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By *eese Revoe OP   Man
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Easing my way back onto the scene after several years away, I think I might be having some trouble in knowing how to respond to private messages and profiles. And, knowing how an abrupt, "Fancy a fuck?" can be a total turn-off, I do try to put some effort into it.

Yet I never know quite how much to say or how much detail to go into. Is too much a turn-off, too?

Take this one copied & pasted below, for example, which I'd written in reply to a lovely girl with gorgeous genitalia (as evidenced in her profile photos):

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Hi XXXXX~

Ah, so you ask what my deepest, darkest plans with you would be? Okay...

I imagine you naked, half-way laying on a bed so that your head and torso are reclining comfortably whilst your bum is at the edge, propped up by a pillow beneath it. Your legs are spread and bent at the knees so your feet are touching the floor.

I kneel between your legs and regard the womanly wonder before me. At length, I reach forward with one hand, fingers extended, and begin to lightly stroke your your vulva, tracing an inverted horseshoe shape with two fingertips, careful not to touch your clitoris or labia, but knowing this erogenous region is filled with extended clitoral nerve endings.

I carry on with this until I observe some change - perhaps a slight swelling of the labia minora, the beginnings of clitoral erection or a moistening from between those most lovely lower lips - as which point I begin to spiral inwardly, closing the circle from vulva to labia majora and, finally, labia minora where I lightly tease their outermost ridges. If, and only if, this is pleasurable to you, as discerned from your breathing and feedback, I apply slightly more pressure, parting them ever so gently.

Should your moisture wet my fingers at that point, I would not be able to resist leaning forward for a taste, allowing my tongue to take over where my fingers left off. Licking up and down the outer edges of both labia lips in turn, and then up to gently touch your clit with the very tip of my tongue (I am always very gentle and tender when when it comes to the clitoris, as I'm aware how clitoral overstimulation can feel painful).

Then, locking my lips around clit and labia minora combined, I would suck and feel them swell even further in my oral embrace, licking my tongue between your labia lips as I did so as your sweet vaginal juices came to coat the inside of my insatiable mouth.

[My only disappointment here is that I cannot carry on sucking you off and insert my fingers into your vagina at the same time. It makes an awful "pfffft" noise which tickles as it vibrates upon breaking the suction seal. But I digress.]

This next bit is totally optional, mind, unless you're up for internal invasion. I would take my middle and forefinger, the former atop the latter, and insert them gently into your sexual inner sanctum. Reaching up toward your pubic bone, I would commence a massage of your upper vaginal wall, moving ever so slightly until a gentle contraction of your pubococcygeus muscle had indicated I'd reached your g-spot. I've found it fairly easy to lick the clitoral hood and the upper extents of the labia minora whilst administering a g-spot massage, so I'd give it a go with you to combine both the inward and outward genital stimulus.

But, should you be adventuresome enough to go even farther (and deeper), I could reach down inside until I hit the anterior fornix - the area just above the cervix where all the sexual nerves combine before joining the spine. Such a deep cervical massage can have finger-crushing consequences for me, though, when orgasm occurs. But don't worry, I enjoy it.

If you're a squirter, though, I'd want to suck your clit whilst extending my tongue just down to your urethra so I could thirstily drink all the delicious girl-cum you could gush down my throat.

...and that's about it in terms of my deepest, darkest plans. No need to reciprocate the pleasure to me, unless you want to, as giving the gift of an orgasm to another is far more pleasurable to me than receiving one myself.

Big Hugs,

~Reese xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i get that as a 1st message its delete

i think there should be something in a message that makes u want to reply and intregue u

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By *lirtyjjWoman
over a year ago

Meath

A tad over the top for me and too many anatomical descriptions. What if i didn't like oral??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it's a no. An over the top explicit message from a stranger, for me is the messaging equivalent of them standing in front of me having a wank. It seems all about what they want, not what I want.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

If I got That it would be delete and block.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I assume you had actually been chatting to this woman and not just cold messaged her that.

Even so, I would find that a bit too in depth. I don't like my meets to be planned down to such minutiae, and it looks rather like you wrote that for your pleasure, not hers. However, if it results in a meeting, who cares?

