FabSwingers.com forum: Have you changed?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I love this place. So many memories. So many interesting people who you'd possibly never come into contact with normally. All with a least one thing in common.

But sometimes, do you catch a glimps of yourself in the mirror and think that Fab has changed you? Has it strengthened you? Or deep down affected you? For better or for worse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not made the slightest bit of difference to me

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No I don't think so, I've always been outspoken and cynical so I don't believe all the hype, I know plenty do as I have seen it first hand, but I don't let fab change me in any way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I'm still the same rugged bathroom fitter, with a cheeky smile and pert ass

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

The site has given me fresh opportunities to meet some really nice people and have some exciting times, but I still feel I'm the same person I was when I joined.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I'm the same person but richer for being here and meeting the people I have, many who remain good friends and keep returning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was recently told by a work colleague that I have a presence. I asked what she meant and she said "an aura of sexiness". I keep my naughty life here quite separate from work, so I was a little taken aback. Who knew??!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably fed my insecurities haha not anymore confident for being here

But chatted to some nice people and hopefully made some good friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have learnt to keep a straight face and keep hush when absolutely cracking up laughing inside on the forums -( needs must when daughter is on other sofa )- met some lovely friends too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have learnt to keep a straight face and keep hush when absolutely cracking up laughing inside on the forums -( needs must when daughter is on other sofa )- met some lovely friends too

Sx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not made the slightest bit of difference to me "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Not made the slightest bit of difference to me "

Ditto!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"I love this place. So many memories. So many interesting people who you'd possibly never come into contact with normally. All with a least one thing in common.

But sometimes, do you catch a glimps of yourself in the mirror and think that Fab has changed you? Has it strengthened you? Or deep down affected you? For better or for worse? "

We've only been on here for four weeks and it has helped with my self-confidence immensely...have always hated what I look like but now beginning to accept that I'm not that bad after all...

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

It's increased my confidence immensely, and sometimes I feel sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i have learnt to keep a straight face and keep hush when absolutely cracking up laughing inside on the forums -( needs must when daughter is on other sofa )- met some lovely friends too

Sx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interesting that lots of women have replied.

I think as a guy here your insecurities (we all have them

) can be exposed and you have to deal with that.

I'm not sure i like the person i am when that happens. Very defensive and self protecting.

I much prefer my usual cute self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love this place. So many memories. So many interesting people who you'd possibly never come into contact with normally. All with a least one thing in common.

But sometimes, do you catch a glimps of yourself in the mirror and think that Fab has changed you? Has it strengthened you? Or deep down affected you? For better or for worse? "

It's changed the way I feel about certain things. (Within the swinging world)

It's not changed me as a person, I always knew I was quite sexual, I just needed to find fab to express it.

It's made me learn you can't trust many people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not changed me as a person

But given me an avenue to find some playmates

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes I have but I think I/we changed which led us to fab rather than fab changing us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing the amount of people playing away has made me not trust men in relationships. Apart from that I think its made me better. I'm more accepting of my body shape and don't feel as ugly.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

not sure fab has changed me but I do think ive changed because of circumstances lately

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By *ardbellyCouple
over a year ago

Alicante

It's made me a very happy ( but now classed as old ) man ! Wished this site was about when I was younger

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's made me a very happy ( but now classed as old ) man ! Wished this site was about when I was younger

:sidetrack: your photos are excellent :sidetrack:

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By *ardbellyCouple
over a year ago

Alicante

"It's made me a very happy ( but now classed as old ) man ! Wished this site was about when I was younger

:sidetrack: your photos are excellent :sidetrack:"

Thanks..but with out Angel I'd be just a sad old git.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's made me a very happy ( but now classed as old ) man ! Wished this site was about when I was younger

:sidetrack: your photos are excellent :sidetrack:"

I second that

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By *ardbellyCouple
over a year ago

Alicante

"It's made me a very happy ( but now classed as old ) man ! Wished this site was about when I was younger

:sidetrack: your photos are excellent :sidetrack:

I second that

And a big thanks to you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thoroughly enjoyed it on here for about a year - then something went wrong - don't know what - so much so, we deleted profile - then came back again (!) but still don't find the same 'buzz' - don't actually think there are that many that do actually meet - seems to have become more of a chat site ??

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

The surprising but very positive response to my photos (and my body!) through fabs and messages has certainly boosted my confidence....so in this respect Fab has changed me.

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By *ardbellyCouple
over a year ago

Alicante

"The surprising but very positive response to my photos (and my body!) through fabs and messages has certainly boosted my confidence....so in this respect Fab has changed me.

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..assuming I'm talking to the lady of the duo..you deserve it..

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"The surprising but very positive response to my photos (and my body!) through fabs and messages has certainly boosted my confidence....so in this respect Fab has changed me.

..assuming I'm talking to the lady of the duo..you deserve it..

Yes! This is S ....and thank you very much!

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By *ardbellyCouple
over a year ago

Alicante

"The surprising but very positive response to my photos (and my body!) through fabs and messages has certainly boosted my confidence....so in this respect Fab has changed me.

..assuming I'm talking to the lady of the duo..you deserve it..

Yes! This is S ....and thank you very much!

And just think if WE do a shoot together ..I'm betting more FABS ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has definately made us both much more confident with who and what we are .

It gets us out of the house and we fulfill both our and others fantasies .

We laugh and have so much fun thanks to fab .

Definately have to agree with the poster who says it's become a more chatty site though , that's the only negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, once a perv, allways a perv. Just fount a whole site full of em. Rock on fellow pervs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope, once a perv, allways a perv. Just fount a whole site full of em. Rock on fellow pervs

Pervs have feelings too though right??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, it's changed me alright. I smell nice every single day now!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's given me more confidence about myself and how others see me. Made me more adventurous too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i am changed. I heard a boy in the playground say to his mum "why can't you be like x's mum? She is always smiling". I am always smiling because there is more to life than being a boring fart x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes defo ive grown in confidence n my besie sayed ive got a nawty sparkle in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much the meeting side of fab but the forum has changed my outlook. For me it's like having an extra set of mates, extra opinions on any problems or dilemmas. You can never have too much advice or knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes I have changed my mind about a lot of things since being on here and especialy since reading the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes I have changed my mind about a lot of things since being on here and especialy since reading the forums."

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's made me happier in myself because I know a whole load of people that I can truly express my personality with...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, once a perv, allways a perv. Just fount a whole site full of em. Rock on fellow pervs

Pervs have feelings too though right??

Of course we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. I'm still the same rugged bathroom fitter, with a cheeky smile and pert ass

Lol, certainly is a 'pert ass' legs are stunning to, haha.

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