FabSwingers.com forum: waste of time meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just got myself ready for a meet he was picking me up to go to his but when I was walking towards car ,he drove off!! Quite baffled as obviously talking and looking forward to meeting but did that! Ready delete my account people like this make my blood boil. Its hard for me to arrange meets around my work life kids etc I'm livid and upset

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Hmm, not sure if you can report him as a no shows, because technically he did turn up.

What a mean thing to do though. Really mean. You were well out of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Thats not very nice behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a wanker he must be........shocking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an absolute prick! Didn't even have the balls to say 'not for me' Dodged a bullet hun x

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Just got myself ready for a meet he was picking me up to go to his but when I was walking towards car ,he drove off!! Quite baffled as obviously talking and looking forward to meeting but did that! Ready delete my account people like this make my blood boil. Its hard for me to arrange meets around my work life kids etc I'm livid and upset"
. These type of things happen to most people on occasions . Best not to worry about it and think about all your successfully meets .

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

In our opinion, that's worse than not turning up at all.

The arrogant git! Just wait to one of the following;

A pathetic excuse or a delete profile.

Feel sad for you, we really do.

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By *xpoppinsxx2012Couple
over a year ago

Matlock

What a complete and utter idiot..there's so many people on ere like this. We had someone let us down last week and we have same probs with spare time due to work and kids..it makes you so mad..but at least the good seem to out do the bad..let's hope that's your last idiot this year x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs to you. What a prick, I only meet in clubs now because of stuff like this, do something lovely for yourself tonight xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's bad.... no wonder people lose faith in the scene.

Chin up hunny, hope it gets better!!!

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Gosh that's harsh

probably chickened out at the last moment, shame he didn't have tthe balls to tell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of it this way.....at least he wasn't nervous and sweaty all over you! Or worse, couldn't get it up because he was too nervous, ive had that. X

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Wow thats totally unacceptable,not everyone is the same though on here.Big hugs and keep smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Karma will sort it.... I'm sure someone will give him a taste of his own medicine.

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By *apt_alphaMan
over a year ago

Warrington

That is outrageous & extremely disrespectful to you, i'm new to the scene & was extremely nervous on my first meet, no way would i have driven off. Don't loose faith in all the others on this site, we not all bad i promise x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Harsh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey,

Sorry to hear that. Not why anyone would go that far and not want to meet you. I'm sure you'll find someone a lot better.

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By *arlock69Man
over a year ago

Batley... (near Leeds)

That's bang out of order...you should report him anyway...hope you have better luck next time...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bless op sorry to hear this , don't let one prick put you off don't give him a second chance hun . His loss

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By *ot monkey71Couple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Thats disgraceful, karma will bite him on the arse.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

That is crap!

but please don't let one bad apple spoil the bunch, for every twat there are a slew of great guys on here - honest!!

go and make a voodoo doll and stick a pin (or 10) in his dick

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Thats disgraceful, karma will bite him on the arse."

If only karma worked like that. Unless he had a damn good reason I wish him an itchy bumhole, and that he stands on many legos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's his loss love don't worry about it. The prick is probably on tag and had to get home before he breached his bail, just block him and move on, plenty more where he came from x

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

What a tosser.... oh yes wait a minute... that's what he will be doing all the time and with behaviour like that he won'thave the assistance of a lovely lady like you. yYou however will live to meet someone more worthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 big reason why we now meet 99% of times in a club. Out of 10 meets 2 turn up if lucky loads of excuses even had 1 guy sitting in his car outside when I walked up drove off... Think for them it's more the thrill to get a meet then have a meet...sad people... lucky there are still nice people around

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

What an absolute arsehole. It's prats like him that give the rest of us a bad name. Try and put it behind you and move on love.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Hope his next shit's a hedgehog.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He said he got a stomach upset I nearly got to the car n drove off...well camper van. I look like my pics and I'm on the plus size but he's made me feel unattractive. I may take a break I'm not sure. I'm more pissed off I could of met a genuine friend tonight instead

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hope his next shit's a hedgehog."

That's brill he did say he got the shits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmn...just like a movie lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens. Its no reflection on you...

A guy legged it when I was at the bar getting my own drink once.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Oh my god that's so awful. Keep your chin up and move on honey. I bet he's got a really teeny cock anyway!!! XxX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously he's took one look at you and thought she's hot, sexy and I'm completely out of my league !!!...hope you're ok hunny xx

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"He said he got a stomach upset I nearly got to the car n drove off...well camper van. I look like my pics and I'm on the plus size but he's made me feel unattractive. I may take a break I'm not sure. I'm more pissed off I could of met a genuine friend tonight instead

But surely he knew what you looked like before the meet, so that behaviour is unforgivable. Even if he didn't know what you look like, it's still unforgivable.

This says much more about him than it does you, so don't put yourself down sweetie. I understand your frustration at losing time with someone genuine though. We've been messed about by a few couples recently, which is infuriating when our time is limited.

Hope you feel better tomorrow, you've had a lucky escape from such a loser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you swap face pics????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did you swap face pics????"

