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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondered as a couple with private face pics, if another couple message you and there's a short conversation and then they ask for face pics, is it ok to ask to see theirs first as they approached you? (Worded a little differently of course!) not really sure of the etiquette, if any!

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"Just wondered as a couple with private face pics, if another couple message you and there's a short conversation and then they ask for face pics, is it ok to ask to see theirs first as they approached you? (Worded a little differently of course!) not really sure of the etiquette, if any! "

Personally we think if we approach a couple it is cotrecy of us to offer face pics and kind of think the same vice versa... But everybody works differently... Whatever you are comfy with... Stick to own rules and if genuine all should work well .... This is where someone says we are wrong and etiquette rules difeerent

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I think the approaching person should send pics first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Kinda what we thought too, the other couple thought differently, that's why we've reached a stalemate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the approaching person should send pics first "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's daft I'll show you mine if you show me yours!

I tend to send asap, gives all parties to scarper pretty quickly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's daft I'll show you mine if you show me yours!

I tend to send asap, gives all parties to scarper pretty quickly! "
chance*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's daft I'll show you mine if you show me yours!

I tend to send asap, gives all parties to scarper pretty quickly! "

You're both gorgeous. x

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"It's daft I'll show you mine if you show me yours!

I tend to send asap, gives all parties to scarper pretty quickly! chance*"

Agree although suspect few will scarper.... Always best to check attraction first..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends. If you are not prepared to show yours, you shouldn't really ask to see theirs.

However back on planet Fab:

Her- hi. Hw r u?

Me- I'm very well thank you, how about yourself? I see from your profile you like a little rope play, are nearby and can accommodate! Although yiur profile is short, your solitary clit pic looks nice, if a little out of focus.

Her- lolz hun. I lik a gud fuckin Nice azz lol

Me- Thank you. You come highly rated in your verifications too.

Her- ta. U 2. Got a face pic hun?

Me- oh. you read and like my profile?

Her- ye.

Me- may I see yours first?

Her- fuk off

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Kinda what we thought too, the other couple thought differently, that's why we've reached a stalemate "

I wouldn't bother going any further with anyone like that on principle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's daft I'll show you mine if you show me yours!

I tend to send asap, gives all parties to scarper pretty quickly!

You're both gorgeous. x"

Why thankyou I'd ask if you where d*unk, only for the fact, you don't partake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's daft I'll show you mine if you show me yours!

I tend to send asap, gives all parties to scarper pretty quickly! chance*

Agree although suspect few will scarper.... Always best to check attraction first.. "

Saves any awkwardness further down the line.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Kinda what we thought too, the other couple thought differently, that's why we've reached a stalemate "

Though sometimes a stalemate is all you need to know about a couple. It sounds like you have misgivings, and we (nearly) always follow our gut in such circumstances.

Good luck

Mr.ddc

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Kinda what we thought too, the other couple thought differently, that's why we've reached a stalemate "

Then I would suggest that all is not as it seems.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It depends. If you are not prepared to show yours, you shouldn't really ask to see theirs.

However back on planet Fab:

Her- hi. Hw r u?

Me- I'm very well thank you, how about yourself? I see from your profile you like a little rope play, are nearby and can accommodate! Although yiur profile is short, your solitary clit pic looks nice, if a little out of focus.

Her- lolz hun. I lik a gud fuckin Nice azz lol

Me- Thank you. You come highly rated in your verifications too.

Her- ta. U 2. Got a face pic hun?

Me- oh. you read and like my profile?

Her- ye.

Me- may I see yours first?

Her- fuk off"

but we were totally prepared to show ours, I'm just a stubborn bitch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kinda what we thought too, the other couple thought differently, that's why we've reached a stalemate

I wouldn't bother going any further with anyone like that on principle "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always show if asked and if it seems legit, but it's a case by case basis for us. If the people seem real we will send We can't be expected to not show our faces of we want a meet! C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the approaching person should send pics first "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends. If you are not prepared to show yours, you shouldn't really ask to see theirs.

However back on planet Fab:

Her- hi. Hw r u?

Me- I'm very well thank you, how about yourself? I see from your profile you like a little rope play, are nearby and can accommodate! Although yiur profile is short, your solitary clit pic looks nice, if a little out of focus.

Her- lolz hun. I lik a gud fuckin Nice azz lol

Me- Thank you. You come highly rated in your verifications too.

Her- ta. U 2. Got a face pic hun?

Me- oh. you read and like my profile?

Her- ye.

Me- may I see yours first?

Her- fuk off

but we were totally prepared to show ours, I'm just a stubborn bitch "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the whole "you show 1st" is a little childish really if people have started doing that with us its been an instant block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the whole "you show 1st" is a little childish really if people have started doing that with us its been an instant block. "
yes. Very childish. I'm a adult and always use the scissor paper stone to decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aha rock paper scissors the only 100% fair way of sorting anything out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aha rock paper scissors the only 100% fair way of sorting anything out "
exactly. And funny enough I always win. Probably cause I get to ask them first which one they chose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it really rude when people request our face pics without sending there's, its like their saying we are more important than you so let us decide if we like you then we'll said our pics, we just hit the delete button, it really boils my piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends. If you are not prepared to show yours, you shouldn't really ask to see theirs.

However back on planet Fab:

Her- hi. Hw r u?

Me- I'm very well thank you, how about yourself? I see from your profile you like a little rope play, are nearby and can accommodate! Although yiur profile is short, your solitary clit pic looks nice, if a little out of focus.

Her- lolz hun. I lik a gud fuckin Nice azz lol

Me- Thank you. You come highly rated in your verifications too.

Her- ta. U 2. Got a face pic hun?

Me- oh. you read and like my profile?

Her- ye.

Me- may I see yours first?

Her- fuk off

but we were totally prepared to show ours, I'm just a stubborn bitch "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just base it on who asks first as long as I feel comfortable in doing so. It just saves the trouble I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends. If you are not prepared to show yours, you shouldn't really ask to see theirs.

However back on planet Fab:

Her- hi. Hw r u?

Me- I'm very well thank you, how about yourself? I see from your profile you like a little rope play, are nearby and can accommodate! Although yiur profile is short, your solitary clit pic looks nice, if a little out of focus.

Her- lolz hun. I lik a gud fuckin Nice azz lol

Me- Thank you. You come highly rated in your verifications too.

Her- ta. U 2. Got a face pic hun?

Me- oh. you read and like my profile?

Her- ye.

Me- may I see yours first?

Her- fuk off

but we were totally prepared to show ours, I'm just a stubborn bitch "

If you're prepared to show yours then show them, I don't understand the stand off the people have about face pictures once you get to a point where you want to share them...either show them or move on...why spend more time than you need?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message guys first a lot and will always attach a face pic, think its courteous to send one if you make first contact and don't have one on your profile and it doesn't waste time with exchanged messages if you aren't the persons type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile asks for a face pic, if they don't send one, then I don't. I ask them for one, usually works, if not I say goodbye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time I send a face pic I get a reply " sorry ur not what we're looking for at min " . Oh well What can u do !

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We were in the pub trade many year,s we wont do pic,s simple as that we had our pic,s used on another site in other peoples profile,s Jane will talk over the phone to show we are a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to clarify, I normally end up sending one first. Sometimes, I get a no thanks, others a delete/block. My favourite reply though is, wow handsome! Where have you been hiding!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this based on 'if you don't find them attractive' then there's no point in us showing you ours ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be weary of sending a face pic to someone who has recently joined....

And no chance if they don't have a single picture on their profile....

Who knows who they are.... but others can be different

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