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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Each to their own but why do people insist on putting on their profiles that they want to meet people regardless of age and looks so long as they are fun and a good laugh. Were not Brad and Angelina but were not exactly Shrek and Princess Fiona. The scene certainly has changed over the last ten years. Just seems a lot of people just want to collect friends and pictures. Getting to the stage where we might take a long break. Bothers me that i expect other sites are exactly the same,where have the genuine swingers gone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure i get what you're point is? Are you saying people should care about looks and age rather than personality?

We tend to go by looks, but from what i've read others don't. We're all different

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes I agree with the above, I don't understand what your point is.

Is it that people won't meet you based on certain criteria which didn't prevent you getting meets before?

If you take a long break do you feel things will have changed when you return?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My point is why do people say looks and size are not important and a good sense of humour and being able to hold a semi intelligent conversation is. Nobody reads profiles. You get bombarded with friends requests and winks from people in Scotland. Yes i am going to drive 700 miles in an evening lol. Just seems there are so many time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My point is why do people say looks and size are not important and a good sense of humour and being able to hold a semi intelligent conversation is. Nobody reads profiles. You get bombarded with friends requests and winks from people in Scotland. Yes i am going to drive 700 miles in an evening lol. Just seems there are so many time wasters. "

people often lie on here about all sorts of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My point is why do people say looks and size are not important and a good sense of humour and being able to hold a semi intelligent conversation is. Nobody reads profiles. You get bombarded with friends requests and winks from people in Scotland. Yes i am going to drive 700 miles in an evening lol. Just seems there are so many time wasters. "

To some people looks and size are not important, to others it is.

I agree about the friend requests etc from people miles away, but some people just like to chat I suppose. Everyone uses the site in a way that suits them, and that's ok, there's no right and wrong way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My point is why do people say looks and size are not important and a good sense of humour and being able to hold a semi intelligent conversation is. Nobody reads profiles. You get bombarded with friends requests and winks from people in Scotland. Yes i am going to drive 700 miles in an evening lol. Just seems there are so many time wasters. "

I still don't get your point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well i don't see how i can make it any clearer. Were fed up with time wasters and liars and people who don't write truthful profiles.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I don't think people from Scotland winking at you is lying.....it's just people from Scotland winking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a metaphor in a way ..they are not saying literally they don't care what people look like they are saying its not the be all and end all ...if we took everyone's profile to a literal point we wouldn't meet anyone..

Why on earth would you want to meet someone who doesn't care what you look like???

"It's alright love I've got paper bags"!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My point is why do people say looks and size are not important and a good sense of humour and being able to hold a semi intelligent conversation is. Nobody reads profiles. You get bombarded with friends requests and winks from people in Scotland. Yes i am going to drive 700 miles in an evening lol. Just seems there are so many time wasters. "

I see. We get lots of friends requests from all over including USA and don't really understand why people say looks and size aren't important. All I would say is that these people can only waste your time if you allow them to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My point is why do people say looks and size are not important and a good sense of humour and being able to hold a semi intelligent conversation is. Nobody reads profiles. You get bombarded with friends requests and winks from people in Scotland. Yes i am going to drive 700 miles in an evening lol. Just seems there are so many time wasters. "

It's just a phrase people use to demonstrate that they're relatively open minded but when it comes down to it, what they don't mean is that they'll just fuck anyone, they still have to find someone attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you don't need to be attracted to someone as its casual sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyway OP..fancy a shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i don't see how i can make it any clearer. Were fed up with time wasters and liars and people who don't write truthful profiles."

Use your filters more effectively.its not difficult.

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By *ona29Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

in every dating or fuck website there are liars, most people on fabs are looking for sex with no attachment.

for me I don't care if they lie or not im not looking for relationship or drama only nice guys who can pleasure fuck me really good than goodbye see you that is all. lol than it is next.

life is to short enjoy have fun if you find somebody who is honest that is great cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No you don't need to be attracted to someone as its casual sex "

Of course you need to be attracted to someone. Doesn't matter if its casual sex or a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own but why do people insist on putting on their profiles that they want to meet people regardless of age and looks so long as they are fun and a good laugh. Were not Brad and Angelina but were not exactly Shrek and Princess Fiona. The scene certainly has changed over the last ten years. Just seems a lot of people just want to collect friends and pictures. Getting to the stage where we might take a long break. Bothers me that i expect other sites are exactly the same,where have the genuine swingers gone?"

