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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ok so i have been toying with the idea of going to a club, probably isis in leeds.

I will be going alone unless anyone here can come, so i expect to pay through my nose.

Can anyone tell me what to expect.

Who goes? Young or old? Do people just walk round naked or in towels? I actually dont no what to expect.

Thank you.

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

There is a link to their web page on the clubs section have a good read it will tell you what to and what not to expect, armed with that info you may feel a little more at ease

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"There is a link to their web page on the clubs section have a good read it will tell you what to and what not to expect, armed with that info you may feel a little more at ease"

Or try a fetish club, if you want to feel a little more tease.

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Yes when you get your membership form to fill out, a mortage application form is usually attached for single guys. You know it in advance, if you can't afford it, don't do it.

Inside, be yourself. Don't "expect" anything, that way nothing will disappoint, and Brucie Bonuses will be exactly that. At the end of the day, it's a place with people in it. Treat it no differently to any first time in a new pub.

For your first time I'd recommend being low key, and letting others set the pace, whilst absorbing what is going on around you. You'll be on a learning curve so keep an eye open to what people do, and learn the new "body language". See what others do that upsets others so that you don't repeat their mistakes. If someone is on a lucky streak, work out what it is that he does that needs to be copied.

You'll be paying for a year's membership. Take your time there. I've seen too many guys get a name for themselves on their first day by being too keen.

Most of all, enjoy it and have fun.

Come Monday, back at work, when your mates are all talking about their 11 guys in shorts playing with their footballs, you'll have the knowledge that you've probably been watching more than 11 ladies in less than shorts playing with other types of balls...if not lucky enough to be taking part yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yeah i dont mind paying to get in but that huge membership fee is bad and off putting.

So what do people wear?

And do i just wank when i want, then do i just cum where i stand? or how do i get involved.

Sorry if i sound stupid but like the above says i dont want to pay a big fee then be labeled a weirdo.

I checked the website but some answers you need from people who have been.

Oh and i like football!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeah i dont mind paying to get in but that huge membership fee is bad and off putting.

So what do people wear?

And do i just wank when i want, then do i just cum where i stand? or how do i get involved.

Sorry if i sound stupid but like the above says i dont want to pay a big fee then be labeled a weirdo.

I checked the website but some answers you need from people who have been.

Oh and i like football!"

all of that message has made me cringe

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"yeah i dont mind paying to get in but that huge membership fee is bad and off putting.

So what do people wear?

And do i just wank when i want, then do i just cum where i stand? or how do i get involved.

Sorry if i sound stupid but like the above says i dont want to pay a big fee then be labeled a weirdo.

I checked the website but some answers you need from people who have been.

Oh and i like football!"

Check with others who've been to more than me, but i'm pretty sure you can just toss one out wherever and whenever, after all you've paid your money, havent you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"yeah i dont mind paying to get in but that huge membership fee is bad and off putting.

So what do people wear?

And do i just wank when i want, then do i just cum where i stand? or how do i get involved.

Sorry if i sound stupid but like the above says i dont want to pay a big fee then be labeled a weirdo.

I checked the website but some answers you need from people who have been.

Oh and i like football!

all of that message has made me cringe

sorry i didnt want to sound dodgy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont want to trample on your strawberries but I'm pretty sure cracking one off wherever you feel like it wont go down well at all.

I'd see a trip to a club as a bit like going on a night out at a pub/club but with benefits. Big benefits.

By that I mean treat folks with respect, if you are talking to a couple talk to both members and just be polite. Following couples around all night like a sheep is generally seen as not a good thing.

If I was stepping in for the first time I'd maybe go along to watch. Chill out, take it easy and drink in the atmosphere.

Dont have too much alcohol and count on nothing happening. Anything that does is a bonus.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeah i dont mind paying to get in but that huge membership fee is bad and off putting.

So what do people wear?

And do i just wank when i want, then do i just cum where i stand? or how do i get involved.

Sorry if i sound stupid but like the above says i dont want to pay a big fee then be labeled a weirdo.

I checked the website but some answers you need from people who have been.

Oh and i like football!

all of that message has made me cringe

sorry i didnt want to sound dodgy"

Lol !! Actually i think you sound like a cool guy and at least your asking all the right questions ! ive only been to a club once and it was a great experience

I was "hand held" throughout and loved it.

Good Luck !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont want to trample on your strawberries but I'm pretty sure cracking one off wherever you feel like it wont go down well at all.

I'd see a trip to a club as a bit like going on a night out at a pub/club but with benefits. Big benefits.

By that I mean treat folks with respect, if you are talking to a couple talk to both members and just be polite. Following couples around all night like a sheep is generally seen as not a good thing.

If I was stepping in for the first time I'd maybe go along to watch. Chill out, take it easy and drink in the atmosphere.

Dont have too much alcohol and count on nothing happening. Anything that does is a bonus.

Good luck."

Very Good advice !!!

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

I would read the reviews etc.. before deciding which club to pay all that cash to. Sometimes you would be better off travelling further afield to find a busy club rather than a quiet one that is local. Nothing againt Isiss by the way, we are members there.

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