FabSwingers.com forum: Advice on getting a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on here 8 months now and nothing..

Im a nice guy behind this profile ive set up!

I just want an older woman to blow my mind, is that too much to ask for??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few things if you want to hear them.

Profile is all about you and not what you can offer.

You say you're a nice guy behind the profile. Your profile doesn't come across that way at all so maybe construct one that comes across as representing you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A few things if you want to hear them.

Profile is all about you and not what you can offer.

You say you're a nice guy behind the profile. Your profile doesn't come across that way at all so maybe construct one that comes across as representing you."

So what does my profile give the impression of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It comes across as quite selfish to be brutal, full of I and I'm. what are your potential playmates hoping to get out of meeting you? seems more like you're just out for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few things if you want to hear them.

Profile is all about you and not what you can offer.

You say you're a nice guy behind the profile. Your profile doesn't come across that way at all so maybe construct one that comes across as representing you.

So what does my profile give the impression of?

To me it seems very matter of fact, doesn't really give any idea of a personality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im not very good and writing out what i like without me sounding desperate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look around at the successful blokes profiles for ideas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not very good and writing out what i like without me sounding desperate? "

Don't write it off the bat, do it away from the site over a few days...On wordpad or something like that. Then you can keep tweaking until you're happy with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great idea, heres me putting myself on the spot..

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By *MLETCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"Im not very good and writing out what i like without me sounding desperate? "

we would meet you for a drink if you are ever in Leeds x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I don't normally comment on these posts...but I'm feeling fatherly....

first fix the typo in your header 'come' not comes...

Secondly, get some humour, you're a young stud ...you're not applying for a job at tesco, 'well driven' what does that mean, you have a chauffeur,

When you tell a WOMAN they won't be disappointed, they probably will be, especially at 20 years, picture a young lion cub wandering into a cage full of sexually powerful lionesses...they will TEAR you apart,

Offer them something that older gents might not be able to, like a naive eager outlook, a willingness to be taught, you'll be blown away by some of the smallest tricks ladies on here can show you...

Tell them you will turn up...

Clean, groomed,

You'll leave your attitude and arrogance in your sock drawer...

You won't rush..

You won't talk in slang..

You will LISTEN...

If the first time isn't great tell them you'll try until it is...or you'll give them a refund..))

I would imagine there are plenty of lionesses on here that would take you by the scruff of the neck and help you roar a little louder,

Go get em...tigger....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here 8 months now and nothing..

Im a nice guy behind this profile ive set up!

I just want an older woman to blow my mind, is that too much to ask for??

Spelling mistake. It's well spoken. Not we'll spoken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile looks ok to me to be fair.

You defo need more pics on it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure this is good advice or not but it works for me.

Talk to people because you want to talk to them and not because you want to fuck them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here 8 months now and nothing..

Im a nice guy behind this profile ive set up!

I just want an older woman to blow my mind, is that too much to ask for??

Spelling mistake. It's well spoken. Not we'll spoken. "

Worry not the kid is on it like a car bonnet, he's changed it already...

I like this kid....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im not very good and writing out what i like without me sounding desperate?

we would meet you for a drink if you are ever in Leeds x

Hehe, ill bare that in mind love! Thanks

nice pics btw x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crenshaw....drop all the little face thingies...)o) these things...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And lose the 'that's about it really' sounds despondent...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok I don't normally comment on these posts...but I'm feeling fatherly....

first fix the typo in your header 'come' not comes...

Secondly, get some humour, you're a young stud ...you're not applying for a job at tesco, 'well driven' what does that mean, you have a chauffeur,

Offer them something that older gents might not be able to, like a naive eager outlook, a willingness to be taught, you'll be blown away by some of the smallest tricks ladies on here can show you...

Tell them you will turn up...

Clean, groomed,

You'll leave your attitude and arrogance in your sock drawer...

You won't rush..

You won't talk in slang..

You will LISTEN...

If the first time isn't great tell them you'll try until it is...or you'll give them a refund..))

I would imagine there are plenty of lionesses on here that would take you by the scruff of the neck and help you roar a little louder,

Go get em...tigger....

Just the REPLY i was after! Nice one mate, great confidence boost on how to portray my profile! It was an eye opening read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also...DO have a 'preference, don't want them to think you'd fuck a bin bag if it had a bit of lippy on..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

jonnydeppth are you my eye in the sky? My saviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I don't normally comment on these posts...but I'm feeling fatherly....

first fix the typo in your header 'come' not comes...

