FabSwingers.com forum: Obsessive Behaviour

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondered if anybody else has experienced the same thing.

I have been targeted by what I can only refer to as a "loony woman" who has claimed I am another person - one who was on the site previously apparantly. After setting her straight she then decided to not only go through my verification and question them about me she also got people that she knew to friends request me so that she could then log on as them to see my private pictures.

I have now been labeled as "fake" even though I actively meet and am hesitant to even answer any messages from people in my locality. Short of burning the witch not sure what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondered if anybody else has experienced the same thing.

I have now been labeled as "fake" even though I actively meet and am hesitant to even answer any messages from people in my locality. Short of burning the witch not sure what to do

Report to admin ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report the profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first thing - block her, that way she will not be able to read your verifications or friends list in future.

Any mails from her that you think are inappropriate should be reported to Admin.

Next, forget her, if what you say is true (and we have no reason to doubt you) then you will stand innocent of any accusations and people will soon see that.

I am sure that almost all of us get "badmouthed" by others in the scene.

People who are right in what they say, people who do it maliciously when it is untrue, people who do it simply because thier opinions differ from yours or because you wouldn't meet them etc.

Most people are like us and listen but ignore most of the tittle tattle at clubs and events or even in mails and judge for ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wasn't sure if that was being a bit childish but I'm guessing I'm not the only person she has targeted. Report her I shall thanks ladies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is not alone, there are plenty of loopy peeps on here for sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She is not alone, there are plenty of loopy peeps on here for sure!

Yep agreed but I dont send mail out lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondered if anybody else has experienced the same thing.

I have now been labeled as "fake" even though I actively meet and am hesitant to even answer any messages from people in my locality. Short of burning the witch not sure what to do

Yes, you're not alone. I have a similar problem now from some crazed woman whom I've never met or spoken to but is jealous of my friendship with a guy we've both met.

Ridiculous considering the type of site we are on!

I blocked and reported and now have her friends joining in the rant , one in particular having a pop at me at any opportunity via her status message. Methinks some people have too much time on their hands for their own good!

Block, report and get on with having fun is my advice - people who know you/met you/verified you know the truth.

Hope it works out for you.

Red xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Red it sounds like the same woman lol. Thanks everyone for replying its nice to know I'm not over reacting xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Best thing to do is REPORT it.

If people have comments about others on their status message REPORT that also.

But as these people are members also then I am stopping this thread.

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