FabSwingers.com forum: Pics not doing justice.... :(

By *lincs35 OP Man
over a year ago

inbetween newark/lincoln/sleaford

Hi all!

How do you take a decent 'selfie' everyone I've met on here has liked/fancied me, and never had trouble when after a lady, but so many say 'I'm not what they're looking for' when I send pics, I think they look ok, but what can I do?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Selfie stick or ask a friend x

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Hi all!

Lol you've got one pic on show . . . Of your cock. Are you looking for advice on how to take better pics of your willy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all!

Lol you've got one pic on show . . . Of your cock. Are you looking for advice on how to take better pics of your willy?"

erm I lolled

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By *lincs35 OP Man
over a year ago

inbetween newark/lincoln/sleaford

Selfie stick?! No local friends in all honesty, just have to photoshop my mug (face!) lol x

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Selfie stick or ask a friend x"

What she said. Get a friend to take a pic of your penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Selfie stick or ask a friend x

What she said. Get a friend to take a pic of your penis

oi she

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Selfie stick or ask a friend x

What she said. Get a friend to take a pic of your penis

oi she

Yeah, the cat's auntie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Selfie stick or ask a friend x

What she said. Get a friend to take a pic of your penis

oi she

Yeah, the cat's auntie

no more pics....

I don't like u no.more

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Selfie stick or ask a friend x

What she said. Get a friend to take a pic of your penis

oi she

Yeah, the cat's auntie

no more pics....

I don't like u no.more

Yeah you do

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By *lincs35 OP Man
over a year ago

inbetween newark/lincoln/sleaford

Nooo, can't show my face on public on here, as in the entertainment industry a little... But send a reasonable pic, nice stubble, young for my age, slender etc, but get the thumbs down!! Cock looks ok though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nooo, can't show my face on public on here, as in the entertainment industry a little... But send a reasonable pic, nice stubble, young for my age, slender etc, but get the thumbs down!! Cock looks ok though

Show me, I'm happy to assess

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By *lincs35 OP Man
over a year ago

inbetween newark/lincoln/sleaford

won't let me reply privately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Selfie'? A selfie's just a pic of yourself using the front facing camera on your phone. There's no right or wrong way to take one, just take a photo of yourself that looks good. Using a natural light source makes you look your best. Or you could use filters so the pic doesn't look so plain

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"'Selfie'? A selfie's just a pic of yourself using the front facing camera on your phone. There's no right or wrong way to take one, just take a photo of yourself that looks good. Using a natural light source makes you look your best. Or you could use filters so the pic doesn't look so plain"

Good advice. Take care with light and composition - use a camera with a self timer and use some of the free software to make the picture more interesting. Also look at some of the pictures on fab to find a style that best reflects your character

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

You don't have to show your face....you have a chest, back, bottom, arms, legs....you could always do full frontal and smudge your face with a blurring app there are plenty of options

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By *lincs35 OP Man
over a year ago

inbetween newark/lincoln/sleaford

I have few pics, one is a selfie, and another someone else took, my clothes look normal, so how can I do a pic that captures me best? I've always done ok chatting someone up, and do get admiring looks when out (sometimes lol!) so maybe try for some more pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send me a face pic so I can critique x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hi all!

Maybe thats because you really are not what they're looking for. The way you've phrased this (unintended I'm sure) makes it seem as if you think that with the right picture you would appeal to everyone you contact

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By *lincs35 OP Man
over a year ago

inbetween newark/lincoln/sleaford

hehe summerloving you've already turned me down

No I certainly don't think I'm everyones cup of tea, but generally nearly everyone says I'm not what they're looking for!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"hehe summerloving you've already turned me down

No I certainly don't think I'm everyones cup of tea, but generally nearly everyone says I'm not what they're looking for!!

