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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

(female part speaking)

a forum discussion today made me think about older guys.

I asked myself I can imagine to feel attracted to someone who is much older than me.

yes, I can.

I would go to bed with sean connery or robert redford without having to think one second.

anyone else?

I'm curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a look at profiles most have upper age range as 45 as a young looking 51 yr old i cant even message most women i think they are missing out on a lot of experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take a look at profiles most have upper age range as 45 as a young looking 51 yr old i cant even message most women i think they are missing out on a lot of experience"

tell me about it.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I have been very pleasantly surprised at the number of younger women who specifically go for older men on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience very few give their real age anyway

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By *lirtyjjWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I prefer older guys i have to say. Not out to prove themselves so much and are happy to focus on my needs above theirs. Some of my best playdates have been with guys 10 so years older than me. It helped that they were sexy!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my experience very few give their real age anyway "

that's not the question.

the question is if there are any older guys that you find attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would fuck anyone, just be between 18 and 93 lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience very few give their real age anyway

that's not the question.

the question is if there are any older guys that you find attractive."

Yes, definitely

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

We get filtered out...but hey...we still have fun...

Face pic available...not crying into my pillow...xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

famous men are different though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get by on my youthful looks and naughty blue eyes.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"In my experience very few give their real age anyway "

Am I doing it wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like a lot of profiles have a age limit of 40 so looks like I am nearly passed it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience very few give their real age anyway "
That's right and so does women lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, one of my play partners is 63. And really quite sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems like a lot of profiles have a age limit of 40 so looks like I am nearly passed it lol "

you think you are past it I'm 52 next week, yes that will be my real age

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I sometimes wish I'd have lied about my age, most people argue with me and say " your not really xx you've only put that because you want people to say you look good for your age "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience very few give their real age anyway

Am I doing it wrong?"

Possibly....the truth will out though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience very few give their real age anyway That's right and so does women lol."

Sorry shag, I did actually mean both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience very few give their real age anyway That's right and so does women lol.

Sorry shag, I did actually mean both "
Ah that's good, wasn't sure there x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some women miss out on an emotional level too

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

yes there are older attractive men and women.

The assumption is (and I assumed the same when I was young) that one stops being sexual after a certain age, stops having fantasies or wanting to try out new things and this is a terrible shame, we are capable of being sexual at any age.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think some women miss out on an emotional level too"

the younger men looing for older women aren't looking to engage on an emotional level ...usually

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"famous men are different though."

I don't agree.

not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope I can still attract a young eye , x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to comment but as I'm only a youth of 53 I don't feel qualified.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"In my experience very few give their real age anyway

Am I doing it wrong?

Possibly....the truth will out though xx"

I think you've missed my point.

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

NA all as ugly as sin like me

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By *opmanforfun300Man
over a year ago

. Newcastle

Going to be honest I think im ok not bad looking not on the scrap yard yet can please and tease them deliver but im more built for pleasure not for quickness and enjoyment. Thats my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think some women miss out on an emotional level too

the younger men looing for older women aren't looking to engage on an emotional level ...usually "

some do. my last partner was 12 years younger than I. and it wasn't a fb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take a look at profiles most have upper age range as 45 as a young looking 51 yr old i cant even message most women i think they are missing out on a lot of experience"

I would go with this.....tho a fair few of my many meets have been with younger women/couples. Some of which have initially put me outside their age range.....but they learn lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup, one of my play partners is 63. And really quite sexy."
good for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

now I get winks from older guys.

nice. but that was actually not my intention here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess there must be Age is just a number. The age filter doesn't matter if they message you first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess there must be Age is just a number. The age filter doesn't matter if they message you first "

quite! happens to us too.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"yes there are older attractive men and women.

The assumption is (and I assumed the same when I was young) that one stops being sexual after a certain age, stops having fantasies or wanting to try out new things and this is a terrible shame, we are capable of being sexual at any age. "

Well it sure ain't true in my case. Still have a "bucket list" of things to try. Give me try.....!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keanu reeves is older but still sexy, even when he went a bit fat i liked him.

Tbh your 'average' older guy doesn't do it for me. I come from a family that lives to a really old age (80s,90s) and everyone looks good still and youthful compared to others the same age. So i'm thinking my expectations of older guys is they shouldn't look as old as they do.

