FabSwingers.com forum: Family on cam.. Right or Wrong...?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it right to have members of your family on cam with you if the are over the age of consent?

What do you guys think of this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats wrong as a family chatting to friends on the other side of the world?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Whats wrong as a family chatting to friends on the other side of the world? "

I think you are misinterpreting his question.

I hope i'm wrong.

I really, really do.

But i think he means something else.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Is it right to have members of your family on cam with you if the are over the age of consent?

What do you guys think of this?"

Anyone who is over the age of 18 and knows they are on cam is ok yes.

Is that what you mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry I meant on this site... I do not mean them playing on cam.. god forbid.. but I mean just in these chatrooms together and people asking wrong questions..

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Sorry I meant on this site... I do not mean them playing on cam.. god forbid.. but I mean just in these chatrooms together and people asking wrong questions.. "

Which members of your family are you thinking of?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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I would think the people asking the wrong questions are the ones with the problem.

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By *illiamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I think it is slightly unnerving, especially if they are all swinging too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any family member whether it be their child, nephew or niece..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if I come on here with my other half on my couples profile is that wrong????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah what a great idea get ya mother and father aunties uncles grandma grandad the cat the dog and the goldfish lol

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"So if I come on here with my other half on my couples profile is that wrong????"

No.

But if it was your child, nephew or niece, then emphatically, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wierd, why would anyone want to do this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im sure theres other places on here where you can cam with family rather than using a swingers site .

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Any family member whether it be their child, nephew or niece.. "

As long as they are over 18 then it isn't a problem. I know someone who's dad waves everytime he comes to visit his daughter, some people tell their family they are on sites like these.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"im sure theres other places on here where you can cam with family rather than using a swingers site ."

Exactly what I also thought.. so many other places to go.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"im sure theres other places on here where you can cam with family rather than using a swingers site .

Exactly what I also thought.. so many other places to go."

Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"im sure theres other places on here where you can cam with family rather than using a swingers site .

Exactly what I also thought.. so many other places to go.

Why?"

Ok would you have your daughter on cam with you,,, and loads of men were sending derogative messages of what they would like to do to her... or both of you together?

We all know this is a swingers site and here for meeting and sexual encounters.. but surely there is a limit?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"im sure theres other places on here where you can cam with family rather than using a swingers site .

Exactly what I also thought.. so many other places to go.

Why?

Ok would you have your daughter on cam with you,,, and loads of men were sending derogative messages of what they would like to do to her... or both of you together?

We all know this is a swingers site and here for meeting and sexual encounters.. but surely there is a limit?

I personally wouldn't , no......but we are not all the same.

the only rules they could break is if it is someone underage as they are only chatting.

PS I don't have a problem, I just happen to have a different _iew than you.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"im sure theres other places on here where you can cam with family rather than using a swingers site .

Exactly what I also thought.. so many other places to go.

Why?

Ok would you have your daughter on cam with you,,, and loads of men were sending derogative messages of what they would like to do to her... or both of you together?

We all know this is a swingers site and here for meeting and sexual encounters.. but surely there is a limit?

Let me see if i've got this right.

You're happy for your daughter to appear on cam with you on a site like this, but think it's a bit beyond the pale if men let her know that they want to fuck her?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Not his daughter sensual......please keep up, there will be questions later !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"im sure theres other places on here where you can cam with family rather than using a swingers site .

Exactly what I also thought.. so many other places to go.

Why?

Ok would you have your daughter on cam with you,,, and loads of men were sending derogative messages of what they would like to do to her... or both of you together?

We all know this is a swingers site and here for meeting and sexual encounters.. but surely there is a limit?

Let me see if i've got this right.

You're happy for your daughter to appear on cam with you on a site like this, but think it's a bit beyond the pale if men let her know that they want to fuck her?

Not my daughter!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"im sure theres other places on here where you can cam with family rather than using a swingers site .

Exactly what I also thought.. so many other places to go.

Why?

Ok would you have your daughter on cam with you,,, and loads of men were sending derogative messages of what they would like to do to her... or both of you together?

We all know this is a swingers site and here for meeting and sexual encounters.. but surely there is a limit?

I personally wouldn't , no......but we are not all the same.

the only rules they could break is if it is someone underage as they are only chatting.

PS I don't have a problem, I just happen to have a different _iew than you."

Personally I will just switch off the cam.. and not get involved with the conversation..

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Let me see if i've got this right.

There are people happy for their daughter to appear on cam with other family members about, but some of the guys think it's a bit beyond the pale asking her for a fuck when her Dad is standing behind her on cam?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im sure theres other places on here where you can cam with family rather than using a swingers site .

Exactly what I also thought.. so many other places to go.

Why?

Ok would you have your daughter on cam with you,,, and loads of men were sending derogative messages of what they would like to do to her... or both of you together?

We all know this is a swingers site and here for meeting and sexual encounters.. but surely there is a limit?

Let me see if i've got this right.

You're happy for your daughter to appear on cam with you on a site like this, but think it's a bit beyond the pale if men let her know that they want to fuck her?

Am I the only one that went incredibly cold and felt sick when I read this????

