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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there everyone. Is it just us are are other people finding it hard to meet a single bi female for ffm fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples moan that men message them to get to the woman and ignore the male half. You are doing just that.

Treat a single bifem as a person and you might get somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't mean to be rude but how do you know this. Your just presuming that is the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of couples want the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having previously been on here as a single female I know the number of messages receivrd can be overwhelming !

I needed to have a mental and physical attraction before meeting !

Also it's worth remembering the fun should be a three way thing although I didn't full swap with the guys!

There are some lovely single females on here and its a case of being polite, respectful and of course patient xx her

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By *eavensent78Couple
over a year ago

west mids

Join the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy I am part of a couple and am also an elusive single bifem.

I delete many, many, many mails that couples and men send to me saying how awesome they are in bed, how she likes women etc, yet it makes me laugh when people send me a message saying just hi and I reply, they get suprised.

I also have many friends I have built up over the years who happen to be single bi females. They would very happily swing with me on my own or my partner, just because I have put effort to building up a connection with them on a personal level.

I do not have to put up a million veris to show this and you have to remember Fab is a tool to meet people, not a place to shop for a fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're having the same problem. We'll keep trying and hope for the best. My partner isn't interested in bringing another male or f/m couple into are fun. There must be someone out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's been quite a few threads on this of late with some good advice. Might be worth a look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny how the thread for 'are you a bi female that plays alone' far out weighs this one. Just goes to show we are out there.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

The biggest challenge most couples seem to overlook is that its about mutual attraction so she needs to find you both attractive first. Plus you generally most bi females feel safe playing at swinging clubs only.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

also your profile doesnt read like the fem half of the couple is really that interested as it cones across as being written by the male half

Maybe thats just me but its how i percieve it and its no.fun for a bi fem playing with a woman thats doing it just to please her man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to me that most women on here are bi or curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emily is bi and enjoys playing with couples as long as they dont mind me being a non participating voyeur. If they insist she meet them alone its their loss

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By *eckyWithTheGoodHairWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

As a bi fem really wanting to meet..., i feel like im usually mailed with the view to be there to put on a girly show for the dude. Which is an instant turn off..., im a person not a source of entertainment or a plaything for a couple. Unfortunately these type of msgs r becoming more frequent. 'Its my mans birthday soon and his ultimate fantasy is to watch me with a girl, i want to arrange summit special, u up for it?' Ehhhhh , no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a look at the couples looking for the same. You'll see that there are so many hot couples for all these single ladies to choose from. So, and I'm only being totally honest here, a couple really do need to be "exceptional" to find that "elusive" sexy bi fem to join them as to fulfill that ever popular, erotic fantasy that is an ffm!!

Personally, we've given up!! lol

It takes me 95% hard work just to please one let alone two anyway!!! I have to save the other 5% to clean the mess up afterwards!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not much difference surely in a mmff to a ffm,aslong as both guys are cool and the girls are bi/curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not much difference surely in a mmff to a ffm,aslong as both guys are cool and the girls are bi/curious"

ffm ffmm??? Yep, there's definitely a difference lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not much difference surely in a mmff to a ffm,aslong as both guys are cool and the girls are bi/curious

ffm ffmm??? Yep, there's definitely a difference lol "

lol....get out of it,ya know what i mean lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not much difference surely in a mmff to a ffm,aslong as both guys are cool and the girls are bi/curious

ffm ffmm??? Yep, there's definitely a difference lol

lol....get out of it,ya know what i mean lol"

It's only one little letter I s'pose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"also your profile doesnt read like the fem half of the couple is really that interested as it cones across as being written by the male half

Maybe thats just me but its how i percieve it and its no.fun for a bi fem playing with a woman thats doing it just to please her man. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not much difference surely in a mmff to a ffm,aslong as both guys are cool and the girls are bi/curious

ffm ffmm??? Yep, there's definitely a difference lol

lol....get out of it,ya know what i mean lol

It's only one little letter I s'pose "

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get too many bi fem couples messaging me asking me to meet or sending unwanted friend requests and 9 out of 10 it was the male, you'd think they'd reign it in a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We as a couple want equal involvement from all present and often find ourselves giving all our attention to a guest.

