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We dont fuck guys in our area!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Spoke to a cpl and set up a meet,

Only to be let down and msg received saying

we didnt realise you were in northampton. we only fuck guys out the area.

personal preference or just a timewaster???

I notice a few profiles say it

whats this about?

Someone please tell me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are exercising discretion .

They don't want to bump into you in the high St

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmmmm

i bumped into someone other day actually.

she just kept staring at me, i carried on shopping.

discretion is fine.. but sex site and more people here than you think

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

For the most part I'd say preference and safety however with your username and location I'd say it was pretty obvious from the outset that you were from Northampton so they possibly shouldn't have got that far in their communication with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately personal preference for the reasons a previous poster stated.

They have definately not wasted your time, well no more than youd normally spend browsing fabs anyway.

You probably feel disappointed they cancelled but please dont accuse people being timewasters when they are not and you said they let you know which is more than many would.

Just accept humbly it did not work this time and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are cock teasers or cant read a profile lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Evie... dead right apart from had 3sum with wife on a night out

she msged me before and after

just wanted to know what people thought about it anyway

all abit weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do the same correct it's a sex site but we still don't want to bump into someone when we are put and about as no telling how some would react on here.

The clue is in your user name and location though so sounds like a cop out on the couples part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So maybe she's worried you'll tell her husband about your previous history with her? Or they had a better offer?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"We do the same correct it's a sex site but we still don't want to bump into someone when we are put and about as no telling how some would react on here.

The clue is in your user name and location though so sounds like a cop out on the couples part. "

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Might be just a way of letting you down gently (in their eyes). People chicken out for all sorts of reasons - the fact they gave you a reason at all (even if not a real one) shows they had some empathy.

We don't consider a bit of flirtation on fab without a follow through as time wasting - it's all part of the game. Perhaps reserve time wasting for the meets where people just don't show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And sometimes can be a plain oversight i know weve done it at times in that weve had a mail from a nice guy got involved with mails and only after arranging to meet did we notice too close to home and had to cancel not timewasting in our opinion just an over excited mistake, we are all human

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I don't because there is no one local to me that I want to play with

So I changed my location on here so I didn't come up in my local searches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my location also set to my neighbouring town. It's a swinging site so discretion goes without saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noone is local in my town so no need to change location lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I don't because there is no one local to me that I want to play with

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what about newcastle????

damn... too easy... the inner 12yr old coming out again....

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I don't because there is no one local to me that I want to play with

what about newcastle????

damn... too easy... the inner 12yr old coming out again.... "

You're clearly on the mend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are cock teasers or cant read a profile lol "
we have it on our profile that we never meet people from our town ! But get about 5 messages a day from people from here. Maybe it was on there profile and they weren't expecting a message from someone close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've always thought having somebody we know come out as a swinger and come to play would be really hot. Almost happened recently but they bottled it. Oh well one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are exercising discretion .

They don't want to bump into you in the high St

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This.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called 'not shitting on your own doorstep' where I come from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess it depends if you are ashamed of swinging. We are more of the attitude that our friends accept its part of who we are and anyone else really doesnt matter. So if locals find out so what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called 'not shitting on your own doorstep' where I come from. "

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