a fuck which in turn means the people they are fuckin have very low standards as they would be fuckin people who can only get a meet on here if they pay!!!!!

Leave em to it. All these "plastic" swingers and escorts help sort the wheat from the chaff.

Its untrue how many swingers wives you see on escort sites, Someone was pointed out to us the other day and out of curiosity we had a nosey. there are loads. Fair play to em but its not our thing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"whats all the fuss about if someone wants to pay let them . report them for this report them for that grow up .yes there are rules , tell me a rule that hasent been broken , im sure theres worse things in life than giving a few quid to a girl for sex . well thats that . if theres a few girls who put there money together for a good time with jimmy im sure he would be thrilled to help out being the kind bloke he is lol"

What's wrong with it? your joking aren't you or are you just saying that to get noticed?

Well look at it like this. If people get used to paying for sex on here it ceases to become a swinging site, a harder element will be more common, you will find that men will offer money and offend genuine swingers.

How would you feel if the red light district moved to your road, street walkers at the end of your gate.

If people want an escort site there are plenty about rather than using FAB and spoiling it for the rest of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers have a hard enough time because some people don't understand the concept of like minded people doing what they want with each others consent, allow this sort of thing and the site will be full of adverts and profiles of people looking for paid sex or looking to be paid for sex and it will be even harder to find genuine swingers and more people will want to control what we do, where we open clubs and wether we are fit parents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and Admin obviously agree because the advertisements have been removed

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"Guys it appears that it is your own bloody fault, the one I have seen is charging £60 a guy ..... for condoms, if your using that many condoms your just being greedy and deserve what you get

Why is it the "Guys.... own bloody fault"?

The "Guys" are not the ones charging the £60 for condoms as you put it!

So again my question to you Jed is -

Why is it the "Guys.... own bloody fault"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys it appears that it is your own bloody fault, the one I have seen is charging £60 a guy ..... for condoms, if your using that many condoms your just being greedy and deserve what you get

Why is it the "Guys.... own bloody fault"?

The "Guys" are not the ones charging the £60 for condoms as you put it!

So again my question to you Jed is -

Why is it the "Guys.... own bloody fault"?

Very good question.

But how much you betting that some guys will pay it

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"Guys it appears that it is your own bloody fault, the one I have seen is charging £60 a guy ..... for condoms, if your using that many condoms your just being greedy and deserve what you get

Why is it the "Guys.... own bloody fault"?

The "Guys" are not the ones charging the £60 for condoms as you put it!

So again my question to you Jed is -

Why is it the "Guys.... own bloody fault"?

Very good question.

But how much you betting that some guys will pay it

There will always be single males, single females and couples who fall for any scam that's going around, be that here or in vanilla life too!

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By *sianmale1 OP Man
over a year ago

great barr

the profile has dissapeared now anyway, maybe they read the topic.

just think it's a piss take that they thought she was worth 6 bottles lol i mean bringing a bottle to share and cover costs of hotel is fine, obviously thought i was desperate and forgot i was married lol.

i arrenged a party at a hotel for 2 cpls and didn't take a penny off em for the food and drinks even though they offered i just thort to myself they shared there partners its the least i could do.

never payed for sex and am not planning to start now either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 22/09/10 14:39:10]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys it appears that it is your own bloody fault, the one I have seen is charging £60 a guy ..... for condoms, if your using that many condoms your just being greedy and deserve what you get

Why is it the "Guys.... own bloody fault"?

The "Guys" are not the ones charging the £60 for condoms as you put it!

So again my question to you Jed is -

Why is it the "Guys.... own bloody fault"?

Methinks someone seriously needs to download a sense of humour, firstly I was the one who first told about it on this thread, I was the one who reported it as being wrong, I have since been informed by Admin that they have acted upon my report and removed the advertisements, I am not a single male and it doesn't affect me, I felt it was wrong for swinging and a rip off on single guys.

If what I said subsequently with those previous statements and actions could be mistaken for anything but a joke I am really really surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a hotel plus food for the priviledge of goosing another mans woman means you did pay for sex in our book

just our tuppenceworth

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By *sianmale1 OP Man
over a year ago

great barr

was already in hotel due to work and food and drinks is just good manners!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a hotel plus food for the priviledge of goosing another mans woman means you did pay for sex in our book

just our tuppenceworth"

I think thats a bit extreme, did your partner ever buy you a drink when you started dating, did he ever wine and dine you, does he do that now, do you ever travel to meets and put petrol in the car, do you ever go to clubs and pay to get in ? where would you draw the line in classing outlay as paying for sex ?

When we meet we spend money, but when we meet there is never any guarantee that the get together is ever going to end up in sex, we meet socially, make some new friends and if the chemistry is right for everyone we do play, if not who cares.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"where would you draw the line in classing outlay as paying for sex ?"

When sex is the only potential outcome - i.e. a prostitute or swinger that demands payment either in cash or in bills etc.

The difference between your example of dating and so on is that *generally* when dating people want more than just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agreed probably not the best examples, but there are often costs associated with meets, for instance how many of us pay to be members of this site where most of us are hoping to find some mutual playmates for sex.

