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define what a time waster is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok lots of talk about timewasters.

Next to cock size and sycophantic love in threads, this is probably the next most talked about subject.

But what do you actually mean when you say someone is a timewaster?

For example, we chat regularly to people on here who we are never going to meet, but we chat about stuff and pass time of day with them.

We just being friendly.

But in some people's eyes we are time wasters.

Our personal definition is someone who fails to show for a meet then goes unlos.

But we all different.

Thoughts please.

Friendly if possible

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

For us its people who make arrangements to meet up with us and then make poor excuses to drop out at the last minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, I would class them as wasting my time if when we met, their photo's really did not reflect their age or shape. If they didn't turn up at the meeting place.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

Mine is

A someone who doesn't show up

B someone who replies to my meet today offering a meet three weeks next Tuesday

C people who attempt to get me to change what my requirements are to suit themselves

That's all ??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd agree with you our time would only be wasted if we turned up to meet and the other person didn't, it hasn't happened yet (touch wood).

We enjoy chatting and don't see it as a waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it's someone who doesn't turn up, and doesn't let you know, that's it.

I think the term is over and miss used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok lots of talk about timewasters.

Next to cock size and sycophantic love in threads, this is probably the next most talked about subject.

But what do you actually mean when you say someone is a timewaster?

For example, we chat regularly to people on here who we are never going to meet, but we chat about stuff and pass time of day with them.

We just being friendly.

But in some people's eyes we are time wasters.

Our personal definition is someone who fails to show for a meet then goes unlos.

But we all different.

Thoughts please.

Friendly if possible "

In my personal opinion most people who arrange to meet them don't I'd call time wasters.

In my case finding anyone to meet first is wasting enough time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is

A someone who doesn't show up

B someone who replies to my meet today offering a meet three weeks next Tuesday

C people who attempt to get me to change what my requirements are to suit themselves

That's all ??"

Think that pretty much sums up my idea of a timewaster. Also people who look nothing like their profile photos.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"To me it's someone who doesn't turn up, and doesn't let you know, that's it.

I think the term is over and miss used."

I'd say this too or cancels minutes before.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The person who wastes the most of my time is me.

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By *iwife81Couple
over a year ago

Bolton

The people I call time wasters include the fake profiles, I don't mind chatting with people on here as long as all parties know there isn't a meet intended.

Being relatively new, we still struggle to spot all the fakers x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"To me it's someone who doesn't turn up, and doesn't let you know, that's it.

I think the term is over and miss used."

This

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

And what's with the silent treatment once you pointed out the error of their ways?

A simple

I've changed my mind would suffice

Then there's all the mindnumbing excuses as to why they don't arrive

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"To me it's someone who doesn't turn up, and doesn't let you know, that's it.

I think the term is over and miss used."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not turning up after waffling abt how much they want to do! grrrr "user no longer on site"

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

A time waster in my world is anyone who makes a firm time & date to meet and doesn't turn up...... Luckily it hasn't happened to me yet

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We don't consider anyone we have encountered on Fab to be timewasters - our time just isn't a that precious.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

People who don't turn up for a meet, or those that arrange one then don't reply to confirmation messages on the day.

And the fake profile idiots, what do they really get out of it? Bizarre behaviour.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Ok lots of talk about timewasters.

Next to cock size and sycophantic love in threads, this is probably the next most talked about subject.

But what do you actually mean when you say someone is a timewaster?

For example, we chat regularly to people on here who we are never going to meet, but we chat about stuff and pass time of day with them.

We just being friendly.

But in some people's eyes we are time wasters.

Our personal definition is someone who fails to show for a meet then goes unlos.

But we all different.

Thoughts please.

Friendly if possible "

Erm....for me it was continuous chat but when the time came to meet up-she declined as she was busy with work and would not be free to meet. So arranged to meet the next day-same story the next day...busy with work yadda yadda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who lies consistently and repeatedly. Gets found out, and continues. Don't waste my time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been stood up 3 times. Iv stopped arranging to meet as a result, my free time is limited, so spending it getting ready and going to meet, only to find myself sat alone like an idiot, is my time wasted! all 3 id spoken to that day, 2 just blocked me minutes before, 1 went unlos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet in clubs now. I've encountered a few who have said 'yes I will be at which ever club on whatever date/time' and have failed to show. To tell you the truth it doesn't bother me now and a few times I have totally forgotten about then until I check my messages later and they have said 'sorry couldn't come my cat died or some other excuse' Time wasters? Nah just fuckin stupid cos I'd never agree to meet them again.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I only meet in clubs now. I've encountered a few who have said 'yes I will be at which ever club on whatever date/time' and have failed to show. To tell you the truth it doesn't bother me now and a few times I have totally forgotten about then until I check my messages later and they have said 'sorry couldn't come my cat died or some other excuse' Time wasters? Nah just fuckin stupid cos I'd never agree to meet them again. "

We really did have someone cancel because their cat died

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We firmly believe that people can have genuine reasons to cancel and maybe we just gullible.

