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Wife Sharing...What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

These are questions for wives/GF only.

When my husband wanted to share me with other men I said no initially.

Then we tried it and now I can't get enough and not just with one man...the more the better.

(If honest I know prefer it to swinging with couples).

I get to pick who we meet and it makes me feel really liberated.

The questions are; Is this a turn on or turn off? Did you resist at first? Do you find it one of the biggest turn on’s?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Made a mess of first post so deleted it. The above is what I was trying to say/ask... but as usual when the ass holes spot a mistake they are over it like a rash xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love playing with other guys on occasion. It is a huge turn on.

Initially i was a little hesitant, probably worried what others would think if they ever found out but once i made the leap it was fantastic.

Lead on to a whole load of other things which we found equally as sexy xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love playing with other guys on occasion. It is a huge turn on.

Initially i was a little hesitant, probably worried what others would think if they ever found out but once i made the leap it was fantastic.

Lead on to a whole load of other things which we found equally as sexy xxx"

The strange thing is I thought I would feel guilty... but I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to see hubbys face when im being fucked mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def a turn on havnt done it with my mr but done it wen i was single x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. "
yet you are looking for couples on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Def a turn on havnt done it with my mr but done it wen i was single x"

He will love it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But mr loves seeing me fuck other men on the couple meets xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it! I'm not bi and S gets off on seeing me be a dirty little slut. L x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. "

And you say you are looking to meet couples...is this so you can give the hubby a lecture?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But mr loves seeing me fuck other men on the couple meets xx"

That is very horny but also love exchanging glances when he is deep inside another girl and when she moans i am in heaven xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love it! I'm not bi and S gets off on seeing me be a dirty little slut. L x"

Yes my hubby loves calling me a slut...and I love being one...is there something wrong with us??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol i love that hearing her moan from his cock mmmx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These are questions for wives/GF only.

When my husband wanted to share me with other men I said no initially.

Then we tried it and now I can't get enough and not just with one man...the more the better.

(If honest I know prefer it to swinging with couples).

I get to pick who we meet and it makes me feel really liberated.

The questions are; Is this a turn on or turn off? Did you resist at first? Do you find it one of the biggest turn on’s?

"

Completely agree- it was a big fantasy for me but I resisted and once tried it wish we had started years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol i love that hearing her moan from his cock mmmx"

So horny thinking about it, think I might need a little lie down before starting dinner lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"These are questions for wives/GF only.

When my husband wanted to share me with other men I said no initially.

Then we tried it and now I can't get enough and not just with one man...the more the better.

(If honest I know prefer it to swinging with couples).

I get to pick who we meet and it makes me feel really liberated.

The questions are; Is this a turn on or turn off? Did you resist at first? Do you find it one of the biggest turn on’s?

Completely agree- it was a big fantasy for me but I resisted and once tried it wish we had started years ago "

When we started single men were blocked and it was couples only...now the majority of our meets are with single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love it! I'm not bi and S gets off on seeing me be a dirty little slut. L x

Yes my hubby loves calling me a slut...and I love being one...is there something wrong with us?? "

Maybe! But if we love it why stop?

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By *randMrsHorny24Couple
over a year ago

South wales


"Love it! I'm not bi and S gets off on seeing me be a dirty little slut. L x

Yes my hubby loves calling me a slut...and I love being one...is there something wrong with us?? "

There's nothing wrong with u I love fucking other guys while hubby is watching and love bein called a dirty slut

Mrs h

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By *arah_11TV/TS
over a year ago

Yeadon/Leeds


"Love it! I'm not bi and S gets off on seeing me be a dirty little slut. L x

Yes my hubby loves calling me a slut...and I love being one...is there something wrong with us??