That happens to most single men if the forum threads are representative so it's possible that your photos are just one factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think the cock pic helps mate,, a lot of women say in their profile" if u have a cock pic up don't bother sendin msg "

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By *lincs35 OP Man
over a year ago

inbetween newark/lincoln/sleaford

Not sure whats the best pic to show without my face

No six pack, just a reasonably ok figure, quite broad and everything is where its supposed to be lol! I know people state no cock pics, but I do say on my profile just ask for pics! I do get recognised sometimes, so I do have to be careful!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Let me see what you look like please.

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By *lincs35 OP Man
over a year ago

inbetween newark/lincoln/sleaford

Nicecouple, whats the best option? I'm always polite, complimentary, non foreceful etc.. !

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By *lincs35 OP Man
over a year ago

inbetween newark/lincoln/sleaford

pics sent _renchbambi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile pic is your cock, no others that i can see, id just delete if you mailed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offence but we would pass your profile by and the cock pick avatar is one of the reasons. Some good advice on this thread and plenty of good male profiles for you to look at for inspiration. Good luck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Nicecouple, whats the best option? I'm always polite, complimentary, non foreceful etc.. !"

Best option? In what respect?

It's a numbers game to a great extent on here it seems and a single man needs to stand out.

How do you feel about your profile, are you happy with that and consider it representative?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure whats the best pic to show without my face

I find men with toned muscles attractive but I also find men who aren't toned attractive too and I'm sure many women agree with me so you don't need a picture of a six pack. You just have to be yourself as when a woman meets you, that's what she is going to get. There are many tasteful pictures you can have as your profile picture. Why don't you have a browse at other people's profile pictures and get some ideas?

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By *lincs35 OP Man
over a year ago

inbetween newark/lincoln/sleaford

I did actually just change my avatar to that pic, so will have to try another one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cock pic isn't attractive as the only representation of you, parts of your profile seem a bit ranty to be honest and make me question if you're actually single, no judgement, but it's important to some. And the boasting about being "recognisable" just sounds a bit silly..

Photos wise, a black and white with shirt open, torso, bottom in good fitting jeans...cock pics are for later...just happy holiday snaps give a better impression even if the face is blanked out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find men with toned muscles attractive but I also find men who aren't toned attractive too and I'm sure many women agree with me so you don't need a picture of a six pack. You just have to be yourself as when a woman meets you, that's what she is going to get. There are many tasteful pictures you can have as your profile picture. Why don't you have a browse at other people's profile pictures and get some ideas?"
how you doin

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By *lincs35 OP Man
over a year ago

inbetween newark/lincoln/sleaford

That picture any better? x

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By *lincs35 OP Man
over a year ago

inbetween newark/lincoln/sleaford

Is that picture any better? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hehe summerloving you've already turned me down

No I certainly don't think I'm everyones cup of tea, but generally nearly everyone says I'm not what they're looking for!!

That happens to most single men if the forum threads are representative so it's possible that your photos are just one factor.

I know hun but thought I might be able to help with photo

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By *lincs35 OP Man
over a year ago

inbetween newark/lincoln/sleaford

Hope the new one is better? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no clue who u are, don't recognise u at all so maybe your safe with that pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what it's worth - the pics, the profile, the wording...all wouldn't be what I was looking for. The wording and cock pics are just odd.

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By *lincs35 OP Man
over a year ago

inbetween newark/lincoln/sleaford

You have to know a certain thing in music to know me, but I do get recognised sometimes, even fir an autograph lol!!

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"You have to know a certain thing in music to know me, but I do get recognised sometimes, even fir an autograph lol!!"

If you're that 'famous' and get asked for autographs you must be fighting them off with a rather large pussy stick in the real world

And dude, if your anonymity is really that important you'd better do a better job of disguising your face on your current thumbnail as you are easily recognisable.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

I like a good arse Picture.

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By *lincs35 OP Man
over a year ago

inbetween newark/lincoln/sleaford

Its just now and then I get recognised, you have to be within certain circles to know who I am! But I did genuinely get asked for an autograph last week, only a few miles from my home - very odd!!

May do a 'bum' pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont care

if they have no discretion i will happily say loudly oooo fab swingers

they usually go stum then

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