Most of the older guys who message me look like my great grandad and at least 10-20 years older than they claim, from my own experience of what someone ages like. Plenty of guys in their 30s and 40s also look older than they claim as well, so it's not just very older guys, it can be younger too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are there old attractive guys

I've never been told I'm a moose and my age is real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are there old attractive guys

I've never been told I'm a moose and my age is real "

obviously not everyone, but the guys who message me- plenty of them do. am sure half of them lie about their age as well though and they don't look young enough to get away with it.

not many attractive old men message me, i have met a few of the ones who are though.

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I must declare and interest - but no doubt I've reached an age where younger ladies and couples can type cast me as their dirty old man... flashes by opening mac.

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Age either way doesn't bother me much, although I sometimes find that a guy in his early 30's has enough experience to really please, yet still enough energy to really keep it coming!

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

A couple of guys I've met have been 57 and 58 and omg they were fit as lol some age very well and others just age

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Bloody ageism again..

The assumption here is that there are young attractive guys..

I know which ones i prefer..Ax

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By *arewithmeMan
over a year ago

Craven Arms


"A couple of guys I've met have been 57 and 58 and omg they were fit as lol some age very well and others just age "

But you have an age limit of 52 on your profile, only 2 years older than you .................... lol

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

It often is the case that many people have an impression of how older guys should look at any given age, say, 50, 60, or older.

I'll be 60 in May this year. Some of the new staff at my workplace in hearing my age cannot believe it as they reckon I appear younger. Even the beauty therapists in our Spa ask to know my secret of good skin (I don't have one!).

But it all comes down to how I behave, how I approach potential people for meets etc. That is how I get to see people. Maturity brings responsibility and that's how I'm often _iewed.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

of course there is ..plenty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are alot of older guys i think are sexy i seem to like early 40 xx

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond


"A couple of guys I've met have been 57 and 58 and omg they were fit as lol some age very well and others just age

But you have an age limit of 52 on your profile, only 2 years older than you .................... lol"

It's not set in stone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are alot of older guys i think are sexy i seem to like early 40 xx"

us norty forties have a lot to offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met a very attractive older couple. In fact, their pictures do them an injustice we found.

So the there are some old gems out there, hope we are considered as such when we reach their age!

Always worth meeting face to face before one makes a rash decision, even if only good friendship occurs....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are alot of older guys i think are sexy i seem to like early 40 xx"

Lol must be why I like younger men, but I'm 44

Examples like Sean Connery that man just oozes sex appeal.

Generally just not attracted to older men, but there has been 1 or 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have met a very attractive older couple. In fact, their pictures do them an injustice we found.

So the there are some old gems out there, hope we are considered as such when we reach their age!

Always worth meeting face to face before one makes a rash decision, even if only good friendship occurs.... "

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

I thought Sean Connery was looking a bit gaunt in some recent photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately I put my real age in my profile and now I can hardly message anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As anything i suppose it boils down to being attracted to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(female part speaking)

a forum discussion today made me think about older guys.

I asked myself I can imagine to feel attracted to someone who is much older than me.

yes, I can.

I would go to bed with sean connery or robert redford without having to think one second.

anyone else?

I'm curious. "

Yes I saw an older-gorgeous man today...

Yes I would take Sean Connery and George to bed

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"In my experience very few give their real age anyway "

Probably the ones that keep deleting their profile and reappearing a few weeks later with a couple of years shaved off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 34 and I much prefer an older man

I had a wonderful fb who was nearly 20years older than me, he was amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like older men and we would both love to meet a sexy older lady.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got a message of a guy who is a bit older than me but his profile says he is younger than me.

I wouldn't want to meet someone who lies about his age. because it says something about what he thinks about age. and therefore about mine too.

I get told very often that I look much younger than I am. but why would I lie about my age? I shows that I have life experience. and that's not something I would want to hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age either way doesn't bother me much, although I sometimes find that a guy in his early 30's has enough experience to really please, yet still enough energy to really keep it coming! "

I can't imagine anyone without considerable stamina joining a swinging site regardless of age. I have to say, I always wear my women out, I'm not sure that's stamina, or just plain lust. Whilst we've all had the quick 5 mins up against a wall, or over the bonnet of a car, that's normally down to circumstances, and nothing to do with stamina, I want a couple of hours minimum, preferably all night. As I say, don't think that's stamina, just pure unadulterated lust. Best ab workout I know

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I have been very pleasantly surprised at the number of younger women who specifically go for older men on the site."