Maybe! But if we love it why stop? "
there is def nothing wrong with you! I'm single but if i had a gf i'd let her see other men! Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol i love that hearing her moan from his cock mmmx

So horny thinking about it, think I might need a little lie down before starting dinner lol xxx"
lol yh is getting abit steamy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha well said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. "
so if your wife said im bringing a work mate home for you to fuck youd of course decline the offer? Hypocrite maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! I wasn't keen at all, I couldn't imagine being with another guy let alone it being in front of C, I also thought it wouldn't feel fair, like I was having all the fun and that people would think C was just allowing it to make me happy. I thought meeting couples would make more sense.

so we went to a club on a single guy night just to see how we felt. We saw a guy that liked me and lets just say the second we went to a play area all my fears disappeared and I realised that Clarence gets just as much out of it as I do lol. We both find it such a turn on and because I know we do it as a couple there's no guilt x

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


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When we started single men were blocked and it was couples only...now the majority of our meets are with single men. "

We're the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes! I wasn't keen at all, I couldn't imagine being with another guy let alone it being in front of C, I also thought it wouldn't feel fair, like I was having all the fun and that people would think C was just allowing it to make me happy. I thought meeting couples would make more sense.

so we went to a club on a single guy night just to see how we felt. We saw a guy that liked me and lets just say the second we went to a play area all my fears disappeared and I realised that Clarence gets just as much out of it as I do lol. We both find it such a turn on and because I know we do it as a couple there's no guilt x "

I think that is one of the best things about it...with hubby’s approval there is no guilt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see I think there's a big difference between sharing your wife and letting another man fuck your wife, I love sharing my wife in a 3some where we are both involved, I wouldn't watch her fuck another man without my involvement,

Mrs l was really nervous the first time she had another man thinking I would think less of her or I would be jealous or think less of her, but it turned out we both loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both enjoy it!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You see I think there's a big difference between sharing your wife and letting another man fuck your wife, I love sharing my wife in a 3some where we are both involved, I wouldn't watch her fuck another man without my involvement, "

If only one or two males then Hubby will sometimes join in to make mmf or mmmf but he also spends time taking vid and pics and leaves me to it...we don't have set rules and just go with the flow.

When it is a GB hubby tends to keep an eye on thing's letting me relax and enjoy.

The thing about our sharing is the focus is on my enjoyment and the more I enjoy it the more Mr enjoys it...we then have the best ever sex afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. "

HELLO - swinging website!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. "
Then you don't understand swinging .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. "
Was this tongue in cheek or did you find yourself in here whilst looking for fabulous wingers on the net Either way your comment suggests like 90 percent of the single men on here that your not cut out for swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. "

Because its like watching the best porno ever and at the end of the movie you get to fuck the star!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby loves it, we only meet guys and are both happy with that. As someone else says hubby reckons its like watching a live porn film and then he gets to fuck the star later.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Thoroughly enjoy fucking and sucking two or several guys as long as my partner is one of them. He loves to watch me play, and I love to put on a really good show for him. One of the highlights of our swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's our favourite scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me.

Because its like watching the best porno ever and at the end of the movie you get to fuck the star!!"

Dx

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

I love it but was a bit wary when the hubby first suggested it. My first thought was what woulf he get out of it and thought I would feel so guilty at having a good time and him not.

But when I thought about it I realised how much I enjoyed seeing him with another woman while we were swinging I gave it s go and found we both enjoyed it so much that it hsppens quite regularly now and it also works the other way regarding him with another woman.

In fact I would say we have gone from a swinging lifestyle to an open relationship but we still have regular swinging times. We are totally honest to each other about times with other people and both get such a thrill hearing about each others times with other partners it always lead to a mind blowing time between judt the two of us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thoroughly enjoy fucking and sucking two or several guys as long as my partner is one of them. He loves to watch me play, and I love to put on a really good show for him. One of the highlights of our swinging "

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe


"Love playing with other guys on occasion. It is a huge turn on.

Initially i was a little hesitant, probably worried what others would think if they ever found out but once i made the leap it was fantastic.