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"im sure theres other places on here where you can cam with family rather than using a swingers site .

Exactly what I also thought.. so many other places to go.

Why?

Ok would you have your daughter on cam with you,,, and loads of men were sending derogative messages of what they would like to do to her... or both of you together?

We all know this is a swingers site and here for meeting and sexual encounters.. but surely there is a limit?

Let me see if i've got this right.

You're happy for your daughter to appear on cam with you on a site like this, but think it's a bit beyond the pale if men let her know that they want to fuck her?

Am I the only one that went incredibly cold and felt sick when I read this????"

No.

But apparently there are only two of us who did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then thank fuck there's 2 of us on here that know right from wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, so tell me this man is asking if it's ok to have your daughters, sons, neices etc on cam. On a sex site. And he still has a profile and this thread is still running???

Not sure if I should report him to the site or just ring the police. I'm FUMING over this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Then thank fuck there's 2 of us on here that know right from wrong. "

Hey three of us.. I put the question out there...

It has NOT BEEN suggested they are doing anything on cam besides chatting to the room. However we all know what the chatrooms are like and the questions that are thrown to people on cam.

I think it is WRONG to have immediate members of the family on cam, chatting with you on a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What could the police do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I know that 2 of us on here don't get the impression you think its wrong.

I won't post on this again, will leave it to those who clearly think this is normal.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Ok, so tell me this man is asking if it's ok to have your daughters, sons, neices etc on cam. On a sex site. And he still has a profile and this thread is still running???

Not sure if I should report him to the site or just ring the police. I'm FUMING over this. "

Hmmm I don't think the man wants his daughter on cam.

He is asking is it ok for adults to be on cam with relatives.....not doing camfun but chatting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think everyone needs to read the main question again..

The reason for the question was because this is what I saw today on someones cam and felt it was not right even though they were only chatting and were over the age of consent.

We are not allowed to disclose names etc.. so I put the question out there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok, so tell me this man is asking if it's ok to have your daughters, sons, neices etc on cam. On a sex site. And he still has a profile and this thread is still running???

Not sure if I should report him to the site or just ring the police. I'm FUMING over this.

Hmmm I don't think the man wants his daughter on cam.

He is asking is it ok for adults to be on cam with relatives.....not doing camfun but chatting."

Thank you Ruby... you seem to be the only one reading the question properly!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I always thought it was against site rules for non members to be on cam........i had a guy who was on my friends list once who had a few mates round for drinks they were all on cam and they were commenting on my private gallery pix surly thats wrong ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nobody has said it was normal, quite the opposite, wherever you get that assumption from

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

OK think this needs put to bed as people seem confused.

The OP was in the chatroom and saw two family members on cam, chatting.

He wasn't asking could he have his daughter on cam with him.

He was asking the question as he felt uncomfortable with the questions being asked of the people on cam.

From the sites point of _iew, as long as anyone is over 18 then they are allowed on cam.

If you think anything improper is going on, then report the profile.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"I always thought it was against site rules for non members to be on cam........i had a guy who was on my friends list once who had a few mates round for drinks they were all on cam and they were commenting on my private gallery pix surly thats wrong ?"

It isn't against the rules no, the best option is to block the person and they can't see your cam or profile.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The original question, whether intentionally or not, is open to interpretation.

The OP would have been better advised to have first made a clear statement;

"I saw this on cam today and didnt like it"

THEN asked a question;

"What do other members think of this?"

Thus avoiding any confusion regarding his _iews vis a vis teen daughters of Fab members on cam.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The original question, whether intentionally or not, is open to interpretation.

The OP would have been better advised to have first made a clear statement;

"I saw this on cam today and didnt like it"

THEN asked a question;

"What do other members think of this?"

Thus avoiding any confusion regarding his _iews vis a vis teen daughters of Fab members on cam.

Fair point sensual.. and trust me have learnt from this! Might speak to you in future before I put one out as you word it so much better.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Ok, so tell me this man is asking if it's ok to have your daughters, sons, neices etc on cam. On a sex site. And he still has a profile and this thread is still running???

Not sure if I should report him to the site or just ring the police. I'm FUMING over this. "

Pmsl, what you going to report him to the police for?? Im sure if you did it would be good to see if you where charged with wasting police time for misinterpreting a thread.

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

"What could the police do?"
sing "message in a bottle"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What could the police do?sing "message in a bottle""

Lol

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

I personally wouldn't see the problem of having other family members on cam - as long as they were also members of the site and knew the cam was on.

I know a few people who are open about swinging with their family and have done this... and for those who misread the OP initial statement, I doubt if anyone would actively play on cam with their family members anyway as they would know the can of worms it would open .

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if the other folks in the room were non swingers/members.. think it's inappropriate to have them on cam on a sex site.

just my 2p worth tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on another site i use theres a woman that goes on cam with her sister, ive never seen them touching each other but they do sit there with their tits out together, on one occasions the one sister was shagging her brother in law on the bed while the other sister (his wife) was sat typing, its just all a bit odd to me lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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I wouldn't dream of even being in the same chat room of a sex site with a family member in there never mind having sex in the same room.