Seriously ? can you pm me your secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is an interesting article in the Daily Fail today not without it's usual sensationalism but about Monica Porter and her new book called a Year of living dangerously where she attempts to date men of a certain age. She has gone back to toyboys and has a 38 year old lover.

She bemoans the lack of Clooneys and Brosnans with clumsy balding paunchy men seemingly the norm. Can't beat a bit of the Daily Mail sometimes for sticking the boot in.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"There is an interesting article in the Daily Fail today not without it's usual sensationalism but about Monica Porter and her new book called a Year of living dangerously where she attempts to date men of a certain age. She has gone back to toyboys and has a 38 year old lover.

She bemoans the lack of Clooneys and Brosnans with clumsy balding paunchy men seemingly the norm. Can't beat a bit of the Daily Mail sometimes for sticking the boot in.

"

But your examples are atypical for their age and it's those of us that are like that that are successful.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"In my experience very few give their real age anyway

that's not the question.

the question is if there are any older guys that you find attractive.

Yes, definitely "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message of a guy who is a bit older than me but his profile says he is younger than me.

I wouldn't want to meet someone who lies about his age. because it says something about what he thinks about age. and therefore about mine too.

I get told very often that I look much younger than I am. but why would I lie about my age? I shows that I have life experience. and that's not something I would want to hide."

They do it to get round filters on here, but yeah lying about your age is daft, especially if you look your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you class as old?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

for me it would be over 60ish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me it would be over 60ish."

I am young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me it would be over 60ish."

Thanks for that. I'm still a spring chicken Yipeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attractive older guy? yeah me lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message of a guy who is a bit older than me but his profile says he is younger than me.

I wouldn't want to meet someone who lies about his age. because it says something about what he thinks about age. and therefore about mine too.

I get told very often that I look much younger than I am. but why would I lie about my age? I shows that I have life experience. and that's not something I would want to hide."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is in your mind,and as I'm still a teenager in mine I tend to feel more at ease and connected mentally with younger men. The truth is I find older men boring

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

and I find them interesting.

but I also like younger ones. I just love sexy people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is in your mind,and as I'm still a teenager in mine I tend to feel more at ease and connected mentally with younger men. The truth is I find older men boring"

Mines on my birth certificate

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I love the fact their are a lot of ladies on the site who love the much older guy.I my self have a few FWB who I see lots of time for fun,a couple of them bring their girlfriend along as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience very few give their real age anyway

that's not the question.

the question is if there are any older guys that you find attractive."

Morgan Freeman can have my body anytime

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"In my experience very few give their real age anyway

that's not the question.

the question is if there are any older guys that you find attractive.

Morgan Freeman can have my body anytime"

He's only 10 years older than you, hardly a massive difference

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By *umTOplayMan
over a year ago

london

For more the age limit is sort of funny as most that see me don't think I'm close to my age..

Don't think I look like a donkeys ass or anything close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This topic has made me think perhaps I'm being too narrow minded. I think we chose to put the filter on after we first joined because the number of messages were overwhelming but things have calmed down now. I think it's also because I dated a guy in his 50s when I was 19 and look back on that and feel a bit nauseous. He wasn't even a guy that had aged well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We recently had an electrician in to do some work who was about my age and very good looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I realise my last post probably didn't come across as intended. I have been to socials and felt a flicker of attraction for an older guy but immediately rejected the idea because I don't want to feel weird about it like I have done previous. It just seems wrong to sleep with someone who could have gone to school with your parents but I suspect I am missing out on some great experiences with this attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iam older had not complaints so far so I guess I must be ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For more the age limit is sort of funny as most that see me don't think I'm close to my age..

Don't think I look like a donkeys ass or anything close.

"

we are talking about OLD guys here. you are only 47.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For more the age limit is sort of funny as most that see me don't think I'm close to my age..

Don't think I look like a donkeys ass or anything close.

we are talking about OLD guys here. you are only 47....."

OH, I thought we were talking post 40?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops so iam soz

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By *arewithmeMan
over a year ago

Craven Arms


"A couple of guys I've met have been 57 and 58 and omg they were fit as lol some age very well and others just age

But you have an age limit of 52 on your profile, only 2 years older than you .................... lol

It's not set in stone lol "

Pleased to hear, give's some hope for us oldies ......... lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For more the age limit is sort of funny as most that see me don't think I'm close to my age..

