FabSwingers.com forum: Too many verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Everyone wants a veri as a classification of being genuine. But would someone with too many veris put you off?

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Really again???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really again???

There's been a lot of this lately hasn't there?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope because I got too many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any more than 2 veri's.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can have to many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any more than 2 veri's.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone wants a veri as a classification of being genuine. But would someone with too many veris put you off? "

We only meet virgins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone wants a veri as a classification of being genuine. But would someone with too many veris put you off? "

Are you asking because you're planning on having a lot?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

If anyone thought I had too many they're not my type. So nothing lost there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't meet users with pages of verifications. We're "swingers" we meet socialise make friends, have fun. We don't meet often, we don't want or need to.

Seeing profiles where someone has met 5 or 10 different sexual partners in the last 6 weeks would put us off. I'm not saying it's wrong but to us it's not the kind of swinging we enjoy, quality over quantity.

An no way is my fella putting it in someone who has slept with a different partner a week for the last X amount weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some may have hundreds but choose not to display them, some may have a few but meet lots of people at clubs so for people who don't like to meet others with lots, how do you know someone with very few has displayed them all if the summary is hidden or is a regular club goer meeting many?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"We don't meet users with pages of verifications. We're "swingers" we meet socialise make friends, have fun. We don't meet often, we don't want or need to.

An no way is my fella putting it in someone who has slept with a different partner a week for the last X amount weeks.

That's fair enough if that's how you like to do it, but I am interested to know how you'd know how many people someone had shagged for you to decide whether your partner could put it in?

I've got lots of verifications, I do like to meet often, I also socialise, make friends and have fun and I often have repeat meets where we don't reverify each other...I guess what I'm trying to say is you'll never know for sure if someone had 5 or 10 sexual partners in the last coupla days let alone last few weeks

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

People meeting for sex on a site that enables people to meet for sex? Whatever next!

Like DB9 Queen, my opinion is that anyone who thinks I have too many veris is not the guy for me. Anyway, I don't show all of them, and you'll never know how many I do have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People meeting for sex on a site that enables people to meet for sex? Whatever next!

Like DB9 Queen, my opinion is that anyone who thinks I have too many veris is not the guy for me. Anyway, I don't show all of them, and you'll never know how many I do have.

55 wow! I am impressed. ..

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"People meeting for sex on a site that enables people to meet for sex? Whatever next!

Like DB9 Queen, my opinion is that anyone who thinks I have too many veris is not the guy for me. Anyway, I don't show all of them, and you'll never know how many I do have.

55 wow! I am impressed. .."

And that was just last Friday lunch time, she's a goer is Wyrd

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"People meeting for sex on a site that enables people to meet for sex? Whatever next!

Like DB9 Queen, my opinion is that anyone who thinks I have too many veris is not the guy for me. Anyway, I don't show all of them, and you'll never know how many I do have.

55 wow! I am impressed. ..

And that was just last Friday lunch time, she's a goer is Wyrd

I call that a quiet session.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any more than 2 veri's.....

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are you not listing all 20,000 anymore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's fair enough if that's how you like to do it, but I am interested to know how you'd know how many people someone had shagged for you to decide whether your partner could put it in?

Obviously you can never be 100%, but like I said we are "swingers". So we look to meet well presented married swinging couples.

Meeting a married couple who have been together many years, are chilled an enjoy all sides of swinging is what interests us. We don't dont meet singles on swinging sites who are hear just for sex. EG- a profile with the header ... LOOKING FOR BBC, or BIRTHDAY TREAT LOOKING FOR GANGBANG.

On my birthday I spend it with family enjoying a great day, swinging is great also but we see it differently to some. An there are some great true swinging couples on here. Not just guys trying to get woman fucked by anyone who will or singles out for an easy lay.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

That's fair enough if that's how you like to do it, but I am interested to know how you'd know how many people someone had shagged for you to decide whether your partner could put it in?

Obviously you can never be 100%, but like I said we are "swingers". So we look to meet well presented married swinging couples.

Have you read your own profile lately?

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

That's fair enough if that's how you like to do it, but I am interested to know how you'd know how many people someone had shagged for you to decide whether your partner could put it in?

Obviously you can never be 100%, but like I said we are "swingers". So we look to meet well presented married swinging couples.

Have you read your own profile lately?"

I just did...

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

That's fair enough if that's how you like to do it, but I am interested to know how you'd know how many people someone had shagged for you to decide whether your partner could put it in?

Obviously you can never be 100%, but like I said we are "swingers". So we look to meet well presented married swinging couples.

I've met the occasional well presented, married, swinging couples who've not been too pleased when I've whipped a condom out as the bloke has been about to fuck me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex always minimise any risk

Stay safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know people who ask for them not be left so at the end of the day some people could be easily fooled.

