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By *lassyandadventurous OP   Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

If I suggested this tieing up , bondage etc stuff to most women they would call the police lol.

Im glad this film is out....

It will broaden horizons.

What do you all think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what i have seen he just ties her hands and smacks her arse, not really anything kinky in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50 Shades of grey is very tame though it could open up a non adventurous mind I suppose I was a bit bored by it if I am honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it broadens people's horizons, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From what i have seen he just ties her hands and smacks her arse, not really anything kinky in my opinion"

nothing majorally ott x

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By *lassyandadventurous OP   Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

It will open some womens minds I think.....

And the shy ladies always end up the best dont they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope so....... at the end of the day it's still about trust and respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not seen the film but gathering very tame.

I have been fully tied spanked extremly hard flogged caned taken a belt when a man or woman can sastain that lets talk.

Not just timid light spanking and snoging.

Really has this film done to all, this is not a brag, just a statement.

Her

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It will open some womens minds I think.....

And the shy ladies always end up the best dont they "

I'm far too coy to answer that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From what i have seen he just ties her hands and smacks her arse, not really anything kinky in my opinion

nothing majorally ott x"

I think if they put in the film the kind of stuff that goes on in clubs etc vanilla people be very surprised

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

If it leads people to learn the difference between BDSM and abuse, then yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it leads people to learn the difference between BDSM and abuse, then yes."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watch Secretary. It's far kinking and Maggie Gyllenhall is so very sexy in it.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

They changed laws in this country specially with porn as they knew people who beforehand were vanilla would think S&M a good idea after this film.

When the "Secret Diary of a Call Girl" series was aired escorting rose by a third in the UK & a similar thing will happen with this film.

Because of deaths through S&M the government have fetched up their concerns with the practice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me n a lady friend going to watch it Wednesday.

We also like goggle box.....taking the piss out of poor TV that ends up so bad it is funny.......we expect the same experience.

Some of the ladies here on fab.....I've met some of them, would eat Christian Grey for breakfast and not even need a toothpick!

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"Me n a lady friend going to watch it Wednesday.

We also like goggle box.....taking the piss out of poor TV that ends up so bad it is funny.......we expect the same experience.

Some of the ladies here on fab.....I've met some of them, would eat Christian Grey for breakfast and not even need a toothpick!"

We found the books very tame but to the vanilla public its the naughtiest thing since Emmanuel lol!

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

I haven't read the books and won't watch the film, but it does amuse me when people are talking about it because they would never guess it's reality for me I'm Domme though x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If I suggested this tieing up , bondage etc stuff to most women they would call the police lol.

Im glad this film is out....

It will broaden horizons.

What do you all think?"

Haven't seen the film or read the book but I haven't called the cops to Mr N

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

A lady at a class I was teaching last week asked if I would be offended if she talked about it with her friend in my ear shot pmsl

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

Fab the movie would be a sell out lol!

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By *lassyandadventurous OP   Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

What classes do you teach?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A lady at a class I was teaching last week asked if I would be offended if she talked about it with her friend in my ear shot pmsl"

She was respecting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure most, as I, have often thought, if only they knew

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"Watch Secretary. It's far kinking and Maggie Gyllenhall is so very sexy in it. "

Absolutely! The chemistry between the main characters is amazing and the sexual tension is breathtaking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see the guy has a 6pack too in the shades lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I see the guy has a 6pack too in the shades lol."

But my goodness he's boring when interviewed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see the guy has a 6pack too in the shades lol.

But my goodness he's boring when interviewed "
Yes. I haven't seen the interview, will they show it on tv later?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watch Secretary. It's far kinking and Maggie Gyllenhall is so very sexy in it.

Absolutely! The chemistry between the main characters is amazing and the sexual tension is breathtaking."

50 shades is a blatant rip off of this film. Even has the same character name!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I see the guy has a 6pack too in the shades lol.

But my goodness he's boring when interviewed Yes. I haven't seen the interview, will they show it on tv later?."

He was on Graham Norton on Friday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see the guy has a 6pack too in the shades lol.

But my goodness he's boring when interviewed Yes. I haven't seen the interview, will they show it on tv later?.

He was on Graham Norton on Friday. "
Ah thanks, will watch it on catchup, but yes I gues he didn't have much to say did he? lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I see the guy has a 6pack too in the shades lol.

But my goodness he's boring when interviewed Yes. I haven't seen the interview, will they show it on tv later?.

He was on Graham Norton on Friday. Ah thanks, will watch it on catchup, but yes I gues he didn't have much to say did he? lol."

He seemed bored and embarrassed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see the guy has a 6pack too in the shades lol.

But my goodness he's boring when interviewed Yes. I haven't seen the interview, will they show it on tv later?.

He was on Graham Norton on Friday. Ah thanks, will watch it on catchup, but yes I gues he didn't have much to say did he? lol.

He seemed bored and embarrassed. "
Yes I bet he wished he prepared something before and things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

taxi!

