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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey iv recently met a lovely women she wants to be in a relationship with me which is good but I love being naughty how do I tell her I like swinging and dogging and would like her. To join in any help plz thanks x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

bring the subject up gently, let her ask questions and if she says she wants no part of it allow her to leave with dignity. Good luck.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

If you've just met, not getting to know each other but wanting to introduce her to dogging and swinging...dump her. Kindess thing you could do and continue with your dogging and swinging.

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By *ercy the Park KeeperMan
over a year ago

Chester


"Hey iv recently met a lovely women she wants to be in a relationship with me which is good but I love being naughty how do I tell her I like swinging and dogging and would like her. To join in any help plz thanks x"

communication, understanding and assessment or her morals would be a start though if you think she isn't interested then you have the ultimate choice to make.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hey iv recently met a lovely women she wants to be in a relationship with me which is good but I love being naughty how do I tell her I like swinging and dogging and would like her. To join in any help plz thanks x

communication, understanding and assessment or her morals would be a start though if you think she isn't interested then you have the ultimate choice to make. "

Her morals?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you've just met, not getting to know each other but wanting to introduce her to dogging and swinging...dump her. Kindess thing you could do and continue with your dogging and swinging."
I'd say the opposite!

For me I would be more curious about trying whatever my new date is interested in in the beginning.

Also, when I was absolutely ignorant to all things kinky I would have found Swinging easier to digest than Dogging. But your new lady might be the opposite, say she has a voyeristic streak.

So, as already suggested above, kick the tyres and she how it goes! Good luck!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think its much better to get this kind of thing out in the open at first, especially if you are already thinking that its very important to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice iv known the girl a few months we spoke about 3 somes she's never had one and wasn't to keen on the idea but hopfuly we work summert out would love to be swinging with a partner like I used to it's a lot Easyer

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Thanks for the advice iv known the girl a few months we spoke about 3 somes she's never had one and wasn't to keen on the idea but hopfuly we work summert out would love to be swinging with a partner like I used to it's a lot Easyer "

cool, you want to swing with her to get more fanny

fill your boots, it is easier when you can offer a nice woman up

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks for the advice iv known the girl a few months we spoke about 3 somes she's never had one and wasn't to keen on the idea but hopfuly we work summert out would love to be swinging with a partner like I used to it's a lot Easyer "

Hmm. What exactly are you hoping to work out? I think on reflection if you plan to use her to make your swinging life easier it will save her a lot of heartache if you make the break nicely with her now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was with my husband we got abit frisky on way home from pub one night, thats how we both started to enjoy outdoor sex, always alone did try dogging couple times when were both relaxed with outdoor.Its something we progressed to lol then talked about joining a swinging site and ended up here and use to meet other couples.

I would say a little at a time as vanilla people Don't really know what its about and gradual start and lots of talking, its not for everybody so if she dont like idea then leave it behind you if you can

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not to get more fanny it's some thing I like to do me and my ex partner was open with each other so we tryed loads of thing because I'm in a new relationship I think it's hard to be open I like to see my women being pleasured i don't do it so can have an other women thanks for all the positive advice will see how it goes in future

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"It's not to get more fanny it's some thing I like to do me and my ex partner was open with each other so we tryed loads of thing because I'm in a new relationship I think it's hard to be open I like to see my women being pleasured i don't do it so can have an other women thanks for all the positive advice will see how it goes in future "

but she is not keen on the idea... respect that

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's not to get more fanny it's some thing I like to do me and my ex partner was open with each other so we tryed loads of thing because I'm in a new relationship I think it's hard to be open I like to see my women being pleasured i don't do it so can have an other women thanks for all the positive advice will see how it goes in future "

I think your phrase "I like to see my women being pleasured" says a lot about your attitude, this is a choice that women make as individuals not because they belong to someone who likes to see them being fucked. If you think now that you are sexually incompatible please walk away, I see too many threads on here from people who are very unhappy because of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I no what you guys mean I will not pressure her into it it's just somert I like because me and my ex used to do it we'll will see how it goes when I tell her what I like see if she's into it if not think might be single agin thanks for all the help

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