I do like a suggestion on another thread that's going, with a little more info - if they are going to judge at least judge fairly.

"I think verifications need re-classifying,

- webcam

- social

- play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't meet users with pages of verifications. We're "swingers" we meet socialise make friends, have fun. We don't meet often, we don't want or need to.

An no way is my fella putting it in someone who has slept with a different partner a week for the last X amount weeks.

Have you actually met anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's fair enough if that's how you like to do it, but I am interested to know how you'd know how many people someone had shagged for you to decide whether your partner could put it in?

Obviously you can never be 100%, but like I said we are "swingers". So we look to meet well presented married swinging couples.

I've met the occasional well presented, married, swinging couples who've not been too pleased when I've whipped a condom out as the bloke has been about to fuck me

Did you have one stuck up there from previously?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The number of veris is not one of my selection criteria, afterall, one can get quit a few in one night at a club or social so as a measure, it's quite a blunt and simplistic tool.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Everyone wants a veri as a classification of being genuine. But would someone with too many veris put you off? "

Anyone with NO verifications puts me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide them. I'm very picky and, as a result, not that prolific, but who, and how many women I see is my business, if someone doesn't want to meet me without getting other people's opinions, I dont want to meet them. I've said on so many of these threads, the only reason I would be put off with 100's of verifications, is that it indicates we are not looking for the same thing, no judgement, just my personal requirements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone wants a veri as a classification of being genuine. But would someone with too many veris put you off?

Anyone with NO verifications puts me off"

We all had no verifications to begin with. I've met some lovely newbies, some of whom are still friends, just my opinion of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats with people living up to other peoples expectations...

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Everyone wants a veri as a classification of being genuine. But would someone with too many veris put you off?

Anyone with NO verifications puts me off

We all had no verifications to begin with. I've met some lovely newbies, some of whom are still friends, just my opinion of course "

To begin with, 1 or 2 weeks, yes. But 3 months later???

Just my opinion, ofcourse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone wants a veri as a classification of being genuine. But would someone with too many veris put you off?

Anyone with NO verifications puts me off

We all had no verifications to begin with. I've met some lovely newbies, some of whom are still friends, just my opinion of course

To begin with, 1 or 2 weeks, yes. But 3 months later???

Just my opinion, ofcourse"

That was quick I wasnt expecting that......

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

That's fair enough if that's how you like to do it, but I am interested to know how you'd know how many people someone had shagged for you to decide whether your partner could put it in?

Obviously you can never be 100%, but like I said we are "swingers". So we look to meet well presented married swinging couples.

I've met the occasional well presented, married, swinging couples who've not been too pleased when I've whipped a condom out as the bloke has been about to fuck me

Did you have one stuck up there from previously?

I have a permanent one inserted made of rigid latex...I'm double safe then when I make my meets bag up too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone with NO verifications puts me off"

We have zero "verifications" the idea is to put everyone off lol. We contact you if we like you. If you don't like us that's fine an goodbye.

We are niether needy or desperate, it will always be our way or goodbye.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Anyone with NO verifications puts me off

We have zero "verifications" the idea is to put everyone off lol. We contact you if we like you. If you don't like us that's fine an goodbye.

We are niether needy or desperate, it will always be our way or goodbye. "

Good for you

Never met you, didn't know you existed and goodbye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely get verifications from people I play with at clubs...so number of veris is not indicative of anything really and not a tool to express judgement on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rarely get verifications from people I play with at clubs...so number of veris is not indicative of anything really and not a tool to express judgement on"
That's right and as well met one last year and they didn't verify, not everyone does it.

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I don't think you can have too many per se. Too many off one person/couple may be a problem...it's a verification thing after all, not a blog. But looking at the rate and dates of the verification can give you an insight.

I saw a profile today with only one verification from 2008 on it. What good's that?

10 in a day...obviously popular at a club / party / social.

2 or 3 per month on a regular basis, shows some reliability and regularity in the scene.

Only 1 or 2, more or less on the day of joining FAB, could be a sign of a false or "manufactured" profile with the intention of creating false veri's for it's creators (or am I being cynical?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't meet users with pages of verifications. We're "swingers" we meet socialise make friends, have fun. We don't meet often, we don't want or need to.

An no way is my fella putting it in someone who has slept with a different partner a week for the last X amount weeks.

That's fair enough if that's how you like to do it, but I am interested to know how you'd know how many people someone had shagged for you to decide whether your partner could put it in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just hidden all my veris and the summary. Now nobody will know who i've fucked and how many.

Don't really care about others veris either, i think so long as they've had one meet that should be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just hidden all my veris and the summary. Now nobody will know who i've fucked and how many.

