FabSwingers.com forum: is it a big deal here if you dont publishnyour verifications

By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

Would love your opinions cheers

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

To some? Yes.

To others? No.

Do your own thing as you'll never please everyone and trying to do so is pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. I don't really pay that much attention to what they say, and I don't show mine because people are nosy bastards and it's none of their business who I have sex with.

I quite like to see the summary though, so I can see if it's 5 verifications by meets recently or 1 by cam 6 years ago, but generally try to make my own mind up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always getting agro for not showing them. Personally I think they're a bit cringe and over rated.

If I had a pound for everytime I saw "he had the most suckable cock" and "not to be missed" I'd be a billionaire

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By *owdyBooby OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

"To some? Yes.

To others? No.

Do your own thing as you'll never please everyone and trying to do so is pointless.

Ppl get very offened and I have lost contact with ppl cos i choose not to splash my private life on mine and more specifically other peoples pages. I see veris as just confirmation that you are who u say u are and you can hold a convo. Anything other than that and your dealing with conjecture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get lots of messages saying do you ever meet ! Just cos we don't feel the need to plaster our sex life all over the Internet Doesn't mean we don't have one looses lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't show that you have at least met someone in person , it could be that you may have only webcam veri's and they're a complete waste of space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me not to see verifications, i think some are quite personal or crude and know the person might not want to show them.

I'm always suspicious about people who don't show the summary, i often think they're having a relationship with someone on here and don't want them to know they've met recently? Although after hearing about some of the drama on here i can understand why they do that as well. I don't get any drama so left mine up.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Most of mine are nonsense in terms of content. I don't really give a shit whether other people think its okay or not, I figure it's what I think that matters.

I'm not a bloke though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would love your opinions cheers"

I like to see who others have met. If they have asked to meet me, it helps with the decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever display my last one, the rest stay hidden...hasn't seemed to affect me in here.

Personally not that fussed about reading them either.

I do display my summary though just to show I turn up for meets etc....that's the only purpose they serve to me....to know that someone is reliable.

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

I show some of mine as I hope they say to prospective meets that I am a real person who turns up, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris can sometimes kill my opinion of someone, if I'm chatting and they seem quite articulate etc. Then I read a veri saying

"don't miss out on this one lads".. I just think eww,

Each time I've left fab I've left my veris behind..really good veris too but they mean nothing, I'd rather use instinct but if you need to read a re_iew before the book then they may help some.

I prefer to pick a book up and start reading.))

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We show some of ours - a mix of socials, meets and some that are just about me. I think it shows we stick to arrangements, are friendly and fun, and not timewasters.

When looking at other profiles, I like to know that some veris are recent so they are definitely meeting, and it's people we would get on with.

But ultimately we make up our own mind. I don't mind meeting unverified people for a social, we all have to start somewhere.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No you can always show them to potential meets if they want to see.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

It doesn't matter to me either way, show them or not it is your choice.

As I only play in clubs, if I met you there I would assume that you are 'genuine', I wouldn't ask for your fab name to check your veris before dragging you off

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Not for me, as I am only interested in me. My profile is a reflection of me, how I decide to represent myself.

What others think, I couldn't give a toss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know and don't care really, we just do our own thing and decided that we love going out to clubs, fundamentally for our own amusement. So our adventures are not dictated or influenced by others interest/or not in us by either our profile or verifications. However, it is nice when nice people leave us a nice verification... it is our personal feelings that count not those that may or may not _iew them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would love your opinions cheers"

Do what YOU want to do

Personal preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple once chastised me because I admitted I don't publish every verification. I asked them if they gave each other a veri and published it after every time they had sex together - they said course not! I then pointed out that I don't use dating sites etc, so the only time I ever have sex is with people from fab - and I'm darned if i'm going to publish a breakdown of who I had sex with, where it was, when it was, and exactly what we did - every time I have sex! My sex life is my business, whether on fab or off it, and like everyone else I have the right to show or hide veris at will!

( Climbs down off soap box!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

For some people it's a massive deal if you don't show them as they think you're hiding something awful

Just do what you're comfortable with,it's your profile and your fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To some? Yes.

To others? No.

Do your own thing as you'll never please everyone and trying to do so is pointless.

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By *un4threeCouple
over a year ago

Waterford

Surely it's just a personal choice....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No big deal at all, up to the person as its their profile. I've always seen them as a way of saying they are who they say they are and prefer to make my own mind up about someone, not go on what a total stranger who lets face it, probably doesn't know them that well, says about them. Some are just too graphic for me anyway!

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