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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gear... Where is the cheapest place to purchase such items?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B&Q....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends what u are after and what quality u want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B&q is perfect )))

Well said

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It depends. We have bought things in Aldi, independent sex shops and Lovehoney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm told Bondera has a good range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"B&Q...."

Other hardware stores are available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm told Bondera has a good range "

I'm sure someone told me that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on what you want, try your kitchen Drawers.

As well as the 'official' toys such as floggers, canes, whips etc; our bag also contains wooden spoons, spatulas, meat tenderisers etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm told Bondera has a good range

I'm sure someone told me that "

Yes, they probably did, bad boy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bdsm selling site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"B&Q...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm told Bondera has a good range

I'm sure someone told me that

Yes, they probably did, bad boy..."

I often wonder what he bought from there?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"B&Q...."

I can't get ball gags there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it comes to bdsm then cheap is not always the best way to go, depending on what it is you want to buy. Hitty things are easy to find and can be very cheap, such as wooden spoons etc. If you are looking for restraints then it is well worth spending a bit more and looking for a good quality Bdsm supplier, if you buy cheap then you will replace quicker. We hope you have lots of fun finding your play toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're looking for a riding crop, ignore all the sex shops and go to an equestrian store. You'll pay a lot less and get a much better product.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made very strong spreader bars from basic B&Q stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're looking for a riding crop, ignore all the sex shops and go to an equestrian store. You'll pay a lot less and get a much better product."

This is very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"B&Q....

I can't get ball gags there "

Ball gags can be brought from ebay

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When it comes to bdsm then cheap is not always the best way to go, depending on what it is you want to buy. Hitty things are easy to find and can be very cheap, such as wooden spoons etc. If you are looking for restraints then it is well worth spending a bit more and looking for a good quality Bdsm supplier, if you buy cheap then you will replace quicker. We hope you have lots of fun finding your play toys "

Cool thanks

P.s is that your legs out in avatar

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"B&Q....

Other hardware stores are available "

They sell duct tape and cable ties, other odd bits and bobs that could be used in the pound shop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

E bay got some nice anal hooks on there ive just looked but can't decide which to order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When it comes to bdsm then cheap is not always the best way to go, depending on what it is you want to buy. Hitty things are easy to find and can be very cheap, such as wooden spoons etc. If you are looking for restraints then it is well worth spending a bit more and looking for a good quality Bdsm supplier, if you buy cheap then you will replace quicker. We hope you have lots of fun finding your play toys

Cool thanks

P.s is that your legs out in avatar "

The legs belong to my better half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"B&Q....

Other hardware stores are available

They sell duct tape and cable ties, other odd bits and bobs that could be used in the pound shop. "

Just a quick not about cable ties. Whilst they are a great play item you MUST make sure you have a decent pair if cutting pliers so you can get them off quickly should you need to.. Safety first

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"When it comes to bdsm then cheap is not always the best way to go, depending on what it is you want to buy. Hitty things are easy to find and can be very cheap, such as wooden spoons etc. If you are looking for restraints then it is well worth spending a bit more and looking for a good quality Bdsm supplier, if you buy cheap then you will replace quicker. We hope you have lots of fun finding your play toys "

Yep... Never go cheap on any equipment...

Was always told to avoid buyers remorse, go that one step better than you planned.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Plus rope is fairly cheap, even for jute...

And to practice with rope can be fun, like learning a new skill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm told Bondera has a good range

I'm sure someone told me that

Yes, they probably did, bad boy...

I often wonder what he bought from there? "

If he's true to his word I'm sure you'll find out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"B&Q....

I can't get ball gags there "

Oh i like the sound of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"B&Q....

I can't get ball gags there

Ball gags can be brought from ebay

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Another bit of advice, if you are not used to ball gags try and buy one that allows you to breath. No breathing is not a good thing!! lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always make your own stuff. . my husband has made loads of stuff for me. . x to use on willing victims x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus rope is fairly cheap, even for jute...