However when I had a solo profile (trialled for about 3 months) I rarely came across a couple who used that kind of language - it was always about their fantasy and what they wanted to see / do (and don't start me on the no involvement from the guy and it all being a fem on fem show).

I wouldn't meet a couple as a solo female so I don't blame those who don't - or chose not to advertise that they do

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Every thread like this always ends up the same, with the same complaints. It's all so unremittingly negative.

Perhaps there should be a thread celebrating those couples and single bi females on Fab who somehow manage to do the seemingly impossible - meet each other succesfully, and have a great time with all three playing together! No FF displays for the fellas, no performing seals, no pillow princesses pretending to be bi to fulfil a fantasy, just sexy people having filthy fun all round.

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...


"Every thread like this always ends up the same, with the same complaints. It's all so unremittingly negative.

Perhaps there should be a thread celebrating those couples and single bi females on Fab who somehow manage to do the seemingly impossible - meet each other succesfully, and have a great time with all three playing together! No FF displays for the fellas, no performing seals, no pillow princesses pretending to be bi to fulfil a fantasy, just sexy people having filthy fun all round. "

Hear hear I'd contribute to a thread like that

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I meet couples but all those I have engaged with have treated me as an equal part of the fun with my own needs or desires that they would like to fulfil as well as I theirs.

Sadly many couples asume they have to do very little leg work and often have profile that demand more than they are prepared to give.

Many also forget the safety aspect that us single girls have to consider.

As much as I would love yo meet couples more often it is hard to find couole profiles that are bi female friendly, have public pics of both sides of the couple who are also willing to develop a connection with you.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met one lovely girl on a previous profile - and she did not want any male participation (which we were fine with). To be brutally honest, though, have given up looking on Fab for this now - just really don't seem to be many genuine girls about who actually MEET rather than just chat. That's just our experience - and we are definitely not rude or pushy when corresponding

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By *riendlyGirlWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

I find it quite scary the idea of going to meet a couple. No idea why but I'm always super nervous.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"met one lovely girl on a previous profile - and she did not want any male participation (which we were fine with). To be brutally honest, though, have given up looking on Fab for this now - just really don't seem to be many genuine girls about who actually MEET rather than just chat. That's just our experience - and we are definitely not rude or pushy when corresponding"

I'm feeling the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is because we have to be attracted to and comfortable with both people. Sometimes couples don't make that very easy for us

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I've only ever found 1 couple i'd want to meet and play with again. He is hot, she is adorable. Together they are the perfect couple for a single bi woman. They showed respect, kindness and....well thats all ask really. Sadly as hard as finding a single bi lasy can be, believe,its even harder to find a couple like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol now you might know why its hard for us to find women here

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I meet couples but all those I have engaged with have treated me as an equal part of the fun with my own needs or desires that they would like to fulfil as well as I theirs.

Sadly many couples asume they have to do very little leg work and often have profile that demand more than they are prepared to give.

Many also forget the safety aspect that us single girls have to consider.

As much as I would love yo meet couples more often it is hard to find couole profiles that are bi female friendly, have public pics of both sides of the couple who are also willing to develop a connection with you.

X"

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

There are couples out there who understand what its like to be a single female to meet with them.

It can be bloody scary to put yourself on the line to be in the middle of another relationship - even for some fun.

I've met other couples, and played with some too... but the couples I meet with have carefully tailored profiles (genital pics are a massive turn off to me - I do actually know what a cunt or a dick looks like already, no need for a close up a medical text book would be proud of) and these couples are very much about mutual play and respect... not being a performer.

Thankfully fab works really well if you have patience and talk to people like they are real, not just some tick box menu to order from...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer private meets to club meet when meeting couples. I've played with a range of couples and learned as I've gone. The safety element isn't an issue for me, nor is the entering into a couples environment - I'm old enough to trust my instincts. But here's the rub, I DO know what I want when I play with a couple and that's what I look for profile wise. I won't/don't entertain anything else. Personally, it's all or nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bi fem really wanting to meet..., i feel like im usually mailed with the view to be there to put on a girly show for the dude. Which is an instant turn off..., im a person not a source of entertainment or a plaything for a couple. Unfortunately these type of msgs r becoming more frequent. 'Its my mans birthday soon and his ultimate fantasy is to watch me with a girl, i want to arrange summit special, u up for it?' Ehhhhh , no. "

Know what you mean x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we're here and we meet. It's just that there's lots of people who want bisexual women and therefore we don't have to meet pictures who only put pictures of the woman's labia on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every thread like this always ends up the same, with the same complaints. It's all so unremittingly negative.

