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By *s_4_u OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Do you ever get pictures sent to you and rather than look at the person or body part look at the surroundings its taken in to get an idea of the person ?

For instance we got a message recently was ok looking sounded our type, but in the background mess everywere 1960s furniture. lol any way was just wondering lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unmade beds, I mean, no sheet, pillow cases, or duvet cover, I have seen pics of people playing on that, to me thats just skanky. No matter how perfect they sounded, I wouldnt go near.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes our house looks like a showhome, sometimes it's a mess, it is never dirty but it can be untidy, If we saw an untidy background it wouldn't put us off, but seeing a dirty lifestyle would, for example our bedsheets are changed before a meet "just in case we use the bed"

The house gets the "showroom look" if we organise a meet of course, not because we want to show off we aren't wealthy enough to show off but because it's like serving a meal to someone, presentation counts.

We have had meets where the people were in dirty tracksuits when we arrived, we have met people who have obviously made no effort whatsoever to "preen" themselves and we do find that a turn off. A lack of outside care doesn't bode well for personal hygiene does it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if anyones house looks in need of decoration we skip the mail and send a business card

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"........

For instance we got a message recently was ok looking sounded our type, but in the background mess everywere 1960s furniture. lol any way was just wondering lol"

There's no excuse for mess but furniture, wallpaper, ornaments etc are a matter of taste. You're going there to play, not to rent a room.

Some folks like a retro feel about their homes in the same way some like 60s motor cars or vintage fashion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am so glad that someone has put up this thread because its something I always notice. I cant help it, im a bit of a background freak. I wouldnt take pictures of myself in a bedroom if I hadnt made my bed or if piles of ironing were waiting to be put away. I wouldnt look at peoples furniture as such, but i would notice if the room was untidy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes our house looks like a showhome, sometimes it's a mess, it is never dirty but it can be untidy, If we saw an untidy background it wouldn't put us off, but seeing a dirty lifestyle would, for example our bedsheets are changed before a meet "just in case we use the bed"

The house gets the "showroom look" if we organise a meet of course, not because we want to show off we aren't wealthy enough to show off but because it's like serving a meal to someone, presentation counts.

We have had meets where the people were in dirty tracksuits when we arrived, we have met people who have obviously made no effort whatsoever to "preen" themselves and we do find that a turn off. A lack of outside care doesn't bode well for personal hygiene does it."

I think its really bad manners if someone turns up in a tracksuit or really scruffy clothing for a meet when the hosts have gone to the trouble of offering their home as a meeting place and have gone to a lot of hard work and trouble to ensure its in tip top condition. Its disrespectful for someone to turn up clearly not bothered to have gone to any trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"........

For instance we got a message recently was ok looking sounded our type, but in the background mess everywere 1960s furniture. lol any way was just wondering lol

There's no excuse for mess but furniture, wallpaper, ornaments etc are a matter of taste. You're going there to play, not to rent a room.

Some folks like a retro feel about their homes in the same way some like 60s motor cars or vintage fashion."

don't mind "vintage" ladies either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes our house looks like a showhome, sometimes it's a mess, it is never dirty but it can be untidy, If we saw an untidy background it wouldn't put us off, but seeing a dirty lifestyle would, for example our bedsheets are changed before a meet "just in case we use the bed"

The house gets the "showroom look" if we organise a meet of course, not because we want to show off we aren't wealthy enough to show off but because it's like serving a meal to someone, presentation counts.

We have had meets where the people were in dirty tracksuits when we arrived, we have met people who have obviously made no effort whatsoever to "preen" themselves and we do find that a turn off. A lack of outside care doesn't bode well for personal hygiene does it.

I think its really bad manners if someone turns up in a tracksuit or really scruffy clothing for a meet when the hosts have gone to the trouble of offering their home as a meeting place and have gone to a lot of hard work and trouble to ensure its in tip top condition. Its disrespectful for someone to turn up clearly not bothered to have gone to any trouble "

i agree there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I think its really bad manners if someone turns up in a tracksuit or really scruffy clothing for a meet when the hosts have gone to the trouble of offering their home as a meeting place and have gone to a lot of hard work and trouble to ensure its in tip top condition. Its disrespectful for someone to turn up clearly not bothered to have gone to any trouble "

I use one simple rule... would i dress or show my house like this to my parents? not good enough for them certainly isn't good enough for strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ever get pictures sent to you and rather than look at the person or body part look at the surroundings its taken in to get an idea of the person ?

For instance we got a message recently was ok looking sounded our type, but in the background mess everywere 1960s furniture. lol any way was just wondering lol"
sorry we have now decorated and bought a new suite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes our house looks like a showhome, sometimes it's a mess, it is never dirty but it can be untidy, If we saw an untidy background it wouldn't put us off, but seeing a dirty lifestyle would, for example our bedsheets are changed before a meet "just in case we use the bed"

The house gets the "showroom look" if we organise a meet of course, not because we want to show off we aren't wealthy enough to show off but because it's like serving a meal to someone, presentation counts.