Yes of course

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

i have to agree with everyone elses comments, thats bloody awful thing to do it to anyone

chin up and call them all names under the sun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows what goes through the minds of these fuckwits. I think a lot of people on here have been messed around. Don't take it to heart. His loss. Tosser. Chin up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not good, sorry you got trested like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be your gain Shell, if he was that shallow to do that, would it have been a worthwhile meet anyway. From seeing your veris, it was his loss. Big hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's horrendous.......... Their loss x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I forgot to say....don't give him another chance when he comes crawling back!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did u chat to him on cam, so knew what each other looked like etc? we find that's a good way to go,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't have a can but chatted for weeks etc I'd rather he had said I wasn't for him. I've blocked him he as zero chance with me.

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By *ot monkey71Couple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

"Thats disgraceful, karma will bite him on the arse.

If only karma worked like that. Unless he had a damn good reason I wish him an itchy bumhole, and that he stands on many legos."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow... why would you not apologise and explain either your emergency or change of mind... or even if he bottled it.. hi hun really sorry, but I am just shitting myself can we just have a drink and a chat instead?.... any of those would be better than being a complete cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As everyone else has saidm it sounds like you've had a lucky escape and he was not the sort of person you would have wanted to spend your precious free time with anyway. I hope you managed to meet up with a friend or something instead Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had he seen pictures of you before you arranged to meet?

It's a shitty thing to do. I've met guys socially and had a hot chocolate with them and told them to their face that I wouldn't be seeing them again but I'd never drive off upon seeing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep your chin up Shell, it's his loss, obviously bottled it after seeing you and realising you were out of his league, you deserve better than knobheads like him. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's his loss. You're lovely and don't be disheartened by an idiot xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good job you also didn't get into the arseholes car! I did this once. Never again. Too many "what ifs" going on in my head x

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By *ona29Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Sorry sweetie hugs and kisses xxx

He is the one who is missing screw in his head. keep going forward, be happy there are some good guys in here, what goes around comes around he get his turn.

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

chell pricks come in all sizes some big enough to drive cars.we had our share of mupets .but yesterday had a fantastic meet with couple from skoke.any one who reads this and knows you turn up .would come and take you out.and look after you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could simply be cold feet.

Onwards and upwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't have a can but chatted for weeks etc I'd rather he had said I wasn't for him. I've blocked him he as zero chance with me. "

Cams, did somebody mention cams

Not nice, no matter what he should have been kinder and spoken with you.

Pictures can be deceiving, cams not so much.

We all do it upload our best pictures we also delete our '

bad day' imagies. But let's not forget, the time our bad day PIC was taken, we actually looked like that, bad angles or not lol

He lost his nerve, easy done

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

this place is full of idiots ..at least u didnt have to meet this one ..put it down to experience and learn buy your mistakes

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Having looked at your pics, I suspect he came in his pants as he saw you walking his way... then had to run away in embarrassment.. don't let one moron spoil things for you.

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

And so many decent blokes screaming out for a meet,gives us decent guys a bad name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And so many decent blokes screaming out for a meet,gives us decent guys a bad name"

No it doesn't, guys like this make the decent ones stand out more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you get his number plate ? I have a very particular set of skills

On a serious note though, hes a dick and thats awful behaviour, his loss though and keep your chin up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's bang out of order...you should report him anyway...hope you have better luck next time...x"

For what? Turning up and maybe not liking what he saw or got cold feet so drove off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ok on Friday evening I was meeting a couple, was at a hotel bar, the guy came through and I chatted with him and then the woman who was clearly very nervous as it was her first time came through for about 2 minutes before going for a fag. He went outside to check on her and I never seen them since, didn't responf to my texts or message on here and blocked me

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By *ovice_subTV/TS
over a year ago

Warrington

Op please don't let this guy put you off. I can assure you there are genuine guys around.

The thing that makes my blood boil over it all is that some of us really struggle to try and get meets and then you get people like him who probably get some sort of weird kick out of doing that to people. You really have had a lucky escape from him and best wishes for your next meet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just got myself ready for a meet he was picking me up to go to his but when I was walking towards car ,he drove off!! Quite baffled as obviously talking and looking forward to meeting but did that! Ready delete my account people like this make my blood boil. Its hard for me to arrange meets around my work life kids etc I'm livid and upset"
. Shame you can't name and shame so the prick doesn't do it again.

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

I can't imagine for one minute that it was because he didn't fancy you, I suspect he lost his nerve and just ran, plenty more out there for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's ok on Friday evening I was meeting a couple, was at a hotel bar, the guy came through and I chatted with him and then the woman who was clearly very nervous as it was her first time came through for about 2 minutes before going for a fag. He went outside to check on her and I never seen them since, didn't responf to my texts or message on here and blocked me

Man thats cold... This is d second post i've read of you being messed about haha..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha guess I'm just unlucky or when people see me in person they didn't realise how fugly I was!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man thats cold... This is d second post i've read of you being messed about haha.."

Why is someone being messed around funny?

