FabSwingers.com forum: Yes, no , maybe.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you meet the poster above. Simple really , yes, no, maybe ?. Go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes!!

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By *wistedtongue0220Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Definitely yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hell yes!!"

Dunno....not spoke to you much.....lovely pins though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, for a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, for a drink"

Yes - I need to share my peroni's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes def

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, for a drink"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, for a drink

Yes. "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, for a drink

Yes.

Yes"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, for a drink

Yes.

Yes"

As long as you keep the bag on, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes both x"

Hoping that was actually for us. Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, for a drink

Yes.

Yes

As long as you keep the bag on, yes

No problem. Had to wear it on every meet so far

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By *latfishyMan
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *latfishyMan
over a year ago

Bristol

@tenderlovers

Absolutely

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By *eavensent78Couple
over a year ago

west mids

No sorry

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By *acilory39Man
over a year ago

out n about

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, for a drink

Yes.

Yes

As long as you keep the bag on, yes

No problem. Had to wear it on every meet so far

It suits you. Show off your eyes really well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No sorry"

Nope, I'm past it

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By *rant4Man
over a year ago

South Wales & London

Heavensent78.....yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes both x

Hoping that was actually for us. Yes

Sure was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes both x

Hoping that was actually for us. Yes

Sure was"

Oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes both x

Hoping that was actually for us. Yes

Sure was"

assuming the person above is still missylonglegs - fuck yes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, for a drink

Yes.

Yes

As long as you keep the bag on, yes

No problem. Had to wear it on every meet so far

It suits you. Show off your eyes really well

I always bring a variety of bags so you can choose the eyes you like best

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By *ovrumcheekychappyMan
over a year ago

rotherham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love these when the men end up accidently replying to another guy...

P.s. you seem like a good guy but I'll have to pass.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Ah, who can keep up!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Yes both x

Hoping that was actually for us. Yes

Sure was"

Oh my goodness. Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No"

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By *onnyeasygoingMan
over a year ago

Somewhere either Manchester or West London

"Yes both x

Hoping that was actually for us. Yes

Sure was

Oh yes

In the words of Churchill....

( the dog, not the man)

O Yesh

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Ah, who can keep up!"

I could with that fine filly.

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By *ovrumcheekychappyMan
over a year ago

rotherham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No"

No.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes both x

Hoping that was actually for us. Yes

Sure was

Oh yes

In the words of Churchill....

( the dog, not the man)

O Yesh"

Back at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eavensent78Couple
over a year ago

west mids

"Yes both x

Hoping that was actually for us. Yes

Sure was

Oh yes

In the words of Churchill....

( the dog, not the man)

O Yesh

Back at you"

100% yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldn't mind being the meat in a Kelly and Missy LL sandwich....

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By *ovrumcheekychappyMan
over a year ago

rotherham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes both x

Hoping that was actually for us. Yes

Sure was

Oh yes

In the words of Churchill....

( the dog, not the man)

O Yesh

Back at you

100% yes"

And you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wouldn't mind being the meat in a Kelly and Missy LL sandwich....

Yes

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By *ovrumcheekychappyMan
over a year ago

rotherham

"Yes"
again and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesagain and again"

Yep

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Her"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes i would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes i would

maybe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes i would

No"
maybe.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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mybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes i would

Nomaybe....."

Probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes i would

Nomaybe.....

Probably

maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes i would

Nomaybe.....

Probably

maybe "

More than likely

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By *ovrumcheekychappyMan
over a year ago

rotherham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No"

No....

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By *ovrumcheekychappyMan
over a year ago

rotherham

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way Jose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No way Jose

Oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No way Jose

Yes, for a drink.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"No way Jose

Yes, for a drink."

Hell to the yeahhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes indeedy x

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By *loschapMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Deffo would give u loads of cum xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes indeedy x"

Yes for a.drink

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Yes

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"Yes indeedy x

Yes for a.drink"
drinks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes indeedy x

Yes for a.drink drinks x"

yes

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By *ovrumcheekychappyMan
over a year ago

rotherham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No"

That's 3 times you've rejected me ya picky sod!!

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"Yes indeedy x

Yes for a.drink drinks x

yes"
yes

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By *ovrumcheekychappyMan
over a year ago

rotherham

"No

That's 3 times you've rejected me ya picky sod!!

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way too manly for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No

That's 3 times you've rejected me ya picky sod!!

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maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Yes.x

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Yes.x"

Maybe ....

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"Yes

Yes.x"
yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Too right yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Too right yes."

Maybe ....

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"Yes

Too right yes.

Maybe ...."
drinks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Too right yes.

Maybe ...."

quite possibly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pint only lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Too right yes.

Maybe ....

quite possibly "
might do

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over a year ago

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By *ompip3Couple
over a year ago

Paisley

"Yes

Too right yes.

Maybe ....

quite possibly might do

Maybe! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Too right yes.

Maybe ....

quite possibly might do

Think I would do

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By *ovrumcheekychappyMan
over a year ago

rotherham

Can I jus buy somone a drink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Too right yes.