Perhaps there should be a thread celebrating those couples and single bi females on Fab who somehow manage to do the seemingly impossible - meet each other succesfully, and have a great time with all three playing together! No FF displays for the fellas, no performing seals, no pillow princesses pretending to be bi to fulfil a fantasy, just sexy people having filthy fun all round. "

^^ Also this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While FFM has an appeal, I would just like to meet a girl I can have fun alone with. It seems a lot of the couples profiles with bi girls won't meet alone or want some involvement from their guy. However I will not be it off and my search goes on Nat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal opinion only. Ladies generally need to feel some connection before they sleep with anyone, so for a bi fem to join a couple they dont know would be 100% out of the question. It would take time to get to know a lady and find out HER wants not your own and twice as hard for her as she has two people to connect with. I think of it this way, if you had a guest over for dinner in vanilla land would you be selfish and self serving, without a thought their enjoyment of the evening? No you put your guests first and try to make it a nice evening for everyone... so whats the difference when it comes to a guest in your home for play.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"It seems to me that most women on here are bi or curious "

So are modt men!!

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"The biggest challenge most couples seem to overlook is that its about mutual attraction so she needs to find you both attractive first. Plus you generally most bi females feel safe playing at swinging clubs only."

This. Totally my thoughts.. I would rather meet couples at a club, I just feel comfortable doing that and have expressed this to couples who were interested in me. My first veri was from a couple and I still enjoy playing with them. I even had fun with them and another two couples at a club

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

I meet couples but it's so hard to find one where I fancy both and the dynamic is right. As others have said it's often the guy doing the chasing and his partner is passive in the process....instant turn off. I prefer to meet couples where she is genuinely bi and they are hard to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bi fem really wanting to meet..., i feel like im usually mailed with the view to be there to put on a girly show for the dude. Which is an instant turn off..., im a person not a source of entertainment or a plaything for a couple. Unfortunately these type of msgs r becoming more frequent. 'Its my mans birthday soon and his ultimate fantasy is to watch me with a girl, i want to arrange summit special, u up for it?' Ehhhhh , no. "

I can see were your coming from but for us thats not the case. I really am 100% bi. I love girl on girl play but I love my husband too and will not play unless he is at least there to watch or I would feel I was cheating on him. He has never been that into girl on girl he doesnt watch lesbian porn at all so its not his request to watch me and a lady its something I want/need but I just cant do it alone it would feel wrong and I wouldnt enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bi fem really wanting to meet..., i feel like im usually mailed with the view to be there to put on a girly show for the dude. Which is an instant turn off..., im a person not a source of entertainment or a plaything for a couple. Unfortunately these type of msgs r becoming more frequent. 'Its my mans birthday soon and his ultimate fantasy is to watch me with a girl, i want to arrange summit special, u up for it?' Ehhhhh , no.

I can see were your coming from but for us thats not the case. I really am 100% bi. I love girl on girl play but I love my husband too and will not play unless he is at least there to watch or I would feel I was cheating on him. He has never been that into girl on girl he doesnt watch lesbian porn at all so its not his request to watch me and a lady its something I want/need but I just cant do it alone it would feel wrong and I wouldnt enjoy it "

I'm convinced. I totally understand what you're saying and respect that.

You also seem to understand why it might be difficult finding someone. Good luck. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many people are put off by guys! If its not single guys behaving like morons its guys putting off bi women from meeting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bi fem really wanting to meet..., i feel like im usually mailed with the view to be there to put on a girly show for the dude. Which is an instant turn off..., im a person not a source of entertainment or a plaything for a couple. Unfortunately these type of msgs r becoming more frequent. 'Its my mans birthday soon and his ultimate fantasy is to watch me with a girl, i want to arrange summit special, u up for it?' Ehhhhh , no.

I can see were your coming from but for us thats not the case. I really am 100% bi. I love girl on girl play but I love my husband too and will not play unless he is at least there to watch or I would feel I was cheating on him. He has never been that into girl on girl he doesnt watch lesbian porn at all so its not his request to watch me and a lady its something I want/need but I just cant do it alone it would feel wrong and I wouldnt enjoy it

I'm convinced. I totally understand what you're saying and respect that.