Don't think I look like a donkeys ass or anything close.

we are talking about OLD guys here. you are only 47.....

OH, I thought we were talking post 40?"

who said that.

I talked about sean connery and robert redford.

I am 49......

do you really think I consider people in their 40s as old.

children....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it actually says everything about your opinion.

but never mind. I might have said the same at your age. things change when you grow up.

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

...I love the age I am....not too fussed about the filters people choose....still get lots of generous offers..and loving every minute on here...xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have to say I'm with my fantastic guy who's older than me and wow wee!!! He puts all the young to shame..he's got a fantastic cock that gets very hard and stays very hard for 4 + hours or more (I'd like to add with no help from a blue pill)

he has so much experience and after 2 yrs of lots of fun and pleasure we still haven't ticked off everything on the list...He has a great body and looks after his self ..he's clean,tidy,smell nice...sorry to say but some of the younger guys are just talk and nothing to back themselves up...so older guys Deffo have more experience and are Deffo worth trying out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define old. I'm on the wrong side of 40 but don't think I'm ready for the scrapyard yet .

Keep sparkling people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

where does that limit of 40 come from?

it seems that everybody here in this discussion takes 40 as before young and after old.

what a strange idea!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 plus is a great club.... " Usually" more mature and experienced

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I love my age and wouldn't want to be one single year younger. I have much more to give than when I was in my twenties.

but I wouldn't want to join a 40 plus club either. I like all sort of people.

but it is quite shocking that people are so narrow minded that they draw the line at 40. what a small small world they live in. I feel sorry for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 is middle aged 50 is old.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Spent most of today in bed with a 72 year old but he acts about 12.

I like terry venebles as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love my age and wouldn't want to be one single year younger. I have much more to give than when I was in my twenties.

but I wouldn't want to join a 40 plus club either. I like all sort of people.

but it is quite shocking that people are so narrow minded that they draw the line at 40. what a small small world they live in. I feel sorry for them."

Oh no I didnt mean I would only be happy to meet 40 +'s variety is a spice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take a look at profiles most have upper age range as 45 as a young looking 51 yr old i cant even message most women i think they are missing out on a lot of experience"

This!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"40 is middle aged 50 is old."

that's your opinion.

I don't see myself as old.

and yes, if someone sets his age limit to 40 or even beneath, who cares. I don't.

we have enough offers. also from people who have set an age limit far under my age.

really young people have no idea.

I didn't have any idea either when I was young.

but that's not my problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes but a lot of people don't see themselves as old do they, doesn't mean they aren't though does it, and what makes you say that young people have no idea, is it just because you didn't.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I do okay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yes but a lot of people don't see themselves as old do they, doesn't mean they aren't though does it, and what makes you say that young people have no idea, is it just because you didn't."

you can tell by their comments.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I mean they have no idea how sex is when you're more mature.

I didn't mean they have no idea about sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes but a lot of people don't see themselves as old do they, doesn't mean they aren't though does it, and what makes you say that young people have no idea, is it just because you didn't.

you can tell by their comments. "

I would say a few don't but the same goes for any age realy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yes but a lot of people don't see themselves as old do they, doesn't mean they aren't though does it, and what makes you say that young people have no idea, is it just because you didn't.

you can tell by their comments.

I would say a few don't but the same goes for any age realy."

you're right.

but see my comment above yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see myself as old..but I suppose I am ...that said what is the average age for fabbers...just out of interest, does anyone know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience very few give their real age anyway "

yes im a fiber only because if i put my real age women wouldn't look twice

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around

I don't believe people are better sexually with age.. If you are a sexual person that starts young... We learn as we progress but the kinky deviance is always there in your genes...

Personally I'd rather a hot older guy as you also get the emotionally maturity.., but many guys don't look after themselves and sadly are not so appealing to me ..

But should I find one on here I'll be fighting you for him ladies. Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"40 is middle aged 50 is old."

LOL I'm well past it then! luckly not all women think like that even 22 year olds! see my profile

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

If you _iew profiles these days, many state the upper age limit for Single guys is around 50!

It does come down to individual choice, but do some people actually realise what they can miss out on, with someone who is older?