Lead on to a whole load of other things which we found equally as sexy xxx

The strange thing is I thought I would feel guilty... but I don't "

Y feel guilty if it's what you both discussed prior to jumping in lol

Yep we like it too xx all good fun xx enjoy xx

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. "

I guess this was meant to be funny but if not then this response shows a lack of understanding about the dynamics of a good relationship not just of swinging. I don't "let" my wife do anything. We do this together but she is also an autonomous human being who will do what she thinks right. To me an MFM makes a lot of sense as many of the ladies on here can outlast a number of men not just two.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. "

"These are questions for wives/GF only."

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Love it! I'm not bi and S gets off on seeing me be a dirty little slut. L x

Yes my hubby loves calling me a slut...and I love being one...is there something wrong with us?? "

Of course there is nothing wrong with you. We are in a similar position, we usually meet single men, but in clubs these days (due to being let down too many times). She loves to flirt and play, sometimes with more than 1 guy, and I love to watch her then join in and play with her too. It really turns us both on.

We just find it easier than meeting couples, it's a different dynamic and we both love it. It's very horny, and just a bit of sexy fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love it I was a bit wary at first. Till we went to a club were there was more men than cpls.Was really turned on by all the attention i was getting and Hubby encouraged me so I did He loves to see me enjoying myself

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Chudleigh

This is really why we Swing! To start with Beth was really nervous about being the centre of attention and me not enjoying herself - but she soon realised that we both had a great time & kissing her whilst another guy went down on her made her realise she could enjoy herself and I wouldn't be upset. For us it is about making sure we are both comfortable with whatever we do & who we do it with - but it is such a turn on for both of us

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"But mr loves seeing me fuck other men on the couple meets xx

That is very horny but also love exchanging glances when he is deep inside another girl and when she moans i am in heaven xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Greta stuff, enjoy all you can, nothing beats an open relationship.

Good luck to you all, I love seeing my woman with another man, a great turn on for us both, even at our age!

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

My partner has no problem with me having sex with others, with him there or not, with him taking part, or not.

He is a very secure person, very dominant in life, work and personality and I know he loves me and wants me to be happy.

That's all it takes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These are questions for wives/GF only.

When my husband wanted to share me with other men I said no initially.

Then we tried it and now I can't get enough and not just with one man...the more the better.

(If honest I know prefer it to swinging with couples).

I get to pick who we meet and it makes me feel really liberated.

The questions are; Is this a turn on or turn off? Did you resist at first? Do you find it one of the biggest turn on’s?

"

I have no problem having sex with another mans wife . Isn't that what they are looking for

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By *omino1966Couple
over a year ago

barrow in furness


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. "
you say that cumbrian male but are asking for couples on your profilr

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. you say that cumbrian male but are asking for couples on your profilr"

It makes you wonder what people like cumbrian male expect to happen on a site like this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Greta stuff, enjoy all you can, nothing beats an open relationship.

Good luck to you all, I love seeing my woman with another man, a great turn on for us both, even at our age!"

Great to see you both still active

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our biggest turn on, love the anticipation, a strangers hand sliding his hand into junes knickers, the gasp as he enters her, kissing while a strange cock pleasures her, so erotic

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By *ondcpl4meetCouple
over a year ago

North of the river


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. "

Why would you want to fuck another mans wife ,its completely beyond me too !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anybody can have my wife . We don't live together anymore . Good luck to anybody that does have sex with her . She only ever done vanilla .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody can have my wife . We don't live together anymore . Good luck to anybody that does have sex with her . She only ever done vanilla . "
I know I shouldn't but this made me pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the idea, but are yet to try for real...

