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Should I be jealous?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My fiance and I met via a site. We not no romantic intension from the outset. However, that changed soon enough and here we are.

I assumed once I met my soulmate I would not like her to be involved in the scene for fear of jealously.

I'm not feeling it, I'm curious,am really in love with her, if so why am not not jealous?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Perhaps because you're grown ups and trust each other?

Talk to each other and only do what you feel happy doing together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would say its because your secure in yourself and your relationship to know you have nothing to be jealous of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because women should never have too settle for one cock! Also, you have a beautiful fiancé, she needs exposing too the world..& too me ?? x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Because women should never have too settle for one cock! Also, you have a beautiful fiancé, she needs exposing too the world..& too me ?? x"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"My fiance and I met via a site. We not no romantic intension from the outset. However, that changed soon enough and here we are.

I assumed once I met my soulmate I would not like her to be involved in the scene for fear of jealously.

I'm not feeling it, I'm curious,am really in love with her, if so why am not not jealous?"

Because you know that love isn't ownership.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you love her enough to share her and she comes back to you.

And that is how it should be.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's right share the wife amongst us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you love her enough to share her and she comes back to you.

And that is how it should be.

Her"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm not feeling it, I'm curious,am really in love with her, if so why am not not jealous?"

Totally agree with all the above comments. If you're swinging as a couple, there shouldnt be any jealousy, if there was then you probably shouldn't be doing it. We are never jealous of eachother, because we are both secure in our relationship and trust eachother implicitly.

Jealousy comes from a lack of trust and feeling insecure.

Juicy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you've answered your own question, you've found your soulmate and that's all that really matters to you both, the fact you don't feel jealousy is a good thing, it doesn't mean you love her any less

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I think you've answered your own question, you've found your soulmate and that's all that really matters to you both, the fact you don't feel jealousy is a good thing, it doesn't mean you love her any less "

In fact, I think it means he does love her. Jealousy doesn't come from a place of love but one of insecurity and control. It's possessive and destructive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eh wait till she's shagged half the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread, thank you, I'll keep an eye on it.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Because jealousy isn't love, it's about insecurity and possessiveness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread, thank you, I'll keep an eye on it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He loves her and she loves him. That would be enough for me if I was this lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just this weekend I swung for the first time with my guy, and in the run up I was feeling quit insecure and jealous and generally stressed out about it. (I've got a lot of external pressures going on at the moment)...

But as soon as the couple arrived and we got chatting, and then as soon as we got down to business, I didn't feel any jealousy at all! Mind opened! Defimitely hoping to get more and more experience in, an amazing night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because you can separate sex and love

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