Especially if it is a couple with kid's. Things can pop up last minute like sick children or babysitting issues.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"The people I call time wasters include the fake profiles, I don't mind chatting with people on here as long as all parties know there isn't a meet intended.

Being relatively new, we still struggle to spot all the fakers x"

These are the biggest time wasters!

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I was called a timewaster for not replying to a silhouette man with no pics and a rubbish profile. When I asked him why I should reply he came out with crap about taking his pic off as he was hardly ever on here.. So surely that makes him a timewaster not me?

I think if I was to reply to someone with no intention to ever meet then that would make me a timewaster.. Unless I made it clear it was just for the chat

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells


"I only meet in clubs now. I've encountered a few who have said 'yes I will be at which ever club on whatever date/time' and have failed to show. To tell you the truth it doesn't bother me now and a few times I have totally forgotten about then until I check my messages later and they have said 'sorry couldn't come my cat died or some other excuse' Time wasters? Nah just fuckin stupid cos I'd never agree to meet them again. "

I'm getting like that again

I was Like that the firsts time I was on Fab

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Someone who lies consistently and repeatedly. Gets found out, and continues. Don't waste my time! "

This is what usually waste my time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone who lies consistently and repeatedly. Gets found out, and continues. Don't waste my time!

This is what usually waste my time... "

I don't see the point - especially on Fab. If they can't be honest on here, then what the hell are they like in "real" life?!

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

For someone who really enjoys 3sums my pet hate timewasters are the couples where you never hear from the lady partner. Takes a while to work out that its just a male getting off on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soooo frustrating to hear that there are so many people out there that don't turn up! Ruins it for those of us trying to meet someone for fun times!!

For me a time waster is someone who persistently loses watches......sorry was that very poor??

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"For me, I would class them as wasting my time if when we met, their photo's really did not reflect their age or shape. If they didn't turn up at the meeting place."

Give them a warning beforehand, 'If you turn up and look nothing like your photo's you will be buying my drinks until you do'.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, I would class them as wasting my time if when we met, their photo's really did not reflect their age or shape. If they didn't turn up at the meeting place.

Give them a warning beforehand, 'If you turn up and look nothing like your photo's you will be buying my drinks until you do'.lol"

Hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me it's someone who doesn't turn up, and doesn't let you know, that's it.

I think the term is over and miss used."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, I would class them as wasting my time if when we met, their photo's really did not reflect their age or shape. If they didn't turn up at the meeting place.

Give them a warning beforehand, 'If you turn up and look nothing like your photo's you will be buying my drinks until you do'.lol"

I like your way of thinking...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me a time waster is someone who has no intentions of meeting but chat to you as if they do, even arrange a meet knowing they won't turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time waster to me is anyone who lies to me to get what they want and takes up my time doing this.

I come on here primarily to make contact with people i've already met as well as people i'm interested in meeting some time in the near future. Anyone pretending they have the same intention is easy enough to catch out, but even if they waste 30 seconds of my time they have wasted it.

People who waste their own time are those who don't bother having pics for me to view, those who don't read my profile, or only contact me every blue moon when they are free and i'm not. Funnily enough it is often these same people who complain about others on here being time wasters on their status or profile when they are the ones wasting their own time.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Be careful not to brand people with genuine excuse as time waster.e.g when a baby sitter fail to turn up. Or woman period started prior to meet up.also unforseen circumstances.yes there are habitual time waster on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The biggest time waster is playing candy crush and another bloody addictive games on your phone when you're meant to be doing other things.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

If I'm going to waist my own time on here why shouldn't I waist other peoples at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd agree with you our time would only be wasted if we turned up to meet and the other person didn't, it hasn't happened yet (touch wood).

"

this is my definition of a time waster

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