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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

joined 2 weeks ago and all weve had are messages from timewasters.does this site really work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does I think your expectations may be a little high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yes it does I think your expectations may be a little high"

Lol

He's expecting not to have his time wasted, isn't that what we all want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's very surprising, as Durham is awash with sex-starved women gagging to have blind-dates with professional couples. Maybe they're all poorly with flu?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Two weeks in and already their first meet with another couple...Dooing well by the looks of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab does work but you have to put some effort into it ie..profile, pics ( if you can.) 2. Weeks and you leaving all ready maybe this site is not what you thought it was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - no pics (not even an avatar), no text, no visibility here in the forums for people to get an idea about yourselves....

Hint, hint, hint.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yes it does I think your expectations may be a little high.

Lol

He's expecting not to have his time wasted, isn't that what we all want? "

I'm just a timewaster so wouldn't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea but it's way harder for single guys it you like to be picky and meet someone you fancy.

I've even been told I'm fake as I'm fit.( there words) go figure. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"joined 2 weeks ago and all weve had are messages from timewasters.does this site really work?"

It certainly works for us

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

It does. However you just need to use a bit of savvy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey OP, why are you waiting until the weekend to delete the profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah id flock to meet you bth

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"joined 2 weeks ago and all weve had are messages from timewasters.does this site really work?"

Must remember to ask those people I meet at the next Newcastle social and the York social on Friday.... And the clubs in Sunderland and Stanley...

The site gives you the tools to make it work... Time and patience

Do you think 2 weeks is really giving it time and patience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really does work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to the social ! Socially chatted but as yet still waiting for first meet ?

We think it depends on wether you just want sex or fun times ?

We aren't going to jump straight in so are happy to wait and see !

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

It works for us, we have met lots of lovely sexy people here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No public pics, only looking for fems or fem couples..... why the hell aren't people jumping over each other to meet you.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It doesn't seem to take much for Fab users to call others time wasters. My time isn't so precious that I consider a few fun minutes typing a message a waste of it. Fab is as much about flirting as anything else. Some flirting leads to more, some doesn't. If you exchanged a few words with someone in a bar and then asked them to fuck you would probably get no for an answer. Why should Fab be any different. It's not time wasting - it's testing the ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be patient. It took me 3 weeks even to get a decent reply. And a further 2 weeks to get a meet. It will come, but posting on here is not helping your chances. Be positive . Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few timewasters here. Like anyone else they don't have time to waste.

This site is what you make it and results reflect effort.

If you don't beleive me check my profile/pics...I'm a fairly ordinary guy, nothing special. Now check how many verifications I have.....apparently single guys find it hard here.....NOT! Feel free to contact me privately if you need help.

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By *reacher and TartCouple
over a year ago

High Peak


"joined 2 weeks ago and all weve had are messages from timewasters.does this site really work?"

It does why not use your filters and contact people you are interested in if you are getting frustrated. It won't be a magical cure but could cut out some of the issues you are experiencing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define work...

If you mean do hundreds of folk text a blank avatar and brief profile and request to be fucked senseless...

Then no.

If you mean with a little effort, selective choice, respect and patience do you get to meet people and have amazing sex from time to time...then yes..

Sometimes its 'user error'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Well I spend a bit of time in Durham with my FWB, but your profile is far too sparce on detail to interest us.

Maybe work on that and get some pictures up and things will improve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is kinda pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP - no pics (not even an avatar), no text, no visibility here in the forums for people to get an idea about yourselves....

Hint, hint, hint....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With no pics at all, the verification is a suprise to me.

No effort no meets

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I been here 5 years or so, its mostly about demographics really. I could of had load of veris by now if I would be prepared to travel thru out UK

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

I'd say instead of spending time on the forum moaning your time would be better spent working on your profile.

A bit about yourselves and a couple of pics would be a good start but being on for 2 weeks and having your first meet after 4 days on the site is doing not too bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have put no effort into your profile so you are gettibg the results you deserve. Where is the profile text?? Where are the photos to entice the most highly sort after group on here that you are looking for??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"joined 2 weeks ago and all weve had are messages from timewasters.does this site really work?"

Yes. I am in the most plentiful and least popular demographic of all fab users, the married single male.

Luckily my charm and rugged good looks, patience and determination pay off.

If it helps, use your filters and set your preferences to nothing so that you don't appear in searches. Then go out and search for what you are looking for..

Oh and a little more detail in your profile might help. Everyone wants discretion. 3/4 of fab is "professional". Try and stand out.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

No issues here in wales..we could be having sexy times every night if we wanted it..however we are a bit fussy.maybe that's our problem..i should make our profile really shit with no text or pictures and see if that improves the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics, and no written profile? I wouldn't bother messaging. The only people that would are the desperate ones and the fake ones, unfortunately. Just a tiny bit of effort on the profile, and potentially you could have a much better time on here.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"joined 2 weeks ago and all weve had are messages from timewasters.does this site really work?"

No it doesn't

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