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By *arEsseCouple
over a year ago

keighley

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By *arEsseCouple
over a year ago

keighley

We only tried this recently after talking about it while having sex,then my bf suggested doing it for real,very nervous to start of with but I love the attention of 2 men during foreplay and then looking into my bf eyes as another man enters me. Turns me on so much knowing he's watching me and the sex afterwards is amazing. I love this part of our life and so dose my bf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. "

So, how do you view the couples you seek to meet? Your comment is unlikely to make them feel respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it had always been a fantasy of mine and was unable to talk to anyone about it without being judged until i met my husband and now three years on ive lost count how many men he has shared me with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great to see each other being pleasured by others, but the sex between ourselves afterwards is always mindblowing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it had always been a fantasy of mine and was unable to talk to anyone about it without being judged until i met my husband and now three years on ive lost count how many men he has shared me with "

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By *MLETCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. "

thats what swingers do

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By *MLETCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me.

So, how do you view the couples you seek to meet? Your comment is unlikely to make them feel respected. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for me its a turn on to date and have naughty sex with a hotwife X

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"We only tried this recently after talking about it while having sex,then my bf suggested doing it for real,very nervous to start of with but I love the attention of 2 men during foreplay and then looking into my bf eyes as another man enters me. Turns me on so much knowing he's watching me and the sex afterwards is amazing. I love this part of our life and so dose my bf. "

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Love being shared and Paul love,s sharing me we both find it good fun both happy with it so why not

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

We have only ever done mfm as couples do not appeal to us so it works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mfm is very hot love two men pleasing me! Such a big turn on....hot hot hot.

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. you say that cumbrian male but are asking for couples on your profilr

It makes you wonder what people like cumbrian male expect to happen on a site like this..."

Maybe he wants to do the old man . ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love that scenerio !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband loves seeing me with another man even if he just watches. He's even been known to lurk in a hotel corridor listening and also listened on the phone when I've been with someone else. Sex with him is mind blowing when I'm fresh from another man so it's a huge turn on for both of us.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Mfm is very hot love two men pleasing me! Such a big turn on....hot hot hot."
mmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he loves me to have other men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big time hot as

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"he loves me to have other men"

works for us too, height of eroticism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. "

And yet you are on a swinging site looking to have sex with couples????? Are you only going to shag the bloke?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it very much, a lot of that is because hubby enjoys it so much as well. Never entered my head to feel guilty about it, virtually all the ocassions I have had sex with other men he has arranged anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me.

Why would you want to fuck another mans wife ,its completely beyond me too !!"
Ermmmmmm, its called a hotwife couple, lending the wife for others for fun..... share the goodness I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to see her being pleasured

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By *eaningofLifeCouple
over a year ago

York

Same here.

I get a lot of pleasure out of watching her having fun. We're secure in our relationship. She has several FBs on the go. I don't feel threatened by them, they're all nice guys and treat her well and with respect. I've met them, we've even played mmf on several occasions, and the look on her face as she orgasms is exquisite!

To be honest, I don't understand the OP's motivation for asking a question which I thought was common practice amongst swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same here.

I get a lot of pleasure out of watching her having fun. We're secure in our relationship. She has several FBs on the go. I don't feel threatened by them, they're all nice guys and treat her well and with respect. I've met them, we've even played mmf on several occasions, and the look on her face as she orgasms is exquisite!

To be honest, I don't understand the OP's motivation for asking a question which I thought was common practice amongst swingers. "

All the above and to answer your question because too many people forget it's a swingers site even though its in the name hence the number of help me I can't get a fuck posts

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

nottinghamshire

Luckily its not full share. Being nagged. Told off would not want to share that bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These are questions for wives/GF only.

When my husband wanted to share me with other men I said no initially.

Then we tried it and now I can't get enough and not just with one man...the more the better.

(If honest I know prefer it to swinging with couples).

I get to pick who we meet and it makes me feel really liberated.

The questions are; Is this a turn on or turn off? Did you resist at first? Do you find it one of the biggest turn on’s?

"

It was something we spoke about whilst having sex,a fantasysnd nothing more. My husband was smart though, never pestered or pressured and let me come around, or not, in my own time.

In the end it was I who asked if he'd take me to a club.....

It is now not only an immense turn on but also our secret.