And to practice with rope can be fun, like learning a new skill."

Rope can be brought from Jewson Or Travis Perkins etc. They sell jute etc and its cheap. Also look online for rope suppliers, not bondage rope suppliers though as they charge a fortune.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eBay have full (ish) starter kits for around £30

Nipple clamps, gag, eye mask, restraints and a flogger!!! Does the job!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"eBay have full (ish) starter kits for around £30

Nipple clamps, gag, eye mask, restraints and a flogger!!! Does the job!! "

Oh and a collar and leash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd start with rope. Ebay is your friend. Then some decent and SOFT leather cuffs.

Get a flogger and some other hitty things, a gag that doesn't hurt is a must and some sort of blindfold.

You need to go for softer and thus most likely more expensive stuff as cheap literally is nasty. In my opinion anyways. Chaffing is not fun!

Have fun

Off to peruse kink now.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"B&Q....

I can't get ball gags there

Ball gags can be brought from ebay

Another bit of advice, if you are not used to ball gags try and buy one that allows you to breath. No breathing is not a good thing!! lol x"

Interesting you should say this... I never came across it before...

Until a friend of mine... Who can handle anything except a gag... It's the swallowing of saliva that panics her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm told Bondera has a good range

I'm sure someone told me that

Yes, they probably did, bad boy...

I often wonder what he bought from there?

If he's true to his word I'm sure you'll find out!"

I do hope so...I'm looking forward to finding out

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"I'd start with rope. Ebay is your friend. Then some decent and SOFT leather cuffs.

Get a flogger and some other hitty things, a gag that doesn't hurt is a must and some sort of blindfold.

You need to go for softer and thus most likely more expensive stuff as cheap literally is nasty. In my opinion anyways. Chaffing is not fun!

Have fun

Off to peruse kink now. "

Yep... The padded and piped edges cuffs...

Nothing worse than cuff marks at work on Monday morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"eBay have full (ish) starter kits for around £30

Nipple clamps, gag, eye mask, restraints and a flogger!!! Does the job!!

Oh and a collar and leash "

Yum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"B&Q....

I can't get ball gags there

Ball gags can be brought from ebay

Another bit of advice, if you are not used to ball gags try and buy one that allows you to breath. No breathing is not a good thing!! lol x

Interesting you should say this... I never came across it before...

Until a friend of mine... Who can handle anything except a gag... It's the swallowing of saliva that panics her."

Yeah I know what you are saying, gags aren't everyone cuppa tea but breathable ones are a good place to start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd start with rope. Ebay is your friend. Then some decent and SOFT leather cuffs.

Get a flogger and some other hitty things, a gag that doesn't hurt is a must and some sort of blindfold.

You need to go for softer and thus most likely more expensive stuff as cheap literally is nasty. In my opinion anyways. Chaffing is not fun!

Have fun

Off to peruse kink now.

Yep... The padded and piped edges cuffs...

Nothing worse than cuff marks at work on Monday morning."

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd start with rope. Ebay is your friend. Then some decent and SOFT leather cuffs.

Get a flogger and some other hitty things, a gag that doesn't hurt is a must and some sort of blindfold.

You need to go for softer and thus most likely more expensive stuff as cheap literally is nasty. In my opinion anyways. Chaffing is not fun!

Have fun

Off to peruse kink now.

Yep... The padded and piped edges cuffs...

Nothing worse than cuff marks at work on Monday morning."

Although I quite enjoy other little reminders...

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"I'd start with rope. Ebay is your friend. Then some decent and SOFT leather cuffs.

Get a flogger and some other hitty things, a gag that doesn't hurt is a must and some sort of blindfold.

You need to go for softer and thus most likely more expensive stuff as cheap literally is nasty. In my opinion anyways. Chaffing is not fun!

Have fun

Off to peruse kink now.

Yep... The padded and piped edges cuffs...

Nothing worse than cuff marks at work on Monday morning.