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

ok am I the only one who is presuming he is joking? I found it funny anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd find it creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the first couple of lines and didn't bother reading the rest. Same as I do with similar messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got as far as the second paragraph and had to give up as I felt a little nauseous.

There is little less appealing than a message that heads dangerously close to wank fodder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any explicit first messages get deleted and the sender gets blocked. I know this is a sex site but that's a tad over the top for first contact. Just be polite and respectful and base it on the profile. If you have a well written profile and a good selection of pics to back it up even better.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I would just assume that you copy and paste that to anyone that you message...you need to establish some kind of rapport first...

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By *eese Revoe OP   Man
over a year ago

Glastonbury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't even be arsed to read it all on here let alone an inbox! Gawd!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read the first couple of lines and didn't bother reading the rest. Same as I do with similar messages. "

yeah me to

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Unless u chatted to me and got to know my likes and dislikes id find this just words with no meaning. If we chatted and made a connection then id bother reading it.

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By *eese Revoe OP   Man
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Thank you, Rhia!

And, _lirtyjj, are you saying there are people who don't like oral?!

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Thank you, Rhia!

And, _lirtyjj, are you saying there are people who don't like oral?! "

Haha I was wondering if I was losing the plot! I scan read it and thought "ha funny!" then read all the comments taking it seriously!

At least yours is less crude than some versions I've received

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By *eese Revoe OP   Man
over a year ago

Glastonbury

In retrospect, I should've put a LOL at the end of that, Rhia...but you've had worse?!

Oh, and sorry, all! x

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By *lirtyjjWoman
over a year ago

Meath


"Thank you, Rhia!

And, _lirtyjj, are you saying there are people who don't like oral?! "

Well it's not top of my list. I perfect fingers to tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In retrospect, I should've put a LOL at the end of that, Rhia...but you've had worse?!

Oh, and sorry, all! x"

I might have got that you were taking the piss if it didn't resemble quite a few messages I've received as opening gambits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easing my way back onto the scene after several years away, I think I might be having some trouble in knowing how to respond to private messages and profiles. And, knowing how an abrupt, "Fancy a fuck?" can be a total turn-off, I do try to put some effort into it.

Yet I never know quite how much to say or how much detail to go into. Is too much a turn-off, too?

Take this one copied & pasted below, for example, which I'd written in reply to a lovely girl with gorgeous genitalia (as evidenced in her profile photos):

---

Hi XXXXX~

Ah, so you ask what my deepest, darkest plans with you would be? Okay...

I imagine you naked, half-way laying on a bed so that your head and torso are reclining comfortably whilst your bum is at the edge, propped up by a pillow beneath it. Your legs are spread and bent at the knees so your feet are touching the floor.

I kneel between your legs and regard the womanly wonder before me. At length, I reach forward with one hand, fingers extended, and begin to lightly stroke your your vulva, tracing an inverted horseshoe shape with two fingertips, careful not to touch your clitoris or labia, but knowing this erogenous region is filled with extended clitoral nerve endings.

I carry on with this until I observe some change - perhaps a slight swelling of the labia minora, the beginnings of clitoral erection or a moistening from between those most lovely lower lips - as which point I begin to spiral inwardly, closing the circle from vulva to labia majora and, finally, labia minora where I lightly tease their outermost ridges. If, and only if, this is pleasurable to you, as discerned from your breathing and feedback, I apply slightly more pressure, parting them ever so gently.

Should your moisture wet my fingers at that point, I would not be able to resist leaning forward for a taste, allowing my tongue to take over where my fingers left off. Licking up and down the outer edges of both labia lips in turn, and then up to gently touch your clit with the very tip of my tongue (I am always very gentle and tender when when it comes to the clitoris, as I'm aware how clitoral overstimulation can feel painful).

Then, locking my lips around clit and labia minora combined, I would suck and feel them swell even further in my oral embrace, licking my tongue between your labia lips as I did so as your sweet vaginal juices came to coat the inside of my insatiable mouth.

[My only disappointment here is that I cannot carry on sucking you off and insert my fingers into your vagina at the same time. It makes an awful "pfffft" noise which tickles as it vibrates upon breaking the suction seal. But I digress.]

