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By *omer47 OP   Man
over a year ago

leigh

hi all.i just wonderd how are you meant to meet genuine people off here if nobody replies to my messages,let alone wants to meets....any advice would be apriciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seriously - you ask these questions all the time and take no notice of the advice given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you check before sending a message that they want to meet guys and that you are in there age range ?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You where given advice in the last two threads that you started that where of similar vein.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I stare at your profile all I see are CAPS and "&".

Plus, see other comments. You keep asking, and ignoring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you need to rewrite your profile, and use the space bar on your keyboard this time around, it’s all stuck together and annoying to read.

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Mmmm profile was a little off putting. Read like a list of demands, with couples and ladies profiles one can understand this to an extent as you are trying to filter out the hundreds of emails us single blokes send.

Best solution to meets I think is get out there, go to meets/socials say hi to people and chat.

While some on here may want zero social interaction, I think a great many people do want some degree of friendliness, i.e. that ability to have a BBQ and not conduct it in total silence.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Follow the advice given on the previous thread, lots of good stuff in there.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing I noticed in your profile was you telling people not to be rude because you are not rude to them yet your profile opens with Shouting (capitols) and then you say "if I can put pictures up why can't you"

Well there are a lot of reasons why people cannot put face pictures in thier profile, we have them but we accept other people can't and respect that, to demand that they do is rude.

People have choices, if they don't want pictures on thier profile it is thier choice and they should not be chastised for it.

Do what we do, block anyone who doesn't have pictures that is not being rude it is respecting thier wishes whilst excersising our own choice not to have contact with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i sense an air of deperation may be putting folks off!

and yor profile reads like a shopping list!

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By *WLondonMixMan
over a year ago

Willsden/DollisHill

Best advice-

Read and actually take note of all advice given on this thread as well as the others. You have made no effort to adjust your profile to peoples recommendations.

Your profile can be used to represent your personality, Mine is far from perfect yet effort has been put in and been told it shows.

Rant at the end of your profile at least, and caps make letters bigger and often seen as aggressive and subtlety is usually the better tactic.

Last of all READ the actual advice given... Also maybe delete current profile and sit down, stand up or pace around and think through how you wish to portray yourself, and can't stress this enough. USE ADVICE GIVEN and don't waste peoples good intentions mate.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Suggest you take the hint.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"i sense an air of deperation may be putting folks off!

and yor profile reads like a shopping list! "

Is "Desperation" the new fragrance for men by Givenchy?

(because i'm worth it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can see where he is coming from, i send polite messages, i check the age range looking for, i have pictures and a face picture, and im not bad looking yet nothing. Hmmm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i sense an air of deperation may be putting folks off!

and yor profile reads like a shopping list!

Is "Desperation" the new fragrance for men by Givenchy?

(because i'm worth it)"

that would be L'Oreal...

...you're worthy of desperation?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"i sense an air of deperation may be putting folks off!

and yor profile reads like a shopping list!

Is "Desperation" the new fragrance for men by Givenchy?

(because i'm worth it)

that would be L'Oreal...

...you're worthy of desperation?"

I'm here. Same as you.

I look forward to inhaling the sweet aroma of "Pot & Kettle" on your neck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi all.i just wonderd how are you meant to meet genuine people off here if nobody replies to my messages,let alone wants to meets....any advice would be apriciated."

delete and start again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i can see where he is coming from, i send polite messages, i check the age range looking for, i have pictures and a face picture, and im not bad looking yet nothing. Hmmm! "

Your profile isnt that bad apart from the cock pics and the ruler

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By *entcouple4550Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

asking 4 too much, face pic puts me off as look like police uniform. And yes profile does give over as desperation.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

OP.. Try being hard to get!