Maybe ....

quite possibly might do

Maybe! xx"

It's quite probable x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I jus buy somone a drink?"

Yeah but no Rohypnol this time

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By *ovrumcheekychappyMan
over a year ago

rotherham

"Can I jus buy somone a drink?

Yeah but no Rohypnol this time

"
how you remember ? Maybe more needed lol

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Can I jus buy somone a drink?

Yeah but no Rohypnol this time

That's no fun

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"Can I jus buy somone a drink?"
go on then x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I jus buy somone a drink?

Yeah but no Rohypnol this time

That's no fun

Neither is waking up with a sore arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yessss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry no ....only due to no singles at moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we can have a beer lol

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"Yessss"
yess

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By *ovrumcheekychappyMan
over a year ago

rotherham

"Can I jus buy somone a drink? go on then x"
anytime guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yessss yess

All day yes

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By *ovrumcheekychappyMan
over a year ago

rotherham

"Can I jus buy somone a drink?

Yeah but no Rohypnol this time

That's no fun

Neither is waking up with a sore arse

"
lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yessss yess

All day yes"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooohhh yes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooohhh yes...

"
maybe ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooohhh yes...

Nah! No Tits

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By *ovrumcheekychappyMan
over a year ago

rotherham

"Oooohhh yes...

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no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooohhh yes...

no"

No....

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yessss yess

All day yes

Yes"

Very yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yessss yess

All day yes

Yes

Very yes"

Yes

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By *ovrumcheekychappyMan
over a year ago

rotherham

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Can I jus buy somone a drink?

Yeah but no Rohypnol this time

That's no fun

Neither is waking up with a sore arse

Speak for yourself

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By *eavensent78Couple
over a year ago

west mids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yessss yess

All day yes

Yes

Very yes

Yes

Yesss

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By *eavensent78Couple
over a year ago

west mids

Damn wrong one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I jus buy somone a drink?

Yeah but no Rohypnol this time

That's no fun

Neither is waking up with a sore arse

Speak for yourself

That's different! I had no memory of how it happened and going to see a Dr thinking it was hemorrhoids was highly embarrassing....Especially when he pulled the condom out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Damn wrong one

Oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, let's keep it easy.......yes to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *ovrumcheekychappyMan
over a year ago

rotherham

"Can I jus buy somone a drink?

Yeah but no Rohypnol this time

That's no fun

Neither is waking up with a sore arse

Speak for yourself

That's different! I had no memory of how it happened and going to see a Dr thinking it was hemorrhoids was highly embarrassing....Especially when he pulled the condom out

"
i dint use a condom must hav been that hobo haha

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I jus buy somone a drink?

Yeah but no Rohypnol this time

That's no fun

Neither is waking up with a sore arse

Speak for yourself

That's different! I had no memory of how it happened and going to see a Dr thinking it was hemorrhoids was highly embarrassing....Especially when he pulled the condom out

i dint use a condom must hav been that hobo haha"
no....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah!

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over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

"
maybe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah!"

If Only

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"Yeah!

If Only"
yes

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over a year ago

"Yeah!

If Only yes

Drinks

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"Yeah!

If Only yes

Drinks

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your round i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah!

If Only yes

Drinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah!

If Only yes

Drinks

Drinks"

On Google maps looking for Naughty Lane.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By *wistedtongue0220Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Maybe.

Definitely

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By *ceman619Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Can I jus buy somone a drink?

Yeah but no Rohypnol this time

That's no fun

Neither is waking up with a sore arse

Speak for yourself

That's different! I had no memory of how it happened and going to see a Dr thinking it was hemorrhoids was highly embarrassing....Especially when he pulled the condom out

Ooops

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By *ceman619Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I jus buy somone a drink?

Yeah but no Rohypnol this time

That's no fun

Neither is waking up with a sore arse

Speak for yourself

That's different! I had no memory of how it happened and going to see a Dr thinking it was hemorrhoids was highly embarrassing....Especially when he pulled the condom out

Ooops

On a different note.

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes"
maybe.....

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By *wistedtongue0220Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Yesmaybe....."

Yes

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"Yesmaybe.....

Yes

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maybe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh yes..

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"Oooh yes..

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yes

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes"
no winks... Yesss

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over a year ago

Yes.

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By *ovrumcheekychappyMan
over a year ago

rotherham

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

Definitely maybe

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over a year ago

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No......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes"

Yes

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"yes

Yes"

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"yes

Yes

No"
no....

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"yes

Yes

No"
maybe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes

Yes

No maybe x"

Your round

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"yes

Yes

No maybe x

Your round

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do you fancy a double

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes

Yes

No maybe x

Your round

do you fancy a double

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yes please

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

You can call me Winks Kelly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can call me Winks Kelly

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oh thank.you

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"You can call me Winks Kelly

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yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes

Yes

No maybe x"

I'll take that

Lovely pics BTW x

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"yes

Yes

No maybe x

I'll take that

Lovely pics BTW x"
no...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes

Yes

No maybe x

I'll take that

Lovely pics BTW x"

Drinks

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