FabSwingers.com forum: why ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I dont understand why on 2 of are meets the guys can get hard but get nervous when it comes to fucking me it goes down realy dont understand is it something im doing wrong or what lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean, maibe as the hubby is watching they might get nervous lol.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

maybe the pressure they put themselves under.

sometimes reading about the sexual athletes, the 24/7, 365 days a year very high sex drive and the rest of some of the shite that is written in the swinging world, does layer additional pressure on

good luck for the future

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol but hubbys to busy with there mrs hmmmmm there fine with blow jobs but then they go down wen were about to have sex the guys have both been older x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pressure of the situation I guess, maybe more so if your fella is also there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont understand why on 2 of are meets the guys can get hard but get nervous when it comes to fucking me it goes down realy dont understand is it something im doing wrong or what lol xx"
From what I've heard the man's penis has its own life!

I'm pretty sure the bloke it happens to doesn't know why it happened either. And might leave him frustrated too?

Good luck with all your future adventures and may you look back and think these were just minor mishaps!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

True i guess that cud b it the last meet we had last weekend he said cos i was younger but dont c how that wud make a dif x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmmm respecting ones meets...nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it's the condoms he's using. Some are too tight, or they might be those delay types which numb the cock and make it go down................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Notice you said older perhaps try younger men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking from experience. ...my nerves have always been about if it would feel ok for the fem.....is the size to her liking....will i do it how she likes it ....does she want it hard or sensual....daft i know but its a respect thing...xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Possible just getting frustrated lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yh i get that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Possible just getting frustrated lol x"
pick couples with good veris........

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"Notice you said older perhaps try younger men. "

Nowt wrong with us old uns

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanx lol just started to think it was me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Noo i dont mean older guys in general only 2 of them the others were great x

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

It's happened with us before. Everything was going well but the other male struggled when condoms were offered. We didn't take it personally but when it happened again with a different pair it did sting a little.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yh guess im feeling abit like that x

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Try taking him to a different room.you never know it might help him take his mind off ur fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope it's not the guy from your visible verification...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol yh think that cud b it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its not lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol yh think that cud b it x"
press the quote button under a post so we know who you're responding to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Opps sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly the wrong guys for the job

For some, fucking somebody else's wife/partner whilst there watching could be a put off however...other like me would get off on it and only make me harder, it's certainly nothing to do with you that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Opps sorry x"

no apologies needed, it just makes for easier reading for the people offering suggestions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol thays gd to hear thanx just want a meet and to b fucked hard x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol thays gd to hear thanx just want a meet and to b fucked hard x"

Would more than be happy to help out lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mmmmm like the sound of that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mmmmm like the sound of that x"

I tried to message but Im blocked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol thays gd to hear thanx just want a meet and to b fucked hard x"
tried to mail you, but males are blocked, I'd like to help you out as well!

Serious offer from verified man x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yh tryin to get round hubby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yh tryin to get round hubby x"
message me I'll give you my number if you want , happy to talk to him and you of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to happen with my ex. Think it was the pressure he put himself under.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Used to happen with my ex. Think it was the pressure he put himself under."
thanx it must b x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he remembered he left something in the oven...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 out of how many times? Some men have tired days,if it was happening with the same man all the time then there is a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May be nerves but the cock does tend to have a mind of its own lol. From what I can see it definitely wouldn't be you

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

It could be any number of things on the guy's mind that affects it. But from looking at you.... it's not you causing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we can all agree it's not you OP, you're a great looking woman. It's more than likely you've got unlucky with the fella in the couple and he's had things on his mind or the pressure of the situation got to him. Better luck next time, taxi to slough.........

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Awwww thanx guys yh prob just nerves x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think we can all agree it's not you OP, you're a great looking woman. It's more than likely you've got unlucky with the fella in the couple and he's had things on his mind or the pressure of the situation got to him. Better luck next time, taxi to slough.........

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lol awww thank u x

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

I'm ultra confident with my partner, we've even done it for a voyeur but I just cannot face meeting another couple. I think the other woman terrifies me, brings my body insecurities out and also I don't get on very well with other women. There's also the distinct possibility that my FB will prefer the other woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you chat with em for a while on here n talk about fantasies n what you want ? Ive found my best meets ive talked indepth to the men anf the good ones listen n down what really works n vis verser i hope lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm ultra confident with my partner, we've even done it for a voyeur but I just cannot face meeting another couple. I think the other woman terrifies me, brings my body insecurities out and also I don't get on very well with other women. There's also the distinct possibility that my FB will prefer the other woman

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dont b silly ur a lovely lookin women i find playing with the girl helps x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you chat with em for a while on here n talk about fantasies n what you want ? Ive found my best meets ive talked indepth to the men anf the good ones listen n down what really works n vis verser i hope lol xxxx"
yh everytime iv done wot theyve liked and still nothink lol its just the about to enter part they go on flop x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they were intimidated by your youth and good looks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha thanx but dont think its that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry to much about it, these things happen. Sure you will find someone to do a proper job lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hope so x

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