Secondly, get some humour, you're a young stud ...you're not applying for a job at tesco, 'well driven' what does that mean, you have a chauffeur,

Offer them something that older gents might not be able to, like a naive eager outlook, a willingness to be taught, you'll be blown away by some of the smallest tricks ladies on here can show you...

Tell them you will turn up...

Clean, groomed,

You'll leave your attitude and arrogance in your sock drawer...

You won't rush..

You won't talk in slang..

You will LISTEN...

If the first time isn't great tell them you'll try until it is...or you'll give them a refund..))

I would imagine there are plenty of lionesses on here that would take you by the scruff of the neck and help you roar a little louder,

Go get em...tigger

Just the REPLY i was after! Nice one mate, great confidence boost on how to portray my profile! It was an eye opening read

We've only just started tigger...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wheres your public pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"jonnydeppth are you my eye in the sky? My saviour"

Easy now....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"jonnydeppth are you my eye in the sky? My saviour"

Careful!! He spooned the last guy who was nice to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wheres your public pics lol"

Crenshaw, remember point 6; 'listen'

this is your audience speaking, a very nice audience too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP...I still don't think your profile is that bad.

I have seen a LOT worse.

Whilst there is good advice on this thread.

You need to be YOU on it.

What works for someone else might not work for you, because once chatting, if your personality doesn't match the profile. . You'll struggle anyway.

Get some more pics on it.

The lack of pics is the bigger problem more than what you've written.

Because what you've written isn't that bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"jonnydeppth are you my eye in the sky? My saviour

Careful!! He spooned the last guy who was nice to him.

I don't spoon,

I ladle......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crenshaw....drop all the little face thingies...)o) these things...

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But everyone knows bitches love smiley faces?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the useless warning at the end it serves no purpose other than filling server space on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shall Mama Cougar help you write it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pop some more pics on your profile, you look nice in your avatar pic but us older ladies have bad eyesight, need to get a closer look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pop some more pics on your profile, you look nice in your avatar pic but us older ladies have bad eyesight, need to get a closer look

You're still looking good for 75 though Charlie

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Want some help taking pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Want some help taking pics?

Jesus there's an offer...

Practice on me first though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pop some more pics on your profile, you look nice in your avatar pic but us older ladies have bad eyesight, need to get a closer look

You're still looking good for 75 though Charlie

I won't tell you my secret

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By *olly RogererMan
over a year ago

Braintree

"Have a look around at the successful blokes profiles for ideas."

How many meet requests have you out up? How many socials or parties have you been to? How many clubs?

Or did you think they would all come running? Hard work pays off

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't think there are varying degrees of 'unique'. Everyone is unique so having that as a selling point: isn't.

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Want some help taking pics?

Jesus there's an offer...

Practice on me first though..

With pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pictures please.

I'm bored at home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shall Mama Cougar help you write it ?

Go on then, Mama Cougar i like that, it has a ring to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Want some help taking pics?

Yes! Yes! Yes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have a look around at the successful blokes profiles for ideas.

How many meet requests have you out up? How many socials or parties have you been to? How many clubs?

Or did you think they would all come running? Hard work pays off"

Alright alright, this was more for advice rather than an interrogation mate

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Been on here 8 months now and nothing..

Im a nice guy behind this profile ive set up!

I just want an older woman to blow my mind, is that too much to ask for??

Einstein said to do the same things over and over and expect a different result is a definition of insanity.

If it ain't working fella change something, profile, messages, approach, only you know how and what to change.

My question... Why an older lady, can't a young lady blow your mind?

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Want some help taking pics?

Yes! Yes! Yes!

I'm going to enjoy the close-ups lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Want some help taking pics?

Yes! Yes! Yes!

I'm going to enjoy the close-ups lol"

Photos, my only weakness on Fab! Help me out

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Want some help taking pics?

Yes! Yes! Yes!

I'm going to enjoy the close-ups lol

Photos, my only weakness on Fab! Help me out

I'd love to..til then do what women do. Wear some sexy undies, pose alot and take 50 pics until 1 is good enough. A glass of wine or beer makes you feel a bit less like an idiot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rope.

The laydees love rope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pop some more pics on your profile, you look nice in your avatar pic but us older ladies have bad eyesight, need to get a closer look

You're still looking good for 75 though Charlie

I won't tell you my secret

Hmmm I wonder what it could be...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pop some more pics on your profile, you look nice in your avatar pic but us older ladies have bad eyesight, need to get a closer look

You're still looking good for 75 though Charlie

I won't tell you my secret

Hmmm I wonder what it could be...

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