This next bit is totally optional, mind, unless you're up for internal invasion. I would take my middle and forefinger, the former atop the latter, and insert them gently into your sexual inner sanctum. Reaching up toward your pubic bone, I would commence a massage of your upper vaginal wall, moving ever so slightly until a gentle contraction of your pubococcygeus muscle had indicated I'd reached your g-spot. I've found it fairly easy to lick the clitoral hood and the upper extents of the labia minora whilst administering a g-spot massage, so I'd give it a go with you to combine both the inward and outward genital stimulus.

But, should you be adventuresome enough to go even farther (and deeper), I could reach down inside until I hit the anterior fornix - the area just above the cervix where all the sexual nerves combine before joining the spine. Such a deep cervical massage can have finger-crushing consequences for me, though, when orgasm occurs. But don't worry, I enjoy it.

If you're a squirter, though, I'd want to suck your clit whilst extending my tongue just down to your urethra so I could thirstily drink all the delicious girl-cum you could gush down my throat.

...and that's about it in terms of my deepest, darkest plans. No need to reciprocate the pleasure to me, unless you want to, as giving the gift of an orgasm to another is far more pleasurable to me than receiving one myself.

Big Hugs,

~Reese xxx"

Has a creepy vibe, from the bits I read anyway

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By *eese Revoe OP   Man
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Cool, _lirtyjj, but now you've got me thinking about how convenient it would be if everyone had a top ten list of sexual activity preferences! Would be a definite time saver, that...but, then again, it would take away all the intrigue as well. Alas. x

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By *eese Revoe OP   Man
over a year ago

Glastonbury


" I might have got that you were taking the piss if it didn't resemble quite a few messages I've received as opening gambits "

That's rather scary, anna.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mum and Dad had that book, I found it when I was about 7! All big words and funny diagrams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message like that, got to the last line and it said "do you like my face pic".

Made me laugh tbh, just that last line.

I'm not into erotic stories but i'm sure some people would enjoy reading that and be turned on. Gotta figure out who though.

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By *eese Revoe OP   Man
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"My Mum and Dad had that book, I found it when I was about 7! All big words and funny diagrams "

Didn't we all, Lavinia...

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By *eese Revoe OP   Man
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I got a message like that, got to the last line and it said "do you like my face pic".

Made me laugh tbh, just that last line.

I'm not into erotic stories but i'm sure some people would enjoy reading that and be turned on. Gotta figure out who though."

Brilliant!

Hmmm, Irenic, you've now got me wondering if I should've posted this in the Stories & Fantasies forum instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any mail I receive like this from people who I haven't meet and played with just gets deleted. Major turn off and creepy beyond belief.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

It made me giggle but its something that I would only want to recieve from someone I have spoken to and not as a first message as I know I wouldn't get to the end of it and would assume its just a copy and paste sent to all and sundry

Sorry to read about the loss of your wife Reese,it can't be easy getting back into all this so I hope it all goes well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read the first couple of lines and didn't bother reading the rest. Same as I do with similar messages. "

I did exactly the same...that novel is just too much at that stage of contact.

I like to think more Twitter-like in this stage... Don't over do it... Apply a limited word approach and make sure every work counts to get your message across.

We live in a fast-paced world, so you have to market yourself appropriately... this is to focus on your key points and to answer your 'audience's' search questions directly and waffle-free ... Basically it's social media and content marketing!

... On that note, anyone interested in hiring my consulting marketing services for their business??? Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually hate these. That's not how it'll happen. It's all made up and I do not see the point. I'm seldom rude, but I'd delete and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I might have got that you were taking the piss if it didn't resemble quite a few messages I've received as opening gambits

That's rather scary, anna. "

It's fine, I don't usually get beyond 2 lines so I'm not traumatised by it

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I did think it was a joke, also wondered if you were a gynaecologist! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easing my way back onto the scene after several years away, I think I might be having some trouble in knowing how to respond to private messages and profiles. And, knowing how an abrupt, "Fancy a fuck?" can be a total turn-off, I do try to put some effort into it.

Yet I never know quite how much to say or how much detail to go into. Is too much a turn-off, too?

Take this one copied & pasted below, for example, which I'd written in reply to a lovely girl with gorgeous genitalia (as evidenced in her profile photos):

---

Hi XXXXX~

Ah, so you ask what my deepest, darkest plans with you would be? Okay...

