FabSwingers.com forum: Gripe/ moan!!!

By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Been looking at events people have posted up.

Notifying others of details, with the purpose of fabbers to contact them for interest.

Yet try to contact " user blocked you from viewing profile"

????? So not only blocking the very sex they are requesting for gig, but blocking help for suggesting other profiles for them to contact to help in there plans.....?

Infuriating ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check for the event in the meets/events sections on the forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked from viewing a profile isn't as a result of preferences and filters. It means that they have specifically blocked you from contacting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your blocked by them why be infuriated over not being able to contact them?

Being blocked by a stranger is not worth a moment of negativity.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Check for the event in the meets/events sections on the forum?"
yes thats where I was looking..

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Blocked from viewing a profile isn't as a result of preferences and filters. It means that they have specifically blocked you from contacting them"
huuughh??? How can this be so???

We,ve have,nt even been in contact....

Christ I can,t be that repulsive surely??

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Sometimes it happens, they forget to take their filters off, or they only put the meet request up for their friends list. Best not to dwell on it and move onto profiles that you can contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be any number of reasons, I wouldn't sweat it and move on to find another event. There's plenty around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blocked from viewing a profile isn't as a result of preferences and filters. It means that they have specifically blocked you from contacting themhuuughh??? How can this be so???

We,ve have,nt even been in contact....

Christ I can,t be that repulsive surely?? "

A lot of people use pre emptive blocking. You could have annoyed them of they may not find you very attractive so to save bother of interacting and any unwanted advice they blocked you.

We literally give 0 thought to why anyone has blocked us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We literally give 0 thought to why anyone has blocked us. "

Exactly this, there are so many people here, why stress over one or two blocks.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Thanks guys.... You pinged up points I had,nt considered.

Only wanted to point them towards some profiles that could of been of interest to them...

Your right don,t dwell, don,t dwell, dont,dwell just don,t bloody dwell............, DOUUUGH! Its no use i,m dwelling.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks guys.... You pinged up points I had,nt considered.

Only wanted to point them towards some profiles that could of been of interest to them...

Your right don,t dwell, don,t dwell, dont,dwell just don,t bloody dwell............, DOUUUGH! Its no use i,m dwelling.....

Step away from the internet!

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Thanks guys.... You pinged up points I had,nt considered.

Only wanted to point them towards some profiles that could of been of interest to them...

Your right don,t dwell, don,t dwell, dont,dwell just don,t bloody dwell............, DOUUUGH! Its no use i,m dwelling.....

Step away from the internet!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Thanks guys.... You pinged up points I had,nt considered.

Only wanted to point them towards some profiles that could of been of interest to them...

Your right don,t dwell, don,t dwell, dont,dwell just don,t bloody dwell............, DOUUUGH! Its no use i,m dwelling.....

Who are you: their social secretary?

I think they can trawl and find their own meets without your help. Concentrate on your arranging your own meets!

We all get blocked: most of us don't give it a nanosecond thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks guys.... You pinged up points I had,nt considered.

Only wanted to point them towards some profiles that could of been of interest to them...

Your right don,t dwell, don,t dwell, dont,dwell just don,t bloody dwell............, DOUUUGH! Its no use i,m dwelling.....

Who are you: their social secretary?

I think they can trawl and find their own meets without your help. Concentrate on your arranging your own meets!

We all get blocked: most of us don't give it a nanosecond thought.

Crikey don't hold back!

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Been looking at events people have posted up.

Notifying others of details, with the purpose of fabbers to contact them for interest.

Yet try to contact " user blocked you from viewing profile"

????? So not only blocking the very sex they are requesting for gig, but blocking help for suggesting other profiles for them to contact to help in there plans.....?

Infuriating ...

Doesn't matter about the reason for blocking you, why stress over someone who doesn't want to meet you anyway? Your energy would be better spent concentrating on the people who are interested

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Find and then corner them and make them explain themselves. Or maybe slightly easier to move on ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blocked from viewing a profile isn't as a result of preferences and filters. It means that they have specifically blocked you from contacting themhuuughh??? How can this be so???

We,ve have,nt even been in contact....