Would you really meet someone regardless of looks? .... I need to find them attractive personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No you don't need to be attracted to someone as its casual sex

Of course you need to be attracted to someone. Doesn't matter if its casual sex or a relationship"
WEll I have had sex with all kinds so it works for me lol.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Don't really understand why someone wanting to be your friend in Scotland should make them a time waster. I know time is precious - but surely it isn't that precious. And where does the lying come in? Sorry if we seem a bit dim, but we really don't get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look to see that we are comfortable with the other people before looks get considered.

We rather meet an ordinary fun couple who we can enjoy a laugh with than arrogant gym bodied posers who thinks we should be grateful they have condescended to meet us.

But then, we are incredibly ugly!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

On the flip of the coin ... Someone could be drop dead gorgeous... But may have the brain cells of a slug and personality of a wooden plank!

Spose for some( us included) it's good to be not only attracted to others physically, but mentally too? It very possible to find and we all look for our own individual things... Don't make people liars Just different is all? ps plus others attractivness will vary from person to person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We look to see that we are comfortable with the other people before looks get considered.

We rather meet an ordinary fun couple who we can enjoy a laugh with than arrogant gym bodied posers who thinks we should be grateful they have condescended to meet us.

But then, we are incredibly ugly! "

Ordinary fun couples can be attractive too lol. I find all sorts of people attractive, but an attraction does have to be there for me before I play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" On the flip of the coin ... Someone could be drop dead gorgeous... But may have the brain cells of a slug and personality of a wooden plank!

Spose for some( us included) it's good to be not only attracted to others physically, but mentally too? It very possible to find and we all look for our own individual things... Don't make people liars Just different is all? ps plus others attractivness will vary from person to person? "

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

We are in manchester, why on earth would I want to be friends with someone miles away in Scotland. I am on here for swinging with a max of 30 miles to go for a meet. Waste of time and totally pointless in my book. But on the other hand the North has the edge on swinging so maybe if they are in a remote place in Scotland they might be angling after an invite to the bright lights of swing town.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My point is why do people say looks and size are not important and a good sense of humour and being able to hold a semi intelligent conversation is. Nobody reads profiles. You get bombarded with friends requests and winks from people in Scotland. Yes i am going to drive 700 miles in an evening lol. Just seems there are so many time wasters. "

To many (women particularly) this is a chat site not a swingers site - you will soon learn that - stick to the advertised meets and you will realise there are not too many genuine swingers about really

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"No you don't need to be attracted to someone as its casual sex "

You can have sex with someone you aren't attracted to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have people on my friends list that I may or may not see.

Work might bring me closer to them, or maybe not. Of course I want to meet people, but Inlike to build a rapport with them. That takes time. Every one on my friends list is a beautiful person. Not necessarily a gym bunny, but a beautiful person as a whole package.

I'm a handsome chap, there's no denying it, but not everyone sees that from my face pics. At the end of the day, everyone uses fab their own way. Saying you aren't fussed about looks could just be a kack handed way of saying you can see the beauty in people that others might miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" On the flip of the coin ... Someone could be drop dead gorgeous... But may have the brain cells of a slug and personality of a wooden plank!

"

Oh? So you've met my ex husband then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No you don't need to be attracted to someone as its casual sex

You can have sex with someone you aren't attracted to?"
YEs I can and I find it quite easy and it works fine for me you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No you don't need to be attracted to someone as its casual sex

You can have sex with someone you aren't attracted to?YEs I can and I find it quite easy and it works fine for me you know."

You bribe em with Haribos

Boom!

Job done

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"No you don't need to be attracted to someone as its casual sex

You can have sex with someone you aren't attracted to?YEs I can and I find it quite easy and it works fine for me you know."