Don't really care about others veris either, i think so long as they've had one meet that should be fine."

To be honest, If I like someone, I don't want to know where they've been either, it's just 'us' for the time were together., and I'll form my own opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everyone wants a veri as a classification of being genuine. But would someone with too many veris put you off?

Are you asking because you're planning on having a lot?"

Unlike other men on this site. I'm not having sex and don't have the entitled ego. Would be happy with one regular woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everyone wants a veri as a classification of being genuine. But would someone with too many veris put you off?

Anyone with NO verifications puts me off

We all had no verifications to begin with. I've met some lovely newbies, some of whom are still friends, just my opinion of course

To begin with, 1 or 2 weeks, yes. But 3 months later???

Just my opinion, ofcourse"

There's no veris on my profile because I haven't met anyone. Not hiding anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any more than 2 veri's.....

A lot of mine are social. The rest people I really enjoyed fucking. Any more than 2 is sickening? Whatever. It's a swinging site. Not the WRI!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is a newish profile but we are not new. we haven't asked others we met before to reverify us and have just stuck to getting new veries.

However we have met more people than our veries suggest and about half our veries are social ones currently.

We mostly meet at clubs... So no way does our verification list match how many we have met

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Some may have hundreds but choose not to display them, some may have a few but meet lots of people at clubs so for people who don't like to meet others with lots, how do you know someone with very few has displayed them all if the summary is hidden or is a regular club goer meeting many? "

This ^^^^

So, no lots of verifications does not put us off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can hide them but it will still say how many you meet

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Me and Kim don't get veri's from every meet only the ones kind enough to do so, it don't bother us if we get them or not because anyone who knows us will know we are genuine and thats all we want.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"You can hide them but it will still say how many you meet

Only if you choose to show the summary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can hide them but it will still say how many you meet

Only if you choose to show the summary.

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yes so u mean the how many u meet on left side disapears?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just hidden all my veris and the summary. Now nobody will know who i've fucked and how many.

Don't really care about others veris either, i think so long as they've had one meet that should be fine.

To be honest, If I like someone, I don't want to know where they've been either, it's just 'us' for the time were together., and I'll form my own opinion. "

Yeah true. Just because one person is infatuated, gets along with, or likes someone sexual techniques doesn't mean everyone else will.

I've actually met a fair few guys who weren't verified at all and it's always gone well, so i take back my 'so long as they've had one meet' too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can hide them but it will still say how many you meet

Only if you choose to show the summary.

yes so u mean the how many u meet on left side disapears?."

Mines gone Shag, yeah it disappears. I had 37 meets up, and some cam veries, now you can't see them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any more than 2 veri's.....

A lot of mine are social. The rest people I really enjoyed fucking. Any more than 2 is sickening? Whatever. It's a swinging site. Not the WRI!!!

Get a sense of humour. It was sarcasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone wants a veri as a classification of being genuine. But would someone with too many veris put you off? "

Not really, I don't care if someone has none or a thousand, if I want to meet them I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i think some people on here wear there veries as badges of honors..and i do agree i think you can have too many..and the versification system need to be re-classified..as one other poster suggested

Only my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications validate me as a human being

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Everyone wants a veri as a classification of being genuine. But would someone with too many veris put you off?

Anyone with NO verifications puts me off

We all had no verifications to begin with. I've met some lovely newbies, some of whom are still friends, just my opinion of course

To begin with, 1 or 2 weeks, yes. But 3 months later???

Just my opinion, ofcourse

There's no veris on my profile because I haven't met anyone. Not hiding anything. "

Guys have nothing to hide. There aren't very many women on this site pretending to be blokes

But the number of 'couples' who are actually sad little men only is quite large; that or they mostly write to me. The excuses why the 'wife' can't appear on Skype are endless

I never arrange a meeting with a 'couple' unless they have verifications from 3 or 4 different people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can hide them but it will still say how many you meet

Only if you choose to show the summary.

yes so u mean the how many u meet on left side disapears?.

Mines gone Shag, yeah it disappears. I had 37 meets up, and some cam veries, now you can't see them."
Yes just looked and your right they are gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends what they are. I have two but the other three are on cam. I think it's okay to keep the good ones xx

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

"Everyone wants a veri as a classification of being genuine. But would someone with too many veris put you off? "

No, not at all. Verifications are about meets and not always sexual partners.

We visit clubs and parties quite often so we meet lots of people. Just because you are verified by someone, doesn't mean you've had sex with them.

I think from our last club visit we had 4 or 5 verifications, but neither of us had sex on that occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't give a flying fig what anyone thinks

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Any more than 2 veri's.....

Oi! Not fair

I only have 2 and both are from you...

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