After numerous encounters and s-experiences, this has now moved onto an entirely new level involving me and my BBC 'lover'. But it has only strengthened the relationship between us as I know I am a lucky woman to have such an amazing husband xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same here.

I get a lot of pleasure out of watching her having fun. We're secure in our relationship. She has several FBs on the go. I don't feel threatened by them, they're all nice guys and treat her well and with respect. I've met them, we've even played mmf on several occasions, and the look on her face as she orgasms is exquisite!

To be honest, I don't understand the OP's motivation for asking a question which I thought was common practice amongst swingers. "

I think you missed my point. There are many couple profiles that make it clear that they are not looking for single men!

I am refering to couples who find it a bigger turn on when they do seek single men for mmf, mmmf, mmmmf....you know what I mean.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Same here.

I get a lot of pleasure out of watching her having fun. We're secure in our relationship. She has several FBs on the go. I don't feel threatened by them, they're all nice guys and treat her well and with respect. I've met them, we've even played mmf on several occasions, and the look on her face as she orgasms is exquisite!

To be honest, I don't understand the OP's motivation for asking a question which I thought was common practice amongst swingers.

I think you missed my point. There are many couple profiles that make it clear that they are not looking for single men!

I am refering to couples who find it a bigger turn on when they do seek single men for mmf, mmmf, mmmmf....you know what I mean."

Why has he missed your point? I think he has addressed it precisely.

Surely the point is that a woman isn't an object to be "shared". Correspondingly as long as both halves of a couple are happy with the woman fucking other men - her for the sex, him for seeing her enjoyment - then it isn't something to be criticised - it's called swinging.

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over a year ago


"Same here.

I get a lot of pleasure out of watching her having fun. We're secure in our relationship. She has several FBs on the go. I don't feel threatened by them, they're all nice guys and treat her well and with respect. I've met them, we've even played mmf on several occasions, and the look on her face as she orgasms is exquisite!

To be honest, I don't understand the OP's motivation for asking a question which I thought was common practice amongst swingers.

I think you missed my point. There are many couple profiles that make it clear that they are not looking for single men!

I am refering to couples who find it a bigger turn on when they do seek single men for mmf, mmmf, mmmmf....you know what I mean.

Why has he missed your point? I think he has addressed it precisely.

Surely the point is that a woman isn't an object to be "shared". Correspondingly as long as both halves of a couple are happy with the woman fucking other men - her for the sex, him for seeing her enjoyment - then it isn't something to be criticised - it's called swinging."

Read the post and stop trying to cause a fight...

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Same here.

I get a lot of pleasure out of watching her having fun. We're secure in our relationship. She has several FBs on the go. I don't feel threatened by them, they're all nice guys and treat her well and with respect. I've met them, we've even played mmf on several occasions, and the look on her face as she orgasms is exquisite!

To be honest, I don't understand the OP's motivation for asking a question which I thought was common practice amongst swingers.

I think you missed my point. There are many couple profiles that make it clear that they are not looking for single men!

I am refering to couples who find it a bigger turn on when they do seek single men for mmf, mmmf, mmmmf....you know what I mean.

Why has he missed your point? I think he has addressed it precisely.

Surely the point is that a woman isn't an object to be "shared". Correspondingly as long as both halves of a couple are happy with the woman fucking other men - her for the sex, him for seeing her enjoyment - then it isn't something to be criticised - it's called swinging.

Read the post and stop trying to cause a fight..."

We read the post and disagreed with its sentiments. There's no fight - the point of a thread is to seek other people's opinions and we have given ours.

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over a year ago


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. "

Can't see you getting any couple meets!

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"why any man would let his wife get shagged by other men is completely beyond me. "

Why any couple would agree to meet you is beyond me...oh, wait a second, that hasn't happened yet has it!

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over a year ago


"Same here.

I get a lot of pleasure out of watching her having fun. We're secure in our relationship. She has several FBs on the go. I don't feel threatened by them, they're all nice guys and treat her well and with respect. I've met them, we've even played mmf on several occasions, and the look on her face as she orgasms is exquisite!

