FabSwingers.com forum: contract #50shades

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would anyone sign one

to be a sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you ? If you get what you see as your profile says love to have you as my personal sub

Would you sign ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No bloody way. I maybe sub (to women only) but there is no way I'd sign a contract as it's actually all on my terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You maybe able to tweak the contract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No bloody way. I maybe sub (to women only) but there is no way I'd sign a contract as it's actually all on my terms. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a few who have done exactly this.....and there are many many others. It is quite normal in the fet/bdsm scene. Not my bag...but I know several (on and off here) for whom this is normal.

And some of them would eat Christian Grey for breakfast.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It makes me think if it really goes on hence why i was asking

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I think it works as a way to outline the boundaries of a 'relationship'.

But as an actual contract it is not worth the paper...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes but for me it would make it more kinky and horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been Sub for almost 2 year - no contract, my boundaries are pushed but he knows I want it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes but for me it would make it more kinky and horny

I suppose you could use it as a kinda 'prop' during role play. Is that what you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been Sub for almost 2 year - no contract, my boundaries are pushed but he knows I want it"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been Sub for almost 2 year - no contract, my boundaries are pushed but he knows I want it"

and you must like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been Sub for almost 2 year - no contract, my boundaries are pushed but he knows I want it

and you must like it

Love it 'normal' just doesn't hit the spot nowadays

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over a year ago

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Mrs Dirty could only be sub to a Domme.

Mr Ch33ky's TV persona could be sub to a woman or a could.

Not sure about the contract but never say never

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

I have used written contracts before, but absolutely not based on any of the drivel in 50 shades of shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would. Provided I was allowed to change some things.

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

"I would. Provided I was allowed to change some things. "

The contract is a negotiation, you get to change anything you want, contracts can be subsequently re-negotiated, temporarily suspended, or annulled unilaterally.

50 shades has so much to answer for with respect to it's totally misconceived propositions about BDSM, not to mention it's crimes against literacy or copyright infringement and passing off.

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We are a Dom/Sub couple, live the lifestyle 24/7, i have been collared for 5 years now, never have had the need to have a contract, we know others who have and it works for them.

The FSOG books and films are very lighthearted compared to what we and others get up to.

karen

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

"We are a Dom/Sub couple, live the lifestyle 24/7, i have been collared for 5 years now, never have had the need to have a contract, we know others who have and it works for them.

The FSOG books and films are very lighthearted compared to what we and others get up to.

karen"

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

"We are a Dom/Sub couple, live the lifestyle 24/7, i have been collared for 5 years now, never have had the need to have a contract, we know others who have and it works for them.

The FSOG books and films are very lighthearted compared to what we and others get up to.

karen"

It's not so much the lightweight/lightheartedness of them, it's the plain out and out misrepresentation and in some instances unsafe practices.

People will get a completely erroneous impression of what BDSM is from the books.

And it further irritates that a barely literate person can write such shoddily composed bollocks, stealing ideas from other works and passing them off as her own, and make shed loads of money from such crap.

Still, each to their own. No-one is forcing anyone to read and like the books, though it's a sad indictment on the level of literary discernment amongst the majority of the population. After all, the Sun is the most widely read newspaper. Says it all really

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