FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Paired up, singled out

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There's probably very few folk that can answer my question through experience, though personal opinions are welcome.

When couples decide upon and enter into swinging, the concensus in the forums is that it is because they have relationships that can handle it and that it is with the intention of furthering an already favourable sex life.

So, when one side decides enough is enough and gives the other permission to carry on with the lifestyle, how does this affect the dynamics?

Would you be willing for your partner to continue and if so, what would be the reasons for accepting that....given that the reason for entering into it in the first place is to bring enjoyment to you as a couple?

Also, would you consider that your partner had put the lifestyle ahead of you if they displayed a desire to continue?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I cant answer the first bit as we where both swinging when we met. However, if i chose to give up swinging i would be more than happy for jay to continue as it would be a decision i had made for myself.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

It wouldn't be a turn on for me to play without the OH as apart from the obvious fun of having two or more men at once, the biggest turn on for me is knowing the OH is enjoying me having them.

He loves watching me enjoying myself with other men as well as joining in ,so as that is the turn on, having seperate meets wouldn't work for us.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

another who cannot answer, I met Sasha in Chameleons some years ago so we were both swingers, If she wanted to stop I would stop without regret, certainly if it was the other way round I would not stop her meeting other women but couples and single guys, that I would have to decide at the time based on our circumstances at the time.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt carry on if he didnt want to continue, for me its something that attracts me because we are on this adventure together.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been close to stopping a couple of times over the last year.

I felt the excitement that first attracted us to swinging, wasn't there anymore.

We decided that we would only play at parties or clubs, or on special occaisions, such as when we are away from home.

I have become more "picky" about the people we meet too, and that has added something for us.

We will come to a point in the near future where I will say, "no more, for me", but Kate may decide to stay on.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top