FabSwingers.com forum: Insulting messages on fabs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have read this far to often now! where someone has complained on an update of insulting messages, maybe because someone has either said no or maybe not replied quick enough to a message, really are people that bad on here? I don't have many personal experience of it! but does anyone want to share there opinions on the subject??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just blokes with a sense of entitlement stamping their feet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just blokes with a sense of entitlement stamping their feet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So it seems. I've had a couple myself but they don't bother me. Some people send them for the fun of it

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Never experienced it ourselves...guess we are lucky or not popular enough to attract that many people..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just blokes with a sense of entitlement stamping their feet."

I'm sure men have received them from nasty women too. And couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just blokes with a sense of entitlement stamping their feet.

I'm sure men have received them from nasty women too. And couples "

Yup

Status updates shouting the same all too often as well....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few nasty ones on previous profiles but it just makes me laugh. Its like a natural filter. Sad people with low self esteem, bless them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The internet are full of keyboard warrior's.

id say it to there faces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just blokes with a sense of entitlement stamping their feet.

I'm sure men have received them from nasty women too. And couples "

You are right of course, My bad!! Had one or two myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a couple but a vocabulary, understanding of the language and block button sort them out no end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not too bad for me on here, i just get a 2nd message of "???" if i don't reply to someone quick enough.

if people expect instashag or my phone number when i've never even spoken to them then idk why they should be rude about it as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just blokes with a sense of entitlement stamping their feet.

I'm sure men have received them from nasty women too. And couples

You are right of course, My bad!! Had one or two myself

haha

Got to agree though we've actually only had them from couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day its just a loser chucking teddy out of the pram.

Delete and block. If its particularly bad report too.

We dont need em on here anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silly people (not just men) who can't take no for an answer and cry and whine because they lack that certain something.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Don't post the PM's on the forum as it leads to a ban

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind them, sometimes I carry it on for the banter, sometimes I just delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Silly people (not just men) who can't take no for an answer and cry and whine because they lack that certain something.

Yep, manners, respect and self confidence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just blokes with a sense of entitlement stamping their feet.

I'm sure men have received them from nasty women too. And couples

You are right of course, My bad!! Had one or two myself

haha

Got to agree though we've actually only had them from couples

A bloke and a couple for me, I'd never even so much as viewed them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always makes me chuckle you can go from being a stunningly gorgeous woman to stuck up bitch in just three messages if you politely refuse some guys advances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always makes me chuckle you can go from being a stunningly gorgeous woman to stuck up bitch in just three messages if you politely refuse some guys advances

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just blokes with a sense of entitlement stamping their feet.

I'm sure men have received them from nasty women too. And couples

You are right of course, My bad!! Had one or two myself

haha

Got to agree though we've actually only had them from couples

A bloke and a couple for me, I'd never even so much as viewed them

snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the end of the day its just a loser chucking teddy out of the pram.

Delete and block. If its particularly bad report too.

We dont need em on here anyway."

It's not always though. Women get bitchy and jealous and send other women nasty messages. Men receive messages out of the blue calling them names,from women. Anyone can be abusive,not just spurned men

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By *urph6969Man
over a year ago

chadwell

ive had a few very nasty mails!didnt reply tho just blocked them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't mind them, sometimes I carry it on for the banter, sometimes I just delete

I had a conversation with one of my abusers. We get on fine now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always makes me chuckle you can go from being a stunningly gorgeous woman to stuck up bitch in just three messages if you politely refuse some guys advances

Or they say they didn't really want to meet you anyway, oh dear, has the dummy been spat out?! I don't think these types realise how stupid they make themselves look with these responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just blokes with a sense of entitlement stamping their feet.

I'm sure men have received them from nasty women too. And couples

You are right of course, My bad!! Had one or two myself

haha

Got to agree though we've actually only had them from couples

A bloke and a couple for me, I'd never even so much as viewed them

snap

Well at least we got noticed...They didn't lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always makes me chuckle you can go from being a stunningly gorgeous woman to stuck up bitch in just three messages if you politely refuse some guys advances

Or they say they didn't really want to meet you anyway, oh dear, has the dummy been spat out?! I don't think these types realise how stupid they make themselves look with these responses."

Don't forget the "you don't know what you're missing" line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always makes me chuckle you can go from being a stunningly gorgeous woman to stuck up bitch in just three messages if you politely refuse some guys advances

Or they say they didn't really want to meet you anyway, oh dear, has the dummy been spat out?! I don't think these types realise how stupid they make themselves look with these responses.

Don't forget the "you don't know what you're missing" line

lol and the your loss line. How is it my loss if I don't want to meet you?? Never understood that!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

My favourite was a stream of invective for not responding to an unwanted message. Which was signed off (force of habit I presume) with both kisses and an attached face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My favourite was a stream of invective for not responding to an unwanted message. Which was signed off (force of habit I presume) with both kisses and an attached face pic.

Did you look at the pic? He might have sent his angry face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a ton of abuse from a guy once for allegedly not looking at his profile. When I explained I was in stealth mode he never apologised and blocked me!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"My favourite was a stream of invective for not responding to an unwanted message. Which was signed off (force of habit I presume) with both kisses and an attached face pic.

Did you look at the pic? He might have sent his angry face."

I looked before blocking. It was a standard face pic. Looked slightly morose but not angry.

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