To be honest, I don't understand the OP's motivation for asking a question which I thought was common practice amongst swingers.

All the above and to answer your question because too many people forget it's a swingers site even though its in the name hence the number of help me I can't get a fuck posts "

It's not just a swingers site though! Read all the site info and the fact it's not just named swingers! The first part of the site name should be a huge clue yet I see it's eluded most people. Fab doesn't just mean fabulous. On this site it means Friends And Benefits! Which is what a lot of people are also on here for. I read this thread because I also hope to find why a person sleeps with others that aren't the love of their life? I see a varied amount of views on the matter. I personally couldn't watch a man I love fuck others nor would I sleep with others. but that's just my ppreferences. Long as your all happy then that's all that counts. Happy swinging to you couples!

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over a year ago


"

We read the post and disagreed with its sentiments."

Ok...so things do not get lost in translation here is a copy of my original post;


"These are questions for wives/GF only.

When my husband wanted to share me with other men I said no initially.

Then we tried it and now I can't get enough and not just with one man...the more the better.

(If honest I know prefer it to swinging with couples).

I get to pick who we meet and it makes me feel really liberated.

The questions are; Is this a turn on or turn off? Did you resist at first? Do you find it one of the biggest turn on’s?"

Can you please expand on the "sentiments" you do not agree with?

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"

We read the post and disagreed with its sentiments.

Ok...so things do not get lost in translation here is a copy of my original post;

These are questions for wives/GF only.

When my husband wanted to share me with other men I said no initially.

Then we tried it and now I can't get enough and not just with one man...the more the better.

(If honest I know prefer it to swinging with couples).

I get to pick who we meet and it makes me feel really liberated.

The questions are; Is this a turn on or turn off? Did you resist at first? Do you find it one of the biggest turn on’s?

Can you please expand on the "sentiments" you do not agree with? "

The concept of "sharing" a wife in the title of your thread. To us you can only share something you own. Some men might like to own their wife, some wives might like to be owned, which is fine - but not how we see things. That's all.

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over a year ago


"

We read the post and disagreed with its sentiments.

Ok...so things do not get lost in translation here is a copy of my original post;

These are questions for wives/GF only.

When my husband wanted to share me with other men I said no initially.

Then we tried it and now I can't get enough and not just with one man...the more the better.

(If honest I know prefer it to swinging with couples).

I get to pick who we meet and it makes me feel really liberated.

The questions are; Is this a turn on or turn off? Did you resist at first? Do you find it one of the biggest turn on’s?

Can you please expand on the "sentiments" you do not agree with?

The concept of "sharing" a wife in the title of your thread. To us you can only share something you own. Some men might like to own their wife, some wives might like to be owned, which is fine - but not how we see things. That's all."

Oh please!!! Sharing is a common term in the swinging community and we all know what it means...and it certainly doesn’t mean I am owned by anyone...you should really stop taking terms out of context...it isn't very nice...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally couldn't watch a man I love fuck others nor would I sleep with others. "

But your profile say's you are interested in cuckolding and DP...how does that work with your monogamous lifestyle?

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over a year ago


"I personally couldn't watch a man I love fuck others nor would I sleep with others.

But your profile say's you are interested in cuckolding and DP...how does that work with your monogamous lifestyle? "

Watching in clubs doesn't mean participating with couples so that suits my "monogramous lifestyle" just fine thank you ! Dp me by the single guy I'm with! You know ann summers is a great help with that!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"

We read the post and disagreed with its sentiments.

Ok...so things do not get lost in translation here is a copy of my original post;

These are questions for wives/GF only.

When my husband wanted to share me with other men I said no initially.

Then we tried it and now I can't get enough and not just with one man...the more the better.

(If honest I know prefer it to swinging with couples).

I get to pick who we meet and it makes me feel really liberated.

The questions are; Is this a turn on or turn off? Did you resist at first? Do you find it one of the biggest turn on’s?