Send no messages and don't look at any profiles, they will all slowly wonder why they are not getting your attention and the PMs will flood in, trust me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think his profile is one of the worse i have saw recently

as a single woman on here i wouldn't respond to his profile nor i would send a wink being fair i would block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think his profile is one of the worse i have saw recently

as a single woman on here i wouldn't respond to his profile nor i would send a wink being fair i would block

"

It is a bad profile and the OP has been advised on another couple of threads he started how to improve it and has took no notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think his profile is one of the worse i have saw recently

as a single woman on here i wouldn't respond to his profile nor i would send a wink being fair i would block

It is a bad profile and the OP has been advised on another couple of threads he started how to improve it and has took no notice."

that's what i dont get if ask for advice why not listen and take action, unless he thins he will get meets out of this lol

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

Hmmm interesting thread!

Well you have been given some advice previously and not acted on it? It doesn't bode well for people putting effort in to try and help if you don't take it on board.

Ok as i see it your profile isn't the best, you need to be more open and encourage people in.

Think of it like opening your fount door and inviting someone in for a cuppa. It has to be inviting and its the same with your profile.

Messages and response.......well huge can of worms as your trying to stand out. So what you have to do is make your message different. How you do that is up to you. If i told you then you wouldn't be different but just a minni me.

The one thing you MUST absorb is that not everyone will answer. So its a matter of moving on. But try not to cut and paste as its not popular, make things personal and tailored and it will help. The thing you need though is some charisma and sadly not everyone has it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think his profile is one of the worse i have saw recently

as a single woman on here i wouldn't respond to his profile nor i would send a wink being fair i would block

It is a bad profile and the OP has been advised on another couple of threads he started how to improve it and has took no notice.

that's what i dont get if ask for advice why not listen and take action, unless he thins he will get meets out of this lol "

Thats what i think,perhaps he hopes someone will feel sorry for him and shag him lol

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By *raceyntonyCouple
over a year ago

london

we are a couple and we are finding it veryyyy hard to get meets can not even get club meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its the police uniform that scares people away!

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By *raceyntonyCouple
over a year ago

london


"Maybe its the police uniform that scares people away!"

what police uniform think u are _iewing the wrong profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP is wearing what looks like a police uniform.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP,

Considering when this thread was started, I have just looked at your profile, and you have ignored ALL the suggestions, so why bother to ask?

Spell check and grammar, a few taps of the spacebar, a little less demanding- save the BDSM for the playtime, instead of carrying the dominant attitude into your pie.

Oh yes and it Is contradictory- you don't like fisting but will do it if they like it ie. under duress (poor you!)grow a pair and state that you don't like it, end of!

Finally, pin your ears/eyes back and listen, actually take the advice on board! (Notice the spelling of board!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If the OP wants a meet he should jump in his van, head to durrington and follow the 3rd Infantry to the "secret location".

At which point it's a simple matter of taking a ticket from the Tescos Deli style machine and waiting for your number to be called.

As long as he's not shy.

Or fussy.

Oh, and watch the road on the way back, i've heard it's tricky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the OP wants a meet he should jump in his van, head to durrington and follow the 3rd Infantry to the "secret location".

At which point it's a simple matter of taking a ticket from the Tescos Deli style machine and waiting for your number to be called.

As long as he's not shy.

Or fussy.

Oh, and watch the road on the way back, i've heard it's tricky.

"

3rd infantry? oooo I do like a man in combats...

Just the trousers and boots...

Preferably with the flies undone and a nice juicy cock peeking out mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has given me my Saturday morning giggle, thanks guys! I love how BB says he COULD tell him the secrets, but he WONT!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"hi all.i just wonderd how are you meant to meet genuine people off here if nobody replies to my messages,let alone wants to meets....any advice would be apriciated."
If you don't meet people's 'requirements' - you won't meet anyone. Most likely, your message will just be deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think his profile is one of the worse i have saw recently

as a single woman on here i wouldn't respond to his profile nor i would send a wink being fair i would block

It is a bad profile and the OP has been advised on another couple of threads he started how to improve it and has took no notice.

that's what i dont get if ask for advice why not listen and take action, unless he thins he will get meets out of this lol

Thats what i think,perhaps he hopes someone will feel sorry for him and shag him lol"

so he wants the pity shag option lol

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