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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you keep your sex life healthy and engaging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our advice would be to try new things together that get you both excited. Communication and honesty about what desires you both have will help. We have had a healthy sex life for 16 years hope this helps in some way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your reply.

We are pretty open and honest with one another about most things so that has never been a problem.

I'm able to see other females by myself but i dont think that would be right at the moment if i'm not 100% happy with our sex life.

Think we've hit a rut at the moment which we've never had to deal with before. But it has left me worried.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

We just watched a load of different types of porn while shagging and did a bit of fancy dress sex xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We just watched a load of different types of porn while shagging and did a bit of fancy dress sex xx"

porn ....sore point, i think i've seen every porn movie that that furry thing has to offer. lol The ol'man does enjoy watching it tho so i cant really moan. It would be like him taking my toys away.

Dressing up is something that we've never done, might give that ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you ever find out please let us know!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you ever find out please let us know!"

Hold on to your seat, you never know someone might have the magic answers.

Well i'm hoping someone has, its not like you can talk to your best mate about it when she thinks having the light on is hardcore. So what better place to ask.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"How do you keep your sex life healthy and engaging?

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In a long relationship you go through peaks and troughs where sex is concerned recognising that is actually healthy as is sometimes allowing yourself to sit back and think about it for a bit. Try a little abstinence, mutual massage no sex, read other people's fantasies and see if anything appeals that sort of thing . If all else fails break out the French maids costume, who wears it is up to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Role play ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you keep your sex life healthy and engaging?

In a long relationship you go through peaks and troughs where sex is concerned recognising that is actually healthy as is sometimes allowing yourself to sit back and think about it for a bit. Try a little abstinence, mutual massage no sex, read other people's fantasies and see if anything appeals that sort of thing . If all else fails break out the French maids costume, who wears it is up to you "

I've thought about abstinence and only kissing and touching, either that or a full on orgy !!

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By *ab53Couple
over a year ago

Newbury

I try keeping our sex life varied, so i buy my wife new toys, lingerie, shoes take her out for meals and my(our) favourite candle lite baths with champagne. Keep talking and tell each other how much you love them ( we are both sixty this year.. keep smiling)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I try keeping our sex life varied, so i buy my wife new toys, lingerie, shoes take her out for meals and my(our) favourite candle lite baths with champagne. Keep talking and tell each other how much you love them ( we are both sixty this year.. keep smiling)"

That sounds very sweet.

I hate shopping, nothing worse, so I'd hate to think what mr tatts would buy me shoe wise.

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By *ab53Couple
over a year ago

Newbury

We also hate shopping so thank heavens for good old ebay and the internet. Over the past 6 years I've purchased approx 55+ pairs of shoe and boots, 6 latex outfits, 12 PVC outfits and god knows how many pieces of lingerie and dresses... life just keeps getting better

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD

We have been together for 19 years and it has been a struggle sometimes to keep things exciting.

We had a night of writing wish lists.....

3 things you would like to happen every day.

3 things you would like to happen once a month.

Things that you would like to try and things that you would like your other half to do for you. ...at the end we compared notes and gave each other a few ideas. Xx

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