I imagine you naked, half-way laying on a bed so that your head and torso are reclining comfortably whilst your bum is at the edge, propped up by a pillow beneath it. Your legs are spread and bent at the knees so your feet are touching the floor.

I kneel between your legs and regard the womanly wonder before me. At length, I reach forward with one hand, fingers extended, and begin to lightly stroke your your vulva, tracing an inverted horseshoe shape with two fingertips, careful not to touch your clitoris or labia, but knowing this erogenous region is filled with extended clitoral nerve endings.

I carry on with this until I observe some change - perhaps a slight swelling of the labia minora, the beginnings of clitoral erection or a moistening from between those most lovely lower lips - as which point I begin to spiral inwardly, closing the circle from vulva to labia majora and, finally, labia minora where I lightly tease their outermost ridges. If, and only if, this is pleasurable to you, as discerned from your breathing and feedback, I apply slightly more pressure, parting them ever so gently.

Should your moisture wet my fingers at that point, I would not be able to resist leaning forward for a taste, allowing my tongue to take over where my fingers left off. Licking up and down the outer edges of both labia lips in turn, and then up to gently touch your clit with the very tip of my tongue (I am always very gentle and tender when when it comes to the clitoris, as I'm aware how clitoral overstimulation can feel painful).

Then, locking my lips around clit and labia minora combined, I would suck and feel them swell even further in my oral embrace, licking my tongue between your labia lips as I did so as your sweet vaginal juices came to coat the inside of my insatiable mouth.

[My only disappointment here is that I cannot carry on sucking you off and insert my fingers into your vagina at the same time. It makes an awful "pfffft" noise which tickles as it vibrates upon breaking the suction seal. But I digress.]

This next bit is totally optional, mind, unless you're up for internal invasion. I would take my middle and forefinger, the former atop the latter, and insert them gently into your sexual inner sanctum. Reaching up toward your pubic bone, I would commence a massage of your upper vaginal wall, moving ever so slightly until a gentle contraction of your pubococcygeus muscle had indicated I'd reached your g-spot. I've found it fairly easy to lick the clitoral hood and the upper extents of the labia minora whilst administering a g-spot massage, so I'd give it a go with you to combine both the inward and outward genital stimulus.

But, should you be adventuresome enough to go even farther (and deeper), I could reach down inside until I hit the anterior fornix - the area just above the cervix where all the sexual nerves combine before joining the spine. Such a deep cervical massage can have finger-crushing consequences for me, though, when orgasm occurs. But don't worry, I enjoy it.

If you're a squirter, though, I'd want to suck your clit whilst extending my tongue just down to your urethra so I could thirstily drink all the delicious girl-cum you could gush down my throat.

...and that's about it in terms of my deepest, darkest plans. No need to reciprocate the pleasure to me, unless you want to, as giving the gift of an orgasm to another is far more pleasurable to me than receiving one myself.

Big Hugs,

~Reese xxx"

I would delete that if it arrived as an early message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't be bothered to read the whole post, so definately wouldn't read it in a message ....... delete

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By *eese Revoe OP   Man
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I did think it was a joke, also wondered if you were a gynaecologist! Lol"

Too funny, Lady_303! No, but I did work as a sex blogger a while back...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message like that, got to the last line and it said "do you like my face pic".

Made me laugh tbh, just that last line.

I'm not into erotic stories but i'm sure some people would enjoy reading that and be turned on. Gotta figure out who though.

Brilliant!

Hmmm, Irenic, you've now got me wondering if I should've posted this in the Stories & Fantasies forum instead?"

Yeah you could do. Am sure loads of guys will comment asking for you to write more stuff. And i do comment if i find a particular story or fantasy hot, as do other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id not bother to read that. It looks.like a generic message sent to dozens.

Clearly written on a laptop. Too long for a phone site user...

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By *eese Revoe OP   Man
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Yeah you could do. Am sure loads of guys will comment asking for you to write more stuff. And i do comment if i find a particular story or fantasy hot, as do other women."

