FabSwingers.com forum: Were do you belong. Swing Clubs or house parties?

By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

I must say house parties is more relaxed Atmosphere compared to swing clubs. If are looking to meet various kind of people club is your best bet.

Were do you belong?

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By *ugar1andspice2Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

Like both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to house party. Loved my first club experience. So it's clubs for me. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Depends on the people there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs or a private meet for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love both

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I like both...house parties are great cos I usually know the majority of the folk there and we've played before so I know I'm likely to get a shag...clubs are fun too cios of the unknown factor (although I have on occasion left without a shag, but still had a good night)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been to a club and loved it - Never been to a house party so I can't make a comparison - so invites please; it's all in the name of science

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

Clubs!..two experainces at people's homes now & I've not felt tottally comfortable with either of thoes two..unless it's a one on one situation

Bambi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to clubs.....gonna try parties this year!

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Actually think clubs are more relaxed but I guess it depends on the club and the party.

Him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer house parties but clubs are more accessible

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By *orkshire ScotMan
over a year ago

Everywhere Anywhere

Would love to be invited to a house party. Only done clubs so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs..

Offer the things i enjoy.. unless anyone is holding a party with a dark room and anomanous gloryholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't done either yet, but seriously excited about doing a club once I've met a few people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must say house parties is more relaxed Atmosphere compared to swing clubs. If are looking to meet various kind of people club is your best bet.

Were do you belong? "

been to swing clubs around the world, not home long enough to get house party invites so don't know

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We do both but I am much better at house parties.......I am very relaxed and just get on and enjoy myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love clubs , love private meets, we have been invited to parties but not managed to get to one yet, but think they will be great as the people who ask us we have mostly met - even thinking about a small one at ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like both. We held our first ever party on Jan and had around 30 people attend. Our party for march is looking good so as well xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like both! And both attending and having our own parties...and small intimate gatherings as well as full blown house full ones...they all add something to the rich experience of swinging...

And to the people waiting to be invited to parties...don't! You'll be waiting a long time...look for the ones being held in the meets and events thread and on your local updates and make first contact, getting an invitation for yourselves...we rarely get approached blindly, we're proactive if we fancy partying...

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By *icked kittyCouple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

We like both.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Been to both. Seem to both have pros and cons.

I say seem as I didn't like either. But everyone else appeared to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like both "

Same

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Clubs...I like the more people and to dance...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer clubs tbh. Been to a couple of parties but always felt that we were expected to play with others. I also got attacked by a guy who took offence to something we done. Only problems I've had with clubs are the odd guy who felt it was his right to play and tried joining in regardless and the odd body beautiful who act like we're a fleck of poo

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

House, arranged by us. You can vet people then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Much prefer clubs tbh. Been to a couple of parties but always felt that we were expected to play with others. I also got attacked by a guy who took offence to something we done. Only problems I've had with clubs are the odd guy who felt it was his right to play and tried joining in regardless and the odd body beautiful who act like we're a fleck of poo"

Never feel obliged to play... and yes couples and females too feel they have the right to join in clubs without asking..

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

We like meeting a clubs but prefer certain parties. -Mr.

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By *W69Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

We've enjoyed clubs, made some great friends/playmates at house parties, it's hard to pick a favourite as they offer different things....

More of both please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it'd have to be a nice house! I find clubs annoying having to avoid the same old faces, gets tiring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've enjoyed clubs, made some great friends/playmates at house parties, it's hard to pick a favourite as they offer different things....

More of both please

Would agree with this one! Both have a lot going for them - and if you combine the two it makes for a great social life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the one thing I have found about house parties are because there are no lockable rooms in people's houses a lot of people seem to think every play session is a free for all, I've had it a few times where I've tried to have a quiet play and others have spotted us and just joined in, because I haven't wanted to make a fuss in someone's home I have just stopped playing and gone for a drink but it does spoil your night when you feel you can't have a play in piece

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like both

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We enjoy the clubs. We like the atmosphere (relaxed but with a sexual attention), lack of pressure and choice and variety of playmates. Plus, even if there isn't anyone we would like to play with we can still chat or watch the action. Finally there is always the added excitement of not knowing who (or how many) you might play with.

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By *CSmoothMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Not been to a house party, but enjoy the club experiences.. Like the atmosphere and the unexpected.

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By *ykoCouple
over a year ago

york

We like both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never feel obliged to play... and yes couples and females too feel they have the right to join in clubs without asking..

Yes your right some couples (I've never had a single lady do it) join in without asking but I've never had them try take over when I've turned around to get a condom or pull the hair of my partner to get their cock sucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find houses parties can be clicky at times.. I like a good club now and again .

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"I find houses parties can be clicky at times.. I like a good club now and again ."

Unlike clubs with the shrill calls of people who know each other and won't move apart. Oh no, not cliquey at all.

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By *opmanforfun300Man
over a year ago

. Newcastle

House partys all the way think clubs are just owners making money off people for sex charging for the pleasure so me and my partner stay away from them. Got offered free membership to club f but we turned it down 20quid for us to go in as a couple so god know how much its for single guys but reckon be cheaper booking a pro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"House partys all the way think clubs are just owners making money off people for sex charging for the pleasure so me and my partner stay away from them. Got offered free membership to club f but we turned it down 20quid for us to go in as a couple so god know how much its for single guys but reckon be cheaper booking a pro "

to be honest, and I know everyone views things different, but I don't see paying to use a club any different to paying to book a hotel room for the night, your just paying to use someone else's facilities, I doubt a single guy could book a pro for the same price as Club entry fees, if you hire a escort you still need to book a hotel room as they do not provide that, and an hour with a escort plus hotel fees are going to be considerably higher than going in a club, unless you want to pick up a street walker and have a quick down a ally way, then you may save a bit of cash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we go to clubs to meet people- some new and some we know already - shudder at what you might get for a twenty quid note off a pro = clubs provide clean warm safe environment (kid free)to meet likeminded people

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't get invited to parties, so its clubs for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer house parties, you do not have to shout to be heard over the music.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

its 20-30 quid depending on what night you go... and if that is the attitude then to be honest clubs are never going to be for you anyway....

I equate a night to a club the same way price wise as is I was going out on a saturday night in any city centre.... I probably spend more on a normal vanilla saturday night...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've done clubs, private meets and one party. The party was our favourite, we had a blast . All the people had been cherry picked , it's was a very relaxed sexy atmosphere . We find clubs to be hit and miss, always have a good night ,but more often than not, there's no one there who floats our boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love both. However you can't beat a handpicked party where you know people already or because the host has invited them you have a head start especially when the play starts.

We would equate clubs to a normal night out for us to be honest as it does not always end up in playing with others. Where as the parties tend to get very steamy.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I don't get invited to parties, so its clubs for me.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

Clubs always

Far more men always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love both. However you can't beat a handpicked party where you know people already or because the host has invited them you have a head start especially when the play starts.

We would equate clubs to a normal night out for us to be honest as it does not always end up in playing with others. Where as the parties tend to get very steamy. "

Strangely I have always found the opposite. Most parties I have been to take ages to get going, have to stand chatting for hours on end, with clubs just walk I and wahaaay!

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

House parties.

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