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

It may increase interest, but sadly it isn't a reflection of true, healthy bdsm relationships. If nilla people are learning from it, and thinking that that is the way things are.. That can only be a bad thing, as far as I'm concerned. There is a huge difference between bdsm and abuse, and it's dissapointing that bdsm is being represented in this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SHIT!! thanks for reminding me..better go until her...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"SHIT!! thanks for reminding me..better go until her...!! "

A mans work is never done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it leads people to learn the difference between BDSM and abuse, then yes."

I found the film to be the complete opposite, in my experience no self respecting dom would pressure a virgin into the world of BDSM and use it as a bribe with the whole "its this or nothing with me" attitude with a girl infactuated with him.

I found the whole thing more an abusive arse using BDSM as a front for his obvious issues... but thats just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it only me but when I saw a preview of the film his nipples was sitting abit to high on the pecs?.

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!


"If it leads people to learn the difference between BDSM and abuse, then yes.

I found the film to be the complete opposite, in my experience no self respecting dom would pressure a virgin into the world of BDSM and use it as a bribe with the whole "its this or nothing with me" attitude with a girl infactuated with him.

I found the whole thing more an abusive arse using BDSM as a front for his obvious issues... but thats just my opinion."

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"If it leads people to learn the difference between BDSM and abuse, then yes.

I found the film to be the complete opposite, in my experience no self respecting dom would pressure a virgin into the world of BDSM and use it as a bribe with the whole "its this or nothing with me" attitude with a girl infactuated with him.

I found the whole thing more an abusive arse using BDSM as a front for his obvious issues... but thats just my opinion."

Yes, exactly my point.

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By *aylor8Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I read the book just... I found it a bit boring.There are much better books out there a bit more believable but at least it got people talking about bdsm and her marketing person did a brill job promoting a bog standard book

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"If it leads people to learn the difference between BDSM and abuse, then yes.

I found the film to be the complete opposite, in my experience no self respecting dom would pressure a virgin into the world of BDSM and use it as a bribe with the whole "its this or nothing with me" attitude with a girl infactuated with him.

I found the whole thing more an abusive arse using BDSM as a front for his obvious issues... but thats just my opinion.

Yes, exactly my point."

Very accurate portrayal of the film. The sex was so tame Im really not sure how it became an 18 cert

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By *aylor8Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Watch Secretary. It's far kinking and Maggie Gyllenhall is so very sexy in it.

Absolutely! The chemistry between the main characters is amazing and the sexual tension is breathtaking.

50 shades is a blatant rip off of this film. Even has the same character name! "

The secretary! Not seen that in ages but a classic..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I suggested this tieing up , bondage etc stuff to most women they would call the police lol.

Im glad this film is out....

It will broaden horizons.

What do you all think?"

50 shades was very tame really! I'm pretty sure not many women on here would call the police if you suggested that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watch Secretary. It's far kinking and Maggie Gyllenhall is so very sexy in it.

Absolutely! The chemistry between the main characters is amazing and the sexual tension is breathtaking.

50 shades is a blatant rip off of this film. Even has the same character name!

The secretary! Not seen that in ages but a classic.."

It's currently on Netflix ! Good film.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From what i have seen he just ties her hands and smacks her arse, not really anything kinky in my opinion"

It's bloody rubbish!!

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By *lassyandadventurous OP   Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

I love women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love women "

We have our good points

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By *lassyandadventurous OP   Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

You have some very nice points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have some very nice points "

Why, thank you kind sir

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By *lassyandadventurous OP   Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

Im very kind madam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it romanticises abusive relationships and gives out the wrong message and information about the entire bdsm subculture.

Mr Grey is not a dom. He's an abuser. No real dom would treat his sub that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trouble with the fifty shades phenomenon is that any old Tom, Dick or Harriet will now think that by being abusive this earns them the title of dom/domme, when really they know jack shit about the lifestyle and the reality is they have just read a badly written book.

I wait with baited breath for the first 'fifty shades fatality'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as it is the "in thing" at the moment, I think more people will follow the crowd and experiment just like everything else...

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I think it romanticises abusive relationships and gives out the wrong message and information about the entire bdsm subculture.

Mr Grey is not a dom. He's an abuser. No real dom would treat his sub that way"

Freddie Kruger was an abuser and he isn't real either.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"They changed laws in this country specially with porn as they knew people who beforehand were vanilla would think S&M a good idea after this film.

When the "Secret Diary of a Call Girl" series was aired escorting rose by a third in the UK & a similar thing will happen with this film.

Because of deaths through S&M the government have fetched up their concerns with the practice. "

They changed the law years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it leads people to learn the difference between BDSM and abuse, then yes.

I found the film to be the complete opposite, in my experience no self respecting dom would pressure a virgin into the world of BDSM and use it as a bribe with the whole "its this or nothing with me" attitude with a girl infactuated with him.

I found the whole thing more an abusive arse using BDSM as a front for his obvious issues... but thats just my opinion.

Yes, exactly my point.

Very accurate portrayal of the film. The sex was so tame Im really not sure how it became an 18 cert"

its a 12 in france

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

Give me `The storey of O ` anyday.. a zillion times better

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