Can you please expand on the "sentiments" you do not agree with?

The concept of "sharing" a wife in the title of your thread. To us you can only share something you own. Some men might like to own their wife, some wives might like to be owned, which is fine - but not how we see things. That's all.

Oh please!!! Sharing is a common term in the swinging community and we all know what it means...and it certainly doesn’t mean I am owned by anyone...you should really stop taking terms out of context...it isn't very nice... "

You seem to be getting rather agitated over someone expressing an opinion that you don't agree with, yet the point of a thread is to enable discussion, isn't it?

We haven't taken "sharing" out of context, nor have we changed its meaning - in our part of the swinging community "sharing" is indeed a very common term, but it relates to sharing experiences. Let's just agree to disagree and leave it at that.

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over a year ago


"

We read the post and disagreed with its sentiments.

Ok...so things do not get lost in translation here is a copy of my original post;

These are questions for wives/GF only.

When my husband wanted to share me with other men I said no initially.

Then we tried it and now I can't get enough and not just with one man...the more the better.

(If honest I know prefer it to swinging with couples).

I get to pick who we meet and it makes me feel really liberated.

The questions are; Is this a turn on or turn off? Did you resist at first? Do you find it one of the biggest turn on’s?

Can you please expand on the "sentiments" you do not agree with?

The concept of "sharing" a wife in the title of your thread. To us you can only share something you own. Some men might like to own their wife, some wives might like to be owned, which is fine - but not how we see things. That's all.

Oh please!!! Sharing is a common term in the swinging community and we all know what it means...and it certainly doesn’t mean I am owned by anyone...you should really stop taking terms out of context...it isn't very nice... "

Yes it isn't very nice! Op should practice what she preaches

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

We read the post and disagreed with its sentiments.

Ok...so things do not get lost in translation here is a copy of my original post;

These are questions for wives/GF only.

When my husband wanted to share me with other men I said no initially.

Then we tried it and now I can't get enough and not just with one man...the more the better.

(If honest I know prefer it to swinging with couples).

I get to pick who we meet and it makes me feel really liberated.

The questions are; Is this a turn on or turn off? Did you resist at first? Do you find it one of the biggest turn on’s?

Can you please expand on the "sentiments" you do not agree with?

The concept of "sharing" a wife in the title of your thread. To us you can only share something you own. Some men might like to own their wife, some wives might like to be owned, which is fine - but not how we see things. That's all.

Oh please!!! Sharing is a common term in the swinging community and we all know what it means...and it certainly doesn’t mean I am owned by anyone...you should really stop taking terms out of context...it isn't very nice...

You seem to be getting rather agitated over someone expressing an opinion that you don't agree with, yet the point of a thread is to enable discussion, isn't it?

We haven't taken "sharing" out of context, nor have we changed its meaning - in our part of the swinging community "sharing" is indeed a very common term, but it relates to sharing experiences. Let's just agree to disagree and leave it at that. "

Ok, but remember "Sharing is caring"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

We read the post and disagreed with its sentiments.

Ok...so things do not get lost in translation here is a copy of my original post;

These are questions for wives/GF only.

When my husband wanted to share me with other men I said no initially.

Then we tried it and now I can't get enough and not just with one man...the more the better.

(If honest I know prefer it to swinging with couples).

I get to pick who we meet and it makes me feel really liberated.

The questions are; Is this a turn on or turn off? Did you resist at first? Do you find it one of the biggest turn on’s?

Can you please expand on the "sentiments" you do not agree with?

The concept of "sharing" a wife in the title of your thread. To us you can only share something you own. Some men might like to own their wife, some wives might like to be owned, which is fine - but not how we see things. That's all.

Oh please!!! Sharing is a common term in the swinging community and we all know what it means...and it certainly doesn’t mean I am owned by anyone...you should really stop taking terms out of context...it isn't very nice...

Yes it isn't very nice! Op should practice what she preaches"

Just asked a question...thank you for clearing it up

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