FabSwingers.com forum: When I'm Older

By *habs OP Man
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Some years ago (on another swing site) one of the forum topics posted was by a female member (in her 30's) asking the guys if they would still be interested in her when she is older, ie in her 80's.

The fallout was that some of the female posters were effectively using the men's responses do determine who was worth meeting, ie, "If you can't accept me for who I am in my 80's then you're not worth meeting now".

Personally I believe:

1) There's so much more going on today I'd rather let tomorrow (and 50 years form now) deal with itself.

2) Who said I'd be swinging in 50 years time?

3) Who says she'll be swinging in 50 years time?

4) Who says she'll even want to meet me then even if I said yes now?

5) Who says she even wants to meet me now? Lol.

6) Is knowing who wants to shag you in your 80's that important right now?

7) I thought this was a no-strings lifestyle? I didn't sign-up to a 50 year commitment.

I just found it strange on the whole, but reserved my comments and opinions to myself as a number of guys that did respond in the negative effectively ruined their chances.

Your thoughts?