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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it best to send messages or wait for messages on here?

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

As a couple who perhaps have more avenues open to us.. We have to actively email and keep track of potential meets

If we were to sit and wait we might as well go back to a vanilla lifestyle

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

Carrier pigeons and smoke signals seem to work well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a women I don't send initial messages, I wait to be messaged but from the male friends I talk to they say they message or wink as most of the women are like me and don't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Carrier pigeons and smoke signals seem to work well "

I might try that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i like someone's profile enough i will send them a message as some of the men on here would say i have.

i think its 50/50 just as i'm on a sex site shouldn't mean that the man has to do wall the work

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

The only time we send initial messages is in situations where we just like the style of the other peoples profile...we often comment how funny or honest etc it is...but we never send messages to strangers asking for a friends invite, or actual invites as we are more than aware that most people on here are not really interested in non swingers (or to use the technical term..'boring Vanillas' lol) or what we are into (web cams)..So we leave it to others to contact us first so save annoying people or wasting anyones time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never send initial messages as the type of playmate I'm seeking seldom puts what he is on his profile so pointless: they contact me!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

If you don't advertise - life will pass you by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i like someone's profile enough i will send them a message as some of the men on here would say i have.

i think its 50/50 just as i'm on a sex site shouldn't mean that the man has to do wall the work "

totally agree, if someone catches your eye, why wait for them to come to you?

if you don't message, the only choices you have are those that have happened across your profile...reduces your options considerably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We rarely send prospective emails now, but did when we first joined the site. We use the system to keep in touch with existing friends, and we find we are more successfull meeting new friends at clubs and parties.

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