30, 40 or more years ago, aged 50 was "old" then; nowadays, it is middle aged and people of my age group are seemingly having the time of their lives!

I know I will be too old to meet when I have to be hoisted up onto the bed, because I can't get onto it myself!!

But until then, and this goes for all those in their 50's and 60's or more, don't judge a book by its cover; you could be missing out totally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you _iew profiles these days, many state the upper age limit for Single guys is around 50!

It does come down to individual choice, but do some people actually realise what they can miss out on, with someone who is older?

30, 40 or more years ago, aged 50 was "old" then; nowadays, it is middle aged and people of my age group are seemingly having the time of their lives!

I know I will be too old to meet when I have to be hoisted up onto the bed, because I can't get onto it myself!!

But until then, and this goes for all those in their 50's and 60's or more, don't judge a book by its cover; you could be missing out totally!"

WELL SAID THAT MIDDLE AGED MAN!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"If you _iew profiles these days, many state the upper age limit for Single guys is around 50!

It does come down to individual choice, but do some people actually realise what they can miss out on, with someone who is older?

30, 40 or more years ago, aged 50 was "old" then; nowadays, it is middle aged and people of my age group are seemingly having the time of their lives!

I know I will be too old to meet when I have to be hoisted up onto the bed, because I can't get onto it myself!!

But until then, and this goes for all those in their 50's and 60's or more, don't judge a book by its cover; you could be missing out totally!

WELL SAID THAT MIDDLE AGED MAN!! "
how can he be middle aged unless he's going to be around when he's 120

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been reading comments from older men on other threads tonight,reading them has reminded me of why I don't often take to older men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(female part speaking)

a forum discussion today made me think about older guys.

I asked myself I can imagine to feel attracted to someone who is much older than me.

yes, I can.

I would go to bed with sean connery or robert redford without having to think one second.

anyone else?

I'm curious. "

Or you could look at me x

And think yes yes yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you _iew profiles these days, many state the upper age limit for Single guys is around 50!

It does come down to individual choice, but do some people actually realise what they can miss out on, with someone who is older?

30, 40 or more years ago, aged 50 was "old" then; nowadays, it is middle aged and people of my age group are seemingly having the time of their lives!

I know I will be too old to meet when I have to be hoisted up onto the bed, because I can't get onto it myself!!

But until then, and this goes for all those in their 50's and 60's or more, don't judge a book by its cover; you could be missing out totally!"

Out of curiosity what am I missing out on by not meeting older men?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"If you _iew profiles these days, many state the upper age limit for Single guys is around 50!

It does come down to individual choice, but do some people actually realise what they can miss out on, with someone who is older?

30, 40 or more years ago, aged 50 was "old" then; nowadays, it is middle aged and people of my age group are seemingly having the time of their lives!

I know I will be too old to meet when I have to be hoisted up onto the bed, because I can't get onto it myself!!

But until then, and this goes for all those in their 50's and 60's or more, don't judge a book by its cover; you could be missing out totally!

Out of curiosity what am I missing out on by not meeting older men? "

stories about the war?

but seriously isn't age relative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you _iew profiles these days, many state the upper age limit for Single guys is around 50!

It does come down to individual choice, but do some people actually realise what they can miss out on, with someone who is older?

30, 40 or more years ago, aged 50 was "old" then; nowadays, it is middle aged and people of my age group are seemingly having the time of their lives!

I know I will be too old to meet when I have to be hoisted up onto the bed, because I can't get onto it myself!!

But until then, and this goes for all those in their 50's and 60's or more, don't judge a book by its cover; you could be missing out totally!

Out of curiosity what am I missing out on by not meeting older men?

stories about the war?

but seriously isn't age relative"

I like a good story,but I'm after great sex with lots of passionate kissing. I've met a few older men,off-site and none of them could kiss how I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(female part speaking)

a forum discussion today made me think about older guys.

I asked myself I can imagine to feel attracted to someone who is much older than me.

yes, I can.

I would go to bed with sean connery or robert redford without having to think one second.

anyone else?

I'm curious. "

Yes, I have been to bed with older women, remember though, we are all getting older so what or how would you feel when you reach the age that YOU consider too old, there might be snow on the roof but there is definitely fire in the cellar. how old a person looks can be deceptive.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Older and sexy lmao .

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By *entaur 9Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Why not just take ages out?

I met a 35 year old who clearly wasnt when we actually met and actually confessed to being 53.