Fair do's to you fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No you don't need to be attracted to someone as its casual sex

You can have sex with someone you aren't attracted to?YEs I can and I find it quite easy and it works fine for me you know.

You bribe em with Haribos

Boom!

Job done "
YEs I do lol, the cola bottles mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No you don't need to be attracted to someone as its casual sex

You can have sex with someone you aren't attracted to?YEs I can and I find it quite easy and it works fine for me you know.

Fair do's to you fella. "
Thanks and yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My point is why do people say looks and size are not important and a good sense of humour and being able to hold a semi intelligent conversation is. Nobody reads profiles. You get bombarded with friends requests and winks from people in Scotland. Yes i am going to drive 700 miles in an evening lol. Just seems there are so many time wasters.

It's just a phrase people use to demonstrate that they're relatively open minded but when it comes down to it, what they don't mean is that they'll just fuck anyone, they still have to find someone attractive"

Correct.

I have a 'type' preference which blows my socks off when I see them, but have had some wonderful experiences with ladies I've chatted to on here, then subsequently met, who AREN'T in the category of being my 'type'.

Age looks and size are all irrelevant, within reason, if you connect on a similar level socially.

It's one reason why coffee meets with no promises but a possibility of more if it all works out are such a good idea.

Rich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i don't see how i can make it any clearer. Were fed up with time wasters and liars and people who don't write truthful profiles."

Is this all because someone you fancied meeting didn't want to meet you?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


" On the flip of the coin ... Someone could be drop dead gorgeous... But may have the brain cells of a slug and personality of a wooden plank!

Oh? So you've met my ex husband then? "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the internet 2015

It's all BS hun just smokescreens and mirrors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No you don't need to be attracted to someone as its casual sex "

I agree! I'm not looking for a partner just sex!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No you don't need to be attracted to someone as its casual sex

Of course you need to be attracted to someone. Doesn't matter if its casual sex or a relationship"

No you don't!

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)


"No you don't need to be attracted to someone as its casual sex

Of course you need to be attracted to someone. Doesn't matter if its casual sex or a relationship

No you don't!"

Does help though, fucking a troll is always scary if an eyelid opens mid way through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No you don't need to be attracted to someone as its casual sex

I agree! I'm not looking for a partner just sex!!"

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK

No lies here. Wysiwyg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is diffrent today10-15 years ago people actually wanted to meet for sex

A shock I know to some

You had to spend hours with poor slow internet connection actually chatting to the person you hoped to have sex with before you met items all at slower pace you used to get regular friends to meet

Now it's hello can I see your face naughty pics

Let's meet fuck all in two thee messages notime actually finding out about the person/ persons wants and needs oh and can we do it now I want to watch East enders ust on in half a hour

Oh you can't make it now no face pic

Your a TIMEWASTER

NEXT you have face pic want to fuck now

That's the point she's making if not I am lol

Time waster

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"My point is why do people say looks and size are not important and a good sense of humour and being able to hold a semi intelligent conversation is. Nobody reads profiles. You get bombarded with friends requests and winks from people in Scotland. Yes i am going to drive 700 miles in an evening lol. Just seems there are so many time wasters.

To many (women particularly) this is a chat site not a swingers site - you will soon learn that - stick to the advertised meets and you will realise there are not too many genuine swingers about really"

We have never put up a meet but still met plenty of people I do play around on the forums but I also play around in bedrooms too.....and in parties.....and gardens....hot tubs....clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's how you play the game. I'm not having a problem meeting for sex, I don't engage with time wasters, but I do need to be attracted to someone, both physically and mentally. I want passion, I want kissing, I want to explore every inch of her body with my lips, I want to look into her eyes as she cums. Anything less and I'd rather wank, lot less hassle, and no travelling, If I dont find her attractive, none of that is going to happen. Each to their own, but if you aren't getting what you want, change the way you approach it

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"My point is why do people say looks and size are not important and a good sense of humour and being able to hold a semi intelligent conversation is. Nobody reads profiles. You get bombarded with friends requests and winks from people in Scotland. Yes i am going to drive 700 miles in an evening lol. Just seems there are so many time wasters. "

I semi-wish i got bombarded by wonk and messages.

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