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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

Do you all go out at the weekends with expectations of swinging? I know it is a swinging site and swinging clubs by definition is why people attend such venues, however, we actually love going to a club so we get some our time away from the kids. We could go to a hotel, but we find the club scene more fun....

So we generally have no expectations to having a play with others when we go out.

Do you go out with an expectation of swinging???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally no, but if we know certain people are going to be there then that does change things a bit.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

In general no.

I don't go to a club with the expectation of having sex, I go in the hope of having a good night out.

A good shag is an added bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we go to a club and play with others it's a bonus for us not expected.

Some of our best nights at clubs are when we have just played with each other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies ladies...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a club and suspect I never will (not my thing) but I guess I'd be gutted if I'd paid to get into a swingers club and didn't get to 'swing' especially when pubs and bars are free. Just my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only ever go to our fav club for the social company of good friends & with no expectations to play.

If we play then great but if not, we never feel disappointed or like we've missed out as we always have a wicked night anyway.

Juicy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only go to clubs to get out and enjoy the atmosphere. No expectation of playing, except for with ourselves!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Every time (except the first time) we've been to a club, we've been meeting someone there so playing is usually on the cards.

I went to the After8 Xmas party alone, and as it was my birthday weekend I had the hope of playing, but it was pretty much a social so I left disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all... guess we are all coming from it from the same viewpoint. Ie just a night out unless there is an arranged meet on the cards..... or some unexpected surprise crops up lol

Because we have found that the majority of couples seem to just enjoy their own play company, a lot more of that going on than actual swinging.....

Hence our question, thanks again all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% yes , we go to to a swinging club to play .

If there's nothing on the cards at the club we go dogging on the way home .

Say and judge as you will , but to us its like going to the theatre and not watching the show if we dont intend playing .

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