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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Allways been an important part of your life? Since I hit puberty, at age 5 lol, I've allways been intrigued and fascinated by women's bodies, just so very very sexy. Even through a long and sexless marriage, (I remaied faithfull...just honed my shuffle technique to a fine art), I was constantly obsessed with sex. When I became my own man again, a friend told me about fab, and I remembered just how good it is to explore each other's bodies and fulfil all those fantasies and suppressed desires, and I haven't looked back. know I'm nothing special, I'm told I'm very passionate, experienced, that I 'just know' I put this down to just adoring sex so much, I made it my mission to learn how to be most effective, anyhow, it's made me realise that sex has allways been a very very significant part of my life. Must point out that I've had a very long and successful career, a lovely family, a beautiful home etc etc, so I'm no sap, just wondering, how big a part of your life is sex, and has it allways been that way.....c'mon guys, make me feel normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hasn't always no, I never had much interest in sex when I was married, it took me a while to learn to enjoy it after marriage, I think the problem was I didn't really know what I wanted or liked so it was trial and error for me, but since I discovered my body and likes I love sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it hasnt...

For me connection trust and intimacy all helps.

At the moment my mojo isn't all there and as much as I'm frisky I'm happy enough going without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sex is not important for me at all plus I dont crave it as much. But yes I have perfectised my wanking style as it givees more pleasure. Also my training in the gym kills my libido as well

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I've not really had many relationships, and they were few and far between. Before I met Mr, I hadn't had sex in 7 years. It is something I could live without, but I really don't want to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always been a very sexual person. To be honest I was never satisfied in any of my previous relationships and always wanted a lot more sex than I admitted to. My friends/boyfriends used to joke that I was a nympho as it was where as I felt I had yet to scratch the surface. I explored many things on my own in private and kind of had a secret life I suppose. I have always been fascinated by anything sexual and by other peoples sex lives. Luckily I have now met my Mr right and can freely express myself with him and explore openly. I would say my sex drive is higher than his but we have such an amazing time together I don't feel like anything is lacking if that makes sense. The psychology of sex also intrigues me. Sorry if too much info. I get carried away at times haha. Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a horny little devil from an early age. Always searching for that 'thing'. Probably lost my virginity way too early, but tended towards relationships, even though they didn't suit me, as it was the done thing. Had kids with a partner and sort of disappeared for ten years or so. Kids grew more independent, decided to be single and I've been exploring ever since. I think it's the connections you make even if it's only for a short time - the physical side is just the awfully nice cherry on top. Still searching for that 'thing'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was having sex before having orgasms and before i knew what masturbating was.

so yeah always been into sex. took off once i started coming. used to travel round the country aged 17 for sex and just to travel. always been with highly sexed guys when younger, then settled down and had kids and took the faithful route, ended up with someone kinky and submissive and had kids with him and don't think i could ever have a vanilla relationship again (and haven't since, my boyfriend after the first kinky one was more kinky and very submissive). i know what i want and i know what i'll put up with, going for what i want.

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By *BW100Couple
over a year ago

Suffolk/Norfolk border

I (Mandy) have always loved sex from an early age, that stopped though when I married the wrong person, he had a very small cock & no sex drive, sex stopped completely after 15 months but I remained faithful for 13 years until I could take no more & left. Ever since I've had as much sex as I could, I now don't know how I survived a sexless marriage.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I (Mandy) have always loved sex from an early age, that stopped though when I married the wrong person, he had a very small cock & no sex drive, sex stopped completely after 15 months but I remained faithful for 13 years until I could take no more & left. Ever since I've had as much sex as I could, I now don't know how I survived a sexless marriage."

That, my love, I totally relate to, (not the small cock part lol). In my case it was porn and masturbation, something I'm not overly proud of, and made me feel degraded to be honest. My friends now, cant believe I managed to stay faithful, especially as the real me has been liberated again. Even though I had a sexless relationship, sex was still constantly on my mind.