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

I once met a fantastic Slovakian girl off tinder...

Smart, ambitious, brought from Spain to the uk as a troubleshooter for her co. & I'm sure a freak in bed (she had me put some serious teeth marks in her arm)...

Met her in London, she was taking her team out, met me after...

Few drinks, went down CG, hit the scotch, had a great time... Finished way later than planned and well pissed...

Had to get a taxi to mine, but had no cash... Yep you know what happened next...

Got out the cab, looped around a bit, went to the ATM (no not that type, you filthy lot)... Turned round... Fucking forgot where the taxi was and now super d*unk as I had hit the cold air...

Schoolboy error...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we ad the same couple let us down twice first time we gave them the benefit of the doubt but second time we was ready to meet them when he phoned and said is wife was scared a complete waste of time

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I think the moral of the stories are if you don't want people to do a runner once they've clapped eyes on you ensure you exchange photos that are truly representative.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Oh... And I lost my fucking iPad!!

But I did pass the exam I whent there for in the first place.

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By *BW100Couple
over a year ago

Suffolk/Norfolk border

We have had a few let downs & bad experiences lately which has made me feel really down about the site but a spur of the moment meet yesterday (which we don't normally do) has made me feel better about us being on this ste.

You were obviously too hot for him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must say this is why we face pic swap then skype before meeting after all who puts a shit pic on here, could save a lot of embarrassment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the moral of the stories are if you don't want people to do a runner once they've clapped eyes on you ensure you exchange photos that are truly representative."

Hahaha as if you've tried making it acceptable

I'd sent them pictures of me that are exactly how I am. I think the issue was he was trying to set it up and force it when his mrs was clearly uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the moral of the stories are if you don't want people to do a runner once they've clapped eyes on you ensure you exchange photos that are truly representative."

The picture was recent I had sent him well from the week before. I up to date my pics regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you still upset about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let him put you off Hun there are lots of genuine guys out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turn expecting things like this to happen, I think people see what they what to see until reality hits.

Sorry your time was wasted, bloody annoying when you've gone to trouble of getting ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if he decided you werent for him its just downright rude - if it was just last minute nerves thats a shame Sx

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

there is lots of men on here that are like that I have been on and off site for 3 or more years now and over last 2 years its get hard for single men to meet women when we are the genuine ones and the time wasters make is worse.

if they keep doing that to you what chance have we got

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there is lots of men on here that are like that I have been on and off site for 3 or more years now and over last 2 years its get hard for single men to meet women when we are the genuine ones and the time wasters make is worse.

if they keep doing that to you what chance have we got "

How do they make it worse for you? I would have thought it would be the exact opposite, the genuine ones shine above these. What other people do on this site has absolutely no bearing on what you do or your success or otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the moral of the stories are if you don't want people to do a runner once they've clapped eyes on you ensure you exchange photos that are truly representative.

The picture was recent I had sent him well from the week before. I up to date my pics regularly"
. I feel for you.....we aren't all idiots. I would never arrange a meet then do that. Disgraceful.

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

"Just got myself ready for a meet he was picking me up to go to his but when I was walking towards car ,he drove off!! Quite baffled as obviously talking and looking forward to meeting but did that! Ready delete my account people like this make my blood boil. Its hard for me to arrange meets around my work life kids etc I'm livid and upset"
that happen to me and plan to meet in town he was picking me up and he turn up took one look drove of send him message is answer was he scared but he was married too I just block get these timewaster.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

even as a couple seeking single men we get waster,s and told sorry you meet as friends part as friends any thing else is a bonus. But we find it better if we don,t like what we see don,t make contact walk away and text them and say sorry we have been abused a few time,s when it,s face to face.As long as you all have been in touch after don't think you can be called a waster.We don,t chase any more we say were we will be and if they don,t show up we have not wasted our time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the moral of the stories are if you don't want people to do a runner once they've clapped eyes on you ensure you exchange photos that are truly representative."

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you still upset about it? "

No hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did u chat to him on cam, so knew what each other looked like etc? we find that's a good way to go, "

this

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By *hatterfabWoman
over a year ago

Wakefield

"even as a couple seeking single men we get waster,s and told sorry you meet as friends part as friends any thing else is a bonus. But we find it better if we don,t like what we see don,t make contact walk away and text them and say sorry we have been abused a few time,s when it,s face to face.As long as you all have been in touch after don't think you can be called a waster.We don,t chase any more we say were we will be and if they don,t show up we have not wasted our time"

WHAT!!!

So you let someone get ready, arrive at an arranged meeting place, then if you don't like what you see you don't go up to them, just walk away and text them???

That is awful!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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what lovely people u are not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he was playing you and just to see if you where real some people are like that which is dishonest and rude when people do that to honest people that want to meet.. Well it his loss as he wasted your time in getting ready to meet him then he run off which to me is a no show.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

That is totally unforgiveable. You should be able to name and shame people like that. We have never had a no show but going by the number of people who have said it has happened to them I guess we are just lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very lucky we have had loads of no shows. Couples, men and women have all done it to us.

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