You also seem to understand why it might be difficult finding someone. Good luck. x"

Totally understand. I did try once and went out to meet a bi friend. We played a little but the guilt was too much even though I had his full permission. Its bad enough that he wont play on our meets but having him there filming or taking pics and enjoying the vids together afterwards makes me feel he is part of it all. But taking him completely out of it just kills it for me. So if that means its never going to happen so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I can see were your coming from but for us thats not the case. I really am 100% bi. I love girl on girl play but I love my husband too and will not play unless he is at least there to watch or I would feel I was cheating on him. He has never been that into girl on girl he doesnt watch lesbian porn at all so its not his request to watch me and a lady its something I want/need but I just cant do it alone it would feel wrong and I wouldnt enjoy it "

You see, for me personally I'm not interested in playing with people who think that playing alone with their partners knowledge is 'cheating'. It's just not what I personally want (I don't think it's bad, just no space for it in my life) and you may find that many other pretty open bi women are the same.

If I was to meet a couple, and we got on really well, I'd like the opportunity to perhaps meet them in the future one on one AND together. Because you always like one half of the couple more, it's just human nature.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

you need to think positive, and it will happen.

well it has for us but if you think on just looking on web sites your chances are poor.

Get out more and meet people..

after you have tried a ffm, next is a ff couple or give the ffm a miss..lol..connie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I can see were your coming from but for us thats not the case. I really am 100% bi. I love girl on girl play but I love my husband too and will not play unless he is at least there to watch or I would feel I was cheating on him. He has never been that into girl on girl he doesnt watch lesbian porn at all so its not his request to watch me and a lady its something I want/need but I just cant do it alone it would feel wrong and I wouldnt enjoy it

You see, for me personally I'm not interested in playing with people who think that playing alone with their partners knowledge is 'cheating'. It's just not what I personally want (I don't think it's bad, just no space for it in my life) and you may find that many other pretty open bi women are the same.

If I was to meet a couple, and we got on really well, I'd like the opportunity to perhaps meet them in the future one on one AND together. Because you always like one half of the couple more, it's just human nature."

We are very much in this together. Although he never plays we never I never play without him. So like I said if that means its never going to happen so be it I can live with that. I dont think its massively important that they like him or find him attractive because he doesnt play at all but I get that the playmate/s need to be comfortable with him being in the room. So I think we differ a bit from couples who both play because then you would need the attraction to both. One lady did say she would need attraction to him to despite him not playing. I didnt argue it with her but did find that strange. We had a couple like us come where there male just wanted to watch so I didnt care what he looked like as once I got going I forgot he was there but each person has their own needs and rules its what makes us all unique

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have had FFM fun a few times but (and it's a big but) this has invariably been with people I have met in real life through mutual swinging friends. Getting involved with a couple I have only met online, however much I may get on with them in messages etc. has always been too daunting for me. Also, if the F on an MF profile is bi-curious rather than bi it puts me off slightly.

It may be worth pointing out that as part of a swinging couple as well as a single bi fem I have yet to encounter an MFMF meet that hasn't included some FF or even MFF play either.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"While FFM has an appeal, I would just like to meet a girl I can have fun alone with. It seems a lot of the couples profiles with bi girls won't meet alone or want some involvement from their guy. However I will not be it off and my search goes on Nat x "

I'm not near you, but I don't meet singles from a couples profile, so if you want single ladies to meet, set up a single profile with filters set for ladies only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While FFM has an appeal, I would just like to meet a girl I can have fun alone with. It seems a lot of the couples profiles with bi girls won't meet alone or want some involvement from their guy. However I will not be it off and my search goes on Nat x

I'm not near you, but I don't meet singles from a couples profile, so if you want single ladies to meet, set up a single profile with filters set for ladies only."

Good advice. Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet a couple from off here as I have had to many problems in the past when meeting couples, if I do FFM which isn't that often to be honest its always with people I have gotten to know outside of the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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We are very much in this together. Although he never plays we never I never play without him. So like I said if that means its never going to happen so be it I can live with that. I dont think its massively important that they like him or find him attractive because he doesnt play at all but I get that the playmate/s need to be comfortable with him being in the room. So I think we differ a bit from couples who both play because then you would need the attraction to both. "

I think most women will just feel like a performing monkey with him in the room JUST watching.