Is it different for each individual, those that say they can go without, do you have to have the release of orgasm, or do you just switch it off? Never been able to do that, god knows I've tried. Just curious.

Shag, going to the gym actually drives up my libido. Not sure why, but I'm even more randy when I'm in good shape, how weird is that?

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By *BW100Couple
over a year ago

Suffolk/Norfolk border


"I (Mandy) have always loved sex from an early age, that stopped though when I married the wrong person, he had a very small cock & no sex drive, sex stopped completely after 15 months but I remained faithful for 13 years until I could take no more & left. Ever since I've had as much sex as I could, I now don't know how I survived a sexless marriage.

That, my love, I totally relate to, (not the small cock part lol). In my case it was porn and masturbation, something I'm not overly proud of, and made me feel degraded to be honest. My friends now, cant believe I managed to stay faithful, especially as the real me has been liberated again. Even though I had a sexless relationship, sex was still constantly on my mind.

Is it different for each individual, those that say they can go without, do you have to have the release of orgasm, or do you just switch it off? Never been able to do that, god knows I've tried. Just curious.

Shag, going to the gym actually drives up my libido. Not sure why, but I'm even more randy when I'm in good shape, how weird is that? "

I actually found the best thing for me was to just shut down that part of my life, no orgasm no nothing in all that time because I find the more I have the more I want, it was all about self preservation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (Mandy) have always loved sex from an early age, that stopped though when I married the wrong person, he had a very small cock & no sex drive, sex stopped completely after 15 months but I remained faithful for 13 years until I could take no more & left. Ever since I've had as much sex as I could, I now don't know how I survived a sexless marriage.

That, my love, I totally relate to, (not the small cock part lol). In my case it was porn and masturbation, something I'm not overly proud of, and made me feel degraded to be honest. My friends now, cant believe I managed to stay faithful, especially as the real me has been liberated again. Even though I had a sexless relationship, sex was still constantly on my mind.

Is it different for each individual, those that say they can go without, do you have to have the release of orgasm, or do you just switch it off? Never been able to do that, god knows I've tried. Just curious.

Shag, going to the gym actually drives up my libido. Not sure why, but I'm even more randy when I'm in good shape, how weird is that? "
YEs I know what you mean there, I feel as awell more randyer when I cut he carbs in my muscle diet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always been an important part of your life? Since I hit puberty, at age 5 lol, I've allways been intrigued and fascinated by women's bodies, just so very very sexy. Even through a long and sexless marriage, (I remaied faithfull...just honed my shuffle technique to a fine art), I was constantly obsessed with sex. When I became my own man again, a friend told me about fab, and I remembered just how good it is to explore each other's bodies and fulfil all those fantasies and suppressed desires, and I haven't looked back. know I'm nothing special, I'm told I'm very passionate, experienced, that I 'just know' I put this down to just adoring sex so much, I made it my mission to learn how to be most effective, anyhow, it's made me realise that sex has allways been a very very significant part of my life. Must point out that I've had a very long and successful career, a lovely family, a beautiful home etc etc, so I'm no sap, just wondering, how big a part of your life is sex, and has it allways been that way.....c'mon guys, make me feel normal "

I've always been like this. Thought I was odd when I was younger and this it rather than be honest about it. Stayed in an unadventurous relationship for far too long, and if I knew there were more people that really love sex like I do out there then I wouldn't have stayed in my last relationship for so ridiculously long. I'm an obsessed with the psychology of sex and relationships too. And as much as I shouldn't, I want to make up for lot time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say yes yo this one.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Meh... Not really sex... I'm an excitement addict!

I love to roll the dice, challenge myself, disappear and come back reinvented...

Every 5 years or so I burn my personality to the ground and start a new one, love the excitement of trying new things, starting over, learning!

Very few Peopl offer me this sexually... So when I find them it's dynamite!... From that point we can do anything...

I enjoy sex with "normal" folks, but the ones that sync perfectly with me, excite!

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