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Friends Lists..What are they for?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are people's expectations of those that they have on their friend's list?

I get the impression some people like to use it as a way to view more pictures, but is there an expectation that those on the list actually make some effort at communication on a regular basis? If not, I really don't see the point?

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells


"What are people's expectations of those that they have on their friend's list?

I get the impression some people like to use it as a way to view more pictures, but is there an expectation that those on the list actually make some effort at communication on a regular basis? If not, I really don't see the point? "

Agreed ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people on my list are people I have met, people who I plan on meeting and of which I talk to regularly.

Some people do just accept any one and everyone simply to gain more "Fabs". The Top Fabbed Photos has a pattern and regularly shows the same people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message my friends n they message me,,if theres never any communication I eventually delete,,but it does,nt bother me

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I use my friends list for people ove met and wish to meet again we regularly chat because of that reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was to let people see my private pics, i added too many people and am in the process of removing them.

I'll be using mine for meets i've already had and potential meets and that's it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The people on my list are people I have met, people who I plan on meeting and of which I talk to regularly.

Some people do just accept any one and everyone simply to gain more "Fabs". The Top Fabbed Photos has a pattern and regularly shows the same people. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine was to let people see my private pics, i added too many people and am in the process of removing them.

I'll be using mine for meets i've already had and potential meets and that's it."

If you accept that it is simply to allow people to look at your pics that's fine. Like you I have ended up deleting people if there has been to attempt to chat afterwards. Personally, if I didn't have an interest in meeting someone, I wouldn't add them to the list in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I message my friends n they message me,,if theres never any communication I eventually delete,,but it does,nt bother me"

This x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was to let people see my private pics, i added too many people and am in the process of removing them.

I'll be using mine for meets i've already had and potential meets and that's it.

If you accept that it is simply to allow people to look at your pics that's fine. Like you I have ended up deleting people if there has been to attempt to chat afterwards. Personally, if I didn't have an interest in meeting someone, I wouldn't add them to the list in the first place. "

No i add people if i have met them or view to meeting them, we would have sent face photos before hand

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I message my friends n they message me,,if theres never any communication I eventually delete,,but it does,nt bother me

This x"

This and it enables me quickly to see if my friends are online

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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Hi I use the Hotlist to see the people I want to see on line and keep updated.I see no point in the friends list really, unless you want to show you are popular than me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was to let people see my private pics, i added too many people and am in the process of removing them.

I'll be using mine for meets i've already had and potential meets and that's it.

If you accept that it is simply to allow people to look at your pics that's fine. Like you I have ended up deleting people if there has been to attempt to chat afterwards. Personally, if I didn't have an interest in meeting someone, I wouldn't add them to the list in the first place. "

I just didn't want my main page clogging up with photos so put a few on there so people could get an idea of whether they fancy me or not, then if they do they could choose to chat and maybe meet or just look at the rest of my pics.

My lists are glitching so i figured i'd just make friends pics public and remove friends, otherwise i would have just left them in friends and had loads of friends still. I use my hotlist for people i like chatting to and i will have meets, potential meets and friends on my friendslist still.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it is for friends I've met, people I'm hoping to meet or chat to a lot. I guess everyone uses it differently. For others it's something else to get their knickers in a twist over.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

They are people I have felt a connection of some sort. We may have chatted or met or just had a laugh on the forums.

Either way, the fact we don't talk often is not an issue. I still like them

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around

Only those in my friends are those I have actually met. Any one I chat to is in my hotlist

So my friends are actually friends. So for many years from other sites and we use to communicate xx

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Mine people i've met or chat reguarly to and want to meet.If we don't keep in touch i delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine people i've met or chat reguarly to and want to meet.If we don't keep in touch i delete."

me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have 5 profiles on our friends list as they are exactly that "friends". We have met four, played with two and hoping to meet one very soon

We don't accept friend invites until we have had a chat on here, maybe phone call and arranged a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm, making friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Communication

If there is none then they go

My friends list isn't even in double figures and that suits me fine

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"What are people's expectations of those that they have on their friend's list?

I get the impression some people like to use it as a way to view more pictures, but is there an expectation that those on the list actually make some effort at communication on a regular basis? If not, I really don't see the point? "

thats why i don't have anyone on my friends list i haven't spoken to.....

or maybe the moral is not to accept random friends requests...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Erm, making friends? "

By the sound of things most would only put people on the list if they considered them to be friends already, not to make friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm, making friends?

By the sound of things most would only put people on the list if they considered them to be friends already, not to make friends. "

If you send a few messages back and forth and decide that you wish to add each other as friends as you'd like to get to know more then isn't that making friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have people I have met in my friends list and a couple I hope to meet only.

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