I met a 57 year old lady , very sexy, at the ultimate moments ( yep we both came) she proclaimed, not bad for a 70 year old eh?

Fooled me , not bad at all I had to agree

Do younger women find older guys attractive?

Not judging by my rusty old inbox lol.

Abolish ages, many are slightly off xx

My test question is always what pop song do you remember when you first left school?

Gets them every time hehe x

As always love to you all, whatever your opinion, young and old xx

OP - Old guys rule. We even have a shop dedicated to us of the same name xx

( not age concern)

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

There are a few 50-something men on here I'd like to meet but as far as I can recall, I've not found a 60-something man attractive, even the celebrities.

George Clooney is attractive still but he's still in his 50's and he's hardly a typical example of a 50-something man.

Sean Connery? No but then I didn't find him that attractive when he was much younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been reading comments from older men on other threads tonight,reading them has reminded me of why I don't often take to older men "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Why not just take ages out?

I met a 35 year old who clearly wasnt when we actually met and actually confessed to being 53.

I met a 57 year old lady , very sexy, at the ultimate moments ( yep we both came) she proclaimed, not bad for a 70 year old eh?

Fooled me , not bad at all I had to agree

Do younger women find older guys attractive?

Not judging by my rusty old inbox lol.

Abolish ages, many are slightly off xx

My test question is always what pop song do you remember when you first left school?

Gets them every time hehe x

As always love to you all, whatever your opinion, young and old xx

OP - Old guys rule. We even have a shop dedicated to us of the same name xx

( not age concern)

"

That might work if everyone had clear photos of what they look like. I'm not into lucky dips!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"If you _iew profiles these days, many state the upper age limit for Single guys is around 50!

It does come down to individual choice, but do some people actually realise what they can miss out on, with someone who is older?

30, 40 or more years ago, aged 50 was "old" then; nowadays, it is middle aged and people of my age group are seemingly having the time of their lives!

I know I will be too old to meet when I have to be hoisted up onto the bed, because I can't get onto it myself!!

But until then, and this goes for all those in their 50's and 60's or more, don't judge a book by its cover; you could be missing out totally!

Out of curiosity what am I missing out on by not meeting older men? "

I don't think I'm missing out by not meeting men I don't fancy. I find the suggestion bizarre.

I don't judge anyone solely on age but I know from experience I'm less likely to fancy guys over 50 and very unlikely to fancy a man over 60.

I don't see it as ageist, just realistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just take ages out?

I met a 35 year old who clearly wasnt when we actually met and actually confessed to being 53.

I met a 57 year old lady , very sexy, at the ultimate moments ( yep we both came) she proclaimed, not bad for a 70 year old eh?

Fooled me , not bad at all I had to agree

Do younger women find older guys attractive?

Not judging by my rusty old inbox lol.

Abolish ages, many are slightly off xx

My test question is always what pop song do you remember when you first left school?

Gets them every time hehe x

As always love to you all, whatever your opinion, young and old xx

OP - Old guys rule. We even have a shop dedicated to us of the same name xx

( not age concern)

"

The status quo is fine we would not want any contact outside our age filters at this time and whilst you get the odd one lying it's pretty easy to spot and if they look that good for their age then who cares.

It's more about the filter it offers than age for us although looks play a massive part.

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By *entaur 9Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"Why not just take ages out?

I met a 35 year old who clearly wasnt when we actually met and actually confessed to being 53.

I met a 57 year old lady , very sexy, at the ultimate moments ( yep we both came) she proclaimed, not bad for a 70 year old eh?

Fooled me , not bad at all I had to agree

Do younger women find older guys attractive?

Not judging by my rusty old inbox lol.

Abolish ages, many are slightly off xx

My test question is always what pop song do you remember when you first left school?

Gets them every time hehe x

As always love to you all, whatever your opinion, young and old xx

OP - Old guys rule. We even have a shop dedicated to us of the same name xx

( not age concern)

The status quo is fine we would not want any contact outside our age filters at this time and whilst you get the odd one lying it's pretty easy to spot and if they look that good for their age then who cares.

It's more about the filter it offers than age for us although looks play a massive part. "

But they do care. Personally I could easily take 10 years off my age and get away with it. But how could I live with myself, if I was found out ? Xx

Actually i didnt care about the mature lady, but I couldnt confess to having actually shaved a few years off myself oops,

Shame is on me ...