Thanks, Irenic, I'll give it a go! I wonder how the guys would react if I wrote something similar, but focused on the male genitalia?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I need a Medical Dictionary to understand that message fully. It mentions body parts which I didn't even know existed

Oh, and once I have understood it, I'd laugh and delete it; sorry

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Considering most of the messages we receive are usually a couple of words, a paragraph at best, if we got a message that long we'd spend the day walking round like bishop brennan, after ted had kicked him up the arse

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By *eese Revoe OP   Man
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"if we got a message that long we'd spend the day walking round like bishop brennan, after ted had kicked him up the arse "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Considering most of the messages we receive are usually a couple of words, a paragraph at best, if we got a message that long we'd spend the day walking round like bishop brennan, after ted had kicked him up the arse "

... He did kick me up the arse!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks, Irenic, I'll give it a go! I wonder how the guys would react if I wrote something similar, but focused on the male genitalia?"

Give it a try? Am sure plenty of guys would love it. Couple of my favourite topics in there were about guys getting stuff done to them off other guys, and many of they guys loved it too.

You'll get critiqued as well i'm sure haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fraid id find that creepy too although i have found that us women can get away with sendin fancy a fuvk to men lol

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

So judging by some of the replies the ladies think it is too long and maybe too medical.

Try something shorter like 'Oi, Pet! Hows about I blow a raspberry on your flaps then podge you up the chuff?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any messages we get like this are instantly deleted and the sender is blocked!

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By *eese Revoe OP   Man
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Try something shorter like 'Oi, Pet! Hows about I blow a raspberry on your flaps then podge you up the chuff?'"

LOL - no, really, I am - brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read the first couple of lines and didn't bother reading the rest. Same as I do with similar messages. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience the men who don't talk sex are the best at sex. Talkers aren't doers

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By *b586Couple
over a year ago

pemberton twp

Read till the 2nd line and was bored. Scrolled past the rest and thought did that say labia? Weird.

I always wonder, when I get messages of men saying what they'd do to me, how would he even know if this is something I'd even be into.

Just because it's your fantasy don't mean it's mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with another poster, it is nauseating and really cringey.

I don't read messages like that and I certainly don't respond to them. I'm not one for explicit messages and I prefer my messages to be chatty to give an indication of someone's personality.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Well I thought it was funny.....but not half as funny as the amount of people who thought you were being serious!......

.......you were joking, right???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just reply back with a 'I'm not interested'.

I didn't consent to having your sexy fantasies shoved into my inbox. That happens later, when we've met a few times.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I know it was a jokd but I've had similar messages before! They're bloody awful! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete, no reply. I'd only want a message like that from a regular friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a first message...it wasn't creepy enough that's why it failed...

Why not....

Record a video clip of yourself reading it out loud whilst wanking off in front of the house she lives in all while sniffing her knickers that you broke into the house and stole?

Think that should swing it....good luck mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a bit like a timetable of events...

8:36 I shall moisten 3 fingers

8:37 i shall insert said moist fingers

8:39 you shall now be showing signs of excitement.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should use that as your opening message every time. I would also encourage guys to use the same appproach. The ladies love it really

Mr.Marmite "eliminating the competition one thread at a time"

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Well I thought it was funny.....but not half as funny as the amount of people who thought you were being serious!......

.......you were joking, right??? "

He was joking.. I don't know how people aren't getting that ah well

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Easing my way back onto the scene after several years away, I think I might be having some trouble in knowing how to respond to private messages and profiles. And, knowing how an abrupt, "Fancy a fuck?" can be a total turn-off, I do try to put some effort into it.

Yet I never know quite how much to say or how much detail to go into. Is too much a turn-off, too?

Take this one copied & pasted below, for example, which I'd written in reply to a lovely girl with gorgeous genitalia (as evidenced in her profile photos):

---

Hi XXXXX~

Ah, so you ask what my deepest, darkest plans with you would be? Okay...

I imagine you naked, half-way laying on a bed so that your head and torso are reclining comfortably whilst your bum is at the edge, propped up by a pillow beneath it. Your legs are spread and bent at the knees so your feet are touching the floor.

I kneel between your legs and regard the womanly wonder before me. At length, I reach forward with one hand, fingers extended, and begin to lightly stroke your your vulva, tracing an inverted horseshoe shape with two fingertips, careful not to touch your clitoris or labia, but knowing this erogenous region is filled with extended clitoral nerve endings.

