FabSwingers.com forum: Just a note

By *onyMad123 OP Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

After a voyage of discovery since feb attending a local club

i think i am discovering more about ourselves

as a devoted couple come to the conclusion thats we are more than satisfied with each other and the reasons we enjoy going to the club is so i can dress as i please without feeling ridculed by the idiots in normal clubs, and to explore my slightly lightly bi and exhibitionist side.

I hope you dont feel im a fraud by using this site and not being a TRUE swinger, i have heard people say whats the point.

I hope to stll explore my bi side a little more yet, and like the idea of light playing and still the possibility of taking 2 men at the same time (DP)

But you know what this has just gone to show how much we are sexually comapatible, adventourous and satisfied we both are and still fuck one another brains out regularly ...

I have met a 2 couples at the club i would happily meet away from the club, you know who you are and feel very comfortable in thier company cheers ( D & P and J & L) and might take the step of meeting somewhere on neutral ground where i can let my real naughty side go, more so than i do in the club.

Swinging/ Clubs/ Exhibitionism have boosted my confidence in life, not to mention my kinkyness LOL

Sorry waffling now, but why wanted to ask why you swing and what benifits has it reaped for you ??

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swing because I'm in a sexless marriage (my choce, hubby'd has a girfriend for last 5 years)and find Fab the easest way of doing it, as I haven't got the time or money these days to go pubbing and clubbing, at the moment though, I do not have a meet place so they are few and far between but I have made some great frends on here,a lot that I have never met and they keep me sane, so if all you want to do is chat and you're upfront about it, why not?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you don't play, it doesn't matter, swinging has evolved, it now has many hats, exibitioism, voyeurism, BDSM, dogging, bukake, erotic photography, gangbangs, singles participation to name but a few, in the 21st Century it's all swinging, though you are right and some people do like to cling to the old purist ways of doing things, the Pope for instance