Damn those age filters.

Maybe change the filters to max age X , in brackets, unless fit ? Just for us old fitties lol. X

Love to you all xx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Meeeee

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Nah. They all look like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older= mature and more experienced and know their way around a ladies body.

Like me for instance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course there are old attractive guys, just as there are young unattractive guys, age is just a number.

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By *CSmoothMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Like to think I am .... But then, I would....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older men over people my age there are a lot of attractive older men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few good looking older guys....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you _iew profiles these days, many state the upper age limit for Single guys is around 50!

It does come down to individual choice, but do some people actually realise what they can miss out on, with someone who is older?

30, 40 or more years ago, aged 50 was "old" then; nowadays, it is middle aged and people of my age group are seemingly having the time of their lives!

I know I will be too old to meet when I have to be hoisted up onto the bed, because I can't get onto it myself!!

But until then, and this goes for all those in their 50's and 60's or more, don't judge a book by its cover; you could be missing out totally!

WELL SAID THAT MIDDLE AGED MAN!!

how can he be middle aged unless he's going to be around when he's 120 "

Middle aged is around 46-65

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By *lirtyjjWoman
over a year ago

Meath


"Nah. They all look like me. "

If they all looked like you I'd be an extremely satisfied bunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Older= mature and more experienced and know their way around a ladies body.

Like me for instance lol"

Not necessarily true, I've been with older guys who didn't have a clue and younger guys who were surprisingly good! Age really doesn't have anything to do with it, it's more about having the ability to learn and wanting to please. I said I thought we were talking about 40 + because most people commenting were saying about age limit filters being set at 40.

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"(female part speaking)

a forum discussion today made me think about older guys.

I asked myself I can imagine to feel attracted to someone who is much older than me.

yes, I can.

I would go to bed with sean connery or robert redford without having to think one second.

anyone else?

I'm curious. "

Well I am 74 and have had some very nice complements on my looks from some nice, very much younger women

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By *omCoyoteMan
over a year ago

Northern England


"are there old attractive guys

I've never been told I'm a moose and my age is real

obviously not everyone, but the guys who message me- plenty of them do. am sure half of them lie about their age as well though and they don't look young enough to get away with it.

not many attractive old men message me, i have met a few of the ones who are though."

You're nothing like a bleedin moose, but your age limit set to 44.

Anyway, I thought I'd try a cheeky wink - fully expecting the "dreaded yellow box - you're outside the users age limits"; But no; I was delighted that it went through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(female part speaking)

a forum discussion today made me think about older guys.

I asked myself I can imagine to feel attracted to someone who is much older than me.

yes, I can.

I would go to bed with sean connery or robert redford without having to think one second.

anyone else?

I'm curious.

Well I am 74 and have had some very nice complements on my looks from some nice, very much younger women"
get in my son!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been told I look younger than my age, just think peeps are being polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,more considerate and not just wham,bam,thank you ma'am guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would fuck anyone, just be between 18 and 93 lol. "

what, even the woman that lives at No 69

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

People usually meet me & say i don't look almost 54 but i don't lose sleep when i am knocked back because of my age.

A lot of people put a over 50 block but that is their choice because if we were all the same it would be boring, when i was in my 20's it was exciting to sleep with a women in their forties / fifties but i didn't do it all the time in the same way i don't expect young people to want to do the same now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are there old attractive guys

I've never been told I'm a moose and my age is real

obviously not everyone, but the guys who message me- plenty of them do. am sure half of them lie about their age as well though and they don't look young enough to get away with it.

not many attractive old men message me, i have met a few of the ones who are though.

You're nothing like a bleedin moose, but your age limit set to 44.

Anyway, I thought I'd try a cheeky wink - fully expecting the "dreaded yellow box - you're outside the users age limits"; But no; I was delighted that it went through. "

i don't look at winks any more, last time i looked i had almost 1000. do get loads of messages so i use my inbox instead.

anyone can message me, i don't rule out anyone because of age, but guys need to be realistic and think whether i would find them attractive based on my preferences and my own look.

never said i looked like a moose,

lol deleted the rest of my comment, was a private joke nobody would get anyway if they didn't live in my town.

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"In my experience very few give their real age anyway "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience very few give their real age anyway "

I'm nearly 50 and I think good looking,but then I would say that,I have to live with me

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