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By *plfromcork OP   Couple
over a year ago

cork

Just came across a personal friends profile on a different swinging site, they are a friend of MrsCork and just stumbled upon their profile with pics & pics. Nice couple. never thought they were that nice lol!

Do we tell them or is it a risk of letting people we know to close to home about our secret life?

Or do we just keep quiet and enjoy their photos? (really enjoy lol)

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

You either respect their 'privacy'...or you strike up a conversation and let it dawn on them that they might actually know you (Mrs Cork) too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about being discreet but fire off a message and take it from there after all they are into swinging so they wouldn't want anyone from the outside knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, the way we look at it, they are advertizing on an internet sex site.

Just say "Hi" and let them see that you are too.

How do you know though, that they haven't already looked at your profile?

Who dares wins

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By *plfromcork OP   Couple
over a year ago

cork

we've always had our profile pics private so i'd hope they've not come across our profile.

it does make MrsCorks shopping days more interesting, lol when her friend calls I'm probably just stare after what i've seen lmao

but respect their privacy is bang on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you have privacy on an internet sex site?

They, and you are advertizing to meet people for sex

If either of you couples are shy, then I'd ask, why are you advertizing on internet sex sites, and then asking questions about it in a public forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that if you fit thier criteria and are interested in meeting them in a swinging scenario then by all means contact them, personally I would put in my mail something to the effect that "although we know you outside the scene we all find ourselves enjoying I am sure you will be pleased to hear that like you, we are discreet in what we do and what we see/hear in the swinging scene stays in the swinging scene wether you think us compatible or not"

This way at least you will not panic them or leave them worrying that thier personal life will not be broadcast to mutual friends and that they have no need to fear making return contact with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh oh oh, and if you have no desire to meet them in a swing situation, then pass them by as you would anyone that your not interested in meeting, there is no need for anyone to go along the "I saw you on a swingers site and know what you do" route

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Jedsasha I think you put that wonderfully well xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh oh oh, and if you have no desire to meet them in a swing situation, then pass them by as you would anyone that your not interested in meeting, there is no need for anyone to go along the "I saw you on a swingers site and know what you do" route"

I personally think that's the best advice: why contact them "just because" unless you want to play with them?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you have privacy on an internet sex site?

They, and you are advertizing to meet people for sex

If either of you couples are shy, then I'd ask, why are you advertizing on internet sex sites, and then asking questions about it in a public forum? "

I totaly agree with what you say if someone you know sees you on a swingers siite they have no write to judge as they are on there themselves lol thats why I have my face pics up Im not bothered who sees us lol all out neighbours know we swing anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes even the highly opinionated get it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes even the highly opinionated get it right "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had the same problem took advice and ignored it lol , we met for a drink but decided against going further however if the truth be known I think us guys spent weeks wnking wnkin over each others wives piks lol.

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