FabSwingers.com forum: annoyed

By *inky cornish OP Man
over a year ago

Tavistock

How many genuine guys out there are as fed up as I am about not being given a chance ?

Now I know I'm not the best looking guy on here but I message couples and lady's politely and they just get read and deleted then a few days later that same person is moaning becouse they have been stood up by a single guy again.

I know there are 1000s of guys all looking for the same thing but becouse some of us aren't as well defined or don't know what to put on our profiles we get rejected without a second thought.

Come on the rest of you, give us normal guys a chance, you never know you normal on the surface might be something great underneath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop whining and man up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop whining and man up x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop whining and man up x"

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Stop whining and man up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of you don't like something change it or live with it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many genuine guys out there are as fed up as I am about not being given a chance ?

I know there are 1000s of guys all looking for the same thing but becouse some of us aren't as well defined or don't know what to put on our profiles we get rejected without a second thought.

Come on the rest of you, give us normal guys a chance, you never know you normal on the surface might be something great underneath "

Some women and couples love the attention they get from lots of mail. Would you really want to meet such sad pathetic people?

There's lots of friendly polite people too....

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Perhaps if you could be bothered to correct the silly spelling in your profile, people might be interested.

Songle guy?

All that says about you is that you are lazy and not too bothered about making an effort.

One might assume you are the same in bed.

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By *inky cornish OP Man
over a year ago

Tavistock

Apologies for my bad spelling

Corrected now

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Don't put yourself down in your profile. If you don't have an air of confidence about yourself,how can you expect others to find you attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you actually bothered to get off your ass and go to clubs? Then you might wanna start trying

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Life my friend is full of disappointments

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By *inky cornish OP Man
over a year ago

Tavistock

"Don't put yourself down in your profile. If you don't have an air of confidence about yourself,how can you expect others to find you attractive."

That's a very good point but I'm not the type of person to over sell myself. If I said I was hung like a horse with great Abbs or had the stamina of a bull then it could all end in tears.

Prefer to be honest about who I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone's blocked you, they won't see your status update. So it's a bit pointless

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By *iceguy25Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

It is annoying sometimes on here but that is just the way it is on here.

You will have times where you're spoiled for choice almost, then your have times where no one will give you the light of day.

It really is annoying if your like me, spent the time reading their profile and taken time to write a message that reflects that and almost instantly gets deleted but stick with it mate, and remember its meant to be fun so dont take it to heart.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We give lots of single men a chance but they are not those that sit at home waiting for something to drop, literally, into their laps. We play in clubs where the successful single guys make the effort to meet people, chat, show their personality, and realise that a five minute conversation doesn't guarantee a fuck.

Not sure what category you fit into, but have you considered you might not be putting in enough effort?

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By *inky cornish OP Man
over a year ago

Tavistock

Not worried about that tbh. Was just venting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't put yourself down in your profile. If you don't have an air of confidence about yourself,how can you expect others to find you attractive.

That's a very good point but I'm not the type of person to over sell myself. If I said I was hung like a horse with great Abbs or had the stamina of a bull then it could all end in tears.

Prefer to be honest about who I am"

And that's admirable .

So being honest , you need to just display one of your veri's and not show your summary as at present it reeks of exclusivity .

Lose some of the negativity and big up your positives and maybe things will look up for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just harder for guys on here the ratio of men to women is so high so of course women are going to pick the best they can us men would do the exact same if the situation was reversed. All you can do is be persistent and get a thicker skin doing things like this aren't going to help you either.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Don't put yourself down in your profile. If you don't have an air of confidence about yourself,how can you expect others to find you attractive.

That's a very good point but I'm not the type of person to over sell myself. If I said I was hung like a horse with great Abbs or had the stamina of a bull then it could all end in tears.

Prefer to be honest about who I am"

but on your profile you say your nothing special,who is?! Who defines what special is? It's just a negative that you don't need to put.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately i think this topic is for venting but gonna say no way is anyone gonna give you a pity fuck, would you even want one if they did?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not read your profile but rather than sell yourself short, play to your strengths, not your weaknesses. I'm no gods gift but I'd hope my sense of humour and other qualities shine through in my profile. As other people have said, there are plenty of people who will talk, forget about the one dimensional ones and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the definition of a "Normal" guy?

I just don't get this distinction between "normal" treating anyone any different to your not "normal" guy?

Are aesthic guys not normal?

Are funny humourous guys not normal?

And if not what's the difference in how they treat people as opposed to "normal" guys?

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

My advise to single men who find it hard in here is if you're the type that doesn't get much attention/luck in the real world then it's highly unlikely things will be different in here.

Get yourself down the clubs, check the meets section and when you see someone looking for a gang bang get in the queue/get your name down as they tend to be looking for quantity rather than quality and if you're really lucky you might get to fuck someone who looks half decent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My advise to single men who find it hard in here is if you're the type that doesn't get much attention/luck in the real world then it's highly unlikely things will be different in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you're saying that just because people use their discretion and decide not to engage in chat with people who they're not interested in, they deserve to be stood up when they've gone to the trouble of arranging a meet?

Perhaps time wasters are saddos who get off on messing people around which then leads to further disinterest at unwanted messages.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

For some, it's Adult Facebook and the thrill of being chased and chased is all they seek...

and that is cool.

Focus on people who do appear to meet, try and get to a social or club near you and build a network that way.

Pandering to the thrill seekers makes them most.

good luck

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