We have had meets where the people were in dirty tracksuits when we arrived, we have met people who have obviously made no effort whatsoever to "preen" themselves and we do find that a turn off. A lack of outside care doesn't bode well for personal hygiene does it."
we keep our track suits for Sundays best lol

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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago

peekin under duvet is it safe?

every outside pic looks like the gardens are immaculate , just jealous now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"every outside pic looks like the gardens are immaculate , just jealous now "

Used to be very guilty of this one but now the neighbours have complained about us running naked around thier gardens

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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago

peekin under duvet is it safe?


"every outside pic looks like the gardens are immaculate , just jealous now

Used to be very guilty of this one but now the neighbours have complained about us running naked around thier gardens "

complain ? id positivley encourage it spesh in ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"every outside pic looks like the gardens are immaculate , just jealous now

Used to be very guilty of this one but now the neighbours have complained about us running naked around thier gardens "

you can run naked in our garden anytime aslong as the pushing the lawn mower lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"every outside pic looks like the gardens are immaculate , just jealous now

Used to be very guilty of this one but now the neighbours have complained about us running naked around thier gardens "

you need a gardener, very cheap????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once got messaged by somebody and after reading their profile I had a quick look at the pics and in 3 of them she had filthy feet!! Ewwwwww still shuddering

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I once got messaged by somebody and after reading their profile I had a quick look at the pics and in 3 of them she had filthy feet!! Ewwwwww still shuddering "

Ewwwwwww. I hate feet at the best of times.

My personal faves are cock shots taken over a toilet bowl.

If only they would flush first.....

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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago

peekin under duvet is it safe?


"I once got messaged by somebody and after reading their profile I had a quick look at the pics and in 3 of them she had filthy feet!! Ewwwwww still shuddering

Ewwwwwww. I hate feet at the best of times.

My personal faves are cock shots taken over a toilet bowl.

If only they would flush first..... "

thanks for the thought and just ahead of the sunday joint too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha yes the infamous loo shots! Oh purlease!!! Don't these guys check their photos before they post them? Oh and spotty arses! I'm on a roll lol

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I've sent an e-mail to Real Madrid about the state of the seats in their dugout that I was photogtraphed in...seems they only get cleaned an hour before their superstars get to sit in them...the rest of us "prols" just have to make do...not good enough really is it?

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

We always have a squint at the background just to see what wallpaper border they have!...

I think you can summise a fair bit about the person/s by what kind of place they have..their dress sense, nick nacks etc, after all, its a fact of life (albeit a sad one) that we often judge by appearence, its normally the first impression/attraction.

I would imagine its pretty off putting to most (unless they are desparate, not fussy or the same) if they are looking to meeting someone to see that their house looks like its just been ransacked or the aftermath of a Primark sale..

It gives the impression of being lazy, dirty and untidy..and if someones house is like it then people may well judge the occupiers to be the same.

Which is a shame because its the peoples principles and personality which is probably the overiding factor...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not keen on seeing evidence of children in background pics either. Obviously some people have young children and babies, but I once saw a very sexy girl squatting on her kitchen worktop and it was an amazingly sexy pic apart from the babies bottles and steriliser unit, it just didnt seem to be in the right context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok il say it if the house looks a tip or its the dreaded cock shot with the floater in the pan or held against tv remote its a delete from me!! also do some people not check their pics before they post?? iv seen things that has took a lot of therapy to recover from!! and the best ones are the ones that think they are just it then u look at pics and its instant laugh!! i did mail a guy once because in his pic u could clearly see a family picture and i felt it just wasnt right to see that then his kids or whoevers xx

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

I've seen these scenarios on Web cams too! but pics can really give the game away. not just the decor but the 70's topiary/foliage demonstrating just how old some of the pics really are! lol

there are no excuses for your home to be filthy as it brings into question your personal hygiene, but untidy could just show a lack of skill or imagination when taking pics or to much junk in your home...chuck it out or recycle!lol...we cant all be david baileys but please when you look through the viewfinder check the surroundings too...better check all mine now! lol

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By *nJ_NW_cplCouple
over a year ago

wirral

We once had Mrs PnJ In boots and nothing else on the back of a bike and so many people told us how much they liked the bike LOL. P.S. the multi coloured carpet in our pics is not ours we where in a cottage with some friends,

PnJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was looking at a profile earlier and in 1 pic i never noticed the woman in

it was the pringles tub right in forefront that caught my eye i love pringles lol

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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago

peekin under duvet is it safe?


"was looking at a profile earlier and in 1 pic i never noticed the woman in

it was the pringles tub right in forefront that caught my eye i love pringles lol"

did the pringles tip it then or are you holding out for the right flavour pringles to come along ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL....yes!!!

I always look at background.....some right messy buggers on here!!! lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I do look at the background in pics - a really dirty, messy room will def put me off - but 'normal' mess is fine - ie. a pile of clothes cast off in gay abandon is fine - dirty plates are nasty! Z

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