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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have been talking to a woman for nearly 2 weeks then out of the blue got message busy for 6 weeks so not meeting.then we see she has booked a hotel on the 15th and is looking for a meet . getting very pissed of with all the bull shit master on here. We just want to meet ppl is that so hard.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

You perhaps said something that put her off meeting you?

Loads of reasons, perhaps not bullshit...

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Oh and for what its worth - I talk to couples for way more than 2 weeks prior to meeting... its a lot to ask a single lady to play the 3rd in a couple.

I have to feel relaxed and safe, and also know both sides of the couple are equally into it. I value my safety.

I've been talking to a couple for a good 4 months now, and we set a date to meet in may... They've been lovely about taking it at my pace (and they are also travelling a long way to see me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and for what its worth - I talk to couples for way more than 2 weeks prior to meeting... its a lot to ask a single lady to play the 3rd in a couple.

I have to feel relaxed and safe, and also know both sides of the couple are equally into it. I value my safety.

I've been talking to a couple for a good 4 months now, and we set a date to meet in may... They've been lovely about taking it at my pace (and they are also travelling a long way to see me)"

Sound like the perfect couple.......

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By *redieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Oh and for what its worth - I talk to couples for way more than 2 weeks prior to meeting... its a lot to ask a single lady to play the 3rd in a couple.

I have to feel relaxed and safe, and also know both sides of the couple are equally into it. I value my safety.

I've been talking to a couple for a good 4 months now, and we set a date to meet in may... They've been lovely about taking it at my pace (and they are also travelling a long way to see me)"

I'd travel a long way too

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Oh and for what its worth - I talk to couples for way more than 2 weeks prior to meeting... its a lot to ask a single lady to play the 3rd in a couple.

I have to feel relaxed and safe, and also know both sides of the couple are equally into it. I value my safety.

I've been talking to a couple for a good 4 months now, and we set a date to meet in may... They've been lovely about taking it at my pace (and they are also travelling a long way to see me)

Sound like the perfect couple......."

They are what fab should be about. Perfect, really lovely to chat to, not pushy and have been so nice taking it at my pace. Have chatted equally to both and got to know them. Credit where its due

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those bloody selfish single bi female, choosing who they do and don't want to meet, I mean how dare she ask for a meet when theres couples already gagging to meet her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those bloody selfish single bi female, choosing who they do and don't want to meet, I mean how dare she ask for a meet when theres couples already gagging to meet her

Lol

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Those bloody selfish single bi female, choosing who they do and don't want to meet, I mean how dare she ask for a meet when theres couples already gagging to meet her

fancy that, damn inconsiderate female not dropping her knickers to suit a couple who click their fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe on the 15th she wants a bit of alone time with a one-to-one? Maybe you are into s and m or something that she doesn't fancy doing on the 15th with you or anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and for what its worth - I talk to couples for way more than 2 weeks prior to meeting... its a lot to ask a single lady to play the 3rd in a couple.

I have to feel relaxed and safe, and also know both sides of the couple are equally into it. I value my safety.

I've been talking to a couple for a good 4 months now, and we set a date to meet in may... They've been lovely about taking it at my pace (and they are also travelling a long way to see me)

Sound like the perfect couple.......

They are what fab should be about. Perfect, really lovely to chat to, not pushy and have been so nice taking it at my pace. Have chatted equally to both and got to know them. Credit where its due

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those bloody selfish single bi female, choosing who they do and don't want to meet, I mean how dare she ask for a meet when theres couples already gagging to meet her

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"Oh and for what its worth - I talk to couples for way more than 2 weeks prior to meeting... its a lot to ask a single lady to play the 3rd in a couple.

I have to feel relaxed and safe, and also know both sides of the couple are equally into it. I value my safety.

I've been talking to a couple for a good 4 months now, and we set a date to meet in may... They've been lovely about taking it at my pace (and they are also travelling a long way to see me)

Sound like the perfect couple.......

They are what fab should be about. Perfect, really lovely to chat to, not pushy and have been so nice taking it at my pace. Have chatted equally to both and got to know them. Credit where its due

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Phew! A lot of fuss about nothing I think. Ive chatted to people for way over 2 weeks before any thought of meeting.im always unsure of a very quick desire to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So much effort just for a shag.

Is it really worth it- the whole phone thing as well. What on earth do you have to talk about with some random you've never met ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those bloody selfish single bi female, choosing who they do and don't want to meet, I mean how dare she ask for a meet when theres couples already gagging to meet her

Where did they say she was a single bi-female?

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester

Was actually meant to be meeting one lady who contacted me by HERSELF from London with loads of verifications today after we've been chatting for more than two weeks and confirmed if she was still coming on Tuesday( she actually asked if I was interested in meeting as I did because she was looking for 25 or 26 to 50 or so) which was a big yes but guess what guys? She hid her profile last night and I just saw it this morning after I got wine and chocolates for us because she was meant to be staying over and I cut off a potential Valentine date because of her. It's just never going to be assured until the person is there. Loads of veris, long time planning and getting along very well are never an assurance. Lessons learnt too bad it's when I could have gone with a real life date, a party or night out but we learn and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So much effort just for a shag.

Is it really worth it- the whole phone thing as well. What on earth do you have to talk about with some random you've never met ?"

Some people value a friendship as well as the shag.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Maybe on the 15th she wants a bit of alone time with a one-to-one? Maybe you are into s and m or something that she doesn't fancy doing on the 15th with you or anyone else? "

This reflects my thoughts and also how I approach my meets needs and free time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So much effort just for a shag.

Is it really worth it- the whole phone thing as well. What on earth do you have to talk about with some random you've never met ?"

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

She may have been upfront with you and then work got rearranged after she'd informed you she couldn't make it. Or decided she'd prefer a one on one meet and was trying to let you down gently. Either way, it's no reflection on you and from her point of view being the extra to a couple may be a daunting prospect without lots of getting to know them. I still haven't been able to do so despite knowing some lovely couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been talking to a woman for nearly 2 weeks then out of the blue got message busy for 6 weeks so not meeting.then we see she has booked a hotel on the 15th and is looking for a meet . getting very pissed of with all the bull shit master on here. We just want to meet ppl is that so hard. "

annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all fundamentally comes down to honesty. Unfortunately it does appear that people seem to string people on in this community, as a consequence others don't seem to want to spend months and months chatting with others prior to a meet taking place.

Especially hard when people request online friendship and don't actually do any conversing lol

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By *mandaboundTV/TS
over a year ago

Newton Le Willows

Spleen about to be vented warning. Agreed a meet. Spoke 30 mins before. All agreed. Turned up. Not there ffs. Aaaaaarrrggghhh

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