FabSwingers.com forum: Trust

By *orse8 OP Man
over a year ago

London

So when the love of your life cheats on you while you're in town, and you're out of town a lot, it's better to call it quits, right ?

Or have I made a mistake ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So when the love of your life cheats on you while you're in town, and you're out of town a lot, it's better to call it quits, right ?

Or have I made a mistake ?"

so why you on a swingers site?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

only you will know if you have made a mistake or not. go with what your heart tells you

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By *orse8 OP Man
over a year ago

London

We "were" swingers, this username is uncoupled with the couple we were, as it was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So when the love of your life cheats on you while you're in town, and you're out of town a lot, it's better to call it quits, right ?

Or have I made a mistake ?

so why you on a swingers site?"

Read his profile.

OP. Yeah i'd call it quits. The heart is fine, but sometimes the head is better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So when the love of your life cheats on you while you're in town, and you're out of town a lot, it's better to call it quits, right ?

Or have I made a mistake ?

so why you on a swingers site?

Read his profile.

OP. Yeah i'd call it quits. The heart is fine, but sometimes the head is better."

i did afterwards

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"So when the love of your life cheats on you while you're in town, and you're out of town a lot, it's better to call it quits, right ?

Or have I made a mistake ?

so why you on a swingers site?

Read his profile.

OP. Yeah i'd call it quits. The heart is fine, but sometimes the head is better.

i did afterwards "

but no apology for juming to conclusions and tarring everyone with the same brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So when the love of your life cheats on you while you're in town, and you're out of town a lot, it's better to call it quits, right ?

Or have I made a mistake ?

so why you on a swingers site?

Read his profile.

OP. Yeah i'd call it quits. The heart is fine, but sometimes the head is better.

i did afterwards

but no apology for juming to conclusions and tarring everyone with the same brush

apologies for taking it the wrong way

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By *orse8 OP Man
over a year ago

London

... if anyone cares at all, the deal was "everthing is ok, as long as we do it together"

Damn, as an aside, I just missed watching some drama out the window due to this post, chavs getting handcuffed and taken away as we speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and its only 1025 am lol

all go where you live

in regards to the deal its how you really feel about it, only you can decide what your heart says

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"... if anyone cares at all, the deal was "everthing is ok, as long as we do it together"

Damn, as an aside, I just missed watching some drama out the window due to this post, chavs getting handcuffed and taken away as we speak."

i cared

have you spoken to her about it, is it the fist time she has done it, what do you feel is the right reaction?

and what did the chavs do????

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

not sure if you have talked to her about it.

appreciate you are hurting and sorry about that.

but is discussing it so openly the right thing.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Talk to her.

Get her to talk to you.

There is no right or wrong thing to do.

Other than ask people on here.

That's wrong, and an insanely bad idea.

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By *orse8 OP Man
over a year ago

London

No idea what the chavs did, missed it.

Yeah, spoke to her about it, tolerated it,....... fucking an ex while I was ringing her to ask her to see a band, not being able to use the key to her door as the chain was on, calling her, her lying to me "not now".

Only been in town a day or two after a season of hard working.

Tolerated all that.

What broke the camels back was me coming downstairs in the middle of the night for a cig and her having to quickly turn off the phone.

If she's doing that sort of stuff under my very nose .........

....... wierd, breaking up due to a guilty look as she puts her phone off "loudspeaker".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good riddance to her

having the best of both worlds is still not enough for some.

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By *orse8 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Good riddance", what a fine turn of phrase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No idea what the chavs did, missed it.

Only been in town a day or two after a season of hard working.

Tolerated all that.

What broke the camels back was me coming downstairs in the middle of the night for a cig and her having to quickly turn off the phone.

If she's doing that sort of stuff under my very nose .........

....... wierd, breaking up due to a guilty look as she puts her phone off "loudspeaker"."

Sounds like she has chosen to do her own thing without you....if you are not happy with her actions the best thing to do is split...once the trust has gone its gone ....sorry its a tough time for you at the moment..

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I have messaged you direct so hope that helps.

Been there done it and come through it, so wishing you the best and take time to step outside yourself and try and see the wood for the trees.

It is easy to be blinded by liove. I was but have seen clearly for many years now.

Wishing you all the best xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's also a member here I don't think it appropriate to be discussing your differences in the forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Ive had to remove one of the posts on here due to abuse along with the posts that quoted it

To the OP try to act like an adult on the forums please,abusing people will end up with you not being able to post

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Ive had to remove one of the posts on here due to abuse along with the posts that quoted it

To the OP try to act like an adult on the forums please,abusing people will end up with you not being able to post"

Curse you, Red Baron!!!

My reply to that was AWESOME, but i got the home page when i hit "send".

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By *orse8 OP Man
over a year ago

London

... if you had kindly quoted what I had posted, referred to what was offensive, and then given your guildlines as in not what to post in the future I would have respected that action.

But, and I mean this in all due respect, fuck you too.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

and...........gone!

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By *orse8 OP Man
over a year ago

London

... waits while he gets banned

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

tick

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

tock

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By *orse8 OP Man
over a year ago

London

couldn't give a flying fuck as it goes, over zealous moderaters do not a good forum make

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The moderators don't make a forum, the posters do.

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By *orse8 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Agreed, but my remark got deleted as opposed to quoted, how can anyone learn from that ?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

And i think after 2 "fuck off"s, a "fuck you" and a "flying fuck" (not given), the moderators can harly be accused of being over zealous.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

"... if you had kindly quoted what I had posted, referred to what was offensive, and then given your guildlines as in not what to post in the future I would have respected that action.

But, and I mean this in all due respect, fuck you too."

Thanks but no thanks you're sooooo not my type

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

*puts hand up and waves trying to attract attention, more in hope than expectation*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to air your dirty laundry in public go on Gerry Springer, if you want sound advice about a situation you find yourself in (and I have no idea what that situation is apart from it involving you and your partner and no wish to know) then go to people you can trust, go to friends or family, don't ask a bunch of people some of whom think that cheating is great so long as they are not the victim, some who have very strong opinions against it (like me)

Get advice from people who know you, who know your partner, who can offer reasonable advice based on your own personalities and relationship, if you don't know any friends or family you feel comfortable confiding in then go to a relations counselllor.

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