Christ I can,t be that repulsive surely?? "

We often randomly block people who view our profile many times without ever messaging/winking etc or who keep contacting us despite poilte rebuffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all get blocked and at times for no apparent reason, as we haven't even clapped eyes on their profile, let alone established, via a meet that we are just incompatible....

But that is they way it goes, don't sweat it.

What annoys us is those inconsistent types. Contact is made rapport is built and personal contact details have been exchanged. Messages sent back and forth online and via mobile phones etc

Then when they stipulate that they are going to meet up at a club, then a week later recontact to ask what you are doing, where we inform those that we had thought you was meeting us at the club etc

Then its like we don't like clubs blah blah blah

but then they put up requested meets with anyone for anything and anywhere (including clubs) WTF????

Rather have those sorts just block us to be honest lol

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By *bfoxxxMan
over a year ago

Crete or LANCASTER

"Been looking at events people have posted up.

Notifying others of details, with the purpose of fabbers to contact them for interest.

Yet try to contact " user blocked you from viewing profile"

????? So not only blocking the very sex they are requesting for gig, but blocking help for suggesting other profiles for them to contact to help in there plans.....?

Infuriating ...

They can't help it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask yourself why are you being blocked, what is it people find so off putting about you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Ask yourself why are you being blocked, what is it people find so off putting about you."

People use the block button tactically not just because they are put off someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your blocked by them why be infuriated over not being able to contact them?

Being blocked by a stranger is not worth a moment of negativity. "

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"We all get blocked and at times for no apparent reason, as we haven't even clapped eyes on their profile, let alone established, via a meet that we are just incompatible....

But that is they way it goes, don't sweat it.

What annoys us is those inconsistent types. Contact is made rapport is built and personal contact details have been exchanged. Messages sent back and forth online and via mobile phones etc

Then when they stipulate that they are going to meet up at a club, then a week later recontact to ask what you are doing, where we inform those that we had thought you was meeting us at the club etc

Then its like we don't like clubs blah blah blah

but then they put up requested meets with anyone for anything and anywhere (including clubs) WTF????

Rather have those sorts just block us to be honest lol

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cripes.... People honestly do that??? Think they may get a kick out of knowing thetr wasting your time....yeah upsetting and anoying I expect.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Ask yourself why are you being blocked, what is it people find so off putting about you."
i think most of us would draw a blank on asking ourselfs on faults.

I know I have plenty to numerous to sift away at, other peoples inputt is needed really, but if your blocked you can,t bloody ask them can you...

Oh god i,m doing it again DWELLING...!!!!! Aaaarrrrgggghh...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Ask yourself why are you being blocked, what is it people find so off putting about you.i think most of us would draw a blank on asking ourselfs on faults.

I know I have plenty to numerous to sift away at, other peoples inputt is needed really, but if your blocked you can,t bloody ask them can you...

Oh god i,m doing it again DWELLING...!!!!! Aaaarrrrgggghh...

Pointless waste of time. You'll drive yourself mad. The only stress free way to interact on fab is to concentrate on the positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step away from fab, get out in the real world and interact.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Thanks guys.... You pinged up points I had,nt considered.

Only wanted to point them towards some profiles that could of been of interest to them...

Your right don,t dwell, don,t dwell, dont,dwell just don,t bloody dwell............, DOUUUGH! Its no use i,m dwelling.....

Who are you: their social secretary?

I think they can trawl and find their own meets without your help. Concentrate on your arranging your own meets!

We all get blocked: most of us don't give it a nanosecond thought.

This!

If someone we'd had no prior contact with messaged us to suggest people we 'might' (and how the hell would they know!) be interested in - then they'd most definitely end up on our block list.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Thanks guys.... You pinged up points I had,nt considered.

Only wanted to point them towards some profiles that could of been of interest to them...

Your right don,t dwell, don,t dwell, dont,dwell just don,t bloody dwell............, DOUUUGH! Its no use i,m dwelling.....

Who are you: their social secretary?

I think they can trawl and find their own meets without your help. Concentrate on your arranging your own meets!

I've never heard of anyone on Fab recommending people they don't know to others they don't know...

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