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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you always verify someone you meet?

If not, why?

(For me, I always verify both for cams or meets.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i don't.

I do verify guys who verify me, even if they don't ask, because i presume verifications are important to them. Otherwise i don't bother, they didn't make verification important so i leave it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ever seen a negative one? Is there such thing? ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you always verify someone you meet?

If not, why?

(For me, I always verify both for cams or meets.)"

not always no

if someone asked me not to i dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meets - always

Cams - only when they ask me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You ever seen a negative one? Is there such thing? ?"

I've sent a negative one months ago. The guy has just made a new profile and contacted me, had to report him for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as I don't wish other to know everything I do here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No i don't.

I do verify guys who verify me, even if they don't ask, because i presume verifications are important to them. Otherwise i don't bother, they didn't make verification important so i leave it."

Always verify single guys or girls and new couples

You can tell the verification collectors and verify them as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are who they say they are and have turned up as arranged we do...We don't tend to repeat verify...no need is there?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you always verify someone you meet?

If not, why?

(For me, I always verify both for cams or meets.)

not always no

if someone asked me not to i dont "

Agreed, if someone asked me not to I wouldn't.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I verify people I meet for the first time, and am verified by them, but I generally only expect a verification for the first meet, not subsequent ones.

Subsequent recent meets with friends I have made here therefore remain unverified as there is no need for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think it's rude not to verify, I don't think verifications need to be graphic detail but a polite verification saying met, punctual, etc should be sent when first meet someone, I don't think there's a need to repeat verify people meet more than once though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no not everyone likes em and im not bothered keeps nosey parkers guessing

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I usually ask if they want me to as its more important to some than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I'm really not bothered about verifications so I tend to only give them to people if they have taken the time to write one for me

They tend to cause more issues than they should really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally ask the question do you like / do veri's and if they do I'll verify.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I've had a couple of meets I haven't verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always meet people but i never ask for veri's as it just doesn't come in to my head when chatting

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I ask if they want one and if they do then I write one. I'm not really fussed about receiving them myself but on the odd occasion someone has written me one first I will always reciprocate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're fairly new on the site or a single male (rare for me) then I verify as I think it helps other see that they're decent, real or whatever you want to call it.

I think it's nice to verify the first time you meet someone - more in a way of a thanks than anything else.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

no i dont verify unless they specifically ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I verify if I'm asked to,they don't have to verify me back-which they usually don't when told-and I don't ask for verifications. I might get some more recent ones as mine are from a while ago now. It makes me smile when people think that because you don't have lots of verifications you haven't had a lot of sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problems come with verifications when people write things such as she gave me the best bj ever,or he was my best fuck etc. People feel hurt about stuff like that. Luckily I'm not one of those people

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I usually ask if they would like a verification, if not I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You ever seen a negative one? Is there such thing? ?

I've sent a negative one months ago. The guy has just made a new profile and contacted me, had to report him for that.

Why negative? was he psycho?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You ever seen a negative one? Is there such thing? ?

I've sent a negative one months ago. The guy has just made a new profile and contacted me, had to report him for that.

Why negative? was he psycho?.

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He doesn't understand the concept of other people having boundaries, and i put something like that as his veri.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Do you always verify someone you meet?

If not, why?

(For me, I always verify both for cams or meets.)"

I verify everyone I like, if it's a bad meet I would normally not.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Unless someone asks us not too we will generally always verify those we have met in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always.

I used to but stopped after i verified some and got none in return. Or even as much as an acknowlegement. If someone asks now i will and it now doesn't bother me whether they do one for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not fussed about veris. I'm genuine. Anybody that gets to know me and speaks will know that.

If they leave me a veri, then i'd leave one back or if they request me to do a veri for them, then i will.

Other than that. Doesn't matter to me. Still comes down to the person whether they are 'genuine' or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Guess it depends on how much I talk to a person. Ifs it's every day for instance, I wouldn't leave a veri after each chat..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if they haven't got one and they are nice

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By *r and mrs willingCouple
over a year ago

SOUTH WEST & WALES


"I generally ask the question do you like / do veri's and if they do I'll verify."

Same here. I don't particularly like giving or receiving veris but recognise that they are pretty much de rigeur on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally ask the question do you like / do veri's and if they do I'll verify.

Same here. I don't particularly like giving or receiving veris but recognise that they are pretty much de rigeur on Fab. "

Hehehe I liked my verification from you

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By *lirtyjjWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I generally tend to give verifications if i have enjoyed myself and on the rare occasion if im asked to. I give my opinion in the verification and try to make it personal to that person. if they don't like it they don't have to show it. I have had people in the past ask me to write specific things in their veris but that i won't do.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

I always verify if it is a new meet and then it is up to them if they want to show it or not. If we are having a repeat meet with someone we dont bother unless asked to as we have verified them before

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Cams - if they asked me to.

Meets - i will ask them if they want to as some don't want to be verified by a CD.

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I have to respect their need for privacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no not everyone likes em and im not bothered keeps nosey parkers guessing "
your so right saying this... I had a woman reading ours and mailing saying she new us and all sorts so now I will not show a lot.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Some couples I've met just aren't into verifying, which is fine, as we still enjoy the meets, just don't let anyone else know about them...it works fine.

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