Although I quite enjoy other little reminders... "

I get given hell for this during the week though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're looking for a riding crop, ignore all the sex shops and go to an equestrian store. You'll pay a lot less and get a much better product."

Some even make really good cuffs too

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

you could check out the BBB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you could check out the BBB"

Agreed, the next BBB is March 22nd

X

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've had certain items hand made for me from a specialised site great prices as well!

PM if your interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"B&Q....

Other hardware stores are available

They sell duct tape and cable ties, other odd bits and bobs that could be used in the pound shop. "

Iv already got duct tape

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"B&Q....

I can't get ball gags there

Ball gags can be brought from ebay

Another bit of advice, if you are not used to ball gags try and buy one that allows you to breath. No breathing is not a good thing!! lol x"

Yes I need to breath! I tie was used last night! Ha going to take some getting used to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honour have a good range of reasonably price and quality bondage play items.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd start with rope. Ebay is your friend. Then some decent and SOFT leather cuffs.

Get a flogger and some other hitty things, a gag that doesn't hurt is a must and some sort of blindfold.

You need to go for softer and thus most likely more expensive stuff as cheap literally is nasty. In my opinion anyways. Chaffing is not fun!

Have fun

Off to peruse kink now. "

I have bondage tape

Hand cuffs

Blind fold

A flogger

Duct tape

Cable ties

Want...

Ball gag

Rope (but totally Virgin to rope)

Door jams (any D.I.Y ideas)??

More floggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd start with rope. Ebay is your friend. Then some decent and SOFT leather cuffs.

Get a flogger and some other hitty things, a gag that doesn't hurt is a must and some sort of blindfold.

You need to go for softer and thus most likely more expensive stuff as cheap literally is nasty. In my opinion anyways. Chaffing is not fun!

Have fun

Off to peruse kink now.

I have bondage tape

Hand cuffs

Blind fold

A flogger

Duct tape

Cable ties

Want...

Ball gag

Rope (but totally Virgin to rope)

Door jams (any D.I.Y ideas)??

More floggers "

take a look on google for jack floggers, top quality and will last you years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you could check out the BBB"

Or any other market. Geberally far better quality and far better value than anything you'll find elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any tips for someone who is a novice at the play side of things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any tips for someone who is a novice at the play side of things?"

I've messaged you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"B&Q....

I can't get ball gags there "

you can get a ballcock there though

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"B&Q....

I can't get ball gags there

you can get a ballcock there though "

How big a mouth do the girls you meet actually have??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any tips for someone who is a novice at the play side of things?

I've messaged you "

Thanks lovely x

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I like to play with sensation so things like rakes are good, as are gloves (leather), fire starters can be fun (make sure hair is out of the way), hoods, cling film, vacuum pumps are great too. Though you can have everything and use anything, be mindful how you use things. I once saw a cartoon pic of a woman on a step-ladder with a drill in stilettos, nipple clamps, spread, with ball gag etc, etc with a kitchen sink in the back ground. It's all about the build

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"B&Q....

I can't get ball gags there

you can get a ballcock there though

How big a mouth do the girls you meet actually have?? "

One doesn't like to brag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to play with sensation so things like rakes are good, as are gloves (leather), fire starters can be fun (make sure hair is out of the way), hoods, cling film, vacuum pumps are great too. Though you can have everything and use anything, be mindful how you use things. I once saw a cartoon pic of a woman on a step-ladder with a drill in stilettos, nipple clamps, spread, with ball gag etc, etc with a kitchen sink in the back ground. It's all about the build"

Fire starters!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many house hold items make great BDSM toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to play with sensation so things like rakes are good, as are gloves (leather), fire starters can be fun (make sure hair is out of the way), hoods, cling film, vacuum pumps are great too. Though you can have everything and use anything, be mindful how you use things. I once saw a cartoon pic of a woman on a step-ladder with a drill in stilettos, nipple clamps, spread, with ball gag etc, etc with a kitchen sink in the back ground. It's all about the build

Fire starters!! "

That scared them off!

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