I'd be about a hundred times more willing to be involved with a couple who both wanted sex, but don't think I'd ever actually have a ff with a guy just watching.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


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We are very much in this together. Although he never plays we never I never play without him. So like I said if that means its never going to happen so be it I can live with that. I dont think its massively important that they like him or find him attractive because he doesnt play at all but I get that the playmate/s need to be comfortable with him being in the room. So I think we differ a bit from couples who both play because then you would need the attraction to both.

I think most women will just feel like a performing monkey with him in the room JUST watching.

I'd be about a hundred times more willing to be involved with a couple who both wanted sex, but don't think I'd ever actually have a ff with a guy just watching."

This for me too, I've turned down couples where he would only watch or only play with the female of the couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do understand that so Im well aware it may never happen. We've had couples were the wife will play with me while the hubby watches along with him thats fine by me. But him not being there just isnt gonna happen by my choice regardless of how that effects our chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will meet couples but only when I think both the M and F are up for it, and I'm attracted to both.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I will meet couples where they will be equally involved with me and where I find them both attractive

I have no interest in meeting couples where he just is there to watch or just to have sex with her only

I can do that separately with singles with much less hassle and much better chances of attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we would also love to meet a single bi female for some fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do understand that so Im well aware it may never happen. We've had couples were the wife will play with me while the hubby watches along with him thats fine by me. But him not being there just isnt gonna happen by my choice regardless of how that effects our chances."

I used to really hate the idea of a guy just watching, performing seal type thing. But I now think it could work with the right people. Either 2 couples meeting and the guys just watching or MMF.

Not sure what changed my mind but I think your (both of you) posts may have helped me see it differently. So thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad we have opened your goal posts a little

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

One thing that we've noticed is that there is often the perception that the two women in an FFM are expected to perform for the man. What about the M and single bi F performing together for the fem of the couple?

When we play with a single bi female it's all about equal sharing amongst the three of us, but it often starts with C, the fem, playing the voyeur. Don't people enjoy that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing that we've noticed is that there is often the perception that the two women in an FFM are expected to perform for the man. What about the M and single bi F performing together for the fem of the couple?

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I would enjoy that potentially. I've never been asked to do that though in all my years as a unicorn...

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"One thing that we've noticed is that there is often the perception that the two women in an FFM are expected to perform for the man. What about the M and single bi F performing together for the fem of the couple?

When we play with a single bi female it's all about equal sharing amongst the three of us, but it often starts with C, the fem, playing the voyeur. Don't people enjoy that?"

You have a point. Where there are voyeurs and exhibitionists then these activities must/could be enjoyable

Where, like myself who is neither an exhibitionist (apart from displaying photographs on my profile) or a voyeur, meeting a couple would only be for one reason; to have sex with both at the same time

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"While FFM has an appeal, I would just like to meet a girl I can have fun alone with. It seems a lot of the couples profiles with bi girls won't meet alone or want some involvement from their guy. However I will not be it off and my search goes on Nat x

I'm not near you, but I don't meet singles from a couples profile, so if you want single ladies to meet, set up a single profile with filters set for ladies only.

Good advice. Thank you x "

And i you do create a single's profile...i'd like to hear from you

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"One thing that we've noticed is that there is often the perception that the two women in an FFM are expected to perform for the man. What about the M and single bi F performing together for the fem of the couple?

When we play with a single bi female it's all about equal sharing amongst the three of us, but it often starts with C, the fem, playing the voyeur. Don't people enjoy that?

You have a point. Where there are voyeurs and exhibitionists then these activities must/could be enjoyable

Where, like myself who is neither an exhibitionist (apart from displaying photographs on my profile) or a voyeur, meeting a couple would only be for one reason; to have sex with both at the same time"

Yes...but then it's self evident that people who don't like a thing won't like a thing.

What is interesting is that where there is a voyeuristic element in FFM play, to whatever degree, it seems always accepted here that will comprise of the two fems for the male gaze, whereas in our experience, it has been a man and a woman for the female gaze.

That hasn't prevented all three playing together, of course. It's lovely to mix these things up.

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