It's a fine line between paying for sex and incurring costs in the swinging scene and it is up to each of us to decide what they feel comfortable with spending money on.

When we meet we put on a buffet, buy some extra soft and hard drinks, use our best aftershave/perfume, long hot soapy bath with nice body cream massage afterwards but we wouldn't consider any of that "paying for sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the profile has dissapeared now anyway, maybe they read the topic.

They shared their partners???? Waaaaa????? their partners ... they shared ... I can't believe I am reading this

i arrenged a party at a hotel for 2 cpls and didn't take a penny off em for the food and drinks even though they offered i just thort to myself they shared there partners its the least i could do.

never payed for sex and am not planning to start now either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a hotel plus food for the priviledge of goosing another mans woman means you did pay for sex in our book

just our tuppenceworth"

What a load of rubbish!

I agree totally with what Jed said.

A guy we invited to ours of here gave me a bottle of wine when he arrived,does that mean he was paying me for sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the profile has dissapeared now anyway, maybe they read the topic.

They shared their partners???? Waaaaa????? their partners ... they shared ... I can't believe I am reading this

i arrenged a party at a hotel for 2 cpls and didn't take a penny off em for the food and drinks even though they offered i just thort to myself they shared there partners its the least i could do.

never payed for sex and am not planning to start now either.

They shared their partners???? Waaaaa????? their partners ... they shared ... I can't believe I am reading this

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By *sianmale1 OP Man
over a year ago

great barr

^^^what ever you call it then, seriously no need to over react.

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

A couple we used to know (lost touch now) were on cam with a prospective male playmate. At some point he asked if they would ... (insert whatever, not important) and they replied with just as a quip “Puh, that’ll cost you” to which he said, “I don’t mind paying”. They thought about it for a few minutes and thought ‘sod it, why not’. Making use of PayPal the transaction was made and they provided. What they provided was a fairly standard sex act between the two of them while the guy watched on the cam.

Pay a couple to make love to each other while someone watches... wheel in the mugs, wheel in the cash

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"Guys it appears that it is your own bloody fault, the one I have seen is charging £60 a guy ..... for condoms, if your using that many condoms your just being greedy and deserve what you get

Why is it the "Guys.... own bloody fault"?

The "Guys" are not the ones charging the £60 for condoms as you put it!

So again my question to you Jed is -

Why is it the "Guys.... own bloody fault"?

If what I said subsequently with those previous statements and actions could be mistaken for anything but a joke I am really really surprised. "

Methinks I already have a sense of humour, just didn't realise you had one too, seeing as your posts are always so serious and are always giving people your own take on what you think swinging is all about!

Pat on the back for you too for reporting it to Admin in the first place but when you put an post like you did, that I answered, then I bet there was a lot more than myself that didn't see the humour in it!

Never mind though, you will no doubt come back with another explanation that I will read in between watching paint dry again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what I won't be doing is leaving the forums because you think people shouldn't have an opinion on things.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"what I won't be doing is leaving the forums because you think people shouldn't have an opinion on things."

Where about did I say you should leave the forums?

It may surprise you though that others will have differing opinions to yours and yours are not always the way things should be done!

You are entitled to have your opinion, I am entitled to have mine and others are entitled to have theirs too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and are always giving people your own take on what you think swinging is all about!"

Which obviously means you don't think I should have an opinion on the forums.

I always put "my personal opinion" because that's what it is, that's what forums are for, discussing personal opinions, you have them, I have them everyone has them, the day everyone agrees with me is the day I will find the forums boring and I will leave.

Debate, discussion, yes I love it abuse and nasty little comments that people like you use I just find boring they say a lot more about you than they do about me, so run along and watch your paint dry I hope you have great fun doing it.

And that is all I have to say about that (Forrest Gump circa 1990s)

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

""and are always giving people your own take on what you think swinging is all about!"

Which obviously means you don't think I should have an opinion on the forums.

And that is all I have to say about that (Forrest Gump circa 1990s)

"nasty little comments that people like you use"

I have made no such remarks about you and if you were able to look at another thread on the forums I actually defended you tonight from someone who did make "nasty little comments" directly about you! Thankfully there was a Mod available who removed the posts from the thread.

Yes you are "always giving people your own take on what you think swinging is all about". I may not agree with most of your views on swinging but that doesn't mean you are not entitled to hold them, I never said anything like that! As usual people read what they want to read in a post and not what is actually written.

Putting yourself up as a "victim" of NON-EXISTENT "nasty little comments" from me isn't big or clever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally ithink that if things upset or offend u dont reply to them,champers or whatever its what an individual values it at-again personally i think all the women on this forum are fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone buy me a pair of gucci heels

and id sell myself

(joke)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agreed brummie lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"agreed brummie lol"

Yay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself.

A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough

without ever having felt sorry for itself

D H Lawrence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i llike that from d h lawrence very apt jedandsasha and what size gucci heels brummie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be happy if one of the guys i met out dogging brought a condom, a tissue, and a flask of hot chocolate to warm me up after the bonnet bender lmao

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