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

i had to report one woman on here about a year or so ago who had her UNDERAGE daughter on cam with her letting men say all sorts of sexual things to her, its was clear when u saw the cam she was underage. i was shocked by the men who who could see this girl was undersage and all the sexual stuff tey was saying... it was only cos i knew the woman i knew it was her daughter and i did not think twice about telling a mod about her cam and they looked and banned her.... what mother would sit there with a child under 18 and let men talk about sex to her in front of u? it made me sick, it also made me sick the men who did not care about her age. i a just glad the site sorted it asap

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Personally I wouldn't sit there with my own daughters and the eldest is 27.

You hit the nail on the head though Kitty, although the woman was obviously in the wrong, the men didn't seem to care......I have seen it before on another site with a girl who looked underage on cam but the men were not put off.

( the girl was banned )

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

i am a bit pissed so typing is fucked lol, but ur right the way the men acting it was like a peado playground and it was only after they got banned the men was like that was not right i had to point out to a few of them they was right on there on the action!!!

if it had been their daughter would they have been happy about that? the way som were acting i think so!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think that is what shocked me the most today... the comments these women were getting from the men. Unfortunately they entertained them by answering their questions..

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"I think that is what shocked me the most today... the comments these women were getting from the men. Unfortunately they entertained them by answering their questions.. "

I suppose there is a difference in what you witnessed Ken, as I am guessing the people were overage.

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

there must be a incest site or somthing people can use ths is the motherfucking internet

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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They were not doing anything but chatting kitty by the sounds of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

They were in their twenties and thirties and related.. obviously the room saw two women on cam and started asking how they knew one another... and then the crude remarks started.

I guess just being a parent myself it made me feel uneasy.

Yes I can talk about sex to my family.. but never in a million years would I be seen on cam with them on a sex site.. just not right..

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

oh is that it, this thread is broing thing ha bye bye

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

"They were in their twenties and thirties and related.. obviously the room saw two women on cam and started asking how they knew one another... and then the crude remarks started.

I guess just being a parent myself it made me feel uneasy.

Yes I can talk about sex to my family.. but never in a million years would I be seen on cam with them on a sex site.. just not right..

if ur sucking their cock then no, but chatting, god not the end of the world if they are all adults

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They were not doing anything but chatting kitty by the sounds of it."
Only ever said they were chatting from the beginning and nothing else.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"They were not doing anything but chatting kitty by the sounds of it. Only ever said they were chatting from the beginning and nothing else."

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't sit there with my own daughters and the eldest is 27.

No nor would i, i have a 18 year old daughter and there no way id even have the cam on while she was walking round the room, never mind sat there on it

I've only ever seen kids on cam twice, one was a baby and a woman was sat breast feeding on cam, like kitty what i found worse was the mens reactions, one man actually ask her to play with herself while the baby was sucking her 'tits'

i was mortified lol

Another was a woman sat on cam and she was telling everyone she had a meet coming round soon, as as they do all the men was asking if they was playing on cam etc and she said, do you think he'll mind my child being here, and turned the cam round to show the whole room a naked child of about 2 asleep on the bed

You just cant get your head round some people cam you?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Errr no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't sit there with my own daughters and the eldest is 27.

No nor would i, i have a 18 year old daughter and there no way id even have the cam on while she was walking round the room, never mind sat there on it

i was mortified lol

You just cant get your head round some people cam you?"

So wrong in every way..

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"i am a bit pissed so typing is fucked lol, but ur right the way the men acting it was like a peado playground and it was only after they got banned the men was like that was not right i had to point out to a few of them they was right on there on the action!!!

if it had been their daughter would they have been happy about that? the way som were acting i think so!!!! "

As an aside, i would just like to compliment Kitty on her pissed typing, which would put half the site to shame when they were sober.

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

thanks man, i think its the hula hoops that is helping me from passing out ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then thank fuck there's 2 of us on here that know right from wrong. "
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Gave me the creeps too

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

"im sure theres other places on here where you can cam with family rather than using a swingers site .

Exactly what I also thought.. so many other places to go.

Why?

Ok would you have your daughter on cam with you,,, and loads of men were sending derogative messages of what they would like to do to her... or both of you together?

We all know this is a swingers site and here for meeting and sexual encounters.. but surely there is a limit?

Let me see if i've got this right.

You're happy for your daughter to appear on cam with you on a site like this, but think it's a bit beyond the pale if men let her know that they want to fuck her?

Am I the only one that went incredibly cold and felt sick when I read this????"

Nope me too. Either We are seriously misinterpreting the question and it's very sick, or it seems very pointless because it's been worded badly.

SO.. is the question is it OK to cam on this site when other family members are around? Can't say I've come accross many people that sit around with their family when checking out a sex-contact site to be honest.. but take some have?

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By *athnBobCouple
over a year ago

sandwell

There is another possibility that the OP saw (that I have seen twice on chat rooms) and that it was a wind up.

On another site there were 2 ladies (one in her thirties the other 50s) and the younger always called the older 'Mom' as a joke. This grew into a major tease.

Recently I saw a member referring to the other 2 females in the room as her sister and her daughter. This was also obviously a wind up and tease but some men took the statement at face value.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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* nods *

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