I carry on with this until I observe some change - perhaps a slight swelling of the labia minora, the beginnings of clitoral erection or a moistening from between those most lovely lower lips - as which point I begin to spiral inwardly, closing the circle from vulva to labia majora and, finally, labia minora where I lightly tease their outermost ridges. If, and only if, this is pleasurable to you, as discerned from your breathing and feedback, I apply slightly more pressure, parting them ever so gently.

Should your moisture wet my fingers at that point, I would not be able to resist leaning forward for a taste, allowing my tongue to take over where my fingers left off. Licking up and down the outer edges of both labia lips in turn, and then up to gently touch your clit with the very tip of my tongue (I am always very gentle and tender when when it comes to the clitoris, as I'm aware how clitoral overstimulation can feel painful).

Then, locking my lips around clit and labia minora combined, I would suck and feel them swell even further in my oral embrace, licking my tongue between your labia lips as I did so as your sweet vaginal juices came to coat the inside of my insatiable mouth.

[My only disappointment here is that I cannot carry on sucking you off and insert my fingers into your vagina at the same time. It makes an awful "pfffft" noise which tickles as it vibrates upon breaking the suction seal. But I digress.]

This next bit is totally optional, mind, unless you're up for internal invasion. I would take my middle and forefinger, the former atop the latter, and insert them gently into your sexual inner sanctum. Reaching up toward your pubic bone, I would commence a massage of your upper vaginal wall, moving ever so slightly until a gentle contraction of your pubococcygeus muscle had indicated I'd reached your g-spot. I've found it fairly easy to lick the clitoral hood and the upper extents of the labia minora whilst administering a g-spot massage, so I'd give it a go with you to combine both the inward and outward genital stimulus.

But, should you be adventuresome enough to go even farther (and deeper), I could reach down inside until I hit the anterior fornix - the area just above the cervix where all the sexual nerves combine before joining the spine. Such a deep cervical massage can have finger-crushing consequences for me, though, when orgasm occurs. But don't worry, I enjoy it.

If you're a squirter, though, I'd want to suck your clit whilst extending my tongue just down to your urethra so I could thirstily drink all the delicious girl-cum you could gush down my throat.

...and that's about it in terms of my deepest, darkest plans. No need to reciprocate the pleasure to me, unless you want to, as giving the gift of an orgasm to another is far more pleasurable to me than receiving one myself.

Big Hugs,

~Reese xxx"

I didn't read to the end: I got bored and I read reports from solicitors every day!

I'd ignore you.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"Well I thought it was funny.....but not half as funny as the amount of people who thought you were being serious!......

.......you were joking, right???

He was joking.. I don't know how people aren't getting that ah well "

Yea my thoughts exactly! Lol!

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By *hatterfabWoman
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Couldn't be bothered to read the whole post, so definately wouldn't read it in a message ....... delete "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message like that, got to the last line and it said "do you like my face pic".

Made me laugh tbh, just that last line.

I'm not into erotic stories but i'm sure some people would enjoy reading that and be turned on. Gotta figure out who though.

Brilliant!

Hmmm, Irenic, you've now got me wondering if I should've posted this in the Stories & Fantasies forum instead?"

I wouldn't...it's not very good...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a bit like a timetable of events...

8:36 I shall moisten 3 fingers

8:37 i shall insert said moist fingers

8:39 you shall now be showing signs of excitement.....

"

And then I will..

And then I will..

And then I will..

*yawn*

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

..pubococcygeus muscle....

Lol...

I thought I was in an advanced biology class!

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Horses for courses...I prefer the keep it simple approach...Some days the,'suck my hard cock'/ 'fancy a fuck' is just the job.. Easily bored with long messages/story's etc..Rarely read it all..

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By *eese Revoe OP   Man
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Well I thought it was funny.....but not half as funny as the amount of people who thought you were being serious!......

.......you were joking, right???

He was joking.. I don't know how people aren't getting that ah well

Yea my thoughts exactly! Lol! "

In further retrospect, it probably wouldn't have even helped to put a LOL at the end, since so few got that far! Glad a few appreciated it, though... xx

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